FabSwingers.com forum: Where Did You Start Your Swinging Journey

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good Morning Fellow Fabbers

Hope you kinky lot are all well. I absolutely love Fab & have already spoken to some great people. It's so refreshing & lovely to be embracing this. Thank you to all for making me feel so welcome.

We are at the beginning of our journey.

Where did you start yours? Is a club best? A couple from Fab?

Any advice from fully fledged couples would be greatly appreciated

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By *avid 50Man
over a year ago

kendal

Ous started unintentionally three couples out on a drinking night at a music club. The music was diabolical so we headed back to the hotel and ended up doing dares. The final one was one couple having sex in front of us other two couples it was the first time we’ve seen them naked and to see sex at such close quarters, not just the sight of sex, but the smell and the sound that was the start of us talking about swinging and eventually enjoying it .

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Welcome aboard, Fiesty! You’ve already made one of the biggest steps by joining Fab! Our first encounter was at a club (Hellfire). We were really nervous and didn’t know what to expect, but as with any well run club, you’ll be shown around by the staff and made to feel at home. As newbies they’ll keep an eye out for you too.

We chatted with a few guys and couples and didn’t really expect to play (though we’d already set out our boundaries). In the end, Vixen ended up in the dungeon with a gorgeous domme and had the time of her life. We’ve visited a few clubs now, and things just keep getting better (and filthier) as we’re more relaxed and know how things work.

We’d definitely say clubs are the best way to dip your toe into the water. Just agree your boundaries and go with the flow. As with any event, have a chat, a laugh and have fun. We go with the mindset that even if we don’t end up playing with others, we’re still going to have a good night out with some amazing sex!

Let us know how you get on x

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Mansfield

Welcome to fab.

Our journey started like many others I suspect. From dirty talk in the bedroom, to joining fab. We got talking to another cpl who suggested a meet up at a club. We took the plunge. Can't lie we were shaking like sh"'ing dogs as we went into the club ( was the attic in derby). The cpl met us and we were at ease in no time. The girls danced, kissed, touched & a private room was suggested. From that night on we were hooked. That was nearly 5 years ago.

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
over a year ago

kendal

I ended up here by accident tbh, but it was an awesome accident!

I originally met a guy on a dating website who was a dominant, I wasn't looking for a dominant, but had always had an interest in BDSM and d/s stuff, I'd just never taken the plunge.

Anyway,

We had a fabulous dynamic, he showed me the ropes (literally!) And really educated me

and opened my eyes.

When we parted company (in a very mutual and respectful way, we r still really close friends) he suggested fab to me and said he thought if enjoy going out and exploring what I want and where I fit in the kink world.

And he wasn't wrong! And then it just kinda snow balled from there.

18 months ago if someone had if told me if be doing some of the stuff I do now, I'd of been mortified and probably laughed in Thier faces.

But I'm definately having a ball and enjoying the social aspect aswell as the sexual.

I hope you guys have loads of fun on your 'deinging journey' that's what it's all about!

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