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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t understand why I rarely get replies. I know I’m not owed them and I understand and respect that. However, with the messages I send out- all tailored to the profile, ensuring I’m within their age range, whst they’re looking for aesthetic wise, etc I don’t know why I rarely receive replies or messages.

Does my profile look fake? Am I not attractive?

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"I don’t understand why I rarely get replies. I know I’m not owed them and I understand and respect that. However, with the messages I send out- all tailored to the profile, ensuring I’m within their age range, whst they’re looking for aesthetic wise, etc I don’t know why I rarely receive replies or messages.

Does my profile look fake? Am I not attractive? "

Only thing I can think of mate is you've only been online a few weeks .. to be fair what you've said should result in a message back

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"I don’t understand why I rarely get replies. I know I’m not owed them and I understand and respect that. However, with the messages I send out- all tailored to the profile, ensuring I’m within their age range, whst they’re looking for aesthetic wise, etc I don’t know why I rarely receive replies or messages.

Does my profile look fake? Am I not attractive? "

Maybe your not their type or something your saying is wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t understand why I rarely get replies. I know I’m not owed them and I understand and respect that. However, with the messages I send out- all tailored to the profile, ensuring I’m within their age range, whst they’re looking for aesthetic wise, etc I don’t know why I rarely receive replies or messages.

Does my profile look fake? Am I not attractive?

Only thing I can think of mate is you've only been online a few weeks .. to be fair what you've said should result in a message back "

I’m just left on read the majority of the time dude. I don’t understand why. If I don’t meet the requirements I don’t message

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"I don’t understand why I rarely get replies. I know I’m not owed them and I understand and respect that. However, with the messages I send out- all tailored to the profile, ensuring I’m within their age range, whst they’re looking for aesthetic wise, etc I don’t know why I rarely receive replies or messages.

Does my profile look fake? Am I not attractive?

Only thing I can think of mate is you've only been online a few weeks .. to be fair what you've said should result in a message back

I’m just left on read the majority of the time dude. I don’t understand why. If I don’t meet the requirements I don’t message "

You've got a face pic body pic cock pic you say your messaging a personal message to each profile I can't see where your going wrong bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t understand why I rarely get replies. I know I’m not owed them and I understand and respect that. However, with the messages I send out- all tailored to the profile, ensuring I’m within their age range, whst they’re looking for aesthetic wise, etc I don’t know why I rarely receive replies or messages.

Does my profile look fake? Am I not attractive?

Only thing I can think of mate is you've only been online a few weeks .. to be fair what you've said should result in a message back

I’m just left on read the majority of the time dude. I don’t understand why. If I don’t meet the requirements I don’t message

You've got a face pic body pic cock pic you say your messaging a personal message to each profile I can't see where your going wrong bro "

I wish I knew dude. I’m guessing that people just have their standards too high

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"I don’t understand why I rarely get replies. I know I’m not owed them and I understand and respect that. However, with the messages I send out- all tailored to the profile, ensuring I’m within their age range, whst they’re looking for aesthetic wise, etc I don’t know why I rarely receive replies or messages.

Does my profile look fake? Am I not attractive?

Only thing I can think of mate is you've only been online a few weeks .. to be fair what you've said should result in a message back

I’m just left on read the majority of the time dude. I don’t understand why. If I don’t meet the requirements I don’t message

You've got a face pic body pic cock pic you say your messaging a personal message to each profile I can't see where your going wrong bro

I wish I knew dude. I’m guessing that people just have their standards too high "

Fuck knows bro never experienced this before

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

It doesn't happen overnight, be patient.

You'll get blocked for no reason sometimes, without speaking to the people face to face you'll never know why either.

You'll probably get more "poontang" out in the real world anyway by being confident and polite, charming and respectful. I know I did.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"It doesn't happen overnight, be patient.

You'll get blocked for no reason sometimes, without speaking to the people face to face you'll never know why either.

You'll probably get more "poontang" out in the real world anyway by being confident and polite, charming and respectful. I know I did. "

I agree with this .. well said fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't happen overnight, be patient.

You'll get blocked for no reason sometimes, without speaking to the people face to face you'll never know why either.

You'll probably get more "poontang" out in the real world anyway by being confident and polite, charming and respectful. I know I did. "

I would but the fear of rejection is there for me lol. Virtual rejection doesn’t really bother me

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"It doesn't happen overnight, be patient.

You'll get blocked for no reason sometimes, without speaking to the people face to face you'll never know why either.

You'll probably get more "poontang" out in the real world anyway by being confident and polite, charming and respectful. I know I did.

I would but the fear of rejection is there for me lol. Virtual rejection doesn’t really bother me "

If that was true my friend you wouldn't of started this thread.. start living in the real world

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"It doesn't happen overnight, be patient.

You'll get blocked for no reason sometimes, without speaking to the people face to face you'll never know why either.

You'll probably get more "poontang" out in the real world anyway by being confident and polite, charming and respectful. I know I did.

I would but the fear of rejection is there for me lol. Virtual rejection doesn’t really bother me "

Your on the wrong site mate this was meant for swingers kinky fuckers.. if your on here desperate for a fuck it will show and this is where your going wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I do love swinging had a few meets here and there. I prefer to chat online before meeting brother. Face to face with nothing to go off though noooo

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Oh I do love swinging had a few meets here and there. I prefer to chat online before meeting brother. Face to face with nothing to go off though noooo"

Every young lad thinks they loves swinging ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t understand why I rarely get replies. I know I’m not owed them and I understand and respect that. However, with the messages I send out- all tailored to the profile, ensuring I’m within their age range, whst they’re looking for aesthetic wise, etc I don’t know why I rarely receive replies or messages.

Does my profile look fake? Am I not attractive?

Only thing I can think of mate is you've only been online a few weeks .. to be fair what you've said should result in a message back

I’m just left on read the majority of the time dude. I don’t understand why. If I don’t meet the requirements I don’t message

You've got a face pic body pic cock pic you say your messaging a personal message to each profile I can't see where your going wrong bro

I wish I knew dude. I’m guessing that people just have their standards too high "

They have their standards too high? What do you mean?

People will look at your profile before they reply. Perhaps you're not their type.

Doesn't mean you are unattractive.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Because they choose not to.

Life is full of personal choices which they don't have to explain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you are too young for most on Fab in the categories of those you seek?

Get out with your mates and have some fun!

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Considering you've already had a meet in a short time of signing up- you are obviously doing fine.

Just be patient.

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By *owbadisbadMan
over a year ago

Sleaford / Grantham

A young fit gym fella with a big cock will get lucky (meaning you), problem is you'll find for every woman on here there's about 50 men messaging daily.

It takes patience on here, believe me I know!!

I've been told to go to the social events and get known, and the club's, just don't expect to walk in and be getting your leg over in 5 minutes, chat and get to know people there. I've still to go to one but have been told this numerous times

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Fine tune your profile - look for inspiration on other successful single male profiles. Get yourself to socials and club nights at events which are tailored for you - Cougars and Cubs for example.

It’s also difficult for young men - many couples and single women will not message you because you’re only 25 and will want a bit of experience.

Going to socials and clubs are by far the best way to build a good rep through building your veris, getting invited to parties and meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t understand why I rarely get replies. I know I’m not owed them and I understand and respect that. "

But you don't. Not really, do you, or you wouldn't have started this thread.

And, going by some of your other contributions to the forums recently - for example one you made about the site going downhill after you'd been here for just 3 weeks - demonstrates that you have and enormous sense of entitlement.

Anyone you message will check out your profile before even considering looking at what you've sent them - and if they're unimpressed, why would they bother?

Take an objective look at your profile.

Is it working for you, or against you.

Does it come over as positive or is it negative and off-putting?

You also have to remember that many of those on fab will have children around your age and just won't go there.

Add to that the fact that there are over 100 men to every single woman on fab and you will realise that you are fishing in a very small pond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t understand why I rarely get replies. I know I’m not owed them and I understand and respect that. However, with the messages I send out- all tailored to the profile, ensuring I’m within their age range, whst they’re looking for aesthetic wise, etc I don’t know why I rarely receive replies or messages.

Does my profile look fake? Am I not attractive? "

You're on a site that is full of male profiles, so perhaps you are misreading what the people you contact are actually looking for?

Best advice is to never expect anything on fab, regardless of whether you think you match their preferences. If you don't hear back then you weren't for them

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1


"I don’t understand why I rarely get replies. I know I’m not owed them and I understand and respect that. However, with the messages I send out- all tailored to the profile, ensuring I’m within their age range, whst they’re looking for aesthetic wise, etc I don’t know why I rarely receive replies or messages.

Does my profile look fake? Am I not attractive? "

Probably because you look soooo young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t understand why I rarely get replies. I know I’m not owed them and I understand and respect that. However, with the messages I send out- all tailored to the profile, ensuring I’m within their age range, whst they’re looking for aesthetic wise, etc I don’t know why I rarely receive replies or messages.

Does my profile look fake? Am I not attractive?

Probably because you look soooo young. "

I’d be inclined to agree tbh

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By *ainbowSonicCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'm a female myself and this post got me curious, so checked your profile out, don't see anything wrong with the photos as it shows how much time you invest in yourself and that takes hard work. Perhaps tweak your profile to something along the lines that you're looking for a genuine meet, likes etc. As majority of people go on fab to escape the real world. Keep smiling.

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By *rNaughty22Man
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I don’t understand why I rarely get replies. I know I’m not owed them and I understand and respect that. However, with the messages I send out- all tailored to the profile, ensuring I’m within their age range, whst they’re looking for aesthetic wise, etc I don’t know why I rarely receive replies or messages. "

I get the same shit. Personal messages, ask about their interest and get blocked its a head fuck and even worse are the ones who chat with about their interest and your on the same path and then block for no reason...wtf ..

Guess ita just people for you.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

It's probably just more to do with the very skewed ratio of men to women on here.

It's tough for most guys to get replies since women receive too many messages to read let alone consider.

Unfortunately a lot of these are crap messages from chancers and messers rather than decently written and thought out messages

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