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First time with a couple?

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By *hanfunnew OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

If you have met a couple, how was it for you?

I'm feeling nervous, and unsure of what to expect.

Any advice, and experience would be much appreciated. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get ya cock out and pound for dear life

Mrs C

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Be yourself.

Gbat

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"Just get ya cock out and pound for dear life

Mrs C "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

??????????

Perfect couple answer

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By *empusMan
over a year ago

Poole

Just be yourself. If they like you it will all be very easy and natural. If they don’t, at least you tried.

Good luck mate

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By *moothLeanBodMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

My first time with a couple was also my first bi MMF, so I was nervous.

Main thing is, this is their relationship, so be courteous, listen, communicate, and have fun!

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By *ewsexycplCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

From the couples point of view, it's nerve racking for us too, so don't stress to much and just enjoy yourself xx

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

First time was fairly awful. For clarity not the people who are first in our veris, this was on a previous account.

Met them at their place, mixed couple in their late 20s, early 30s.

The vibe seemed ok in the chat bit to begin with. Both reasonably attractive people. Decent conversation.

We moved to the bedroom and it was over before it really even got started. They both just made a bee line for Lucy and tried to completely sideline me.

I called a halt to proceedings near enough immediately and we left.

We didn't go back to couples for a long time after that.

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By *hanfunnew OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Just get ya cock out and pound for dear life

Mrs C "

Mrs C that's useful advice

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London


"Just get ya cock out and pound for dear life

Mrs C

Mrs C that's useful advice "

Ignore that Mrs C, she is a wild one that just needs her arse smacked.

Just treat them like people if you click you'll become friends and everything will flow from there.

Even if you are just playing straight with the female, you are still joining two people. You are a complement not a replacement. You should enhance their relationship and you benefit from shared pleasure.

HTH

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By *empusMan
over a year ago

Poole


"My first time with a couple was also my first bi MMF, so I was nervous.

Main thing is, this is their relationship, so be courteous, listen, communicate, and have fun!

"

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few couples. Some were very disappointing, some were ok and some were absolutely awesome. Finding that 3 way connection and attraction is the best starting place then all being on the same wave length sexually is what counts.

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By *hanfunnew OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Just get ya cock out and pound for dear life

Mrs C

Mrs C that's useful advice

Ignore that Mrs C, she is a wild one that just needs her arse smacked.

Just treat them like people if you click you'll become friends and everything will flow from there.

Even if you are just playing straight with the female, you are still joining two people. You are a complement not a replacement. You should enhance their relationship and you benefit from shared pleasure.

HTH"

That's very thoughtful advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time was shocking

I booked a hotel room and went to the bar first for some Dutch courage

Needless to say I had too much

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By *xstevenxxMan
over a year ago

dublin

All about chemistry

Is that there - everything should just fall into place

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By *Spicey4MeMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"All about chemistry

Is that there - everything should just fall into place "

Fully agree with you on that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the couple’s I have met I like to take my time and get to know them before anything happens.

I speak to both of them for a month or so before arranging anything. That way we all know we can get along. Then arrange a social to see if the conversation flows like it does online. If it does and everyone is comfortable with taking things forward we set up a meet. By this time I like to think everyone is relaxed enough to enjoy the time we spend together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just get ya cock out and pound for dear life

Mrs C

Mrs C that's useful advice

Ignore that Mrs C, she is a wild one that just needs her arse smacked.

Just treat them like people if you click you'll become friends and everything will flow from there.

Even if you are just playing straight with the female, you are still joining two people. You are a complement not a replacement. You should enhance their relationship and you benefit from shared pleasure.

HTH"

I try to behave, but it doesn't come natural

I'm not here to behave

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London


"Just get ya cock out and pound for dear life

Mrs C

Mrs C that's useful advice

Ignore that Mrs C, she is a wild one that just needs her arse smacked.

Just treat them like people if you click you'll become friends and everything will flow from there.

Even if you are just playing straight with the female, you are still joining two people. You are a complement not a replacement. You should enhance their relationship and you benefit from shared pleasure.

HTH

I try to behave, but it doesn't come natural

I'm not here to behave "

Your day of reckoning is coming!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just get ya cock out and pound for dear life

Mrs C

Mrs C that's useful advice

Ignore that Mrs C, she is a wild one that just needs her arse smacked.

Just treat them like people if you click you'll become friends and everything will flow from there.

Even if you are just playing straight with the female, you are still joining two people. You are a complement not a replacement. You should enhance their relationship and you benefit from shared pleasure.

HTH

I try to behave, but it doesn't come natural

I'm not here to behave

Your day of reckoning is coming! "

I do behave. Not like I go around forcing myself on men in the street or anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember there's 3 of you involved ask hubby to come over and watch you entering his wife up close and personal give him a good view so he can see his wife getting fucked good and hard hopefully he is filming the fun too

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By *eastZMan
over a year ago

London

I was introduced to the scene by the sweetest couple ever when I was 22. I will always owe them.

For couples, when you deal with newbies, be gentle, be communicative, be clear, be kind, and focus on everyone satisfaction.

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