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FWB or fuck and forget?

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By *atnSol OP   Couple
over a year ago

Selby

Which do you guys prefer from a meet? , are you a make friends with benefits kinda thing or do you prefer a much more no strings attached approach to the swinging lifestyle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Predominately prefer to make longer term friends with benefits if possible but know it's not always possible

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Ling term for me please and thank you...

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Mansfield

Much prefer the longer term scenario. There have been a few fuck an forget tho .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open to either scenario, but a regular fwb would be ideal

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

Long term FWB

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

I mean I think it depends on what you both want from it . I would be open to both

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Had a fwb... caught feelings for them... ended... so not going down that road again....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a fwb... caught feelings for them... ended... so not going down that road again...."

Thats the danger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fwb would be a nice thing, but it seems a lot aren't into that, so I will just settle for the fuck and forget scenario. Although I am always open to repeat performances

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By *atnSol OP   Couple
over a year ago

Selby

We are still new to this lifestyle and there's a certain amount of of nerves that are present with meeting, our confidence isn't quite there for fuck and forget so friends with benefits is a hugely more comfortable option, we understand the risks of emotional attachment but in many ways that's something we both can accept as a potential, especially with another couple who are equally comfortable with the whole polyamory aspects that may occure from a friends with benefits scenario, ultimately I feel we as a couple are solid in our relationship we never planned any of this, it's not a thing we are doing for anything but a good time and an adventure, the thing we want is to feel we are wanted and desired as much as we feel towards anyone we play with, but it is definitely a minefield of potential emotions that is for sure.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Had a fwb... caught feelings for them... ended... so not going down that road again....

Thats the danger"

Tell me about it... I was a right mess for quite a while

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By *andacouple3Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

When we get meet requests we always turn them down as we do not relationships to develop. This why we only play at places such as Eureka, sex clubs, saunas and dogging. Sometimes at places where we go frequently guys that have played with my wife before will want to play again, which is fine, but occasionally it is necessary to dissuade them as they have become possessive.

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