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Myself, I have eschewed gender compliance and like to get my stimulation wherever I can...
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" Because most males think being Bi isn't masculine ??..... "Totally this. You're female and like a bit of fanny? Phwoarr... totally acceptable. Male? Disgusting to even consider another cock. | |||
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" Because most males think being Bi isn't masculine ??..... "Actually, from the trillion threads on here re this issue, it's more the fact that some women find bi men less masculine, or unappealing for some reason. Also some couples are dubious because they worry the guy is gonna be the victim of the uncontrollable urges of bi men. Why risk reducing an already small area of Fab? Of course, there are those that think being bi is unmanly, but it's alright to kneel before a guy and suck his cock. Lies and delusion are in no short supply here, hence the "Fab straight" contingent  | |||
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"That makes sense. Not to hinder chances as I often see “no bi men” on couples profiles. Personally I’ve been with two bi men. As long as everyone is safe their label doesn’t bother me " The thing is, those who have 'no bi men' have probably already had bi men in the home, in their wife, around them and are non the wiser. It's almost like they arent irresistible to bi men like they think they are. | |||
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In all there shouldnt be a label..its all fun in my view | |||
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"That makes sense. Not to hinder chances as I often see “no bi men” on couples profiles. Personally I’ve been with two bi men. As long as everyone is safe their label doesn’t bother me The thing is, those who have 'no bi men' have probably already had bi men in the home, in their wife, around them and are non the wiser. It's almost like they arent irresistible to bi men like they think they are. " This.  | |||
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"We’re openly bisexual and if people can’t deal with it, tough. Freedom of expression is a right, we’ll never judge anyone. Masculinity isn’t affected in the slightest, I’m a man and proud of it. Just because I like cock doesn’t change a thing. Is being greedy a problem? Well apparently it is to most on here. Live and be free to be who you want to be. Trolls love these threads. Lol x" Love this reply  | |||
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"I agree the very stark difference between bi sexuality on here in society and especially on here Women’s Bi sexuality runs from Encouraged / to / Almsot Expected But Bi sexuality in a male runs from slightly frowned upon / to / that’s gross go away How ever having had a penis all my life Just as a straight guy I know atleast a reasonable guess why Men are greedy pigs They will stick it anywhere they can as often as they can And getting them to always wear protection Is like getting a toddler to keep their shoes on when you leave the room So gay bi men Left alone it’s likely to be a bare back fee for all and then they want to come and play with a married couple There is a heightened risk of all manner of problems I also agree many probably have played with the bi guy who hides it So are still exposed to that risk Which is why single males are just less often sought after And couples more often play with couples They all know where each other has been " Preview: This is such a bad take. Most men meet men (usually for a blowjob) because it's about 1,000 times easier to get then meeting a woman/couple. That's it. It has nothing to do with "men are reckless, mindless animals" that want to fuck everything bare - that might apply to you, but it certainly doesn't apply to me or most men we know, regardless of their sexuality. | |||
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" Because most males think being Bi isn't masculine ??..... "If fucking a big strong man isn't masculine then? | |||
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"I agree the very stark difference between bi sexuality on here in society and especially on here Women’s Bi sexuality runs from Encouraged / to / Almsot Expected But Bi sexuality in a male runs from slightly frowned upon / to / that’s gross go away How ever having had a penis all my life Just as a straight guy I know atleast a reasonable guess why Men are greedy pigs They will stick it anywhere they can as often as they can And getting them to always wear protection Is like getting a toddler to keep their shoes on when you leave the room So gay bi men Left alone it’s likely to be a bare back fee for all and then they want to come and play with a married couple There is a heightened risk of all manner of problems I also agree many probably have played with the bi guy who hides it So are still exposed to that risk Which is why single males are just less often sought after And couples more often play with couples They all know where each other has been Preview: This is such a bad take. Most men meet men (usually for a blowjob) because it's about 1,000 times easier to get then meeting a woman/couple. That's it. It has nothing to do with "men are reckless, mindless animals" that want to fuck everything bare - that might apply to you, but it certainly doesn't apply to me or most men we know, regardless of their sexuality. " Well I’m glad that has been your experience But having been around swinging since befor the internet when it was contact magazines And been around kink and fetish for 20 yrs And been an event organiser for parties I am actually qualified to speak on the subject and my absolute experience is that my statement was not “ a bad take “ But an entirely accurate take backed up by multiple decades of significantly in depth experience But if it makes you so uncomfortable that this is the case feel free to try and be derogatory towards me again I don’t mind  | |||
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"I agree the very stark difference between bi sexuality on here in society and especially on here Women’s Bi sexuality runs from Encouraged / to / Almsot Expected But Bi sexuality in a male runs from slightly frowned upon / to / that’s gross go away How ever having had a penis all my life Just as a straight guy I know atleast a reasonable guess why Men are greedy pigs They will stick it anywhere they can as often as they can And getting them to always wear protection Is like getting a toddler to keep their shoes on when you leave the room So gay bi men Left alone it’s likely to be a bare back fee for all and then they want to come and play with a married couple There is a heightened risk of all manner of problems I also agree many probably have played with the bi guy who hides it So are still exposed to that risk Which is why single males are just less often sought after And couples more often play with couples They all know where each other has been Preview: This is such a bad take. Most men meet men (usually for a blowjob) because it's about 1,000 times easier to get then meeting a woman/couple. That's it. It has nothing to do with "men are reckless, mindless animals" that want to fuck everything bare - that might apply to you, but it certainly doesn't apply to me or most men we know, regardless of their sexuality. Well I’m glad that has been your experience But having been around swinging since befor the internet when it was contact magazines And been around kink and fetish for 20 yrs And been an event organiser for parties I am actually qualified to speak on the subject and my absolute experience is that my statement was not “ a bad take “ But an entirely accurate take backed up by multiple decades of significantly in depth experience But if it makes you so uncomfortable that this is the case feel free to try and be derogatory towards me again I don’t mind "This is definitely what popcorn was made for. Hopefully the debate will find the truth. | |||
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"We’re openly bisexual and if people can’t deal with it, tough. Freedom of expression is a right, we’ll never judge anyone. Masculinity isn’t affected in the slightest, I’m a man and proud of it. Just because I like cock doesn’t change a thing. Is being greedy a problem? Well apparently it is to most on here. Live and be free to be who you want to be. Trolls love these threads. Lol x" totally agree. We have written our profile to explain who.we are and what we enjoy. Both enjoy the freedom when meeting women, men or couples and feel that it is right to be up front about our sexuality. Only looking for people who like our profile! Lol | |||
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"We’re openly bisexual and if people can’t deal with it, tough. Freedom of expression is a right, we’ll never judge anyone. Masculinity isn’t affected in the slightest, I’m a man and proud of it. Just because I like cock doesn’t change a thing. Is being greedy a problem? Well apparently it is to most on here. Live and be free to be who you want to be. Trolls love these threads. Lol x"  | |||
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"We’re openly bisexual and if people can’t deal with it, tough. Freedom of expression is a right, we’ll never judge anyone. Masculinity isn’t affected in the slightest, I’m a man and proud of it. Just because I like cock doesn’t change a thing. Is being greedy a problem? Well apparently it is to most on here. Live and be free to be who you want to be. Trolls love these threads. Lol x "Exactly | |||
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"I agree the very stark difference between bi sexuality on here in society and especially on here Women’s Bi sexuality runs from Encouraged / to / Almsot Expected But Bi sexuality in a male runs from slightly frowned upon / to / that’s gross go away How ever having had a penis all my life Just as a straight guy I know atleast a reasonable guess why Men are greedy pigs They will stick it anywhere they can as often as they can And getting them to always wear protection Is like getting a toddler to keep their shoes on when you leave the room So gay bi men Left alone it’s likely to be a bare back fee for all and then they want to come and play with a married couple There is a heightened risk of all manner of problems I also agree many probably have played with the bi guy who hides it So are still exposed to that risk Which is why single males are just less often sought after And couples more often play with couples They all know where each other has been Preview: This is such a bad take. Most men meet men (usually for a blowjob) because it's about 1,000 times easier to get then meeting a woman/couple. That's it. It has nothing to do with "men are reckless, mindless animals" that want to fuck everything bare - that might apply to you, but it certainly doesn't apply to me or most men we know, regardless of their sexuality. Well I’m glad that has been your experience But having been around swinging since befor the internet when it was contact magazines And been around kink and fetish for 20 yrs And been an event organiser for parties I am actually qualified to speak on the subject and my absolute experience is that my statement was not “ a bad take “ But an entirely accurate take backed up by multiple decades of significantly in depth experience But if it makes you so uncomfortable that this is the case feel free to try and be derogatory towards me again I don’t mind "I've also been part of the scene for 20 years, done the clubs, events, parties - you name it. And my significant in-depth experience likely involves a lot more experience with bi/gay men than yours, since you're straight. So, since we're both using anecdotal evidence, my point is that not all men are the same - especially bi men - and MAYBE making sweeping generalisations about a particular group of people (which includes both of us) isn't that helpful, especially when they already face stigma. | |||
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"I agree the very stark difference between bi sexuality on here in society and especially on here Women’s Bi sexuality runs from Encouraged / to / Almsot Expected But Bi sexuality in a male runs from slightly frowned upon / to / that’s gross go away How ever having had a penis all my life Just as a straight guy I know atleast a reasonable guess why Men are greedy pigs They will stick it anywhere they can as often as they can And getting them to always wear protection Is like getting a toddler to keep their shoes on when you leave the room So gay bi men Left alone it’s likely to be a bare back fee for all and then they want to come and play with a married couple There is a heightened risk of all manner of problems I also agree many probably have played with the bi guy who hides it So are still exposed to that risk Which is why single males are just less often sought after And couples more often play with couples They all know where each other has been Preview: This is such a bad take. Most men meet men (usually for a blowjob) because it's about 1,000 times easier to get then meeting a woman/couple. That's it. It has nothing to do with "men are reckless, mindless animals" that want to fuck everything bare - that might apply to you, but it certainly doesn't apply to me or most men we know, regardless of their sexuality. Well I’m glad that has been your experience But having been around swinging since befor the internet when it was contact magazines And been around kink and fetish for 20 yrs And been an event organiser for parties I am actually qualified to speak on the subject and my absolute experience is that my statement was not “ a bad take “ But an entirely accurate take backed up by multiple decades of significantly in depth experience But if it makes you so uncomfortable that this is the case feel free to try and be derogatory towards me again I don’t mind
I've also been part of the scene for 20 years, done the clubs, events, parties - you name it. And my significant in-depth experience likely involves a lot more experience with bi/gay men than yours, since you're straight.
So, since we're both using anecdotal evidence, my point is that not all men are the same - especially bi men - and MAYBE making sweeping generalisations about a particular group of people (which includes both of us) isn't that helpful, especially when they already face stigma. "Perfect reply. | |||
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"I agree the very stark difference between bi sexuality on here in society and especially on here Women’s Bi sexuality runs from Encouraged / to / Almsot Expected But Bi sexuality in a male runs from slightly frowned upon / to / that’s gross go away How ever having had a penis all my life Just as a straight guy I know atleast a reasonable guess why Men are greedy pigs They will stick it anywhere they can as often as they can And getting them to always wear protection Is like getting a toddler to keep their shoes on when you leave the room So gay bi men Left alone it’s likely to be a bare back fee for all and then they want to come and play with a married couple There is a heightened risk of all manner of problems I also agree many probably have played with the bi guy who hides it So are still exposed to that risk Which is why single males are just less often sought after And couples more often play with couples They all know where each other has been Preview: This is such a bad take. Most men meet men (usually for a blowjob) because it's about 1,000 times easier to get then meeting a woman/couple. That's it. It has nothing to do with "men are reckless, mindless animals" that want to fuck everything bare - that might apply to you, but it certainly doesn't apply to me or most men we know, regardless of their sexuality. Well I’m glad that has been your experience But having been around swinging since befor the internet when it was contact magazines And been around kink and fetish for 20 yrs And been an event organiser for parties I am actually qualified to speak on the subject and my absolute experience is that my statement was not “ a bad take “ But an entirely accurate take backed up by multiple decades of significantly in depth experience But if it makes you so uncomfortable that this is the case feel free to try and be derogatory towards me again I don’t mind
I've also been part of the scene for 20 years, done the clubs, events, parties - you name it. And my significant in-depth experience likely involves a lot more experience with bi/gay men than yours, since you're straight.
So, since we're both using anecdotal evidence, my point is that not all men are the same - especially bi men - and MAYBE making sweeping generalisations about a particular group of people (which includes both of us) isn't that helpful, especially when they already face stigma. Perfect reply. "It isn’t actually , firstly they somewhat missed my point I agreed there shouldn’t be the stigma there is My apparently sweeping statement was more about the general behavior of all men regarding protection. And I’m reasonably happy to accept that the profile that has taken issue has more experience specifically in Bi or gay play But one event I have run was a TV appreciation event and I remember one person used a condom I remember it Cos it was the only one ! No one else did and as for a many many many straight events Exactly the same everyone says in there profile they play safe but don’t And then once you place the very much increased amount of casual sex within the gay / bi community Then the fact they are all men and in the moment are far less likely to use protection wether gay / bi / or straight There was and isn’t anything wrong with my statement | |||
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