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By *ostindreams OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I know it's not for everyone.

For fellow kinksters into verbal humiliation, what kind of humiliation do you prefer to give/receive?

I like variations of SPH, though mine is of a decent size :?-?) Also when a lady makes fun of my PME problem and tells me how I can never satisfy her. Any other types of verbal humiliation that you like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby loves verbal humiliation from me and I also like it from others

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We switch and humiliation is a big part of it for both. When I Domme him it’s typically around his masculinity e.g put him in a pair of my knickers and queen him while I describe a fuck I had with another guy.

When he Doms me it’s typically name calling, how pathetic I am, what a slut I am, that I’m a fucktoy etc etc

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By *ostindreams OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Hubby loves verbal humiliation from me and I also like it from others"

I guess it's very common in a cuckold relationship

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

A vary between SPH, name calling, around masculinity but mine tend to change with the scene/meet to what is given if that makes sense its not always the same thing

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By *ostindreams OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"We switch and humiliation is a big part of it for both. When I Domme him it’s typically around his masculinity e.g put him in a pair of my knickers and queen him while I describe a fuck I had with another guy.

When he Doms me it’s typically name calling, how pathetic I am, what a slut I am, that I’m a fucktoy etc etc "

Making him wear knickers and humiliating him gives a lovely feeling to the submissive. I once met someone who made me wear her knickers when going home in train and sent me messages telling me what a slut I am.

I understand the kick you get out of being called names too. It's quite a feeling isn't it?

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By *ostindreams OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"A vary between SPH, name calling, around masculinity but mine tend to change with the scene/meet to what is given if that makes sense its not always the same thing "

SPH is quite common. The theme of humiliation could change if you are into role-plays and you are trying out different situations. I guess that's what you meant?

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By *eamed stocking fanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Love swearing and dirty talk but not everyone enjoys it

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

Love humiliation play, although it's tough to do it right and cudos to those that give it well as i think those that receive don't always appreciate how much of a challenge it can be to give.

Emasculation play is a fav and name calling during sex is hot as hell... especially when it's a lady letting her inner sailor out (during pegging for me) he he

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Exactly that and depends who im with as well and the dynamics we have and the role play we are doing. I recently discovered body writing which is always fun to do as it lasts after the session has finished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby loves verbal humiliation from me and I also like it from others

I guess it's very common in a cuckold relationship "

Yeah reason she enjoys bigger men

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By *ostindreams OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Love humiliation play, although it's tough to do it right and cudos to those that give it well as i think those that receive don't always appreciate how much of a challenge it can be to give.

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Agreed! For it to work, the giver must be really into it. Otherwise, it's just very awkward or artificial

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By *ostindreams OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Exactly that and depends who im with as well and the dynamics we have and the role play we are doing. I recently discovered body writing which is always fun to do as it lasts after the session has finished "

+1 to body writing. Long time since I did that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i really enjoy receiving it, within the right scene obviously. adds a whole new psychological element to our play, that's absolutely delicious Px

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"i really enjoy receiving it, within the right scene obviously. adds a whole new psychological element to our play, that's absolutely delicious Px "

Deleted Roxy’s response as she’d get us banned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i really enjoy receiving it, within the right scene obviously. adds a whole new psychological element to our play, that's absolutely delicious Px

Deleted Roxy’s response as she’d get us banned! "

damn it, i missed it Px

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"i really enjoy receiving it, within the right scene obviously. adds a whole new psychological element to our play, that's absolutely delicious Px

Deleted Roxy’s response as she’d get us banned!

damn it, i missed it Px "

Something something naughty slut, something something pathetic, something something be a good girl….

Ya get the gist of it.

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

Every day's a school day.

Can I ask what SPH is?

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Every day's a school day.

Can I ask what SPH is?"

Small penis humiliation

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London


"Every day's a school day.

Can I ask what SPH is?

Small penis humiliation "

FAB you learn something every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i really enjoy receiving it, within the right scene obviously. adds a whole new psychological element to our play, that's absolutely delicious Px

Deleted Roxy’s response as she’d get us banned!

damn it, i missed it Px

Something something naughty slut, something something pathetic, something something be a good girl….

Ya get the gist of it. "

why doesn't fab have a drooling emoji yet?! Px

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"i really enjoy receiving it, within the right scene obviously. adds a whole new psychological element to our play, that's absolutely delicious Px

Deleted Roxy’s response as she’d get us banned!

damn it, i missed it Px

Something something naughty slut, something something pathetic, something something be a good girl….

Ya get the gist of it.

why doesn't fab have a drooling emoji yet?! Px "

My phone would be fucked if it did!

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By *oblogsCouple
over a year ago

east anglia

Yes we have recently found this fun. Wife telling me my cock is small and wants a bigger ine and she’s bored of it!

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By *llan and SamCouple
over a year ago

Aberdare

Well up for this

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We enjoy a good amount of degradation, of course I would I’m a filthy fat skank, who’s always getting told of for sitting on cock and eating cunt.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"We enjoy a good amount of degradation, of course I would I’m a filthy fat skank, who’s always getting told of for sitting on cock and eating cunt. "

Massive respect for people like yourself that empower themselves with their insecurities!!! Adds to the kink too

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"We enjoy a good amount of degradation, of course I would I’m a filthy fat skank, who’s always getting told of for sitting on cock and eating cunt. "

Similar.

A lot of mine is to do with my sexuality and my thinks that I have been told I should be ashamed of or are dirty and 'wrong'. (Fundamental church cult upbrings are bad kids)

Like many things it's very much about reclaiming things that have hurt me in the past - I am actually about to control and more importantly stop it if I need too.

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By *ostindreams OP   Man
over a year ago

London


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Like many things it's very much about reclaiming things that have hurt me in the past - I am actually about to control and more importantly stop it if I need too."

I have definitely heard the same thing about many other kinks. I don't think I can talk in detail about them here though

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I love it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it all"
I love it when I get to recieve it lol

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Something I've always done in the bedroom is name calling just seems to come natural these days to extent I actually have to ask lady's before bedroom play now if its something they're into as i have actually upset someone before by telling her she's a wee slut.

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

Love it plays a massive part in our cuckold lifestyle

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By *ilk and all things niceTV/TS
over a year ago

secret bunker

Love it lots

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By *amsubMan
over a year ago

hyde

Love being called names being verbally abused find it humiliating degrading no matter how bad the names i love it be great sat in a pub with a guy calling me names after buying him a drink mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I love degrading women and couples in the right situations

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By *xpandingHorizonsMan
over a year ago

warks


"We enjoy a good amount of degradation, of course I would I’m a filthy fat skank, who’s always getting told of for sitting on cock and eating cunt.

Similar.

A lot of mine is to do with my sexuality and my thinks that I have been told I should be ashamed of or are dirty and 'wrong'. (Fundamental church cult upbrings are bad kids)

Like many things it's very much about reclaiming things that have hurt me in the past - I am actually about to control and more importantly stop it if I need too."

Very interesting about reclaiming hurt from the past, totally explains why i love it particularly SPH

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By *oblogsCouple
over a year ago

east anglia

Maybe not so much humilaitation but wife has enjoyed being under someone’s control on chat

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I like it with my partner...Turns me on big time.

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By *amsubMan
over a year ago

hyde


"Maybe not so much humilaitation but wife has enjoyed being under someone’s control on chat"
that sounds horny hope it was for both of you mmmm

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I find it very enjoyable. It can be really difficult to get it right, though.

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By *ornycouple7884Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

My hubby is an excellent cuck but verbal humiliation is a line neither of interested in crossing as it just feels wrong.

However, was chatting about kinks with a fwb last night and he'd love to be owned and verbally humiliated and I'd have no issue doing this with him. Any hints and tips welcome

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston


"My hubby is an excellent cuck but verbal humiliation is a line neither of interested in crossing as it just feels wrong.

However, was chatting about kinks with a fwb last night and he'd love to be owned and verbally humiliated and I'd have no issue doing this with him. Any hints and tips welcome"

The hardest bit is being able to separate it from the scene and real life. Aftercare is important for me and would strongly recommend as it can take its toll depending what is said

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Love roleplays with wife where as I'm playing with her & licking her pussy she tells me she just been fucked by others with better bigger cocks & how good it felt

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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes


"I know it's not for everyone.

For fellow kinksters into verbal humiliation, what kind of humiliation do you prefer to give/receive?

I like variations of SPH, though mine is of a decent size :?-?) Also when a lady makes fun of my PME problem and tells me how I can never satisfy her. Any other types of verbal humiliation that you like?"

I love to be both verbally humiliated and also humiliated in writing like messages and emails ect. I know what I am and thrive on others telling me. Any form of domination over me is good but something so powerful about the written and spoken word.

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By *ee_Preston_NewTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston

I really enjoy the verbal humiliation thing. Be it in a message or in person, it is so difficult to get right. Both sides need to get something from it and it's a fine line to get the balance between both parties. Good verbals are a huge turn on but if not delivered right can just turn into a meaningless bout of swearing or on the other side, a not very convincing Dom...

It IS a great roleplay model and practice makes perfect. If anybody wants to have a bash on me, I'll give an honest opinion to all budding Dom's. Start by reading the profile fully or you won't get it to work. You have to get to know the person and profiles written correctly or a great starting point....

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By *egmelpoolMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I love to be given humiliation tasks and comments

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By *ostindreams OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Anyone up for some humiliation roleplay?

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We are on a journey with this, I Mr, love the humiliation of my wife playing with other guys because I can’t give her what they can and we have recently started to add in verbal humiliation.

I think it is fair to say that Laura struggled with it at first but has certainly grown into it and now it is begining to filter into our day to day lives and interactions and not just restricted to play.

Important to go at a pace that you are both happy with, that way it is more natural, which for me means so much more.

Mr d

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Delivery guy

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"We are on a journey with this, I Mr, love the humiliation of my wife playing with other guys because I can’t give her what they can and we have recently started to add in verbal humiliation.

I think it is fair to say that Laura struggled with it at first but has certainly grown into it and now it is begining to filter into our day to day lives and interactions and not just restricted to play.

Important to go at a pace that you are both happy with, that way it is more natural, which for me means so much more.

Mr d"

I love it too and often wonder why I do?

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By *ostindreams OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"We are on a journey with this, I Mr, love the humiliation of my wife playing with other guys because I can’t give her what they can and we have recently started to add in verbal humiliation.

I think it is fair to say that Laura struggled with it at first but has certainly grown into it and now it is begining to filter into our day to day lives and interactions and not just restricted to play.

Important to go at a pace that you are both happy with, that way it is more natural, which for me means so much more.

Mr d"

Lovely! Hope you have fun in your journey.

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By *ostindreams OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Anyone up for humiliation roleplay?

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By *ostindreams OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Free for humiliation roleplay today

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By *utdoorwhore4uCouple
over a year ago

bedford

would love some cuckold fun

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By *utdoorwhore4uCouple
over a year ago

bedford

interested in a cuck couple

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

I love verbal humiliation. Don't know what it is about it, but it just gets me going.

Luna

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By *utdoorwhore4uCouple
over a year ago

bedford

sometime the wronger the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The verbal is an art not all can master and said or done wrong or out of the bedroom can be damaging, x but when done right! Ooof

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By *utdoorwhore4uCouple
over a year ago

bedford

ohh the shame, but when it fells that good just wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She loves it

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By *utdoorwhore4uCouple
over a year ago

bedford

so wrong but so good lol

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

I love being on the receiving end of verbal humiliation

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By *ostindreams OP   Man
52 weeks ago

London

Any couple or women up for verbal humiliation chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago


"I know it's not for everyone.

For fellow kinksters into verbal humiliation, what kind of humiliation do you prefer to give/receive?

I like variations of SPH, though mine is of a decent size :?-?) "

Same, decent size but very open to SPH if Mrs with a bigger guy

Mr

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By *ittleJohn5Man
52 weeks ago

Wickham Market

I’m getting into this side of things as genuinely have a small cock

I go through lots of emotions but get hard from it!

But haven’t found a woman into it to explore.

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