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Does anyone else struggle to cum from oral?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just intrigued really, I have not cum from a blowjob EVER which is a) frustrating and b) awkward. I suspect it’s not a mental block and as the giver tires I get more anxious about cumming

Is it just me?

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

No and I’m happy to prove it

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

A few guys have said they can’t come from oral, then Sammi slides balls deep on them and they cum down her throat.

Her technique is pretty great

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Vixen is the only person able to make me cum through oral (though I’d welcome others to try )

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By *uietguy689Man
over a year ago

Oxford

Really enjoy oral, giving and receiving. Have never cum from it though which is often a disappointment for all concerned

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m pleased it’s not just me, it’s incredibly frustrating

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If only, I’ve had deep throat once and that didn’t do the trick - you’re a lucky guy

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea

I've only cum thru oral 3 times I've never had that wow factor blowjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few guys have said they can’t come from oral, then Sammi slides balls deep on them and they cum down her throat.

Her technique is pretty great "

have never cum from a bj put that does sound incredible

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I can, but it can be difficult to get over the edge sometimes. I tend to stay on the edge for ages which brings its own form of pleasurable torture.

Mrs would be more likely to get me there than strangers in a meet, as she knows what I like, though I'd like to try someone that can deepthroat (Mrs gag reflex is particularly sensitive).

One thing I have found is that some people struggle with an uncut cock. Don't know if it's because porn has tons more that are cut, but it's very sensitive/sore when people just yank the skin back and suck like I'm circumsised... takes my breath away and not in a good way!

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

No problems here at all. I love to cum from oral

A mental block can be a really hard thing to overcome but, if that's what's preventing you, I hope you do manage it

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No problems here at all. I love to cum from oral

A mental block can be a really hard thing to overcome but, if that's what's preventing you, I hope you do manage it

C x"

i think it is the control aspect maybe

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Only once (one of my first meets on Fab and she had skills I’ve not come across since) and to be honest, although I love the sensation and pleasure of a BJ I find it more relaxing than something that gets me hard and cumming

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By *irty_little_blondeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

When I’ve given a blow job they’ve usually cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's quite common. I've had a lot of guys say they've never cum from it but I've changed that for them. Surprisingly quickly in 2 cases!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Control might be a part of it. My first real girlfriend used to suck me off but get quite aggressive with the "don't cum in my mouth" demands I used to spend more time concentrating on not cumming that actually enjoying the experience.

Since then I've been lucky enough to meet people who are more than willing to have me cum in their mouth and it doesn't matter how great the act feels for me I just don't get to that point where I'm going to lose control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's quite common. I've had a lot of guys say they've never cum from it but I've changed that for them. Surprisingly quickly in 2 cases! "

So so you know what you do that makes it so good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can struggle to cum from oral at times. I get where you are coming from. It feels good and they’re performing it well but it’s just not quite getting me there. Then you do wonder if the person performing it is getting frustrated. My solution is to go for the 69 and get them moaning, once they start moaning then it pushes me over the edge. It’s definitely a mental thing, maybe not wanting to cum in some respects.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's quite common. I've had a lot of guys say they've never cum from it but I've changed that for them. Surprisingly quickly in 2 cases! "

Lol, you're bragging now but good skills - the cock doctor

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Very rare for me too only 1 person ever succeeded and was probably the best ive ever had

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's quite common. I've had a lot of guys say they've never cum from it but I've changed that for them. Surprisingly quickly in 2 cases! "

Yep, having had a look at your pics I can see how that could happen

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

I’ve only cum through oral twice. I think I’m similar to others above for whom it seems to be more a mental block so to speak. I’ll be hoping to increase that number soon as I’ve learned to relax more nowadays.

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By *nly DickCouple (MM)
over a year ago

chichester

If technique is good yes !

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By *illmywifeCouple
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

Matt here, I've never cum from a BJ. Kitten likes trying to make me come that way and I'm not complaining. For me I think it is a mental block, I've been close several times but never quite over the edge. I have to bang a woman hard to cum in her arse or pussy, I'm scared I'm going to give kitten brain Dave pounding her mouth!

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We both do and love it

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I've certainly played with several guys who haven't cum from blow jobs.

I like making it happen, but if it doesn't then it doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have cum like 3 times in my life from oral. I've met some men that don't either. It's no big deal always loads of other fun to be had. I do love to give oral though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very seldom do i cum from oral. Some women take it as an insult and thats a shame

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By *scarpatMan
over a year ago

sexy town

I can only cum with oral and anal. Vag I'm there all day!

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By *dventuresWithEveWoman
over a year ago

SW Birmingham outskirts

I've only ever failed once to make a guy cum giving oral...but I don't mind at all if he doesn't, I tend to be torn when having fun between wanting to make him cum in my mouth, by hand on my boobs or fuck my brains out

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By *BusterflapsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Struggle every time tbh but then again, I still have my lower ribs and not as flexible as a once was

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Hell no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only ever failed once to make a guy cum giving oral...but I don't mind at all if he doesn't, I tend to be torn when having fun between wanting to make him cum in my mouth, by hand on my boobs or fuck my brains out "

Would love for you to show your experience..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never came from oral sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well no lady has ever made me cum having a blow job

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Only ever happened once so I guess it's down to skill the rest failed miserably but still tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum from oral….sometimes that quickly it’s embarrassing

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By *ctionman10Man
over a year ago

London


"A few guys have said they can’t come from oral, then Sammi slides balls deep on them and they cum down her throat.

Her technique is pretty great "

Now this sounds like an experience I would love to have.

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By *pandjMan
over a year ago

Sparkford

Would guess I've only really enjoyed about 3 of them my entire life and never cum from one. Doesn't help that I consider it foreplay to penetrative sex which is what I want. If I let it go on too long it has the opposite effect and I stop feeling horny

Think if I let the 3 ladies continue I would have cum but stopped them. To cum I need quite vigorous and fast movement shagging or with my hand. Wouldn't say it needs to be hard and the ladies mentioned had technique more than speed.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Just intrigued really, I have not cum from a blowjob EVER which is a) frustrating and b) awkward. I suspect it’s not a mental block and as the giver tires I get more anxious about cumming

Is it just me? "

Yep, takes a bit to get me off from a blowjob

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

Only ever happened once before.

It’s a physical thing for me, I get too sensitive after a few minutes and have to pull away, then I’m okay for another minute or so, but, I then get desensitised.

It goes back and forth between the both.

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By *pandjMan
over a year ago

Sparkford

Also of I'm on a relationship when I feel most at ease sexualy they usually make trying to make me cum their mission.

If I'm with someone long term I end up putting them on a pedestal so the thought of me cumming in their mouth or over their face seems degrading even if that's what they want. Defo a mental thing there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t cum from bj! I pull out and wank myself off to cum!

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By *ruskJokerMan
over a year ago

Royston

I’d definitely say it’s partly a mental thing busy also technique. If you’re relaxed and enjoying the moment it definitely helps. Can’t count the guys I’ve had tell me they haven’t cum from bjs and then after a little time on my knees I have a mouth full of nice warm cum.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Yep- i usually struggle to cut from a bj too

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By *annybb2012Man
over a year ago

south West


"Just intrigued really, I have not cum from a blowjob EVER which is a) frustrating and b) awkward. I suspect it’s not a mental block and as the giver tires I get more anxious about cumming

Is it just me? "

Yes unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done since divorce - was always an absolute no and guess that implanted a metal block for me (wasn’t something I chased but it was absolutely a no no)

Have had some incredible experiences since - once that freedom is learned and respected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never cum from them either it’s soooo annoying because I really want to I just can’t ever do it

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I used to be the same until I met my partner aka the dick wizard!

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By *ewey613Man
over a year ago

ottawa

I haven’t been able to since I was a full intercourse virgin, although I’ve been given plenty of chances.

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By *ewey613Man
over a year ago

ottawa

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I tend to think of it as foreplay, because I really want the Main Event, so sometimes I don’t get into it.

But when it’s openly ‘just’ a blowjob for my own selfish pleasure it’s a whole different scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm hi OP for each guy I'd sat it's different in terms of coming from oral ...you've got to be open about what feels good and what does and where to simulate ...may take some time but it will happen

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By *pentoall555Man
over a year ago

benfleet

I’m the same. It just doesn’t happen,I seem to need the firmer touch that hands provide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hmm hi OP for each guy I'd say it's different in terms of coming from oral ...you've got to be open about what feels good and what doesn't and where to simulate ...may take some time but it will happen "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to be the same until I met my partner aka the dick wizard!"

Dick wizard - love that

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By *nly DickCouple (MM)
over a year ago

chichester

It's the ladies technique for me.

All oral feels great but some definitely have the ability to make guys cum ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I always struggled to cum from a blowjob but C seems to have the right technique! I assumed I just never would but C just had the magic touch!

So hold out hope, the right woman is probably out there somewhere

Mr

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I always struggle, and it does feel a bit awkward...

I enjoy the sensation, but sometimes it gets too intense, and I just can't cum.

I likely have a lot of mental blocks, mind

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

I did until I met T, no longer an issue.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

As a cuck I’ve watched Dee suck a number of cocks over the years and as someone has mentioned on this thread previously, circumcised cocks seem to take more attention to make them cum, but I will be honest and say I don’t think I can remember watching Dee suck a cock that didn’t cum in her mouth.

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By *hocboy587Man
over a year ago

London

Yes blowjobs feel great but not enough to get me over the edge.

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By *ercury oneMan
over a year ago

Chippenham

Im bi and only ever cum once from a blow job from a woman but men always make me cum

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Never had a problem cumming from oral but I do now sometimes fail to cum when fucking. I think the visuals in oral make a difference, at least to me. Being sucked always makes me hard.

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By *oupot56Man
over a year ago

Ruislip

Never cum from a blow job close didn’t happen

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By *host1100Man
over a year ago

Near Falkirk

Absolutely not you, I find it a real struggle and actually end up finishing myself off 99.9% of the time !!

It’s not the quality or anything like that it just doesn’t REALLY do it I don’t think !!

But actually my ex partner used to slide down and suck the balls, then lick the really good bit between balls & arse until I finished in her mouth, so every cloud and all that lol

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

G: never., A: never ... oral is very much part of our scene ...

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I enjoy good oral but I very rarely cum from it. Luke

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By *he Bearded Rock GeekMan
over a year ago

Hotel

I'm the same, I love receiving oral but I find the stimulation not quite right to cum.

As you say I then get a bit worked up and it definitely doesn't happen

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By *ieman80Man
over a year ago

halifax

Yep only happened very occasionally love the feeling when I do but doesn’t happen nearly as often as I’d like

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By *orthernman71Man
over a year ago

N

Great feeling to cum of a nice BJ …but unfortunately doesn’t happen often enough

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Never a problem cumming during oral here ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the woman's enthusiasm for giving head. I have been sucked off by girls that really don't like it at all and doing purely to please me as a compromise, a blowjob like that is usually crap imo and I usually have to take over at the end and beat off to finish.

When a bird loves blowing guys more than anything OMG a dick sucking like that makes me grind my teeth and curl my toes.

A blowjob like that makes me absolutely explode and generally speaking a girl like that will still keep going hell for leather after you nut in her mouth and can be that intense I can't take more and pull out before she stops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a certain few have managed to make my cum with just oral

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I have never cum from oral alone.

Male bodied people tend to be better at getting 'almost there' but nope. not yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to struggle to orgams from oral as I used to be insecure about how I looked down there

Mental blocks during sexy time are actually the worst cause you can get so close to orgasm and then it just goes away randomly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally

I think it depends on when you last had sex ?

as in if you leave it alone for a few days there is more chance of it happening

Also how horny you are at the time and from experience fucking is more frantic as in the moment but we are all different .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a "normal" blowjob- I enjoy them a lot but it's very rare for me to cum from one.

Face fucking/deep throating is a different story though.

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Mrs has some good tongue piercings so all helps

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Just intrigued really, I have not cum from a blowjob EVER which is a) frustrating and b) awkward. I suspect it’s not a mental block and as the giver tires I get more anxious about cumming

Is it just me? "

It’s not just you mate, I rarely cum from a bj either, 2017 was the last time lol!

I think it’s a mental block for me, based around the fact women really only want to make a cock hard for penetration, they don’t want the fun to ‘end’ if they make me cum too soon…..? Who knows? Maybe I just need to find the ‘right woman’…..

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By *uietguy689Man
over a year ago

Oxford

Have never cum from oral. I enjoy it just never gets me there, much to the disappointment of both.

I feel really awkward that I'm letting my partner down, prob doesn't help mentally

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By *ora 123Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Has to be a really special one. Only cum with a couple of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly oral is all about the journey, not the destination. Both parties can enjoy it without it being about whether the guy cums or not.

Need to take the pressure off! Enjoy the sensation and the attention.

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By *onicZMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Only two people have managed to make me cum from oral and the 2nd person had a lot of help from the 1st.

I don't know what she does different but it's mind blowing. That said, it could be down to the connection we have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s only happened twice in my long life! As others have said though, it’s all about the journey.

If and when it happens again it’ll be worth it !

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

So I'm in the same boat as somebody else further up the thread - I get right to the edge but can't quite tip over. It's definitely not that I don't enjoy it, it's tremendous fun, it's just that very final step! It gets ridiculously sensitive and quickly quite painful to be on the edge like that for an extended period, so I generally have to stop because it hurts like hell.

Nice to see it's not an uncommon situation though, I always thought I was weird. Well, I know that I'm weird, but you know. I thought THIS was weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm in the same boat as somebody else further up the thread - I get right to the edge but can't quite tip over. It's definitely not that I don't enjoy it, it's tremendous fun, it's just that very final step! It gets ridiculously sensitive and quickly quite painful to be on the edge like that for an extended period, so I generally have to stop because it hurts like hell.

Nice to see it's not an uncommon situation though, I always thought I was weird. Well, I know that I'm weird, but you know. I thought THIS was weird."

This seems like a pretty good way to be though. Enjoy riding the edge and then pull out, a couple of quick strokes and you're cumming on a willing participant

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Yes my wife gives me wonderful bj & I want to cum but just can't.

I feel terrible for her that I don't

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Yeah I always struggled to cum from a blowjob but C seems to have the right technique! I assumed I just never would but C just had the magic touch!

So hold out hope, the right woman is probably out there somewhere

Mr "

Lucky man! And here’s hoping

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Just intrigued really, I have not cum from a blowjob EVER which is a) frustrating and b) awkward. I suspect it’s not a mental block and as the giver tires I get more anxious about cumming

Is it just me? "

Cunnilingus does nothing for me. It can be nice but never orgasmic or a must have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair it take skill to make me cum from a blow job. Some are too keen and some simply just don’t know what they are doing. But when you find a mouth that slowly caresses your cock , especially while look go to your eyes . That is what gets me going

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"A few guys have said they can’t come from oral, then Sammi slides balls deep on them and they cum down her throat.

Her technique is pretty great "

Amazing. Well done Sammi

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By *armale69Man
over a year ago

warrington

It takes a lot more effort to make me cum these days. One of the benefits maybe of us older gents

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By *ohnwest20Man
over a year ago

consett

Used to yea, just need to find the right person to do it

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By *xfordrobbieMan
over a year ago

oxford

I cum from oral , wanking & have cum from being fingered/fucked with no cock play involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to, until I realised all I needed to do was tell people exactly what I like and what felt good. Problem solved

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

I had that problem until ive come to uk in 2004 but after women deepthroat me i didn't had any problems..now its hard not to cum lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never. I cum very well every time

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By *i_guy37Man
over a year ago

Oxford

I used to when I was younger. It was definitely a nerves thing. No problems now fortunately.

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By *oulivCouple
over a year ago

Newtown

I never could cum from oral until a one night stand made me do it in her kitchen, I literally dropped on the floor and was mind blown. After that nothing for years until Lou, she made me cum from the first blowjob after me warning her it probably wont do much and don't be disappointed, she never fails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve actually forgotten what it feels like so I’m sure I won’t struggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only been with one person who made me cum from a blow job, she spit all over me and mainly used her hands, was amazing

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By *neforutoMan
over a year ago

Fantasy land in the SW

Im the opposite, I struggle to cum when shagging, although it has been a while, but I love good blowjobs. I find the head of my cock gets really sensitive and that can be off putting but sucking on me when my head stays in the mouth is great

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I was like this when I was younger and less confident. Now I'm more experienced and confident I'm able to relax and get into the moment more. Obviously the skill level of the lady has an impact too

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

It can take a while for me sometimes I must say.

I think a lot of it is what's going on in your mind, and what you're thinking about can accelerate it.

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By *rizlarMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

I cum far too quickly from a bj

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I struggle too from just a BJ, but then I don’t come quick anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes struggle but i think that's a stress related thing, I'm hopeful with some work and life changes the stress will ease

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Sometimes. But more that I'm girthy I think.

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Never have

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I can, but it can be difficult to get over the edge sometimes. I tend to stay on the edge for ages which brings its own form of pleasurable torture.

Mrs would be more likely to get me there than strangers in a meet, as she knows what I like, though I'd like to try someone that can deepthroat (Mrs gag reflex is particularly sensitive).

One thing I have found is that some people struggle with an uncut cock. Don't know if it's because porn has tons more that are cut, but it's very sensitive/sore when people just yank the skin back and suck like I'm circumsised... takes my breath away and not in a good way!"

I find this too that my helmet is very sensitive and the wrong technique can be too much for me. I will generally cum from a BJ (and love it), but have had occasions when I've thought ghis could go on all day and I still wouldn't cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably only have 2 or 3 times in my life. I think sometimes it’s in my head, sometimes it’s technique, but mostly, it’s not my biggest turn on. I like to be in control and display my dominance. I’ve kind of accepted it is what it is and just communicate to my sexual partner (if needed) why it is.

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By *e-funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I’ve never struggled to cum from a blow job, I guess my wife must be good at them, however I have never had a blow job from anyone else so I wouldn’t know the difference in technique, etc.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I very rarely recieve oral when having sex.

When dogging though, I always cum from a blowjob. Intensity and the sensation is completely different

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By *ussyslave34Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Don't think have either.

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By *ustaverageguyMan
over a year ago

Durham

Not usually a problem, but couldn’t last night - my playmate could’ve been going for hours and it wouldn’t have happened, but she managed earlier in the day; different times / sensations etc

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By *reampie_yourwifeMan
over a year ago

barnsley

Same here, never cum through a bj but never really bothered me tbh

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By *inkyisfunukMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

It entirely depends on the skill of the lady giving it…

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

If I fancy them it’s never been an issue.

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Must vary with the mood

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By *urious_CB22Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

It depends on who is giving me the oral. Some people are more adept at it than others, when someone if not good it certainly makes it hard for me to cum or even to stay hard.

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By *atfuckerbristolMan
over a year ago

Wells

Sometimes it takes a while. A bit of eye contact with the blower usually seals the deal though!

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes I don’t cum from oral , I can’t relax

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I was like this until I met a girl who had no gag reflex. Then I could ALWAYS cum from her oral, and life was pretty great

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