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By *ake1989 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I have recently became the owner of a Sub Slut. We have only met twice and she adores me. This is my first time owning a slut and I am looking for tasks I can set her when we are together and when I'm not with her.

Thanks in advance

Master

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tasking for me is wholeheartedly personal rather than generic.

It has to be achievable within the realms of everyday life as fear of not completing can cause the submissive to worry and the Dominant to feel they are losing their dominant position.

For me they are 90% non sexual.

But as I say they are personal to the person

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

There are loads of good ideas online if you do a Google search.

The important thing is that they are shouldn't all be sexual.

The idea is to keep her constantly thinking about you, and constantly reminding her of her role/position....

Develop a routine of set regular tasks that she must perform on a daily basis. Tasks must be both achievable and measurable (preferably on a scale), some mundane and one or two should be physically or mentally taxing.

Some should be private, some work or public related, and some should be for when you're together.

It is good to include some nurturing tasks too. Make her feel special and help her to dicipline herself to work on anything she wants to improve or has avoided doing.

Also set random tasks and challenges these are fun, and add a little spice to the mix.

The nature of the tasks can vary tremendously, depending on your kinks and personalities, as well as your relationship dynamics, so I hesitate to suggest or prescribe actual tasks.

As her Master you have a duty of care to get inside her head and to understand her needs and desires, so you need to step up and do the hard work to reap the rewards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't really the best approach, you should be looking at what works for both of you (which we don't know anything about).

People coming up with generic ideas and personal fantasies isn't going to give you or your partner a good start. Do some proper research yourself online and then between the two of you try things and go from there.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"This isn't really the best approach, you should be looking at what works for both of you (which we don't know anything about).

People coming up with generic ideas and personal fantasies isn't going to give you or your partner a good start. Do some proper research yourself online and then between the two of you try things and go from there.

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I agree with the above.

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By *ake1989 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Thank for the advice guys. I set her 1st task last night. 2 A4 pages of what it means to be a slut, what it means to her and what she wishes to achieve

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Sorry I may be a bit dim. But you've met her only twice and you now own her? Crumbs I don't call people friends after meeting them only twice.

I'd be cautious of rushing into anything along the lines of ownership after 2 meets. How do you understand what each other wants and expectations are? I'm in a D/s relationship and if the other half told me to write something back when we started, it would be generic waffle from the web. It took me a while to figure it all out in my mind. Just my thoughts as it's new to you

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