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"If they keep on being pushy just block them but look out for them on another profile" Yes I thought about that happening | |||
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"[quote I understand we are open to these kind of guys. My question is do they deserve the honesty of a msg explaining why it’s a no or just block and delete " I suppose it would depend on the context of the messages. In my experience if someone hasn’t understood your wishes fairly quickly then they never will. Mainly because they are only interested and thinking of themselves and their own interests regardless of anyone else. To us that’s a massive red flag and messaging them explaining does very little as it’s once again not what they want to hear, so once again choose to ignore it. | |||
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"[quote I understand we are open to these kind of guys. My question is do they deserve the honesty of a msg explaining why it’s a no or just block and delete I suppose it would depend on the context of the messages. In my experience if someone hasn’t understood your wishes fairly quickly then they never will. Mainly because they are only interested and thinking of themselves and their own interests regardless of anyone else. To us that’s a massive red flag and messaging them explaining does very little as it’s once again not what they want to hear, so once again choose to ignore it. Do you guys just block and move on " | |||
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"As your profile says looking for men only unfortunately you are going to attract many more of the guys who are incapable of understanding relationships and see your husband as a SIMP only and will treat him as such. They will also come with the attitude of doing you a favour as they are gods gift and can fuck like no other. The truth about these guys is none of them have game, experience or even know how to really satisfy and be part of shared hot horny experience. They just want to cum and even better if they are stroking their tiny ego pretending to be bull. This is why you are attracting so many " This!!!! This is so bloody true. Doesn't help that 90% of the guys treat this as a sex site and not what it is, which is a swingers site | |||
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"I think the mistake your making is taking the conversation off here, your a couple so on here its easier for you both read and communicate with potential play partners. The reason people ask for whatsapp, kik, telegram etc is to try and cut one of you out i have read so many accounts of this in the forums, even couples with who have met other couples , its normally the lady of one of the couples starts receiving messages from the other couple asking to meet behind her hubbys back. If i was you i would keep all communication on here. T" Or you can see it as a trail. Is they at this way, then it's a block and delete, if they don't, then it's all game | |||
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"Hi For the couples on here. What is your go to way of dealing with guys who are just pushy and dismissive towards your partner! " When a guy we're chatting to tries that crap we take the attitude "some guys need a very blunt reminder they are a dildo with a pulse". Not all guys are that and we don't mean to insult the guys who respect and understand how to work with a couple. | |||
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"Don't give them your number, they're like this with all women, couple or not. Arrange a social, see what they're like face to face. You soon find out who's genuine." Great advice | |||
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"Hi For the couples on here. What is your go to way of dealing with guys who are just pushy and dismissive towards your partner! When a guy we're chatting to tries that crap we take the attitude "some guys need a very blunt reminder they are a dildo with a pulse". Not all guys are that and we don't mean to insult the guys who respect and understand how to work with a couple. Love that " | |||
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"Personally I would rather have most of the convo with the hubby, you often find out more about the wife that way, what turns her on, what she is looking for, what she doesn't like ect. I agree with the "dildo with a pulse" 1st and foremost single guys are there for the lady's pleasure, then the "couple's" pleasure, the single guys pleasure comes last, but when all go's well, what a great pleasure it can be" Have to disagree with “First and Foremost single guys are there for the ladies pleasure. This is certainly not true in our case and suggests Hoodoo alone can’t satisfy me I need more. Laughable. First and Foremost it is about our pleasure and sharing of our desires, fantasies and satisfaction. For us it definitely isn’t about one person above the other. And as someone has already mentioned single guys who think like that are usually jealous and arrogant which is completely the opposite to what we are looking for. You are a dildo with a pulse and will concentrate on our pleasures first not just mine. I don’t do this for just me I do this for Me and Hoodoo as he does. Hoodoo enjoys seeing me being slutty and I enjoy being slutty for him. It has absolutely nothing to do with other person prowess or skills, it’s Hoodoo’s and mine connection and excitement for each other seeing us both so turned on by the scenario and each other’s reactions. This also goes both ways I love to see another woman enjoying Hoodoo it just makes me want him more | |||
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"Kitty hoodoo. Wrong on so many levels, neither I, or to my knowledge anyone else suggested that your husband can't satisfy you, that's something you brought into it, I started my 1st swinging relationship when I was 19yo, the cple was 14 to 16 years older than me, I learned a lot from them, the husband told me, "no matter how much my wife loves me, no matter how good I am in bed, I can't split myself into being two blokes, if my wife wants sex with 2 blokes, then we have to bring another bloke in". That seamed as simple to me then as it does now, absolutely nothing to do with the hubby's prowess or lack off. To suggest that I am jealous and arrogant, jealous of what? Genuinely no idea what I could be jealous of, re read your post, re read mine then have a think about the arrogance. As for me putting the lady's pleasure 1st, that is my decision not yours, its worked just fine for me over the years. This post is about single guys who are pushy and dismissive towards hubby's, it's not about what enjoyment you two get from meeting other cples." Don't waste your time they shit talk guys all the time apparently no guy but him has any form of respect it's narcissistic | |||
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"Kitty hoodoo. Wrong on so many levels, neither I, or to my knowledge anyone else suggested that your husband can't satisfy you, that's something you brought into it, I started my 1st swinging relationship when I was 19yo, the cple was 14 to 16 years older than me, I learned a lot from them, the husband told me, "no matter how much my wife loves me, no matter how good I am in bed, I can't split myself into being two blokes, if my wife wants sex with 2 blokes, then we have to bring another bloke in". That seamed as simple to me then as it does now, absolutely nothing to do with the hubby's prowess or lack off. To suggest that I am jealous and arrogant, jealous of what? Genuinely no idea what I could be jealous of, re read your post, re read mine then have a think about the arrogance. As for me putting the lady's pleasure 1st, that is my decision not yours, its worked just fine for me over the years. This post is about single guys who are pushy and dismissive towards hubby's, it's not about what enjoyment you two get from meeting other cples." Mojo Pornstar As you have quite rightly pointed out this post is about pushy guys who are dismissive to the husband and arrogant. 1st point woman’s pleasure comes first! This is immediately dismissive of the husband unless in cuckold relationship. 2nd point I didn’t say that you thought I wasn’t satisfied by hubby but that it suggested you thought that by concentrating first and foremost on the female rather than their desires and connection. And it seems your first encounter at the age of 19 was very much that two cocks cause one wasn’t enough. 3rd point as to thinking you are of a jealous and arrogant nature .Yes we definitely do. You stated “As for me putting the lady’s pleasure first that is my decision not yours it’s worked well in the past “ . All couples are different and want different things again just hearing what you want. As for your decision, there are another two people involved with an investment of a loving relationship or did you forget. Therefore it is most certainly not your decision but the decision of all involved. That there is your arrogance as well as your user name Mojo Pornstar lol | |||
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"People don't get that with a couple it's the guy you have to get along with first of all. You're not getting near his wife otherwise. Learned that a long time ago." very true, very happy for my lady to enjoy herself but im also very protective of her and wont suffer fools. also get alot assuming that because we invite guys that im cuck instead of approaching as a proper mmf etc. usually get a sarcastic comment and blocked!! | |||
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" Don't waste your time they shit talk guys all the time apparently no guy but him has any form of respect it's narcissistic " I did have a feeling she was the type that's best to just ignore, my partner and i have become regulars at a swingers club in their town on Friday nights, I know to steer clear if I see her in there. Thanks for the heads up | |||
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" Don't waste your time they shit talk guys all the time apparently no guy but him has any form of respect it's narcissistic I did have a feeling she was the type that's best to just ignore, my partner and i have become regulars at a swingers club in their town on Friday nights, I know to steer clear if I see her in there. Thanks for the heads up" Wow SHE WAS THE TYPE???? Are all women of a certain breed MOJO PORNSTAR. And if you do actually come to the club in our town and be regulars why have we never seen you there? Why have you never been mentioned or been active on the kik forums or regulars ??? Who is your partner who you so regularly come with as we know most couples and certainly ones that attend regularly. Just more pretending as was 19 and regularly swinging with a much older couple. You appear immature now god knows what you must have been like at 19 lol. I think like many single guys you are talking above your station and pretending. But Hoodoo and I certainly look forward to seeing you and your partner lol at the club you so regularly attend. | |||
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" Don't waste your time they shit talk guys all the time apparently no guy but him has any form of respect it's narcissistic I did have a feeling she was the type that's best to just ignore, my partner and i have become regulars at a swingers club in their town on Friday nights, I know to steer clear if I see her in there. Thanks for the heads up" Honestly it's just a we are holier than thou yous are just single men "like it's hard to be in a relationship" ive never seen that level of narcissism especially just through typing, also if you follow the green arrow trail you can actually see the hypocrite parts to | |||
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" Honestly it's just a we are holier than thou yous are just single men "like it's hard to be in a relationship" ive never seen that level of narcissism especially just through typing, also if you follow the green arrow trail you can actually see the hypocrite parts to " The narcissism is shining through in this post, actually blasting through without a hint of irony, if I get board one night I might scroll through their previous post for a laugh. Now she's decided that if she has never seen or heard of us in the club then I must be a lyer, and apparently I have to prov myself to her, Some folk just have a freighting level of self importance, I could tell her our profile name with pictures taken from inside the club but that would have me verifying the level of importance she has bestowed opon herself and her opinion. I'll ask Daniel and Aaron, the lads who work in the club, who are the most arrogant and narcissistic cple who come here on Friday nights. Hopefully though, she and her hubby are nice people in real life and they just become confused when faced with a keyboard/phone. | |||
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