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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

another one!!! where are the genuine people on here!!!

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By *eznhannahCouple
over a year ago

leeds

i know its frustrating but do we have to have this same thread every 2 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just you single guys who get them... Hear the same every day on here and there is always going to be timewasters...But there are genuine people on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always come on here wen i wanna waste time, it flies by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always come on here wen i wanna waste time, it flies by "

Ditto lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry, i know there are 100's of threads like this.. i wouldn't be so bothered but it would be my first proper meet through a swinging site and i just keep getting let down!

any advice appreciated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry, i know there are 100's of threads like this.. i wouldn't be so bothered but it would be my first proper meet through a swinging site and i just keep getting let down!

any advice appreciated!"

I would think the first thing to do would be to put some pics on your profile - as a single guy its very important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry, i know there are 100's of threads like this.. i wouldn't be so bothered but it would be my first proper meet through a swinging site and i just keep getting let down!

any advice appreciated!"

get lots of pics on yr profile so we can have a look and tell u what yr doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Second paragraph of profile probably means that you're too busy for a relationship, but it could appear that you're too busy to meet.

But you have harvested a decent handful of friends - at the very least you must have exchanged a couple of messages with them, so why not ask a couple of them for feedback based on their greater knowledge of you (compared to us on here)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have spoke to quite a few people, most have been really nice. just the few that talk about meets haven't got round to it yet...

pretty sure it is my age putting people off!

i'm genuine - that is pretty obvious, i've been in contact with the person/people i'm due to be meeting on the day.. then the phone just goes off nearer the time! pathetic really!!

very irritating...

need to stick to the verified people in future i think

any genuine women/couple feel free to contact me

can accomodate in preston!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"get lots of pics on yr profile so we can have a look and tell u what yr doing wrong "

Perve....

(nice pics though....)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have spoke to quite a few people, most have been really nice. just the few that talk about meets haven't got round to it yet...

pretty sure it is my age putting people off!

i'm genuine - that is pretty obvious, i've been in contact with the person/people i'm due to be meeting on the day.. then the phone just goes off nearer the time! pathetic really!!

very irritating...

need to stick to the verified people in future i think

any genuine women/couple feel free to contact me

can accomodate in preston!"

how is it obvious yr genuine ????

infact yr profile to me isnt genuine,

no pics what so ever, and u hide yr verification ...

little tip, to most that does not say yr genuine, u could be a woman pretending to be a man,

it happens ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"get lots of pics on yr profile so we can have a look and tell u what yr doing wrong

Perve....

(nice pics though....)"

fanx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry, i know there are 100's of threads like this.. i wouldn't be so bothered but it would be my first proper meet through a swinging site and i just keep getting let down!

any advice appreciated!

I would think the first thing to do would be to put some pics on your profile - as a single guy its very important"

Totally agree.. We wont even reply to people without pics on profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry, i know there are 100's of threads like this.. i wouldn't be so bothered but it would be my first proper meet through a swinging site and i just keep getting let down!

any advice appreciated!

I would think the first thing to do would be to put some pics on your profile - as a single guy its very important

Totally agree.. We wont even reply to people without pics on profile x"

meneither , and thats cuz there are plenty of genuine guys with pics for us all to play with :0)

so anyone with out pics, stop moaning and get some on , u will see a difference in replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry, i know there are 100's of threads like this.. i wouldn't be so bothered but it would be my first proper meet through a swinging site and i just keep getting let down!

any advice appreciated!

I would think the first thing to do would be to put some pics on your profile - as a single guy its very important

Totally agree.. We wont even reply to people without pics on profile x

meneither , and thats cuz there are plenty of genuine guys with pics for us all to play with :0)

so anyone with out pics, stop moaning and get some on , u will see a difference in replies "

Ditto x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry, i know there are 100's of threads like this.. i wouldn't be so bothered but it would be my first proper meet through a swinging site and i just keep getting let down!

any advice appreciated!

I would think the first thing to do would be to put some pics on your profile - as a single guy its very important

Totally agree.. We wont even reply to people without pics on profile x"

He he - sent me his msm addy to look at his pics - no inclination to do so - I was just offering advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunatly its the nature of the beast when it comes to swinging.

It's a shame, in fact lets be brutally honest: it fucking annoys the bollocks off all us genuine couples, singles and groups alike... however I again reference my opening sentence.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

we're genuine - we always turn up when we say we will - sometimes 24 hours early!!! actually looking for a bit more fun tonight as still feeling very horny if any one in the north manchester area wants to get in touch xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at least u get a reply.we booked a hotel expecting 4 guys and not one showed or had the decency to call or apologise.........never again

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"at least u get a reply.we booked a hotel expecting 4 guys and not one showed or had the decency to call or apologise.........never again"

I wasn't one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"at least u get a reply.we booked a hotel expecting 4 guys and not one showed or had the decency to call or apologise.........never again"

i arranged a gang bang with a male friend, took us ages to do, he let me use his house and had hosted several before for women so helped me, we decided to invite 15 men knowing not all would turn up and expected about half to show, so went thro profiles, sent mail to them all, added them all to msn, went on cam with them all to show what i looked like, had 15 guys confirm they was going to come and on the day 2 turned up out of the other 13 only one sent a mail to say sorry he couldnt make it

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"at least u get a reply.we booked a hotel expecting 4 guys and not one showed or had the decency to call or apologise.........never again

i arranged a gang bang with a male friend, took us ages to do, he let me use his house and had hosted several before for women so helped me, we decided to invite 15 men knowing not all would turn up and expected about half to show, so went thro profiles, sent mail to them all, added them all to msn, went on cam with them all to show what i looked like, had 15 guys confirm they was going to come and on the day 2 turned up out of the other 13 only one sent a mail to say sorry he couldnt make it "

??? Alas, no invite?

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

You were particularly unlucky in only getting 2 out of 15 to turn up. Expecting half to fail to trap is probably much closer to the norm.

If I might say so I'm not convinced scouring profiles if the way to recruit cocks for a gangbang. You're chosing on the basis of what might, or might not, be accurate profile info and even verifications ain't really worth the cyberspace they take up.

The best way to go about it is by word of mouth. Start with guys you've actually met and played with and move onto their friends. Make it clear their reputation stands on the attendance and behaviour of those they recommend. That way you'll lift the attendance ratio up to 80-90%.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i arranged a meet with a single male who is verified as genuine by a meeting on monday for weds morning we went to the place where we were meeting waited 1 hr so went home no emails nothing looked on his profile last night (thurs) it states "looking for a meet on friday as im off work" looking for genuine people only why cant we have a name and shame board saves a lot of time it took me all my time to meet with a single male having had a bed exprience a while ago sadly all this has done has put me off single males again no offence to the genuine males out there

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By *antsanddorsetMan
over a year ago

southampton


"i arranged a meet with a single male who is verified as genuine by a meeting on monday for weds morning we went to the place where we were meeting waited 1 hr so went home no emails nothing looked on his profile last night (thurs) it states "looking for a meet on friday as im off work" looking for genuine people only why cant we have a name and shame board saves a lot of time it took me all my time to meet with a single male having had a bed exprience a while ago sadly all this has done has put me off single males again no offence to the genuine males out there "

is the timewaster situation getting worse on here ?

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

Probably, but you can put most of that down to the increase in membership.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i meant it is obvious because i was on the phone to them and i was the one who arranged the accomodation etc.

as far as the profile goes i prefer to keep it confidential - if people would like to talk then i am happy to send a pic, but i wouldnt want my face knocking around on here as it wouldn't go down well at work (i work as a consultant so i can move about lancashire from client to client so it isn't impossible for someone to recognise me - and it isn't work risking my job for is it?)

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

I can genuinely appreciate the frustration of people upset by timewasters, and it is infuriating(think I spelt that right lol)

I'm a single male and when it comes to convincing people I'm genuine I end up giving them that much information they could nick my ID lol.

but it's due to the few arseholes and wanna be's that this occurs, but I'm never put off and use a club to build up a circle of friends singles or couples and become known.

it's working like and I've built up a nice circle as well as a few regular couples.

so please I know it's annoying but don't be put off by the timewastin arseholes.

Steve xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always turn up been know to go miles out my way to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i meant it is obvious because i was on the phone to them and i was the one who arranged the accomodation etc.

as far as the profile goes i prefer to keep it confidential - if people would like to talk then i am happy to send a pic, but i wouldnt want my face knocking around on here as it wouldn't go down well at work (i work as a consultant so i can move about lancashire from client to client so it isn't impossible for someone to recognise me - and it isn't work risking my job for is it?)"

thats cool and yr choice,just remember most wont bother to reply or even contact u cuz u choose to show pics,

So i'l look forward to reading a post off u in a month or so asking why u cant get meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yet another no show tonight....thats it were done with this site.we,ll leave the dreamers to it

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