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"i can understand why people dont put face pic on, but a body pic could be anyone, you can blank out tattoos etc if you have anything distinguishing"  | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...??" It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile | |||
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"does it really matter" It does when , out of the blue, they ask you to reciprocate a friend request . I am not going to let them see us if we cannot see them !. | |||
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"does it really matter It does when , out of the blue, they ask you to reciprocate a friend request . I am not going to let them see us if we cannot see them !." and you are right not to | |||
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"Because it's their choice not to do so. I can't see what about that you don't understand? " Exactly! How members run THEIR profiles is none of MY business.  | |||
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"does it really matter It does when , out of the blue, they ask you to reciprocate a friend request . I am not going to let them see us if we cannot see them !." although you do...  | |||
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"does it really matter It does when , out of the blue, they ask you to reciprocate a friend request . I am not going to let them see us if we cannot see them !. and you are right not to" Thank you  | |||
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"does it really matter It does when , out of the blue, they ask you to reciprocate a friend request . I am not going to let them see us if we cannot see them !." If you'd said that from the off!  Agree with you on the new slant you've adopted. | |||
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"does it really matter It does when , out of the blue, they ask you to reciprocate a friend request . I am not going to let them see us if we cannot see them !. If you'd said that from the off! Agree with you on the new slant you've adopted."Eh ? What have I done now ? | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile" | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile" | |||
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"does it really matter It does when , out of the blue, they ask you to reciprocate a friend request . I am not going to let them see us if we cannot see them !." I would prefer they popped into chat room and _iew each others cams. so much better that a foto which of course can be false . | |||
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"does it really matter It does when , out of the blue, they ask you to reciprocate a friend request . I am not going to let them see us if we cannot see them !." I would prefer they popped into chat room and _iew each others cams. so much better that a foto which of course can be false . | |||
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"does it really matter It does when , out of the blue, they ask you to reciprocate a friend request . I am not going to let them see us if we cannot see them !. If you'd said that from the off! Agree with you on the new slant you've adopted.
Eh ? What have I done now ? "Nothing. Just a random warrior attack | |||
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"does it really matter It does when , out of the blue, they ask you to reciprocate a friend request . I am not going to let them see us if we cannot see them !. If you'd said that from the off! Agree with you on the new slant you've adopted.
Eh ? What have I done now ?
Nothing. Just a random warrior attack "Oh good , I think . | |||
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"I don't believe in putting pics up either!  "Obviously | |||
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"By the way, when I say crazy folks, I don't mean murderous loonies. I mean besotted potential bunny boilers." Do they come with labels so you can tell them apart? | |||
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"By the way, when I say crazy folks, I don't mean murderous loonies. I mean besotted potential bunny boilers. Do they come with labels so you can tell them apart?" Yes, always. But also, murderous loonies tend not to claim to be in love with you immediately after their debut in your bed. | |||
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"Have pics that can be sent private tho." This. I have pictures I'm happy to send to anyone who insists | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile" absolutely bang on great answer | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile absolutely bang on great answer "Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!! | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile absolutely bang on great answer
Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!!"yes you can..... if it breaches the contract you signed when employed | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile absolutely bang on great answer
Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!!"Yes you can, many companies draw a clause into contracts saying that behaviour of social sites can lead to dismissal. It's a policy my company holds, which is why my face pics are kept private. | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...??" well i dont advertise my lifestyle so fac pic on my private gallery and am very careful who i give it out to. hell could be a relation or one of my son's mates | |||
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"People are perfectly free not to put pics on here. Equally, I'm perfectly free to want nothing to do with them, when they message me." You're also free to ask for a picture. I have my reasons, as stated, and I feel they're valid  | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile absolutely bang on great answer
Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!!
Yes you can, many companies draw a clause into contracts saying that behaviour of social sites can lead to dismissal. It's a policy my company holds, which is why my face pics are kept private."Even if there is no such clause, an employer can probably dismiss you (fairly) for actions on such social sites. The clause in the contract just makes it easier and less risky for them. | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile absolutely bang on great answer
Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!!"Yes I can, and I can also lose my professional registration...but just as importantly, the professional credibility that I have spent years building up could be completely ruined and undermined and this is not because I am in the slightest bit ashamed of what I choose to do with people in my private life but because of the short sighted attitudes of people outside of this lifestyle...this is a hobby, a past time that we occasionally indulge in but so not worth the risks of being exposed without being very sure who we are sharing our personal information with. it's the same reason that we do not meet people who live in the region that I work in... We have pictures, as I stated, we are happy to share them once we are sure that we have no professional connection to anyone...if you don't like it, so be it...I don't care how stupid you think it is or we are... | |||
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"www.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/133397 The OP's of this thread may answer the "why no pics" question.... Not sure if it'd a silly reason or not though lol "Haha miss marple | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...??" I agree. No I dont need to see your face pic on your profile but I would like a physical idea of the person before I contact them so I'm not wasting their time or mine. I therefore tend to skip profiles with no pics. End of the day, you do need to be physically attracted to the person you potentially meet.  | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile absolutely bang on great answer
Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!!
Yes I can, and I can also lose my professional registration...but just as importantly, the professional credibility that I have spent years building up could be completely ruined and undermined and this is not because I am in the slightest bit ashamed of what I choose to do with people in my private life but because of the short sighted attitudes of people outside of this lifestyle...this is a hobby, a past time that we occasionally indulge in but so not worth the risks of being exposed without being very sure who we are sharing our personal information with. it's the same reason that we do not meet people who live in the region that I work in...
We have pictures, as I stated, we are happy to share them once we are sure that we have no professional connection to anyone...if you don't like it, so be it...I don't care how stupid you think it is or we are..."You might not get sacked but in some professions it would be seriously frowned upon,not only that when you have to deal with the not so nice side of the general public...it wouldn't be good to get.."ive seen you your a swinger n like gangbanging" you would want all your colleagues knowing that one
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...??" Everyone is answering this as if the OP mentioned face pics.. Erm she means any pic.. | |||
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"By the way, when I say crazy folks, I don't mean murderous loonies. I mean besotted potential bunny boilers." and ur family members???  | |||
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"By the way, when I say crazy folks, I don't mean murderous loonies. I mean besotted potential bunny boilers. and ur family members??? "Some of them are a bit scary too. Maybe I'm being paranoid, but the fact is I'm expecting some (relatively minor) media interest in our family in the coming weeks/months and I'd prefer not to risk some hack finding a face pic of me on here and making it something it's not. | |||
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" Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!!" 'Private life' being the key phrase..perhaps some people just dont want everyone knowing what they do in their private lives..they might also want to protect their families...ok swinging isnt illegal, but it wouldnt be nice for a couples kids if another kid walked up to them in school and said 'my mum and dad said your parents are sex perverts who have sex with other couples.. with other couples'... What a horrible thing for a kid to find out! Perhaps some people dont want the whole world to know what they get up to in private.? Whats your angle on it anyway?...baring in mind you dont have face pictures on here either? | |||
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" Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!! 'Private life' being the key phrase..perhaps some people just dont want everyone knowing what they do in their private lives..they might also want to protect their families...ok swinging isnt illegal, but it wouldnt be nice for a couples kids if another kid walked up to them in school and said 'my mum and dad said your parents are sex perverts who have sex with other couples.. with other couples'... What a horrible thing for a kid to find out! Perhaps some people dont want the whole world to know what they get up to in private.? Whats your angle on it anyway?...baring in mind you dont have face pictures on here either?" we do have face pics in our private profile. we are on about people who dont have any pics in private to send for poss meets or none at all or not verified at all and been on for 3months or more. | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile absolutely bang on great answer
Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!!
Yes you can, many companies draw a clause into contracts saying that behaviour of social sites can lead to dismissal. It's a policy my company holds, which is why my face pics are kept private."Social sites are twitter and facebook not this kind of site doesnt come under as a docial media site. | |||
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"Social sites are twitter and facebook not this kind of site doesnt come under as a docial media site." Why not? | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...??" I think it's probably the same as people that hide their verifications. | |||
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" Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!! 'Private life' being the key phrase..perhaps some people just dont want everyone knowing what they do in their private lives..they might also want to protect their families...ok swinging isnt illegal, but it wouldnt be nice for a couples kids if another kid walked up to them in school and said 'my mum and dad said your parents are sex perverts who have sex with other couples.. with other couples'... What a horrible thing for a kid to find out! Perhaps some people dont want the whole world to know what they get up to in private.? Whats your angle on it anyway?...baring in mind you dont have face pictures on here either? we do have face pics in our private profile. we are on about people who dont have any pics in private to send for poss meets or none at all or not verified at all and been on for 3months or more. " Then you should have made that clear from the off..instead of mentioning 'silly reasons' for people not to put 'pictures' on here..you also said another posters answer was 'stupid'..when, in all fairness he was actually correct.. Ok...that said, I agree about people who dont have any photos whatsoever..unless they nick them from someone else you normally find their profiles are highly suspect as they never seem to have a verification either.. Of course a lot of genuine people don't have either as well..but they normally have more than 3 words in their profile and have been here longer than a week... Not everyone with a pretty bare profile is a fake..not everyone with a full profile is genuine..but there's definitely a pattern when it comes to fakes. Maybe they dont want photos on here anyway though..maybe they might prefer to send them via MSN/email.. once they get to know people better?...rather than run the risk of a hacker discovering them on here perhaps? | |||
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"i think these people who dont post pics for you are sinister ..booo hisss !" Sinister eh??...you have obviously never heard the saying 'never trust a woman who only wears one black glove'... 
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" Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!! 'Private life' being the key phrase..perhaps some people just dont want everyone knowing what they do in their private lives..they might also want to protect their families...ok swinging isnt illegal, but it wouldnt be nice for a couples kids if another kid walked up to them in school and said 'my mum and dad said your parents are sex perverts who have sex with other couples.. with other couples'... What a horrible thing for a kid to find out! Perhaps some people dont want the whole world to know what they get up to in private.? Whats your angle on it anyway?...baring in mind you dont have face pictures on here either? we do have face pics in our private profile. we are on about people who dont have any pics in private to send for poss meets or none at all or not verified at all and been on for 3months or more. Then you should have made that clear from the off..instead of mentioning 'silly reasons' for people not to put 'pictures' on here..you also said another posters answer was 'stupid'..when, in all fairness he was actually correct.. Ok...that said, I agree about people who dont have any photos whatsoever..unless they nick them from someone else you normally find their profiles are highly suspect as they never seem to have a verification either.. Of course a lot of genuine people don't have either as well..but they normally have more than 3 words in their profile and have been here longer than a week... Not everyone with a pretty bare profile is a fake..not everyone with a full profile is genuine..but there's definitely a pattern when it comes to fakes. Maybe they dont want photos on here anyway though..maybe they might prefer to send them via MSN/email.. once they get to know people better?...rather than run the risk of a hacker discovering them on here perhaps?" I thought it was very clear in the OP that it was any pic as face pic wasn't mentioned It was others who started saying face pic | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile absolutely bang on great answer
Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!!
Yes you can, many companies draw a clause into contracts saying that behaviour of social sites can lead to dismissal. It's a policy my company holds, which is why my face pics are kept private.
Social sites are twitter and facebook not this kind of site doesnt come under as a docial media site."Any site involving friend request, messaging facilities and chat facilities is deemed a social media site. With regards to pictures of any type, I have some on public,some in friends only and some in private. Any member can see my public pics , friends only can see my friends pics, no one can see or determine how many private pics I have unless I attach to a message. So basically accusing people of having no pics at all is wrong, they could be set in private to attach to messages, you would never know by just looking at a profile as a facility is not available to tell you how many pictures a profile user has placed in their private gallery. | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile" | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...??" I think they don't do it because there is no rule which says that they have to do so and also because it is their profile, therefore, in line with the site rules, they can do what they like with it | |||
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"I have reasons: 1. There are crazy folks who may or may not be looking for me. 2. Completely separately, members of my immediate family will become relatively high profile in the next couple of months. 3. I prefer people to look at me rather than my face." Its gary lineker isn't !? Adding 2 and 2, ears Leicester, him vanishing off twit fir personal reasons..... So spill what's he done! | |||
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"Proven fact that even with a non face pic your profile will be _iewed about 3 times more. " Obviously you're aware of a scientific experiment that has proved this. Who conducted this research? Was it in New Scientist? "I have reasons: 1. There are crazy folks who may or may not be looking for me. 2. Completely separately, members of my immediate family will become relatively high profile in the next couple of months. 3. I prefer people to look at me rather than my face. Its gary lineker isn't !? Adding 2 and 2, ears Leicester, him vanishing off twit fir personal reasons..... So spill what's he done!"  it's nothing to do with Sir Gary. | |||
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"Proven fact that even with a non face pic your profile will be _iewed about 3 times more. Obviously you're aware of a scientific experiment that has proved this. Who conducted this research? Was it in New Scientist? I think these figures are wrong, Imogen I first opened my account, I had no public pictures for 24 hours yet still received over 400 messages in that time frame. I have reasons: 1. There are crazy folks who may or may not be looking for me. 2. Completely separately, members of my immediate family will become relatively high profile in the next couple of months. 3. I prefer people to look at me rather than my face. Its gary lineker isn't !? Adding 2 and 2, ears Leicester, him vanishing off twit fir personal reasons..... So spill what's he done! it's nothing to do with Sir Gary.
Your a secret millionaire, go on admit it lol
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"Proven fact that even with a non face pic your profile will be _iewed about 3 times more. Obviously you're aware of a scientific experiment that has proved this. Who conducted this research? Was it in New Scientist? I think these figures are wrong, Imogen I first opened my account, I had no public pictures for 24 hours yet still received over 400 messages in that time frame. I have reasons: 1. There are crazy folks who may or may not be looking for me. 2. Completely separately, members of my immediate family will become relatively high profile in the next couple of months. 3. I prefer people to look at me rather than my face. Its gary lineker isn't !? Adding 2 and 2, ears Leicester, him vanishing off twit fir personal reasons..... So spill what's he done! it's nothing to do with Sir Gary.
Your a secret millionaire, go on admit it lol
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"Proven fact that even with a non face pic your profile will be _iewed about 3 times more. Obviously you're aware of a scientific experiment that has proved this. Who conducted this research? Was it in New Scientist? I think these figures are wrong, Imogen I first opened my account, I had no public pictures for 24 hours yet still received over 400 messages in that time frame. I have reasons: 1. There are crazy folks who may or may not be looking for me. 2. Completely separately, members of my immediate family will become relatively high profile in the next couple of months. 3. I prefer people to look at me rather than my face. Its gary lineker isn't !? Adding 2 and 2, ears Leicester, him vanishing off twit fir personal reasons..... So spill what's he done! it's nothing to do with Sir Gary.
Your a secret millionaire, go on admit it lol
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"Proven fact that even with a non face pic your profile will be _iewed about 3 times more. Obviously you're aware of a scientific experiment that has proved this. Who conducted this research? Was it in New Scientist? " Yes it says it on the upload pic page lol Go ask then where they found the results. Well done to you seeing no difference. Folk must like yer name. Me I'd wouldn't be bovvered to look if you have no pic. My proven fact!!!! | |||
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"Proven fact that even with a non face pic your profile will be _iewed about 3 times more. Obviously you're aware of a scientific experiment that has proved this. Who conducted this research? Was it in New Scientist? Yes it says it on the upload pic page lol Go ask then where they found the results. Well done to you seeing no difference. Folk must like yer name. Me I'd wouldn't be bovvered to look if you have no pic. My proven fact!!!!" That sounds like a guess to me, based on nothing whatsoever. Glad you quoted your source though some people do like my name, some people even like my personality. I can't think why; more fool them I say.
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"Well if you are a secret millionaire, move us both out of Leicester lol" I'm a fiver short. Will Lutterworth do? | |||
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"Well if you are a secret millionaire, move us both out of Leicester lol I'm a fiver short. Will Lutterworth do?" Lutterworths better than where I am lol | |||
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"Proven fact that even with a non face pic your profile will be _iewed about 3 times more. Obviously you're aware of a scientific experiment that has proved this. Who conducted this research? Was it in New Scientist? Yes it says it on the upload pic page lol Go ask then where they found the results. Well done to you seeing no difference. Folk must like yer name. Me I'd wouldn't be bovvered to look if you have no pic. My proven fact!!!!" Just looked on the upload picture page, can't see quote you mentioned, maybe because I'm using mobile version, who knows, but from my experiences, as a female acc no pictures doesn't stop _iews or messages | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile absolutely bang on great answer
Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!!"Oh yeah?! That highlights how little you know. Most employment contracts say an employee should not do anything to sully the reputation of the firm they work for and that includes swinging. Society is not at that stage where you can walk into work on Monday and say you spent the weekend swinging with your mate, Dave! Until then, I have bills to pay and my ass to heat up in the winter! | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? Everyone is answering this as if the OP mentioned face pics.. Erm she means any pic.." Nope-I answered the post in regards to the comment about "silly reasons" being your job...face pics got brought into it in order to reinforce my point... | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...??" Thank you for sharing your lack of understanding. | |||
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"does it really matter It does when , out of the blue, they ask you to reciprocate a friend request . I am not going to let them see us if we cannot see them !." And you have no choice over this I guess. It's called a 'friends request' not a photo swap request. | |||
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"does it really matter It does when , out of the blue, they ask you to reciprocate a friend request . I am not going to let them see us if we cannot see them !." We have no interest in speaking with anyone who hasn't the courage to show themselves. We interpret lack of photos as just plain rude & invariably indicative of a timewaster. Not always the case we know, but invariably so. We have plenty, we have jobs that put us in the public domain, but we're real ergo, we show something of ourselves! | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...??" cant see that it matters a jot or even a % of a jot.. if they contact you or you they and there is an attraction then pics can be exchanged.. and perhaps much joyfull and pleasurable times may ensue.. hey ho.. | |||
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"Not always the case we know, but invariably so." The fuck does this mean? | |||
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"Not always the case we know, but invariably so. The fuck does this mean?"Hey what you doing replying your a bi time wasting single guy don't you know  | |||
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"Not always the case we know, but invariably so. The fuck does this mean?
Hey what you doing replying your a bi time wasting single guy don't you know "Invariably, but not always that'll have me giggling like a twat all day. | |||
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"Not always the case we know, but invariably so. The fuck does this mean?
Hey what you doing replying your a bi time wasting single guy don't you know
Invariably, but not always that'll have me giggling like a twat all day."Can I have a pic of said twat laughing cos I've never seen one | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile absolutely bang on great answer
Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!!"People have been sacked for comments put on Facebook so you are wrong on that. I've mentioned this before, but I don't have face pics in public as a guy where I used to work found the profile and showed it to anyone that would look...admittedly it didn't cost me my job (probably because of the industry I work in) but it wasn't exactly a barrel of laughs having everyone discussing my sex life and promiscuity between themselves. I'd regularly silence a room just by opening the door! So now my face pics are in private to prevent me being on the gossips hit list again | |||
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"does it really matter It does when , out of the blue, they ask you to reciprocate a friend request . I am not going to let them see us if we cannot see them !. If you'd said that from the off! Agree with you on the new slant you've adopted.
Eh ? What have I done now ? "Oh, apologies, my comment wasn't for your post if you look, but the op. | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile absolutely bang on great answer
Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!!
People have been sacked for comments put on Facebook so you are wrong on that.
I've mentioned this before, but I don't have face pics in public as a guy where I used to work found the profile and showed it to anyone that would look...admittedly it didn't cost me my job (probably because of the industry I work in) but it wasn't exactly a barrel of laughs having everyone discussing my sex life and promiscuity between themselves. I'd regularly silence a room just by opening the door! So now my face pics are in private to prevent me being on the gossips hit list again"How did he find your profile , was he a member as well or did he randomly type your user name into goggle? I only ask cos if he was a member they I would have made sure the others knew that as well. | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile absolutely bang on great answer
Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!!
People have been sacked for comments put on Facebook so you are wrong on that.
I've mentioned this before, but I don't have face pics in public as a guy where I used to work found the profile and showed it to anyone that would look...admittedly it didn't cost me my job (probably because of the industry I work in) but it wasn't exactly a barrel of laughs having everyone discussing my sex life and promiscuity between themselves. I'd regularly silence a room just by opening the door! So now my face pics are in private to prevent me being on the gossips hit list again
How did he find your profile , was he a member as well or did he randomly type your user name into goggle? I only ask cos if he was a member they I would have made sure the others knew that as well. "All he needs to say is he was sent the link.... and he's in the clear. | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile absolutely bang on great answer
Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!!
People have been sacked for comments put on Facebook so you are wrong on that.
I've mentioned this before, but I don't have face pics in public as a guy where I used to work found the profile and showed it to anyone that would look...admittedly it didn't cost me my job (probably because of the industry I work in) but it wasn't exactly a barrel of laughs having everyone discussing my sex life and promiscuity between themselves. I'd regularly silence a room just by opening the door! So now my face pics are in private to prevent me being on the gossips hit list again
How did he find your profile , was he a member as well or did he randomly type your user name into goggle? I only ask cos if he was a member they I would have made sure the others knew that as well.
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? It's not a silly reason, it's our livelihood, the means to pay our bills and a career we've spent over 25 years building up as well as our professional credibility...but more importantly...it's our choice, in the same way that it's someone elses choice to do it... we have face pictures that we share once we get to know people and are very sure we're not professionally connected but if they don't like it that they're not openly out there, we don't really care frankly...that's how we choose to manage our profile absolutely bang on great answer
Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!!
People have been sacked for comments put on Facebook so you are wrong on that.
I've mentioned this before, but I don't have face pics in public as a guy where I used to work found the profile and showed it to anyone that would look...admittedly it didn't cost me my job (probably because of the industry I work in) but it wasn't exactly a barrel of laughs having everyone discussing my sex life and promiscuity between themselves. I'd regularly silence a room just by opening the door! So now my face pics are in private to prevent me being on the gossips hit list again
How did he find your profile , was he a member as well or did he randomly type your user name into goggle? I only ask cos if he was a member they I would have made sure the others knew that as well. "He joined the site and would have been looking to meet, but that got overlooked due to the fact that he is male (and had no verifications!) and I am female with several...which were discussed at length I have been told by the only colleague who mentioned anything to my face about it. I think it was more expected/accepted for him than it was for me | |||
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" I thought it was very clear in the OP that it was any pic as face pic wasn't mentioned It was others who started saying face pic "The OP referred to peoples 'silly' reasons such as peoples jobs..which implies that you would have to see someones face..the same goes for their 'stupid answer' comment regarding Facebook.. Both implying that they were referring to face pics.. | |||
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Stupid answer as you cant be sacked for stuff you do in your private time....!!!"Yes you can, if company writes sociall media sites into contract | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...??" What's the silly reason that you have no pics then? | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? What's the silly reason that you have no pics then?" Lol. Exactly what i was just going to ask! | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? What's the silly reason that you have no pics then?" But this thread is old. | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...??" Don't know about the others, but you have some great ones on display | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? What's the silly reason that you have no pics then? Lol. Exactly what i was just going to ask!" You just can't make this up about the OP. Apparently in the last couple of days they have criticised everyone in the North West for not meeting yet they don't meet anyone themselves and now this thread about photos when they don't have any on their profile. | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...??" I work on the theory they are all lizard like aliens who are not willing to risk contravening the visual disclosure conditions of their planet Earth visitors permits. Yeah thats what I think.... | |||
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"Cant understand why people dont put pictures on site cause of there job or other silly reason. what do you think...?? I work on the theory they are all lizard like aliens who are not willing to risk contravening the visual disclosure conditions of their planet Earth visitors permits. Yeah thats what I think.... "What a coincidence. We think exactly the same thing. | |||
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"We did have pix up but someone pulled me over in asda asking for a meet with my fella she said she saw us on fab so we hid our pix and profile and only come back on a month back xx " That probably answers your question then. In case someone recognises you! | |||
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"We did have pix up but someone pulled me over in asda asking for a meet with my fella she said she saw us on fab so we hid our pix and profile and only come back on a month back xx " So, you seem to have answered your own question then. | |||
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"We did have pix up but someone pulled me over in asda asking for a meet with my fella she said she saw us on fab so we hid our pix and profile and only come back on a month back xx " So what you're saying is that people don't have pics up for their own silly reason. Mmmmm interesting | |||
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"We are on about people who dont have any pix on the site at all. Ours are private. " You have 0 pics in gallery and 0 pics for friends.. The words Pot, Kettle and Black spring to mind | |||
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"We are on about people who dont have any pix on the site at all. Ours are private. " And how do you know THEY don't have private ones then? Seeing as yours are private and don't show on profile. | |||
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"We did have pix up but someone pulled me over in asda asking for a meet with my fella she said she saw us on fab so we hid our pix and profile and only come back on a month back xx " OMG you use Asda. | |||
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"Oh the irony. Is it not possible to put photos on public display that don't identify you? We seemed to have managed it." I agree! I have plenty on mine, and IF I was really concerned, I could also photo shop my tattoo's out....  | |||
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"Oh the irony. Is it not possible to put photos on public display that don't identify you? We seemed to have managed it." Alright Tony how's it going ? | |||
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"Oh the irony. Is it not possible to put photos on public display that don't identify you? We seemed to have managed it. I agree! I have plenty on mine, and IF I was really concerned, I could also photo shop my tattoo's out.... "You can photo shop tattoos out???
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"This thread is so old being and having read some recent theads and being a cynic I would swear someone that someone who has an issue with the OP has bumped it up for a reason "Do you think? Well I never | |||
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"I suspect that there are several reasons why people don't put pics on their profile. Can't be bothered. Scared of being recognised Don't know how to Don't think they look good enough Don't have any yet Time wasting dreamers It could be any of the above or a combination of some. Whatever the reason, unless they are recommended by someone who has met/seen them I am very reluctant to meet with them. I once broke my rule and regretted it. " I have a private face pic but so far thats it. I hav a veri, from a couple i no socially, who introduced me to the site, iv not put other pics up yet as im not looking to meet just yet, personal circumstance doesnt allow it, no pics means i get much less mail, as most ppl are not interested in profiles without pics. | |||
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"We did have pix up but someone pulled me over in asda asking for a meet with my fella she said she saw us on fab so we hid our pix and profile and only come back on a month back xx " So you got recognised and asked for a meet, we thought that was what this site was all about? It's probably only a downer if you don't fancy the people doing the asking. 
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"We did have pix up but someone pulled me over in asda asking for a meet with my fella she said she saw us on fab so we hid our pix and profile and only come back on a month back xx So you got recognised and asked for a meet, we thought that was what this site was all about? It's probably only a downer if you don't fancy the people doing the asking.
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"Oh the irony. Is it not possible to put photos on public display that don't identify you? We seemed to have managed it. Alright Tony how's it going ?"Cheers Bob, yeah all well here. How is the family? | |||
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"We did have pix up but someone pulled me over in asda asking for a meet with my fella she said she saw us on fab so we hid our pix and profile and only come back on a month back xx So you got recognised and asked for a meet, we thought that was what this site was all about? It's probably only a downer if you don't fancy the people doing the asking.
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"My face picture are private to friends only so I now who I'm chatting too. That's the best way to keep it " Same | |||
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"God almighty. Bangs head against wall repeatedly." So it's not just me then!!! The irony of it is beyond some people | |||
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"It's sad, I know, but this thread has become the highlight of my day, everyday, for the last couple. "It's like an arena for those totally lacking in self awareness, irony or basic understanding. | |||
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"It's sad, I know, but this thread has become the highlight of my day, everyday, for the last couple.
It's like an arena for those totally lacking in self awareness, irony or basic understanding.
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"It's sad, I know, but this thread has become the highlight of my day, everyday, for the last couple.
It's like an arena for those totally lacking in self awareness, irony or basic understanding.
I know. I also know that I won't go to heaven for enjoying it so much but, hey, isn't hell supposed to be more fun anyway "We are going to burn in hell anyway. At least it will save on the gas bill. | |||
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"Think u find we do.u dont dont see it properly
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