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By *aughty power couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cotswolds

As a couple we've enjoyed soft swap and the voyeurism aspect at clubs.

We often talk to each other about our fantasies and taking things further with others, when we are in the heat of the moment this is a huge turn on for us but in reality we wonder how we would feel after?

Do others find a kind of 'kill switch' kicks in after the naughtiness has been had?...

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By *heothercouple1000Couple
over a year ago

Coventry


"As a couple we've enjoyed soft swap and the voyeurism aspect at clubs.

We often talk to each other about our fantasies and taking things further with others, when we are in the heat of the moment this is a huge turn on for us but in reality we wonder how we would feel after?

Do others find a kind of 'kill switch' kicks in after the naughtiness has been had?...

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Yes, most definitely. Afterwards, it's like "what were we thinking" and you think, oh yuk. Hot whilst within the moment but definitely cold after the event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all depends, it could be the hottest thing that has ever happened to you and you can’t wait to rip each others clothes off after which is what most are like.

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By *aughty power couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cotswolds

"Yes, most definitely. Afterwards, it's like "what were we thinking" and you think, oh yuk. Hot whilst within the moment but definitely cold after the event."

Thanks for sharing. Does it hold you back from exploring more?

I guess the key is to find the right people to include

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By *aughty power couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cotswolds


"It’s all depends, it could be the hottest thing that has ever happened to you and you can’t wait to rip each others clothes off after which is what most are like."

Yes that's what we are hoping for!

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By *ayzDreamingMan
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

Maybe the best way would be to social with others first, obviously the couples/single guys and girls are on Fabs for fun. Maybe if you had a social and discussed it, you could see if either of you fancy watching the other with someone? Or of course the both of you enjoying others at the same time. Usually a social can set the mood and inhibitions would melt away leading to the most fun times that you would want to repeat

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We’ve never really had this. We get the euphoria followed by the post-high dip the next morning, but we’ve never found play anything other than exhilarating before, during and after.

Everyone is different though, and communication is always key

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"As a couple we've enjoyed soft swap and the voyeurism aspect at clubs.

We often talk to each other about our fantasies and taking things further with others, when we are in the heat of the moment this is a huge turn on for us but in reality we wonder how we would feel after?

Do others find a kind of 'kill switch' kicks in after the naughtiness has been had?...

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Not for us, once we had gone further sex was a lot hotter and we couldn't wait until the next time it happened. Still get the same feeling after full swaps even now.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think “kill switch” is probably a bit strong for me but I do know what you mean OP. For me I think it is sometimes coming off the post meet high and I, very occasionally, feel a bit down after. I know it is just hormonal because it resets after a day or two and I am good to go again!

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford


"As a couple we've enjoyed soft swap and the voyeurism aspect at clubs.

We often talk to each other about our fantasies and taking things further with others, when we are in the heat of the moment this is a huge turn on for us but in reality we wonder how we would feel after?

Do others find a kind of 'kill switch' kicks in after the naughtiness has been had?...

Not for us, once we had gone further sex was a lot hotter and we couldn't wait until the next time it happened. Still get the same feeling after full swaps even now. "

This for us too.

If anything, it makes us hornier and hungrier for more

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