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By *he James gang OP   Couple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

After messaging a guy with a view to meeting, I discover he doesn't want to show a face pic in private. Am I being harsh in blocking him, as we don't do blind dates.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

Your meet your rules!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your meet your rules! "

This ^

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By *eamed stocking fanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I think asking for a face pic reasonable must people have a phone these days so not to hard to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May not want to be recognised on site or he had something to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If not willing to send a face pic in private then block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing as once it’s sent it can’t be unsent we can see why he’d be fearful

We sent a face pic once to a guy who then turned out to be a total nut job and regretted it.

We’d insist on a short social coffee or something as an alternative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May not want to be recognised on site or he had something to hide."

I don't understand the logic behind this though as anyone who sees your pictures is also on this site, and if they were to say anything in tge vanilla world, they'd just be outing themselves.

I'm with you OP. No face pic, no meet.

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By *he James gang OP   Couple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"I think asking for a face pic reasonable must people have a phone these days so not to hard to do."

His reply to me ask for a face pic was 'is there a specific reason you want face pic'. My train of thought was, if he needs to know a reason why we want to see his coupon, then it's a cheerio from us. Besides the reason we want to see a face is fairly f××king obvious.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"May not want to be recognised on site or he had something to hide.

I don't understand the logic behind this though as anyone who sees your pictures is also on this site, and if they were to say anything in tge vanilla world, they'd just be outing themselves.

I'm with you OP. No face pic, no meet."

Probably because quite a few people have been outed on here to family and friends and their work places. And it's quite often done anonymously as well,also the sharing of face pics in groups off here happens quite often as well as well as private info on people.

And while yes I understand why people want to see face pics and it's not an unreasonable request at all if you are getting to the point of meeting I also see why some people won't share. Your choice to block op if you don't want to meet blind,just like they probably knew it would happen, especially if they don't understand why you would like to see one first.

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By *he James gang OP   Couple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"Seeing as once it’s sent it can’t be unsent we can see why he’d be fearful

We sent a face pic once to a guy who then turned out to be a total nut job and regretted it.

We’d insist on a short social coffee or something as an alternative. "

After going the palava of a coffee meet you find he looks like John merrick (elephant man), it's a waste of time. Through experience, a successful coffee social, in no way guarantees a successful meet. To some it may sound superficial to want to see face pics but in everyday life you want to see what your buying. If your buying a car it's reasonable to want to know what the car looks like. No difference in a sex meet as far as we're concerned..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not blind date tbh

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By *he James gang OP   Couple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"May not want to be recognised on site or he had something to hide.

I don't understand the logic behind this though as anyone who sees your pictures is also on this site, and if they were to say anything in tge vanilla world, they'd just be outing themselves.

I'm with you OP. No face pic, no meet.

Probably because quite a few people have been outed on here to family and friends and their work places. And it's quite often done anonymously as well,also the sharing of face pics in groups off here happens quite often as well as well as private info on people.

And while yes I understand why people want to see face pics and it's not an unreasonable request at all if you are getting to the point of meeting I also see why some people won't share. Your choice to block op if you don't want to meet blind,just like they probably knew it would happen, especially if they don't understand why you would like to see one first. "

If someone his unhappy with showing a face pic in private then I don't think a swinging site is for them. It surely must rapidly diminish their chances of getting their Nat King Cole in the long run.

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By *empted23Couple
over a year ago

countryside

Block if we were you OP

How people can expect you to meet when they won’t show you what they look like

On public pics we get it

But privately

If you can’t show your face how can we know if we want to meet

Big red flag for us and a quick block and move on

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By *allum29Man
over a year ago

Banbury

I always think how are they going to recognise you if you don't show each other a face pic. It's not an old spy film where you have to whisper code words to identify yourself in a coffee shop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After messaging a guy with a view to meeting, I discover he doesn't want to show a face pic in private. Am I being harsh in blocking him, as we don't do blind dates. "

You do you

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Block, I understand not showing face pic on public photos and even private photos but he could have used one to send in a message.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd block, I won't meet anyone without seeing them.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd block, I won't meet anyone without seeing them.

Mrs "

this Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just comon sense that you need to see faces first. I dont get some guys on here, dont understand why they would think thats ok lol

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

There's very little chance of us going to meet anyone without having seen their faces. Firstly, the attraction may not be there and secondly, how the hell would we be able to know who they are haha

We totally respect people's right to privacy but if you're at the point of finalising a meet, it's faces for us for sure.

C x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No not harsh at all op

How can you know that you'd be attracted to him with no face pic.

I can understand people being wary of sharing face pics,however those people need to realise they are reducing their own chances of a meet too.

You're not compatible so blocking is for the best.

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By *otfun999Man
over a year ago

a


"After messaging a guy with a view to meeting, I discover he doesn't want to show a face pic in private. Am I being harsh in blocking him, as we don't do blind dates. "

Not harsh at all.

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By *he James gang OP   Couple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

What really got me, was that he questioned our reasoning for wanting to see a face pic. Doesn't an Einstein to work that out!

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"After messaging a guy with a view to meeting, I discover he doesn't want to show a face pic in private. Am I being harsh in blocking him, as we don't do blind dates. "

Not had guys say they can't send one because of blah blah. They got blocked too. Your profile, your rules as others have said.

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