FabSwingers.com forum: Cuckold regrets

By *enj08475 OP Man
over a year ago

brighton

Wife and myself wondered if any of you with more experience than us have had any regrets after the event after sharing wife/girlfriend ?

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Absolutely not. Infact it cemented the truth between us

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By *enj08475 OP Man
over a year ago

brighton

Thank you for feedback

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

No regrets at all

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

In the very early days I did get a little jealous - especially hearing her cumming hard - but those feelings went very very quickly.

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Both having too much fun to have time for regrets lol. Xxx

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By *enj08475 OP Man
over a year ago

brighton

Thanks everyone, would you say you have lost anything aswell as gained?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

to be a cuckold couple you must have a strong relationship to begin with so your already a very strong relationship and you know what you want because your very open with each other so i think it would be hard to regret something the only way regret is going to affect things is if your not a strong couple or you doing it to save your marriage or one sided then you'll regret and properly kill what your trying to save..

it dont mater cuckold or swinging its based on very good relationships it will never fix something thats already broken all it will do is expose the wrongs even more ...see it all the time on this scene ..why are you swinging ? oh to try and save the relationship weeks months or years later no longer together its not and never will be a fix .....

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

We’ve been a cuckold couple pretty much most of our marriage, it’s something that we discussed at great length after we realised we both had different needs sexually and we could either make the cuckolding work and build a loving stable marriage or both go our separate ways and do our own thing.

It’s not for everyone and I wouldn’t say that it’s the most natural thing in the world but we’ve survived together for over 30 years and love each other immensely still and as a cuck I’m very proud to have an attractive wife that other guys desire.

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

Defo best thing we ever done

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes agreed best dynamic and arrangement , not easy to find the right guys tho

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

So true to many now just think its easy lay

"Yes agreed best dynamic and arrangement , not easy to find the right guys tho "

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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"to be a cuckold couple you must have a strong relationship to begin with so your already a very strong relationship and you know what you want because your very open with each other so i think it would be hard to regret something the only way regret is going to affect things is if your not a strong couple or you doing it to save your marriage or one sided then you'll regret and properly kill what your trying to save..

Wise words!

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Not currently, but has caused massive issues previously.

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

Really

"Not currently, but has caused massive issues previously."

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By *enj08475 OP Man
over a year ago

brighton

Can I ask what issues?

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Broke up a previous relationship due to insecurities and poor communication. Lessons learned and stronger for it though.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Sorry should add was a poly relationship too so that had a huge impact.

Never doing poly again, absolute nightmare!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open, honest, unfiltered Communication is Key. Be an open book with each other.

No regrets just opportunities to learn and evolve from.

Mr H

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Open, honest, unfiltered Communication is Key. Be an open book with each other.

No regrets just opportunities to learn and evolve from.

Mr H"

All of this!

If there’s even the slightest crack of doubt or insecurity, stay well clear of cuck & poly/enm.

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

travel around a lot.

In my experience of involvement, the cpls have played before in 3somes etc and finding boundaries. I think if you have never "shared" and have a certain fetish to explore without having a background, it's a thin ice situation.

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

For us it has brought us even closer and only last night we were sharing our thoughts on the scene and how it has made us more open to our thoughts and desires, as others have said communication is the key and without any doubt, Honesty.

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By *penandhopingCouple
over a year ago

Hurworth on tees

Before our first meet Sarah thought that even though she was eager to have another guy and myself watch she was worried she would feel guilty after .

However on seeing how much I enjoyed her having fun and me watching on out her mind at rest so the second time we did it with the same guy it was even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us it has brought us even closer and only last night we were sharing our thoughts on the scene and how it has made us more open to our thoughts and desires, as others have said communication is the key and without any doubt, Honesty."

We are the same, we thrive from it. Love watching documentaries about it, well just kink docus in general.

Always just having those moments when we look at each other and are thankful we have such an open honest relationship, that we are both with someone that allows us to be ourselves, have fun, be free and be loved.

Yes I think we may be a little hooked

Mr H

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Been doing for many years and have no regrets. The feelings of jealousy are part of the thrill also providing you learn to control and just enjoy

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By *liandaCouple
over a year ago

london

Lots of regrets and feelings of jealousy as i watch and realise that i cannot control what it happening, but they all dissolve into just feeling so turned on as i see ali's back arch, her eyes close and her mouth open as his fingers, tongue or cock slips into her.

No regrets afterwards. ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully find out in next month or 2

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

"We’ve been a cuckold couple pretty much most of our marriage, it’s something that we discussed at great length after we realised we both had different needs sexually and we could either make the cuckolding work and build a loving stable marriage or both go our separate ways and do our own thing.

Couldn't have wrote this any better myself.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

That’s an excellent description of how cuckolding should make a couple feel !

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By *eautifulDream69Couple
over a year ago

San Antonio

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By *eautifulDream69Couple
over a year ago

San Antonio

"Yes agreed best dynamic and arrangement , not easy to find the right guys tho "

We feel you. Most guys demand pictures or a meet before getting to know them. Don't know why they think we're going to go with their timeline

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By *eautifulDream69Couple
over a year ago

San Antonio

"Sorry should add was a poly relationship too so that had a huge impact.

Never doing poly again, absolute nightmare!!

Oh no. We are planning to get into poly!!

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By *orthsouth4957Couple
over a year ago

swords

Very interesting to read everyone’s comments and experiences

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By *ulldipadovaMan
over a year ago

Amsterdam

Interesting topic

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By *obandsue 69Couple
over a year ago

north Cornwall

You need total trust and honesty but when it works it’s the most powerful amazing sex for all involved

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Spot on. If there is not a strong foundation the relationship will fail.

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By *g1979Man
over a year ago

bexley

Had an experience over 20 years ago where the male wanted to get violent with me after.

I was in my early 20s and had been seeing a slightly older woman for random hookups. We lost contact with each other and she rang me about 6 months later. She explained she was dating a guy in his 40s and he had been asking for a 3sum with another girl. She had said ok as long as she could have a mmf 3sum. She had picked me. I said I was game and went over to this guys house a week later.

We're in his living room and he was commenting how hot it was gonna be.

We got down to is and unfortunately he shot his bolt after about 2 minutes. He is then sitting in his armchair trying to wake up his little soldier but nothing is happening whilst I'm carrying on.

After 5 minutes he got angry saying I was taking the piss and to get the fuck out of his house.

I "made my excuses and left" and then carried on seeing the woman behind his back for a few months.

An interesting experience.

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

We love the cuckold lifestyle and always talk about how each other feeling about things, even though been doing it for a fair few years. We are now more a femdom relationship but he's still my cuck and we live that way and love it.

Lxx

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By *r and Mrs300Couple
over a year ago

London sw3

Our only regret is that we didn't do it sooner in our relationship

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By *reampie_yourwifeMan
over a year ago

barnsley

It’s not that uncommon , I met a couple , he just wanted to stay down stairs and listen , fine by me !

However about 40 mins later he was stood at the bedroom door, kitchen knife in hand, screaming at her to get dressed and me to leave , unhappy that she was having too much fun and making too much noise!

Saw the funny side afterwards when she messaged and asked if I would leave a veri!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not that uncommon , I met a couple , he just wanted to stay down stairs and listen , fine by me !

Saw the funny side afterwards when she messaged and asked if I would leave a veri! "

I wonder if that's their 'thing', to play or trigger his jealousy.

Only verification they'd have received is a knock on the door by the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got into this by accident. I wanted to go to a swinging club merely to experience the environment, not for either of us to play. Wife initially was reluctant to come with me.

Cutting a long story short, we went. I loved the environment and we chatted to one bloke most of the evening.

We attended again, chatted to the same bloke again most of the evening.

We attended again, wife getting more confident with her dress code (or lack of it) and once again we chatted to the same bloke.

At no stage did I have aspirations of either of us playing with others.

On the way home from this visit and I cannot explain it, the Wife said to me; "I could see his cock under his towel whilst he was chatting to us".

I replied "So what?"

She replied "It looked quite nice".

I cannot explain it to this day, but I got an instant erection.

From there, over a series of weeks things progressed. Next time we went, he gave the wife a massage. Next time we went, they gave each other a massage and a hand job.

Next time it was a massage and a blow job.

Finally, they gave one another a massage and she sat on his cock.

He became our buddy for over a decade.

Sadly, we do not see him anymore and looking to replace him, but it is proving impossible on here.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

I think the only regret we have is allowing men who weren't the right fit for us into the bedroom, we're picky and we let ourselves be persuaded to not be, and it led to disappointing experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our biggest regret is not doing this sooner, and not communicating about this sooner x

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"I think the only regret we have is allowing men who weren't the right fit for us into the bedroom, we're picky and we let ourselves be persuaded to not be, and it led to disappointing experiences."

we became ultra picky when we went full on into cuckolding i was bad enough before but it works i get great sex we never get let down and no more guys cumming quick or erection issues they just disappear by being more picky and blunt and to the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope you both have to have the trust with one another to enjoy the experience. If it's not there then I wouldn't even attempt it.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Only regret we have is we did not try the swinging lifestyle sooner.

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

Having met a few on here, some of the strongest relationships I've seen were cuckold type couples. Communication is key and they don't even have to be cuckold. Stag/Vixen dynamics appeal to me a lot. I like when the husband or boyfriend is fully involved. If the couple are honest with each other re their wants and needs sexually then there will be no regrets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only regret we have is that we didn’t trust the strength of our relationship to start earlier. It’s changed our marriage for the better in so many ways.

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By *wguy100Man
over a year ago

Exeter

"The only regret we have is that we didn’t trust the strength of our relationship to start earlier. It’s changed our marriage for the better in so many ways. "

So good to hear this as so many don’t get to see the full benefits if you have the right dynamic

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