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By *ornyaf400 OP   Man
over a year ago

EL

How do you know if your ready to share your partner with another person what if you feel like you want to but regret it after?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"How do you know if your ready to share your partner with another person what if you feel like you want to but regret it after?"

You discuss it a great lengths with your partner so it's something that you are both comfortable with and if still not feeling it don't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a simple first question, does the idea turn you both on?

After that it's a little like getting a tattoo.

You can either jump right in and maybe regret it further down the line or wait a while and see if it's still as big of a turn on as when you originally discussed the idea.

If the answer is yes to the second then chances are you will fit into the lifestyle without a problem.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"How do you know if your ready to share your partner with another person what if you feel like you want to but regret it after?"

The fact that you are asking is probably a good reason to not do it.

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By *ornyaf400 OP   Man
over a year ago

EL

Thank you for your opinion I don't really feel I would be to fussed about it if it wasn't for me.. the thought of giving it a try is never far from mind tho ??

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By *atgirlknobinCouple
over a year ago

ish

Does she want to ? If so and your going to use this site then youll have to come clean that your on here while been with her ,

Think how you feel is tge least of your worries if thats the case x

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"How do you know if your ready to share your partner with another person what if you feel like you want to but regret it after?"

Wait until you've got a partner to worry about that

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By *orthernJayMan
over a year ago

LHR


"It's a simple first question, does the idea turn you both on?

After that it's a little like getting a tattoo.

You can either jump right in and maybe regret it further down the line or wait a while and see if it's still as big of a turn on as when you originally discussed the idea.

If the answer is yes to the second then chances are you will fit into the lifestyle without a problem."

That’s a great answer for the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for your opinion I don't really feel I would be to fussed about it if it wasn't for me.. the thought of giving it a try is never far from mind tho ??"

Do you have a partner who wants to swing?

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By *ornyaf400 OP   Man
over a year ago

EL

It has come up a few times n we are both curious me more so .. but I think they are making out there less curious than they are cause there not 100% sure about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrong thred lmao ill grab My coat

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East

You’ve both got to be up for it and both own it, if it goes wrong. Recipe for disaster if only one partner wants it or pushes too hard.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Discuss it, discuss boundaries etc

If it's something you both want to try give it a go, the one thing I'll say is you need good communication, honesty and you can't unsee what you see so if there's any doubts or you can't be open and honest then don't do it.

Mrs

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By *ornyaf400 OP   Man
over a year ago

EL

Yeah I guess so I mean the thought of it turns me on and sounds all great but will need to a good think about it maybe try get her to come to after dark one night to check out the atmosphere and realise it's not crazy lol

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