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"I go by the thought that MMF would involve male on male action of some kind and MFM would suggest the focus is on the lady. But I'm happy to be corrected" That’s exactly what I thought too. But when saying to the men who have asked for this sorry no my husband is straight they have took offence even though some of them have bisexual on their profile. I thought maybe I had got it wrong though | |||
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"It could be that they don’t genuinely know that MMF is generally the 2 MM been bi curious or bi sexual.I found this out a few years ago on Fabs.MFM is generally the 2 males been straight " Yes now if they had said MFM that is right up our street  | |||
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I've had several MFMs in this case, but always described them as MMF | |||
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"I thought MMF and MFM meant the exact same thing
I've had several MFMs in this case, but always described them as MMF"The difference was only explained to us mid-meet a few months ago; I don't think it's that common knowledge. So always best to check. | |||
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"Also some people just get pissy if their told no, so I wouldn't let it bother you. Next guy that asks, say your husband is looking forward to fucking them up the ass, that'll sort the men from the boys." Some may find that a turn on and the only ass my husband goes near is mine | |||
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 so I've asked for a MMMF ...what does this mean ?
I thought it meant just 3 guys and 1 gal..
I'm not fussed about who plays with who but didn't know it suggested that the men must be bi .. .
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"I thought MMF and MFM meant the exact same thing
I've had several MFMs in this case, but always described them as MMF
The difference was only explained to us mid-meet a few months ago; I don't think it's that common knowledge. So always best to check. ". Going by this thread and various others I have seen over the years you are correct is not that common knowledge.When ever I am asked if I am interested in a 3sum I always make it clear that I am straight so yes always best to check and don’t be afraid / embarrassed to ask | |||
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"Don't assume men who want to involve themselves in a threesome with a couple are interested in both sexes. Some people think MMF is just the same as MFM, while others may assume a difference." Would never assume that and if we meet a man I like we always discuss things beforehand. It’s just when men message asking for mmf I always thought meant two men playing together with a women hence the reason for advising them my husband is straight. Maybe I’m wrong though on that term | |||
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"It could be that they don’t genuinely know that MMF is generally the 2 MM been bi curious or bi sexual.I found this out a few years ago on Fabs.MFM is generally the 2 males been straight Yes now if they had said MFM that is right up our street "Yes I agree too.  | |||
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"It could be that they don’t genuinely know that MMF is generally the 2 MM been bi curious or bi sexual.I found this out a few years ago on Fabs.MFM is generally the 2 males been straight Yes now if they had said MFM that is right up our street
Yes I agree too. " | |||
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"It could be that they don’t genuinely know that MMF is generally the 2 MM been bi curious or bi sexual.I found this out a few years ago on Fabs.MFM is generally the 2 males been straight Yes now if they had said MFM that is right up our street
Yes I agree too. "Generally yes, there's a difference between MMF & MFM. But don't forget. Bi/curious people are more than capable of playing just as straight as straight folk - it's literally the definition of bi. So don't ever be put off by a guy approaching for a threesome that has anything other than straight on his profile. They're not going to demand access to your OH at all.  
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"Same! Didn't realise the order of the letters was significant "By what people are saying doesn’t seem they are significant | |||
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" so I've asked for a MMMF ...what does this mean ?
I thought it meant just 3 guys and 1 gal..
I'm not fussed about who plays with who but didn't know it suggested that the men must be bi .. .
a little confused at present"Under the laws of sex MMMF is different as it implies men with 1 woman. It's only MMF and MFM that cause confusion. Think its actually a porn thing to be honest | |||
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"I am happy to be corrected but I have always taken MMF two bi men,one female MFM two straight men, one female FFM two bi females, one man FMF two straight females one man Xx" Thanks you I’m glad you clarified that I didn’t know if I was right in what I was saying lol  | |||
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"I always just assumed that MMF was two men and one woman without any distinction about any interaction between the two men. Never occured to me that MMF and MFM meant different things. Every day's a school day" On here it sure is | |||
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" so I've asked for a MMMF ...what does this mean ?
I thought it meant just 3 guys and 1 gal..
I'm not fussed about who plays with who but didn't know it suggested that the men must be bi .. .
a little confused at present
Under the laws of sex MMMF is different as it implies men with 1 woman. It's only MMF and MFM that cause confusion. Think its actually a porn thing to be honest"ah ha thanks for clarifying that | |||
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" so I've asked for a MMMF ...what does this mean ?
I thought it meant just 3 guys and 1 gal..
I'm not fussed about who plays with who but didn't know it suggested that the men must be bi .. .
a little confused at present
Under the laws of sex MMMF is different as it implies men with 1 woman. It's only MMF and MFM that cause confusion. Think its actually a porn thing to be honest"I’ll need to start watching more porn then | |||
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"I thought MMF and MFM meant the exact same thing
I've had several MFMs in this case, but always described them as MMF
The difference was only explained to us mid-meet a few months ago; I don't think it's that common knowledge. So always best to check. "My pleasure | |||
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" so I've asked for a MMMF ...what does this mean ?
I thought it meant just 3 guys and 1 gal..
I'm not fussed about who plays with who but didn't know it suggested that the men must be bi .. .
a little confused at present
Under the laws of sex MMMF is different as it implies men with 1 woman. It's only MMF and MFM that cause confusion. Think its actually a porn thing to be honest
I’ll need to start watching more porn then "I'm running online courses. Very intense lectures, lots of one on one lol | |||
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" so I've asked for a MMMF ...what does this mean ?
I thought it meant just 3 guys and 1 gal..
I'm not fussed about who plays with who but didn't know it suggested that the men must be bi .. .
a little confused at present
Under the laws of sex MMMF is different as it implies men with 1 woman. It's only MMF and MFM that cause confusion. Think its actually a porn thing to be honest
I’ll need to start watching more porn then "Hornycouple, dont take it personally; besides, your profile shows both of you straight so the other bloke cannot expect anything else. And he shouldnt get offended with your comment; regardless whether MMF and MFM could be different things in the view of some, nothing beats actually talking to each other straight to get things clear... assumption is the mother of all fuck ups, also in the bed  | |||
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"I go by the thought that MMF would involve male on male action of some kind and MFM would suggest the focus is on the lady. But I'm happy to be corrected" . Correct | |||
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"I am happy to be corrected but I have always taken MMF two bi men,one female MFM two straight men, one female FFM two bi females, one man FMF two straight females one man Xx" Our take on it too, in the years we have been here that seems to be the general understanding  | |||
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" so I've asked for a MMMF ...what does this mean ?
I thought it meant just 3 guys and 1 gal..
I'm not fussed about who plays with who but didn't know it suggested that the men must be bi .. .
a little confused at present
Under the laws of sex MMMF is different as it implies men with 1 woman. It's only MMF and MFM that cause confusion. Think its actually a porn thing to be honest
I’ll need to start watching more porn then
Hornycouple, dont take it personally; besides, your profile shows both of you straight so the other bloke cannot expect anything else. And he shouldnt get offended with your comment; regardless whether MMF and MFM could be different things in the view of some, nothing beats actually talking to each other straight to get things clear... assumption is the mother of all fuck ups, also in the bed "Thank you and exactly this is very true.. we do always like to be polite when replying back to messages but you will always get a few who are not happy. I just wanted to make sure I was correct so we didn’t insult anyone. | |||
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"I would add through that I am fully bisexual but if meeting a straight couple, would completely respect their wishes. In addition if you asked for my sexual preference for either sex, it would be a woman and in a MFM scenario I would not even broach the subject of playing with the man. However the mere fact that I state I’m bisexual on my profile precludes a lot of couples from meeting. Many assume I’m as interested in the man as the woman which is not the case. Of course I like to have my cake and eat it if the opportunity arises but not set in stone at all. I suspect many guys are in the same position as me. I do meet men sometimes to scratch an itch but as I said…women are my preference. " Furthermore, having played with couples, stag/vixen or cuckold couples in the past, my bisexuality means that I am completely comfortable when I’ve been (lucky enough) to be involved in DP, DVP or DAP, I’m completely comfortable with being in close proximity to the other male’s genitalia. All good dirty fun!  | |||
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"I would add through that I am fully bisexual but if meeting a straight couple, would completely respect their wishes. In addition if you asked for my sexual preference for either sex, it would be a woman and in a MFM scenario I would not even broach the subject of playing with the man. However the mere fact that I state I’m bisexual on my profile precludes a lot of couples from meeting. Many assume I’m as interested in the man as the woman which is not the case. Of course I like to have my cake and eat it if the opportunity arises but not set in stone at all. I suspect many guys are in the same position as me. I do meet men sometimes to scratch an itch but as I said…women are my preference. " I think it’s just like any the persons own preference. Can completely understand where you are coming from but unfortunately that is not the same for all. We have had a few quite bad encounters where boundaries were discussed beforehand and yet still ended up where a meet had to be stopped and asked to leave because they did not stick to them ended up being a really bad experience for us both hence the reason now we ask for straight men only in our profile. | |||
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"I am happy to be corrected but I have always taken MMF two bi men,one female MFM two straight men, one female FFM two bi females, one man FMF two straight females one man Xx Our take on it too, in the years we have been here that seems to be the general understanding "Yes this is a vague rule but as others have said, always best to have the conversation and explain boundaries and wishes. Anyone worth meeting will understand. | |||
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"I would say, your not right, but your also not wrong. Any 3some I have been involved in has just been referred to as MMF or FFM and then the details of play are sorted in the conversation before hand, the order of the letters have never mattered one bit. " Yes I agree with you when we’ve we have meets we also discuss boundaries beforehand this was a question that was asked before a meet was even discussed | |||
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"I would add through that I am fully bisexual but if meeting a straight couple, would completely respect their wishes. In addition if you asked for my sexual preference for either sex, it would be a woman and in a MFM scenario I would not even broach the subject of playing with the man. However the mere fact that I state I’m bisexual on my profile precludes a lot of couples from meeting. Many assume I’m as interested in the man as the woman which is not the case. Of course I like to have my cake and eat it if the opportunity arises but not set in stone at all. I suspect many guys are in the same position as me. I do meet men sometimes to scratch an itch but as I said…women are my preference. I think it’s just like any the persons own preference. Can completely understand where you are coming from but unfortunately that is not the same for all. We have had a few quite bad encounters where boundaries were discussed beforehand and yet still ended up where a meet had to be stopped and asked to leave because they did not stick to them ended up being a really bad experience for us both hence the reason now we ask for straight men only in our profile. " There’s sensible and muppets everywhere! Lol! Happy hunting and fabbing! | |||
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"I would add through that I am fully bisexual but if meeting a straight couple, would completely respect their wishes. In addition if you asked for my sexual preference for either sex, it would be a woman and in a MFM scenario I would not even broach the subject of playing with the man. However the mere fact that I state I’m bisexual on my profile precludes a lot of couples from meeting. Many assume I’m as interested in the man as the woman which is not the case. Of course I like to have my cake and eat it if the opportunity arises but not set in stone at all. I suspect many guys are in the same position as me. I do meet men sometimes to scratch an itch but as I said…women are my preference. I think it’s just like any the persons own preference. Can completely understand where you are coming from but unfortunately that is not the same for all. We have had a few quite bad encounters where boundaries were discussed beforehand and yet still ended up where a meet had to be stopped and asked to leave because they did not stick to them ended up being a really bad experience for us both hence the reason now we ask for straight men only in our profile. There’s sensible and muppets everywhere! Lol! Happy hunting and fabbing! " Very true you too | |||
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"you did fine hornycouple, dont worry. When I arranged with a couple, he was bisex and asked me theyd only meet if I kissed and haooy with mutual oral. I agreed and we all had fun. nothing beats making things clear beforehand "Very true and glad you all had a good time | |||
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"I am happy to be corrected but I have always taken MMF two bi men,one female MFM two straight men, one female FFM two bi females, one man FMF two straight females one man Xx" Thats what we believe too, as I’m Bi Curious, just that curiosity! | |||
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"Great thread … although where are all the Sexy Couples from South East and London ?? Love to hear from you ??" Hey get you’re own thread for that… only joking good luck in you’re search | |||
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"Have had a few requests from men asking if we want to do a mmf 3sum when we say no sorry my husband is straight have had responses saying (well so am I) doesn’t that mean you want to be they want to be involved with the man too? " No that would be bi-mmf. The whole "mmf is bi" thing is something that people started to say recently but it doesn't really work, try using initials to describe a foursome, 3 guys and one woman, where the guys are straight if you think the order of the letters matters. | |||
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"Have had a few requests from men asking if we want to do a mmf 3sum when we say no sorry my husband is straight have had responses saying (well so am I) doesn’t that mean you want to be they want to be involved with the man too? No that would be bi-mmf. The whole "mmf is bi" thing is something that people started to say recently but it doesn't really work, try using initials to describe a foursome, 3 guys and one woman, where the guys are straight if you think the order of the letters matters." Thank you that does make sense | |||
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"I am happy to be corrected but I have always taken MMF two bi men,one female MFM two straight men, one female FFM two bi females, one man FMF two straight females one man Xx Thats what we believe too, as I’m Bi Curious, just that curiosity! " In the 11 years I have been swinging that's what I have been lead to believe , but it only counts when referring to threesomes. Xx | |||
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"I did not know this "Nor me, every day is a school day! | |||
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"Well as a top bi tv a mmf to me means both guys giving all the attention to the female unless the guys do want to play with each other "Do you mean then mmf is open for the guys to play with each other? | |||
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"I have genuinely never cared or put too much thought into the order of the letters. If somebody expects some sort of same-sex play then it makes a whole lot more sense to specify "bi-MMF/MFM/FMM" "When it comes to to meeting someone yes we always speak before hand what each of us is looking for. This was a question on receiving a message way before it even got to that stage and to not waste anyone’s time before getting to that point | |||
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Nor me, every day is a school day!"I wouldn’t take it as a lesson learned just yet. Looks like the majority if people are saying it’s the same thing | |||
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"It could be that they don’t genuinely know that MMF is generally the 2 MM been bi curious or bi sexual.I found this out a few years ago on Fabs.MFM is generally the 2 males been straight Yes now if they had said MFM that is right up our street "I have had many meets were the male of the couple is bi or bi curious and in every case where I have stated I am straight then my boundaries have been respected. However I have learnt that where three people are having fun together it is a very close situation and you have to be a little tolerant. | |||
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"Every day's a school day Your not wrong. " Do they have a school of fab? | |||
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"I’d love a 3 some but hubby always worries the guy would want to play with him and he’s not bi So hopefully he reads this and set us up mfm one (I hope ) " Good luck and I’m sure you will both have a great time. We have only had a few bad encounters the rest have been amazing | |||
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"Yep, this forum taught me last year the difference between MMF and MFM. I’ll do MFM any day of the week but never MMF. It’s the lady I’m interested in, nobody else thanks!" Pity you weren’t closer | |||
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"Can I ask then.. if mfm and mmf are the same thing why have both of them then? I’m genuinely curious " I think it's so the karens can accuse people of being bi | |||
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"Can I ask then.. if mfm and mmf are the same thing why have both of them then? I’m genuinely curious I think it's so the karens can accuse people of being bi "Sorry but I’m not getting how they can do that by two different meanings? I’d really hope aswell that no one would accuse anyone of being anything other than what they are but maybe that’s just because I wouldn’t be mean to other people or try and call them out on something that clearly had nothing to do with what they were asking  | |||
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"Have had a few requests from men asking if we want to do a mmf 3sum when we say no sorry my husband is straight have had responses saying (well so am I) doesn’t that mean you want to be they want to be involved with the man too? No that would be bi-mmf. The whole "mmf is bi" thing is something that people started to say recently but it doesn't really work, try using initials to describe a foursome, 3 guys and one woman, where the guys are straight if you think the order of the letters matters." Again that’s what I was asking about it’s a completely different thing. That to me would be a gangbang where all people involved would say before hand boundaries ect. Sounds bloody fun though | |||
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"Have had a few requests from men asking if we want to do a mmf 3sum when we say no sorry my husband is straight have had responses saying (well so am I) doesn’t that mean you want to be they want to be involved with the man too? No that would be bi-mmf. The whole "mmf is bi" thing is something that people started to say recently but it doesn't really work, try using initials to describe a foursome, 3 guys and one woman, where the guys are straight if you think the order of the letters matters. Again that’s what I was asking about it’s a completely different thing. That to me would be a gangbang where all people involved would say before hand boundaries ect. Sounds bloody fun though "*not | |||
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