FabSwingers.com forum: How many messages?

By *hanfunnew OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Typically on a sat how many messages do you get in here?

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Anywhere between 20-50 on a Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a couple a week but we have single guys filtered out so that probably keeps the number right down!

Not sure why we don’t get many messages though

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Usually 15-20 but I've said I'm not meeting anyone at the moment so it's slowed to about 5.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere between 0 and 0

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

None,and not just Saturday.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"We get a couple a week but we have single guys filtered out so that probably keeps the number right down!

Not sure why we don’t get many messages though

Thats probably why, I’m happy to send some of mine your way

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

A handful a day usually, more If we add pics.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually get the same amount of messages regardless of the day but usually in the realm of 15-30 messages.

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By *hanfunnew OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Typically on a sat how many messages do you get in here?"

Typically of a day. As in daily on average

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

10-15, I guess. Three or four times that if we’ve been on cam

Of those, about 80% are one liners and are never answered

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By *rKingsmanMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Anywhere between -1 to 0

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By *xiled BikerMan
over a year ago

Beverley

Currently averaging zero, fireworks and celebration always follow a message perhaps it should be a bank holiday when I get a message!

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By *hanfunnew OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Somewhere between 0 and 0

Same here

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Mansfield

There's usually around 10 _ 15 sat waiting on a weekend morning. Think ppl just get horny after a night out. I know we do.

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By *xxpineapplexxXCouple
over a year ago

Dorking

I'd have to say around 10 to 20 if we are on alot

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By *igforfun100Man
over a year ago

Magherafelt

Regular messages from some top drawer friends here. And occasionally pleasant ones from new folk if pictures are posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My average per day is in the range of zero

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

In a day, maybe max 10. I don't get a lot. Most of the time is 3 or 4. If I posted a pic or a meet then I know I'd get a lot more.

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By *erseykevMan
over a year ago

St Helier

Only ever get messages from guy's who am not interested in!

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

We very rarely get messages

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

About 6-8

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By *hirdTimesACharmCouple
over a year ago

northamptonshire

Currently on 214 unread lol

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

About 5 or 6 most are from single guys with no profile that have just joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Somewhere between 0 and 0

Well your average still beter than mine, 0 and 0 in couple of months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Typically on a sat how many messages do you get in here?"

Not much but sometimes I do.

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By *orthwestladinbrumMan
over a year ago

erdington

Usually get beaked up messages in between 2 and 5 am. And that's just me talking to myself

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By *ylonlickMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Unfortunately it will be about 0 and 1, a week.

Think I need to change my profile

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think I’m lucky just to get a look or possibly a block

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I'd say around 50, more if I post a photo or video.

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

"Anywhere between 20-50 on a Saturday "

Hahahahahaha, pause for breath, Hahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anywhere between 20-50 on a Saturday

Hahahahahaha, pause for breath, Hahahahahaha "

They could be all from guys.

So not so unbelievable.

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By *edwing68Man
over a year ago

Chatham

About one a month ???? but seriously, if i didnt message first, i dont think id get any, its tough on here for a bloke, not unless your swe and male model looks..

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By *edwing68Man
over a year ago

Chatham

You get 50 messages ? Lol really ?

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"Anywhere between 20-50 on a Saturday

Hahahahahaha, pause for breath, Hahahahahaha

They could be all from guys.

So not so unbelievable. "

It is from guys maybe the odd couple here and there but easily 99% guys.

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By *edwing68Man
over a year ago

Chatham

Same here dude..

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Somewhere between the wide range of 0 to 1 if I'm lucky it might go to 2

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"You get 50 messages ? Lol really ?"

Thats on the high end one weekend when i first opened my profile to include guys yes but on the typical weekend it can range in that figure yes.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *ndyPandyLoopyLouCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Currently on 214 unread lol"

OMG!!! Will you catch up or just delete??

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Maybe 2 or 0 and the 2 are wasting their time.

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

200

With 5-10 worthwhile

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We receive very few in a week. Sometimes a few more if we post a new photo.

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By *hanfunnew OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"We receive very few in a week. Sometimes a few more if we post a new photo.

That's interesting I thought couples would get loads

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

I've had 1 message since I joined, from a chap offering advice off the back of a forum thread I started.

Not had one since.

Not expecting any, not many people looking for cantankerous old bustards.

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By *hanfunnew OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Maybe 2 or 0 and the 2 are wasting their time."

I'm really surprised. Thought you'd be inundated

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By *hanfunnew OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Currently on 214 unread lol

OMG!!! Will you catch up or just delete??"

It's a losing battle on once you got that many unread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally 20-50 a day everyday

Mast are replied to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally 20-50 a day everyday

Mast are replied to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes 5 or less, sometimes 10 or 20, we have message filters on, couldn't cope with much more than that.. not sure how some single women on here cope with 100s daily

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

This profile is about 9 or 10 months old and we're have had less than 30 messages in total during that time so a pretty low average.

On my single profile I average 1 message every couple of months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I've taken my face pics off its dwindled dramatically. If I'm online it's always more around 20 or so if I haven't been around then around 5.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure but I don't think I've ever had anyone message me first, had a couple of winks from couples and girls and I've messaged them first, I've got a few friends who I know I can chat to anytime

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By *hanfunnew OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Not sure but I don't think I've ever had anyone message me first, had a couple of winks from couples and girls and I've messaged them first, I've got a few friends who I know I can chat to anytime

I think men need to put note effort in. Don't think many men get approached first

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By *hanfunnew OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Since I've taken my face pics off its dwindled dramatically. If I'm online it's always more around 20 or so if I haven't been around then around 5. "

That's reasonable to manage?

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By *ucifer And MazikeenCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Depends on our status update where we are and if we have added a new pic/video

If we are away like in Blackpool between 5-30 if we add a pic/video between 10-50

If it’s a working Saturday for us 0-5

But out of the mass of messages we only probably get 1-5 worth replying to rest are the typical

Hi , meet now , no effort style messages left unread

And no it’s not just single males left unread there are lots of fems and couples unread for the same reason

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Not as many on a Sat, as single men suddenly remember they have a wife or gf. They tend to stay off Fab on Sat's. Week day, daytimes our box explodes.

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By *it4uMan
over a year ago

Brighton / Eastbourne / SW France

I get zero unless I message 1st, then I’ll get about 50% back

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

No messages and it is the same for most days as well

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By *ubmit me for funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Currently have 95 unread messages since yesterday. X

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Saturday and Sunday daytimes we get very few from "single" men but plenty from couples.

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By *orksguy1965Man
over a year ago

Howden

Very rare I get any

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

"Somewhere between 0 and 0

Agreed...

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

I get the same message from the same "straight" guy every week. I normally don't reply to lame, low-effort messages but I find it funny to keep this one going. It goes something like this:

Him - You ok?

Me - I am.

Him - Up to much?

Me - No.

Him - Hey.

Me - Hey.

Him - Up to much?

Me - No.

Him - You ok?

Me - Not bad.

Him - Up to much?

Me - No.

Etc...

It's been going on for a few months now

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Usually two or three from friends catching up, making plans but most established connections move to WhatsApp. I get maybe two or three from couples and singles on the lead up and during the weekends.

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By *IRRAL VOYUERMan
over a year ago

Rock Ferry

Might get a few off straight guys asking do I suck cock

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"I get the same message from the same "straight" guy every week. I normally don't reply to lame, low-effort messages but I find it funny to keep this one going. It goes something like this:

Him - You ok?

Me - I am.

Him - Up to much?

Me - No.

Him - Hey.

Me - Hey.

Him - Up to much?

Me - No.

Him - You ok?

Me - Not bad.

Him - Up to much?

Me - No.

Etc...

It's been going on for a few months now

This is great

He’s gonna break soon, grow some balls and ask…

‘Any plans for the weekend?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not as many on a Sat, as single men suddenly remember they have a wife or gf. They tend to stay off Fab on Sat's. Week day, daytimes our box explodes.

If your box is exploding, someone’s clearly doing something right

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

"I get the same message from the same "straight" guy every week. I normally don't reply to lame, low-effort messages but I find it funny to keep this one going. It goes something like this:

Him - You ok?

Me - I am.

Him - Up to much?

Me - No.

Him - Hey.

Me - Hey.

Him - Up to much?

Me - No.

Him - You ok?

Me - Not bad.

Him - Up to much?

Me - No.

Etc...

It's been going on for a few months now

This is great

He’s gonna break soon, grow some balls and ask…

‘Any plans for the weekend?’

Just had another:

Him - How are you?

Me - That's the question isn't it. How? Why? What is the meaning of it all? Some say that the answer is 42.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"I get the same message from the same "straight" guy every week. I normally don't reply to lame, low-effort messages but I find it funny to keep this one going. It goes something like this:

Him - You ok?

Me - I am.

Him - Up to much?

Me - No.

Him - Hey.

Me - Hey.

Him - Up to much?

Me - No.

Him - You ok?

Me - Not bad.

Him - Up to much?

Me - No.

Etc...

It's been going on for a few months now

This is great

He’s gonna break soon, grow some balls and ask…

‘Any plans for the weekend?’

Just had another:

Him - How are you?

Me - That's the question isn't it. How? Why? What is the meaning of it all? Some say that the answer is 42.

Do you think this might be the new Fabswingers site AI bot

‘Alternative Intelligence’

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