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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am i being ambitious looking for a younger lady's than myself? Is it shallow to want to experience physically fit body that age often (not always) offers?

I don't intend to cause offense, just genuinely interested.

I'm hoping my crisis of confidence is short lived and that there are women out there who like the silver fox look!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Am i being ambitious looking for a younger lady's than myself? Is it shallow to want to experience physically fit body that age often (not always) offers?

I don't intend to cause offense, just genuinely interested.

I'm hoping my crisis of confidence is short lived and that there are women out there who like the silver fox look!"

OP.. everyone is entitled to have their own preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can look for whatever you like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sadly there's a lot of kink shaming i fear!

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Am i being ambitious looking for a younger lady's than myself? Is it shallow to want to experience physically fit body that age often (not always) offers?

I don't intend to cause offense, just genuinely interested.

I'm hoping my crisis of confidence is short lived and that there are women out there who like the silver fox look!"

A lot do, you’re just maybe not their cup of tea.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Am i being ambitious looking for a younger lady's than myself? Is it shallow to want to experience physically fit body that age often (not always) offers?

I don't intend to cause offense, just genuinely interested.

I'm hoping my crisis of confidence is short lived and that there are women out there who like the silver fox look!

OP.. everyone is entitled to have their own preferences "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly there's a lot of kink shaming i fear!"

Is there ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" A lot do, you’re just maybe not their cup of tea."

If we all liked tea, we'd all be very boring! (White and one though please!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sadly there's a lot of kink shaming i fear!

Is there ?

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On occasion. People can be very judgemental. But c'est la vie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If all those involved minds enjoy each other company, then enjoy each other bodys if you find them attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If all those involved minds enjoy each other company, then enjoy each other bodys if you find them attractive

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Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never heard of any shaming for it. If anything I've been shamed for the opposite of liking older men, but that's mostly by jealous younger guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never heard of any shaming for it. If anything I've been shamed for the opposite of liking older men, but that's mostly by jealous younger guys "

'Dirty Old Man' etc etc

Would never have thought of you being shamed for liking it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never heard of any shaming for it. If anything I've been shamed for the opposite of liking older men, but that's mostly by jealous younger guys "

We have had this a few times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

More fool them!

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We go the other way preferably older women and couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More fool them!"

It's a case of

"Well I guess they didn't want a meet then"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope, not at all OP.. you do whatever works for you.

im the opposite.. i only play with older people Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love an older lady, just have a thing for milfs and cougars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C. willing

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

?


"Id love an older lady, just have a thing for milfs and cougars"

I have friends on here who are younger than myself , but im not a Label im not a milf or a cougar, im me a human being

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By *indMasterUKMan
over a year ago

All over England


"I've never heard of any shaming for it. If anything I've been shamed for the opposite of liking older men, but that's mostly by jealous younger guys

'Dirty Old Man' etc etc

Would never have thought of you being shamed for liking it!"

I like playing the role of 'a dirty old man'... one of my favourite younger (by 18 years) playmates adores it. Each to their own and let no one judge you

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

probably ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think any attention from a younger lady would be widely accepted and appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am i being ambitious looking for a younger lady's than myself? Is it shallow to want to experience physically fit body that age often (not always) offers?

I don't intend to cause offense, just genuinely interested.

I'm hoping my crisis of confidence is short lived and that there are women out there who like the silver fox look!"

Not necessarily shallow as we all of course have our own preferences. Will you be advertising yourself as the picture you have up though OP? Or using one of yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am i being ambitious looking for a younger lady's than myself? Is it shallow to want to experience physically fit body that age often (not always) offers?

I don't intend to cause offense, just genuinely interested.

I'm hoping my crisis of confidence is short lived and that there are women out there who like the silver fox look!

Not necessarily shallow as we all of course have our own preferences. Will you be advertising yourself as the picture you have up though OP? Or using one of yourself "

Not one of the photographer George Platt Lynes photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone will have their own likes and preferences. As long as those involved are happy then that’s all matters. I prefer older as a preference like 40+ but as long as there’s an attraction and connection age is but a number.

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By *e13guyMan
over a year ago

Lewisham

Personally I prefer a woman with experience and is comfortable in her own skin. Younger girls to me seem like they are more submissive to the older guy. I prefer a woman that just likes to take whatever sex turns her on and makes sure she gets at least an equal amount in what she seeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think the OP needs to change his profile photo though

Tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do think the OP needs to change his profile photo though

Tut tut"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s ambitious. Plenty younger fish in the sea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I prefer a woman with experience and is comfortable in her own skin. Younger girls to me seem like they are more submissive to the older guy. I prefer a woman that just likes to take whatever sex turns her on and makes sure she gets at least an equal amount in what she seeks."

Good to know what you like, thank you for sharing

However this isn't answering the OPs question. This is just someone voicing their opinion on younger womens dynamic with older men and your personal preference for older women.

You should check out the Fetish Life website, your find plenty of spectrum in personality traits, regardless of a womens age, just as on here and out in the real world.

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Everyone will have their own likes and preferences. As long as those involved are happy then that’s all matters. I prefer older as a preference like 40+ but as long as there’s an attraction and connection age is but a number. "

Lordy, I bet your inbox has taken a hammering since you replied here!

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Am i being ambitious looking for a younger lady's than myself? Is it shallow to want to experience physically fit body that age often (not always) offers?

I don't intend to cause offense, just genuinely interested.

I'm hoping my crisis of confidence is short lived and that there are women out there who like the silver fox look!

Not necessarily shallow as we all of course have our own preferences. Will you be advertising yourself as the picture you have up though OP? Or using one of yourself "
This is why I like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These days for me younger isn’t just an option, it’s practically my only choice so I’m cool about it!

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes Departure Lounge

All the women on fab are younger than me.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I like older and Paul likes younger so it works perfectly.

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

Who cares? We don’t. We’ve had a 19 year old lady and a 22 year old guy. We’ve also had a 84 year old guy and a 73 year old lady. Age has nothing to do with having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP Blocking me, all I did was point out that your profile photo isn't you, infact its a photo taken by George Platt Lynes about 70 years ago I think. The book is available from Waterstones and other various bookshops.

George Platt Lynes: The Male Nudes (Hardback)

Allen Ellenzweig

All photos Copyright ©?

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

I’ve found from experience there are a lot of younger women that are attracted to older men, so no shame about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP Blocking me, "

I haven't blocked you at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP Blocking me,

I haven't blocked you at all.

"

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Your profile photo should be changed to one that is actually you and not one that is copyrighted, not a photo of you and taken about 70 years ago by a known photographer

Do you not think I'm right? It's a little misleading as it's not actually you in the photo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP Blocking me,

I haven't blocked you at all.

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Your profile photo should be changed to one that is actually you and not one that is copyrighted, not a photo of you and taken about 70 years ago by a known photographer

Do you not think I'm right? It's a little misleading as it's not actually you in the photo.

"

I agree! And will be changed. I have no problem with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's all I was getting at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can look for what you want, but you won't be everyone's cup of tea either.

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest


"OP Blocking me,

I haven't blocked you at all.

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Your profile photo should be changed to one that is actually you and not one that is copyrighted, not a photo of you and taken about 70 years ago by a known photographer

Do you not think I'm right? It's a little misleading as it's not actually you in the photo.

"

Love this, made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can look for what you want, but you won't be everyone's cup of tea either."

100% agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *r HopefulMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

What goes on between two consenting adults is neither the concern or business of anyone else in my opinion, regardless of age

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish

I have consulted the fab rules and regs....there is nothing to stop people of different generations having fun together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it both ways and have met with older and younger ladies. Your kink is your kink and you are allowed, as others have said, to have your own preferences.

It doesn’t matter what others think.

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Older tend to be more reliable and more experiences which means more fun x

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By *abduo2021Couple
over a year ago

bedford

i think people should go for whatever they desire aslong as legal then no harm is done x

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

100% Upto you and Mrs4 prefers the slightly younger male and a tale as old as time ! some males prefer the older female and the older male prefers the younger female ...aslong as everyone's happy ?? who cares..xxx

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