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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As I have been browsing and talking to other females I have realised there is a few people on here that cheat without their partner knowing. Is it just me that makes me question that or others too ? Do they do it because it’s a turn on for them ? Or they know they won’t get found out on here I’m not really sure

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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago

Welwyn

Different people have different reasons for "cheating"

If it's not your thing, look for those that believe in ENM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the short time we have been on here we have decided that not knowing is best... saves on the moral conversation at the meet and we don't want to really go beyond manners and a good time.

But... we know we are in the minority thinking like this x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I only ever question it if people ask for opinions on it. Otherwise I've been around long enough to know that people have cheated for ever and there's not a darn thing I can do about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the short time we have been on here we have decided that not knowing is best... saves on the moral conversation at the meet and we don't want to really go beyond manners and a good time.

But... we know we are in the minority thinking like this x"

Yeah that is probably a good way of going about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I only ever question it if people ask for opinions on it. Otherwise I've been around long enough to know that people have cheated for ever and there's not a darn thing I can do about it"

I have been asked or sent pics whilst with the other half

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Different people have different reasons for "cheating"

If it's not your thing, look for those that believe in ENM"

Yeah I have heard of that

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

What you do, who you meet is nobody's business.

Do what you have to

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Everyone tried person on here is a cheat. Open secret

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Everyone tried person on here is a cheat. Open secret "

Wow, never cheated in my life so far and intend on keeping it that way it's a gentleman kinda thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every one we met ie blokes as i am a cuck, all were cheats and they often admitted it before seeing us or online as I shortlisted.

It's acutally better to meet up with a cheat as they are less likely to natter about it

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Curious if any partners have secretly signed up as singles and then found each other's profiles!

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By *haz46Woman
over a year ago

Stockport

plenty on here cheat, but a lot dont admit it

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"plenty on here cheat, but a lot dont admit it"

Best being up front about it. If people have an issue with it then it allows them to make the right decision for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i look after me and us what others do is not for me to judge

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford


"As I have been browsing and talking to other females I have realised there is a few people on here that cheat without their partner knowing. Is it just me that makes me question that or others too ? Do they do it because it’s a turn on for them ? Or they know they won’t get found out on here I’m not really sure "

Plenty on here and other sites cheat sadly and always will however much they say they’ll change. Even those caught rarely take responsibility for the pain they cause as long as they get what they want.

Everyone has their reasons, however whilst it’s a turn on for some there are plenty more who are heartbroken from the deceit and lies. That’s the part that hurts the most as well as the potential unnecessary health risks.

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

We don’t cheat . We literally cheat in front of each other when we meet others. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in a fully consensual ENM relationship with my wife - if was her idea even! - and state that clear as day on my bio, but as a guy I’ve been suspected of being a cheat because apparently that’s a thing that happens a lot on here.

It sucks. It’s not like women don’t cheat, but I guess most guys just don’t care?!

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"As I have been browsing and talking to other females I have realised there is a few people on here that cheat without their partner knowing. Is it just me that makes me question that or others too ? Do they do it because it’s a turn on for them ? Or they know they won’t get found out on here I’m not really sure "

It's none of my concern what others do, as long as I'm nit involved, ppl are free to do what ever sits right with their own conscience...they never get away with it, as they know, even if others don't find out

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

I play with my wife's permission but without her "knowledge". Due to her health reasons we no longer have sex. She knows I still desire it. Neither of us wants to split up and so don't want me having an affair as that may cause emotional issues and damage our marriage. So she lets me have nsa meets, which fulfil my needs and avoid the emotional risk of an affair. She prefers not to know what I do as in her mind, not knowing keeps our marriage intact. So does that make me a cheat? In some eyes it does as I've been refused meets because I'm married and they can't ask my wife for her consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I play with my wife's permission but without her "knowledge". Due to her health reasons we no longer have sex. She knows I still desire it. Neither of us wants to split up and so don't want me having an affair as that may cause emotional issues and damage our marriage. So she lets me have nsa meets, which fulfil my needs and avoid the emotional risk of an affair. She prefers not to know what I do as in her mind, not knowing keeps our marriage intact. So does that make me a cheat? In some eyes it does as I've been refused meets because I'm married and they can't ask my wife for her consent.

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In my opinion a cheat is someone who is dishonest in going about getting what they want, regardless to situation life, sex, work, games etc.

I wouldn't say you are a cheat at all.

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge


"I play with my wife's permission but without her "knowledge". Due to her health reasons we no longer have sex. She knows I still desire it. Neither of us wants to split up and so don't want me having an affair as that may cause emotional issues and damage our marriage. So she lets me have nsa meets, which fulfil my needs and avoid the emotional risk of an affair. She prefers not to know what I do as in her mind, not knowing keeps our marriage intact. So does that make me a cheat? In some eyes it does as I've been refused meets because I'm married and they can't ask my wife for her consent.

In my opinion a cheat is someone who is dishonest in going about getting what they want, regardless to situation life, sex, work, games etc.

I wouldn't say you are a cheat at all. "

Thank you. Your opinion and comments are very much appreciated xx

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"I’m in a fully consensual ENM relationship with my wife - if was her idea even! - and state that clear as day on my bio, but as a guy I’ve been suspected of being a cheat because apparently that’s a thing that happens a lot on here.

It sucks. It’s not like women don’t cheat, but I guess most guys just don’t care?!"

Nail on head ,some men find cheating women hot so won't care about the other guy at home.

I think people are suspicious as some men claim they have permission to play ,but it can never be confirmed by their partner when asked.

My partner & I have a joint profile but available to meet alone & i've confirmed this is fine to a couple of women eho wanted to meet Jack alone.

Nobody ever wants to check the same with my other half though lol

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