First time club questions

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By *orMatureWomenAndCouples OP Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Hi all, my FWB partner and I are considering our first visit to a club. I know this sounds naive but we really don’t know what to expect. As it’s our first time she is curious to just watch and then maybe suck me, have me fuck her.

What are the etiquette rules? Is it ok to watch? Is it ok to just be turned on but only focus on each other?

Also, we’re thinking of going to London for this. Any recommendations for newbies?

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Perfectly ok to be turned on (that’s kinda the point), and to focus on each other. As for watching, as long as you ensure whoever you’re watching is ok with it, that’s fine - consent is everything.

Our first club was Hellfire - it can be fairly quiet which we found good for our first time. We like AbFabs too. It’s a well run club and you can get trial membership.

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By *orMatureWomenAndCouples OP Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Perfectly ok to be turned on (that’s kinda the point), and to focus on each other. As for watching, as long as you ensure whoever you’re watching is ok with it, that’s fine - consent is everything.

Our first club was Hellfire - it can be fairly quiet which we found good for our first time. We like AbFabs too. It’s a well run club and you can get trial membership."

Thank you x

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

It's a great way to introduce each other to the experience.

You can do as much or as little as you want, watch, be watched. No one has to join you or be involved.

Just say no.

Everyone at the clubs I've been to respect each other and the wishes of individuals, but do chat with others. It's like a normal venue except there may be some nudity and sex, which I imagine is why you're going

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