FabSwingers.com forum: Guys who dislike giving anal sex?

By *inag101 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Galway

Are there any guys that dislike giving anal sex? Or is that a myth?

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By *cotCouple666Couple
over a year ago

Central Belt

Mr doesn't like it. And that's absolutely fine by me.

Beth x

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

One of my best mates says he has no desire to do it and doesn’t understand why anyone would want to do it but he’s the only person I’ve ever known who doesn’t like it.

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

I know a few guys who dont like it , which i have no problem with, as it doesn’t do much for me either

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

Not a fan, too tight and always awkward for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I don't mind, too much preparation and messing about for me personally

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By *rikki1967ukMan
over a year ago

peterborough

Tried it once not in any hurry to repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal is a massive turn off for me. Turns my stomach.

Each to their own and all that, but even suggesting it to me will result in things being brought to a swift end.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

"Anal is a massive turn off for me. Turns my stomach.

Each to their own and all that, but even suggesting it to me will result in things being brought to a swift end."

I have a few male friends that are same and find the concept of anal play abhorrent as it’s a waste exit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there any guys that dislike giving anal sex? Or is that a myth?

With a lot of lube it can be very nice (as long as the recipient really enjoys it, rather than feels they ought to 'agree')

However, for me vaginal sex is much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried, slightly curious but not a deal breaker.

If a woman really wanted it I’d suit up and give it a shot………..

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

Not really into it my self.

Certainly don't receive but happy to give.

Doesn't really float my boat to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really not fussed about it because women have what I find a much more exciting place a few centimetres above.

Having said that I was one cock in a very enjoyable DP session once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal sex is pretty decent, but just doesn’t feel the same as Vaginal sex imo

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Wouldn't say I disliked it but think it's a bit overrated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s more the thought than the feeling for most men who enjoy it

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I don't like but have done

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By *pecial Offer!Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I was greeted with a look of disgust from one male friend when I was telling him of a previous partner and her liking of anal.

He just couldn’t understand why any (straight male) would wish to probe a females ‘Poop-shute’ - cleaning a shit smeared dick after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s more the thought than the feeling for most men who enjoy it "

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By *pecial Offer!Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Only 1 or 2 inches of tightness (from her sphincter) - then you begin pushing her ‘brown-stuff’ about (if she was unprepared and didn’t try and ‘squeeze one out’).

Whereas as pussy will be less tightness - but at least there’s the sensation all around the cock when thrusting in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really felt the need or appeal. Tried it once and it was a bit meh, and more trouble than it's worth

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

I have 2 mates who aren't into it in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really depends on the person now doesn't it.

Crazy concept.

Do I want to launch myself at every arse I see, thankfully not. Fetching everyday staples from the supermarket is trifling enough.

I should really go to a office supplies store instead.

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By *iggy5Man
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Done it a couple of times and will of course do it again if requested, but afterward, I felt that it was overrated somewhat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried it but it was a shit shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally have a split opinion of it.

If the mood and vibe is right and really fucking horny then yeah definitely .but like Think of it as a treat

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By *lkShaftMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Wow I have never heard a guy say they don't like Anal, so to read the few replies so far is quite surprising.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

"Wow I have never heard a guy say they don't like Anal, so to read the few replies so far is quite surprising."

This, like it myself.

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

Its not a natural act and as (s)cat play revolts me, I can understand why many may not like anything to do with back door related activity such as anal or rimming etc.

However, I do like it (giving) to my lady only. Its a private area of our partnership though I am happy to let other men play and enter her.

The porn industry is however totally besotted with anal and its everywhere to the point you see so much, you begin to think its a norm as opposed a deviant act (arguably)

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Most men I've encountered have been into anal.

But then, I have a fabulous ass and crap tits, so the people who are attracted to me in the first place tend to be arse people. And that sample may be more open to the idea of anal sex than the people more drawn to good tits.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Most men I've encountered have been into anal.

Boobies look just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes me

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Wish I could have tried it but mrs said no 24 yrs ago and I dare not ask again….

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Most men I've encountered have been into anal.

Boobies look just fine

They're fine, but they don't compare to the arse so.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"Most men I've encountered have been into anal.

Boobies look just fine

They're fine, but they don't compare to the arse so."

More boob pic needed but look great… also loving those lips…

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By *pandjMan
over a year ago

Sparkford

Prefer vaginal sex by far especially if the anal is a "it's my first time" and a bit awkward for all involved. If the lady loves it a lot then can be good fun as her enjoyment turns me on.

My vanilla mates and brother who haven't tried it are dying too and pester their other halves. They're not missing much tbh.

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By *reston2TwoCouple
over a year ago

Preston

I've dated a few women who really enjoyed it and never wishing to disappoint I always obliged.

I've used it before in BDSM settings where it's a power play, but much prefer pussy

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Not feeling the arousal for giving it, though I guess I'd give it a try if it was a woman asking. Difficult enough to manage with vaginal penetration (it's a trans body dysphoria thing, I try to do the best with the equipment I possess, but the more aware I become of what's happening "down there" the less likely it is to keep working

Only been on the receiving end a couple of times and found it deeply unsatisfying. I just about start feeling that it could get good, then it's all over with, he's cum and gone. Maybe men try harder with women, or even with other men, but my experience is that with trans they don't worry much about if it's any good for me.

I know that I'm untypical for fab, but for me the most pleasure these days comes from oral.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Never been high on my list of likes. Or on it at all, really. Tried it but no ta.

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Can’t say I dislike it, but I don’t particularly enjoy giving it… Mrs R enjoys it though, so of course I oblige

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Wasn't really into it until I felt somone orgasm while I was deep inside them. The muscles spasming and moaning,squeezing your cock and clenching around you. I feels like they're pulling you deeper and pushing you out at the same time. So different from any vaginal orgasm that it's difficult to really compare.

But it's only pleasurable when your partner really enjoys it

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

"Wow I have never heard a guy say they don't like Anal, so to read the few replies so far is quite surprising."

I’m with you. It’s brilliant if done right.

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By *it4uMan
over a year ago

Brighton / Eastbourne / SW France

Narr there’s many more better positions up the list from anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can live without it quite easily.

She seems pleased about that too.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

I wanna try just to get out of system….. much prefer going down on a hot pussy though….

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By *oJo pornstarMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Am an arse man and love anal.

When I was with my ex I was surprised at the amount of guys we meet who didn't like anal, she had a near perfect arse and some guys still said no to fucking it.

One guy told me about "the poop" thing that put him off anal and I told him that she always deeply douches, he looked at me with an eeeeww look of disgust on his face, there's no pleasing some people

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

Doesn't do much for me but if needed

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By *lkShaftMan
over a year ago

Walsall

"Am an arse man and love anal.

When I was with my ex I was surprised at the amount of guys we meet who didn't like anal, she had a near perfect arse and some guys still said no to fucking it.

One guy told me about "the poop" thing that put him off anal and I told him that she always deeply douches, he looked at me with an eeeeww look of disgust on his face, there's no pleasing some people "

Find it hard to believe

each to there own

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Good set of pussy lips around your cock as got to be better than a arse shortly?

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By *pecial Offer!Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I suppose it’s just the thought of doing something that’s so bloody WRONG that ignites my interest.

I find gliding into her exit hole face-to-face where you can see her pussy a real turn-on.

I’ve fucked her (long-time partner) rectum whilst using a vibrator on her pussy to ensure she receives some pleasure, cuz I was unsure if a bout of anal was stimulating her (she informed me she preferred a more conventional pounding anyway), & there’s no way I’d take it that way (or ANY way).

But I think I’ve said before: everyone will have a different opinion.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

I enjoy it, and love women who enjoy receiving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried it, but I don't think it's for me

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea

Dont like giving anal......what the hells wrong with you

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We enjoy it, but understand it isn't for everyone...however

We don't get why cleanliness comes into it, of course it should be clean, the same goes for vaginal sex, quite alot of different and yucky things come out of there as well

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"Dont like giving anal......what the hells wrong with you

Nothing.

I don’t like doing it. It’s called choice.

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We enjoy it, but understand it isn't for everyone...however

We don't get why cleanliness comes into it, of course it should be clean, the same goes for vaginal sex, quite alot of different and yucky things come out of there as well

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Good set of pussy lips around your cock as got to be better than a arse shortly?"

Not always mate! Sometimes the backdoor feels better than the front, sometimes it’s like having two pussies to fuck, and sometimes it’s really handy when Mother Nature calls….

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By *pecial Offer!Man
3 weeks ago

Bedford

"We enjoy it, but understand it isn't for everyone...however

We don't get why cleanliness comes into it, of course it should be clean, the same goes for vaginal sex, quite alot of different and yucky things come out of there as well

Maybe it should be noted that when anythings been in an anal cavity it should be CLEANED before it’s inserted in her pussy (a previous girlfriend was a stickler for that).

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By *eo BillsMan
3 weeks ago

Westcliff On Sea

I love doing it! But it has to be done right… cleaning out first of all and then plenty of lubricants!!! How can you not like that?

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By *eyeYCouple
3 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Not here.. Either way 😈

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By *ast Lothian couple 888Couple
3 weeks ago

east lothian

We both love it but I mr works with a guy that hates the thought of giving anal sex and even believes that if a man wants to do anal then he must be bi because anal is to close to gay sex 🤦‍♂️😂

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By *ustAnotherMan
3 weeks ago

Mids

Nope, never liked it. After a horror moment (yep, that) put me off for life.

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By *vonne5exMan
3 weeks ago

Doncaster

"Not a fan, too tight and always awkward for me."
OK Mr Holmes lol

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By *vonne5exMan
3 weeks ago

Doncaster

"We enjoy it, but understand it isn't for everyone...however

We don't get why cleanliness comes into it, of course it should be clean, the same goes for vaginal sex, quite alot of different and yucky things come out of there as well

Maybe it should be noted that when anythings been in an anal cavity it should be CLEANED before it’s inserted in her pussy (a previous girlfriend was a stickler for that)."
ATM does the trick

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By *ieutenantMan
3 weeks ago

london

What a looser.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
3 weeks ago

Norwichish

Think it’s really simple from a guys point of view. If the lady likes it then why wouldn’t you unless you really have an aversion to it.

I’ve said many times that M was quite open with me from the start that she liked it. Think her words were “the back door is always open”.

I was a bit taken aback and it was a while before we actually did it. Since then we have done it more than a few times and she does really enjoy it and it does bring some amazing and different orgasms for her.

That said if she hadn’t have told me I would never have asked for it.

But then the same goes for our D/s relationship

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By *orbotMan
3 weeks ago

Redditch

Never done it so wouldn't know!

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By *uzzieboyMan
3 weeks ago

taunton

It’s like the forbidden fruit can take it or leave it, but personally it’s up to the woman

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By *arneyBedfordMan
3 weeks ago

Hitchin

Only tried it once, about 4 yrs ago.i mentioned to my then partner that I would like to try, she agreed.

It was clearly painful for her, which didn't help me, and whilst watching my dick sliding in and out, it quickly became covered in poo!

Never again! No thanks.

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By *kbloke_11Man
3 weeks ago

Hockley

I absolutely love it

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By *orny salesmanMan
3 weeks ago

Preston

It's not for me

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By *ubikslongswordMan
3 weeks ago

Rubiksville

Never done it so can't say if I like it or not

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By *ad guy 77Man
3 weeks ago

ashford

I love it ,I've been with couples that don't like it tho,

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By *erdyEstLdner 82Man
3 weeks ago

Ilford

I really don't like the idea of it, only because poo comes out of there. I killed the mood with a woman I was with once, during sex she suggested I put it up her bum I involuntarily shouted "eww no!"

Killed all play and ended the night with blue balls.

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By *ast Lothian couple 888Couple
3 weeks ago

east lothian

"Only tried it once, about 4 yrs ago.i mentioned to my then partner that I would like to try, she agreed.

It was clearly painful for her, which didn't help me, and whilst watching my dick sliding in and out, it quickly became covered in poo!

Never again! No thanks."
that’s because you done it wrong anal takes a lot of prep . If we plan to do anal Mrs will have breakfast that day but that’s it she makes sure to empty her bowels and about 30 minutes before she has a shower and a good internal clean . Then during play we use plenty of good lube and anal play with but plugs fingers and my tongue before she’s ready for full penetration

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By *teamynSteCouple
3 weeks ago

Hull

We both love it and I've never come out with 💩 on it. It takes care and trust but feels amazing for both

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By *he Gentleman.Man
3 weeks ago

Sitlington

Never tried it. Don't fancy it. Don't even like watching it.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Not for me. Not quite sure why. Just doesn’t appeal

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Reigate

I had an ex who absolutely loved anal, with her I really enjoyed it, unless she’s really into it like that, I’m not really bothered by it and it’s never been as good.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
3 weeks ago

Manchester

"Are there any guys that dislike giving anal sex? Or is that a myth?

Not just guys. Many people dislike it. For a whole range of reasons.

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By *rLicksMan
3 weeks ago

Worcester

Enjoy it but probably more for the hints of taboo (although these days it seems not at all) but the preparations and general “arsing” about (like what I did there?

) take the shine off it a bit.

If I never experienced it again in my life would I be particularly bothered or feel I’ve missed out…. Nope not at all

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By *pgroupsexMan
3 weeks ago

Kingston

As a lover and connoisseur of V+A DP (and TP airtight), I have to admit to being somewhat of a fan.

Outside of multiple partner things, I don't mind either way. I've certainly met girls that loved it, as well as those that wouldn't entertain it. I'm also quite girthy, so that takes it off the menu with some for sure.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Never done it and not prepared to try it.

Mrs isn't into it either.

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By *pecial Offer!Man
2 weeks ago

Bedford

"I love doing it! But it has to be done right… cleaning out first of all and then plenty of lubricants!!! How can you not like that?

I used to fuck an experienced female anally with no lubricant (‘done’ her bum about 50 times of so, & her pussy only 3 times she was so into ana)!

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By *hank you sirMan
2 weeks ago

colchester

So I've found this recently. My wife's sister, who is particularly close to us, was complaining about her frustration the other day as her fiance refuses to try anal.

According to him it's "wrong" and I was shocked, especially seeing as she has an amazing ass

I was tempted to offer my assistance but thought that would just get me slapped 😂

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By *pecial Offer!Man
1 week ago

Bedford

"So I've found this recently. My wife's sister, who is particularly close to us, was complaining about her frustration the other day as her fiance refuses to

I was tempted to offer my assistance but thought that would just get me slapped 😂"

Well, please inform her that I’m available?

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By *ickertasticalMan
1 week ago

local - ish

I don’t enjoy it as it’s normally too tight

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
1 week ago

Port Talbot

We found the actual sex a bit of a let down, but when thinking about it, it was a huge turn on.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
1 week ago

cahoots

Personally not a fan

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By *orset_cpl123Couple
1 week ago

Beaminster(ish)

Quite like a bit of anal, giving or receiving. Mrs loves it too!

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