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By *ilverfox for you OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

who has tried it ? pm me

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Big fan. But no PMs please

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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago

Welwyn

Bdsm covers a wide spectrum. Is there something specific you are curious about?

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Spent many years in the BDSM community

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Im a sub, I enjoy D/s and FLR not really into the Dungeons and S/m side, but unless you go to a club. I dont think FAB is a good place to explore BDSM, but maybe Im wrong. Your probably best look for a more BDSM specific site, theres not that many anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a Dom to my sub and we indulge in this a lot.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yeah Forum talk is better an PMing unless someone is personally interested. I'd add S&M to your interests to begin with, people can find you in Searches then. It looks like you are a male sub for a woman, which is quite niche so maybe look outside at fetish groups too. --pt

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By *otwife for useCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Have a likings for most aspects of it, it’s fun with the right people.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Is there anything in particular as BDSM cover a lot of different avenues?

For me i love it and on a journey to exploring my sub side a lot more.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Yes I may have dabbled a bit. If you ask any questions on here maybe the hive mind will be able to help you

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Might be of interest

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

It's a lifestyle for me not a trial... It's my sexual preference and personality

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking

Switch fem here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planning this

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

I find it can be the most exciting activity both in the giving and receiving.

Rod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really want to

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I’m naturally very submissive, I’ve been in FLRs in the past and that’s definitely the dynamic I’m most comfortable with. I very much like to please others, putting their needs and desires before my own and if I make other people happy then I’m happy, no matter what I have to do to achieve that.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"who has tried it ? pm me"

Yes, we do it all the time. I'd rather stick to the forums though. No PMs though.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Did you get many PM’s OP? Obviously that was your reason for starting the thread so it would be a shame if you didn’t get any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally depends on what aspect of BDSM, there’s a wide range. We use leather restraints around the neck and paddles, we do also use a hand around the throat, we’ve not done anything else really. You’d need to be more specific in what you wish to try

Mrs

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

Switch but more naturally sub. Some experience with Pro Dommes. Would love to sub to a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big fan. But no PMs please "

No PM though have fab’ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy bdsm, as a switch I feel I have the best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love BDSM, natural sexual dominant, in need of a sub or submissive couple

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I've been on the public BDSM scene since I was old enough (which is over half of my life now!?)

Myself and my boyfriend are both switches.

I really don't want PMs, kinda defeats the forum for me.

BDSM is a huge catch all term, I've tried many areas in the past 20+ years and still haven't tried everything. Other than this being one way to try to get a meet, what aspects of BDSM are appealing to you?

What information, help or advice can we give you to help make your exploration easier/less scary/safer?

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By *inks_n_GigglesMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Who's into BDSM" is as broad as saying "Who is Kinky" and has many different layers and dimensions to cover.

As you can see from my profile I am very much into the B, the D and the S&M with my own playroom.

I need to understand my subs needs and desires to deliver the experience they desire. Submission is a gift and one to be treasured. It's an amazing journey and one I enjoy with new and experienced subs.

My personal likes are in the rough play, CNC areas. These require strong communication with safe, sane and always consenting approach.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


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"Who's into BDSM" is as broad as saying "Who is Kinky" and has many different layers and dimensions to cover.

As you can see from my profile I am very much into the B, the D and the S&M with my own playroom.

I need to understand my subs needs and desires to deliver the experience they desire. Submission is a gift and one to be treasured. It's an amazing journey and one I enjoy with new and experienced subs.

My personal likes are in the rough play, CNC areas. These require strong communication with safe, sane and always consenting approach.

"

Ah this is why I stopped using SSC.

I am not sure many people would class CNC as sane... So personally I feel RACK would be better (however with CNC less so FRIES or PRICK)

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Over the last two years OP has regularly put up the same or similar short message. OP has been advised many times before and although God loves a trier....

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By *imandher2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool


" Spot on this.

I love partners with little experience and then bring out the filthiness in them

"Who's into BDSM" is as broad as saying "Who is Kinky" and has many different layers and dimensions to cover.

As you can see from my profile I am very much into the B, the D and the S&M with my own playroom.

I need to understand my subs needs and desires to deliver the experience they desire. Submission is a gift and one to be treasured. It's an amazing journey and one I enjoy with new and experienced subs.

My personal likes are in the rough play, CNC areas. These require strong communication with safe, sane and always consenting approach.

"

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Over the last two years OP has regularly put up the same or similar short message. OP has been advised many times before and although God loves a trier....

"

-In that case "PM me" is the part that really matters to him, he likely won't read any of this lol

I wonder if anyone's ever hit him up? --pt

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