FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why,ok new to this maybe !!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Because some like messing others about sadly ie men pretending to be women/couples.

I'd say a time waster is someome who arranges to meet,then doesn'show up or let you know though.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

It happens to most people so don't beat yourself up.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Last minute change of heart, plans change, nerves….

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

As with every one of these threads it depends on your definition of a timewaster.

My definition is someone who gets in touch with be while they obviously haven't read my profile or taken heed of my preferences.

They are just wasting their own time and not mine.

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Timewasters? I believe they're lonely guys who nobody wants to fuck/be with. So out of sheer spite they try and stop others meeting too. Absolute pond life.

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By *ilthyParamedicMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

It can come in different forms...

I've personally had someone talk for a while, and then we arranged a meeting after I had moved work shifts around to accommodate them, and then on the morning of the meeting, they asked if I was still coming. I replied and then drove the 45 mins to the agreed location, only for them to be a no-show with no communication since.

To me, that's the actual definition.

When speaking with couples I've played with, they note that they have similar episodes. It seems to be the guys that do this. Maybe a lot want the 'fantasy' of the lifestyle, and then when it comes down to it, they haven't got the balls.

Either way, time wasters are a pain of the scene, which I don't think will ever go away, unfortunately. However, that's what I like about the verification /review section of FAB.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Loads here. Use the block button.

Most are fake profiles or just have a screw loose.

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

We get them all the time, couple of messages later... nothing

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By *it4uMan
over a year ago

Brighton / Eastbourne / SW France

We’ve all had no shows, some more than others like me..

I guess they bottle it

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"We’ve all had no shows, some more than others like me..

I guess they bottle it

We haven't all had no shows.

I've never had one in six years and from all the previous threads on this subject I'm far from unique as lots of people have said they have never had a no show in all their time here.

I don't put that down to luck.

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By *sianTravellerMan
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Too many no shows

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Too many no shows "

Look inwards…

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I've had quite a few recently, 2 no shows for meets, after having had socials and agreed to activities.

And one no show for a social.

So it happens to a lot of us!

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By *ighHeels82Couple
over a year ago

Thurrock, Essex

We have come to accept almost every guy can flake at the last minute.

L had a social meet with one afternoon with a guy, they got intimate in his car, he was invited round the next morning.

He even called during the evening to confirm it was ok to be at ours for 10am.

She got bathed and dressed up, and waited, and waited. Messaged him and nothing until an hour later “sorry can’t make it this morning, can we rearrange for this afternoon?” No time was given but he never contacted again.

That’s just one example of guys ruining it for the genuine ones as it really put her off for a while. She thought it was her fault cos he didn’t like her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always going to be a risk using an online platform. Clubs are a better option.

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By *randMrsJones500Couple
over a year ago

london

"Always going to be a risk using an online platform. Clubs are a better option. "

a case in point. had arranged a meet with a guy last night. good communication for a few days. including whatsapp group but nothing from yesterday morning. we’re off to kestrels on sunday now. that’s why alot of couples go to clubs. very frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one recently where I drive about 20 miles for a meet and then no one came outside. Then got messages from the male saying the Mrs wont meet unless he sucks me off to completion first

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I had one recently where I drive about 20 miles for a meet and then no one came outside. Then got messages from the male saying the Mrs wont meet unless he sucks me off to completion first

This is very common, there's an incredible amount of fake couples profiles. There's also a lot of real couples profiles that are very Male driven. Some will arrange to meet but the Wife doesn't even know. We actually met a couple for a social and the Wife didn't even know they'd messaged us.

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By *eamed stocking fanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes it happens from time to time but just keep at it the cream of the top people usually rises yo the top instead of the time waisters

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By *eniseStockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Salisbury

Naomilatte is so right. I've started blocking from today, suspicious couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find it with ghosting sometimes. Send a message, great conversation and then suddenly... nothing.

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Thankfully we have had the ones who backed out days before instead of being no shows. There are loads of talkers on here who just want the trill of the chase or just want to get their rocks off alone. Don’t be put off by them just keep a positive mind and carry on.

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By *eamed stocking fanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Yeah it tough especially being single at the moment you tend to get a lot of time waisters. I personally have never got the time waister ideas at all.

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