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"It's not too taboo" | |||
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"Is this white people dressing up as black people and vice versa? Think it’s frowned upon these days tbh. " LMAO...never thought of that to funny. | |||
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"Is this white people dressing up as black people and vice versa? Think it’s frowned upon these days tbh. " I was about to pull my Black and White Minstrels costume out of the closet then...damn | |||
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"Is this white people dressing up as black people and vice versa? Think it’s frowned upon these days tbh. " But NO, just to confirm LOL | |||
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"Who's into race play? Or is that to taboo?" Aren't these just "inter racial meets" or... to be wholly woke.."meets". Surely the persons colour is an incidental in the attraction process? | |||
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"Going to guess it’s stuff like people being superior/inferior due to race. In that instance it’s not something I would ever even remotely consider, but just treat like you would any other fairly extreme kink. Ensure all parties are fully aware & consent to EVERY little detail. I would advise writing down and signing to say understood & agreed." So you advocate signing a contract before entering into play with someone of another colour? I think you might be overthinking this. | |||
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"Is this white people dressing up as black people and vice versa? Think it’s frowned upon these days tbh. I was about to pull my Black and White Minstrels costume out of the closet then...damn " It will be moth eaten by now!!! | |||
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"Going to guess it’s stuff like people being superior/inferior due to race. In that instance it’s not something I would ever even remotely consider, but just treat like you would any other fairly extreme kink. Ensure all parties are fully aware & consent to EVERY little detail. I would advise writing down and signing to say understood & agreed. So you advocate signing a contract before entering into play with someone of another colour? I think you might be overthinking this." I think they mean if you start using "racist" terminology etc. | |||
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"Is this white people dressing up as black people and vice versa? Think it’s frowned upon these days tbh. I was about to pull my Black and White Minstrels costume out of the closet then...damn It will be moth eaten by now!!! " I still wear it occasionally, just without the "Black Face". (Disclaimer: jokes are written in context of this thread and in no way adhere to anything that I have ever done.) | |||
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"Ok, in all seriousness....what is it ?" I think at its core it has to do with the sub and dominant dynamic. It's using inappropriate words and being demeaning on the basis that it gets both parties off Using Racial dynamics. | |||
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"Ok, in all seriousness....what is it ? I think at its core it has to do with the sub and dominant dynamic. It's using inappropriate words and being demeaning on the basis that it gets both parties off Using Racial dynamics." Mmm. Ok. So using the N word and similar white alternatives ? Because Dom/sub has never been racially biased. Throughout history more people of same colour have dominated their peers. Is it a very niche thing with specific role play? | |||
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"Going to guess it’s stuff like people being superior/inferior due to race. In that instance it’s not something I would ever even remotely consider, but just treat like you would any other fairly extreme kink. Ensure all parties are fully aware & consent to EVERY little detail. I would advise writing down and signing to say understood & agreed. So you advocate signing a contract before entering into play with someone of another colour? I think you might be overthinking this." I advocate signing something for anything towards the extreme, yes. Got to protect yourself. | |||
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"Going to guess it’s stuff like people being superior/inferior due to race. In that instance it’s not something I would ever even remotely consider, but just treat like you would any other fairly extreme kink. Ensure all parties are fully aware & consent to EVERY little detail. I would advise writing down and signing to say understood & agreed. So you advocate signing a contract before entering into play with someone of another colour? I think you might be overthinking this." I don't think it's overthinking at all. And no not when you're playing with anyone of a different race to yourself. But when you're looking to play in areas around race play (especially with humiliation - which is how most people playing in this area are looking to play), having defined limits and having well negotiated is essential. Personally it's not for me, but as someone who has a thing for humiliation, I can understand why it is a thing for some people. Although given the sensitive nature of such play (and the legal implications) I personally think such play should be kept private as opposed to in clubs etc. | |||
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"Have done it both ways. When first approached about it it was a huge fucking no. Ya racist twat. But after that I thought more on it an now love it on special occasions. I used to be a life long sub but found my domme side too. Its now just used as another fetish, playing close to a trigger but consent b4 the event. I know I'm a strong powerful black woman so not mind being someone's bitch for an hour, it don't change who I am after. I've seen people do it 24/7 but thats not for me. But have also known those who act like a pet 24/7. Live and let live " I think I'm always going to raise an eyebrow when the person encouraging or asking for race play is white. I've played that way when I was working as a Pro Dom, but only ever when asked for it and I've never been wholly comfortable with it... But like with most extreme forms of play i can see how it's as much about taking control of a situation or reclaiming it, much like the play that can't be mentioned that rhymes with vape. | |||
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"Why do people think this dynamic goes only one way? More black people have been taken by black people than white. More white people have been taken by black peoples than they have taken. Human trafficking is always about power and has never been based on colour. The modern arrogance of thinking that it was constrained to one period and involved only one race taking another is just ridiculous. Barbara pirates were operating off our coasts only a short time ago and taking English seamen to be used in Arabia and Africa. Role play that one. " Dude don’t bring that into something that’s purely a kink/fetish. | |||
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"Ok, but to fetishise a leftist agenda and make race an issue is just wrong. Race play should be all inclusive and not a narrowed perception of a moment in time. We spend all our time talking about eradicating racism. Let's start actually living that...everywhere. " There’s no leftist agenda here. Race play should be whatever the consenting adults want it to be. | |||
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"Who's into race play? Or is that to taboo? Aren't these just "inter racial meets" or... to be wholly woke.."meets". Surely the persons colour is an incidental in the attraction process?" ........................ It's where the race isn't incidental to the attraction and race is fetishised. | |||
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"I love race place. I like the white girls to go full on Ms Cottonworth of the Conttonfield plantation on me I give them scripts and questions of what to say to a point and give them flexibility to just act out" I wasn’t sure exactly what it was until the missus (ex pro Domme) described similar to what you’re into (and waaaaaaay “worse”). | |||
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"Who's into race play? Or is that to taboo? Aren't these just "inter racial meets" or... to be wholly woke.."meets". Surely the persons colour is an incidental in the attraction process? ........................ It's where the race isn't incidental to the attraction and race is fetishised." So purely about race ? There are no other characteristics they like? Short, fat,tall,bald,disabled ? How are these different from BBC lovers ? | |||
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"Is raceplay only black people or like can we play Chinese girl and mongol horde warrior. Klingon and Cardassian Or is it always plantation owner and blacks in shackles? " | |||
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"Who's into race play? Or is that to taboo?" Yes please | |||
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"I love race place. I like the white girls to go full on Ms Cottonworth of the Conttonfield plantation on me I give them scripts and questions of what to say to a point and give them flexibility to just act out" You see as long as the people involved are ok with this scenario then its got nothing to do with anyone else, Even if they say that's racist, fuck them and enjoy what gets you off | |||
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"I love race place. I like the white girls to go full on Ms Cottonworth of the Conttonfield plantation on me I give them scripts and questions of what to say to a point and give them flexibility to just act out You see as long as the people involved are ok with this scenario then its got nothing to do with anyone else, Even if they say that's racist, fuck them and enjoy what gets you off " Do you think you could be racist to your partner as part of sex? Not shady I’m being genuine | |||
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"We’ve been asked a few times and it’s an absolute no. We think for some it would be a good cover for them to be their real selves in plain sight" Personally I don’t get how someone can just turn off and on the extreme racism like that so I think I’d need to understand more how they justify that. | |||
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"I love race place. I like the white girls to go full on Ms Cottonworth of the Conttonfield plantation on me I give them scripts and questions of what to say to a point and give them flexibility to just act out You see as long as the people involved are ok with this scenario then its got nothing to do with anyone else, Even if they say that's racist, fuck them and enjoy what gets you off Do you think you could be racist to your partner as part of sex? Not shady I’m being genuine" That type of scenario isn't for me but like I said if the people involved get off on it that's down to them, They don't need to think if other people think it's racist or not | |||
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"What does it entail? I'm confused. " Usually verbal humiliation with racial slurs | |||
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"My main issue with race play is the use of extremely racist language and scenarios. And I am also not sure how someone could be so comfortable using the language or getting into that character and it not be a reflection of their character? I don’t know race play is just not for me. And also I think lots of people in the thread don’t quite get how extreme it is and think it’s just meeting someone of another race " I'd tend to align with this train of thought but add to it as in what's the driver for the person on the receiving end, what do you think it says about their character? Its not something I understand or would be into. | |||
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"Who's into race play? Or is that to taboo?" . By race play I am assuming you mean black & white.If so I would have no problem playing with a black girl but I would not feel comfortable using derogatory words about the ladies colour. | |||
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"Who's into race play? Or is that to taboo?" LOVE IT! It isn’t for everyone but those who are into it have a special place in my lust. However, you would be surprised how many couples/women go there when you give them permission and are sincere with it. Like I say, it isn’t for everyone but again you would truly surprised at what consenting adults can get up to. | |||
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"I love race place. I like the white girls to go full on Ms Cottonworth of the Conttonfield plantation on me I give them scripts and questions of what to say to a point and give them flexibility to just act out" Wow. Never thought of that. Really deep. Seems like a lot of work. But thanks for the idea. | |||
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"am certainly intrigued with this as I love roleplay, but wouldnt know where to begin, or how you would even approach someone about it" Not my thing in the slightest, but I would suggest looking up articles by Mollena Williams (now Mollena Williams-Haas. She has a book Mollena Williams The Toybag Guide to Playing With Taboo (Toybag Guides) | |||
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"Who's into race play? Or is that to taboo?" Mmmmm Nigel Fararge last I heard lol | |||
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"Definitely taboo I'd end up in a prison cell if a white partner called me the N word or referred to me as a sl-ve during sex " Girl, you and me both. | |||
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"I've been asked to do it by more than one black guy. " Asked to do what exactly? | |||
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"Not personally. As to taboo that's all a matter of space. Within in context of your fantasies and in the sanctuary of your bedroom with consenting adults not taboo at all IMO. Our fantasies and kinks are part of us. We shouldn't feel shame over them. However (as I'm sure common sense dictates) not a kink to be openly expressed in the general public domain because understandably like many other kinks it may cause distress to others. Mr" Your online persona is so much more sensible than how you are in person 👋🏾 | |||
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"Not personally. As to taboo that's all a matter of space. Within in context of your fantasies and in the sanctuary of your bedroom with consenting adults not taboo at all IMO. Our fantasies and kinks are part of us. We shouldn't feel shame over them. However (as I'm sure common sense dictates) not a kink to be openly expressed in the general public domain because understandably like many other kinks it may cause distress to others. Mr Your online persona is so much more sensible than how you are in person 👋🏾" There's other dimensions to me beneath the frivolity | |||
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