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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't know about the rest of you but I'm finding it near impossible to get a meet. I've tried been nice and polite tried sending exactly what they want from reading the profiles just nothing ever happens. Starting to make me feel like something is wrong with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, I've had profile pics, long bio, I guess there has to be a percentage of people who get no meets, and I'm in that percentage.

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By *teph BitchTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don't know about the rest of you but I'm finding it near impossible to get a meet. I've tried been nice and polite tried sending exactly what they want from reading the profiles just nothing ever happens. Starting to make me feel like something is wrong with me"

Ive been looking for meets for ages and nothing happens so maybe im not what people want

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Totally agree, I don't find what I'm looking for on here.

I use socials and clubs

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By *esi70Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

Same. Not met anyone from here yet.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

You're in the arse end of nowhere and have a meet veri from the past few months, so it can't be so bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No luck here yet either

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By *aveyDipperMan
over a year ago

Teesside

It’s often too much of a sausage fest on here. You are better off using other sites. This site is becoming unfortunately not what it used to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s often too much of a sausage fest on here. You are better off using other sites. This site is becoming unfortunately not what it used to be "

Can you recommend any better sites?

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Yet for me its been the opposite.both here and fabguys state not looking to meet which i 100% am not .took down travel/ accom .

removed all looking for basically a blank profile left a couple pics up just so ppl on the forum have bit of idea who i am and at 56 year old normally out of most peoples age range and between the two sites had more messages to meet than when i was actually looking .

the mystery of how both fabs work

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

If anyone is struggling to get meets then I'd suggest doing this.

Put the shoe on the other foot. Do an advanced search as if you were your target market - couples, single women and/or men, browsing for someone like you.

Then go through the results and see how your profile weighs up against others.

That may tell you everything you need to know.

Forget trying to work put the best first message. Most women and couples will view a profile before opening a message, so if yours doesn't catch the eye then the best message ever written in the history of Fab may go unread and just get deleted.

Stand out or miss out. You're entitled to absolutely nothing just by being here.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Totally agree, I don't find what I'm looking for on here.

I use socials and clubs"

Yes to this, meeting in person will break through some of the filters: distance, age and other things like that.

Fancy dress and bring-a-cake socials work for me and my partner.

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

not going to name names as been no invite to comment on individual profiles but some what is written in text on some profiles in this thread and and others who have posted on similar threads does not match their looking for and as such excluding themselves from people using advanced search.

just some advice take it or leave it but match your looking for and interests to your text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if I was gay or bi I'd have no problem at all getting meets ect going by the people who veiw/message me but sadly it's nothing like it used to be on my old profile from a few years ago. I guess I'm just became an age that doesn't get much attention from couples and women. Perhaps I should try bi lol

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