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By *UNCHBOX OP   Man
over a year ago

folkestone

I had a new couple contact me about possibly meeting after they winked me. I sent a fairly short reply saying ive had experience etc, and they added me as a friend. Now today they sent me a message asking me to send face pic, yet have blocked me so even if i wanted to send a pic i couldnt. Not sure if its because they sent the message 11 hours ago and ive only just read it as i got home from work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it happens, ive had it too, opened a message and when ive gone to reply ive been bld, i think some take it as your not interested if you dont reply straight away

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By *ubbles 1970Woman
over a year ago

southend

yes i 2 ave experienced this several times aswel...their loss i say lol x

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

I had this a while back. Was exchanging messages with someone, had to head offline and came back on to 3-4 messages all saying "you stopped talking?", "did I say something", "thanks for wasting my time" then loads of abuse and blocked.

Pretty charming, all because I went offline lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were winked so we messaged them they messaged back all good next thing we are blocked.

Bit strange but we don't care and just move on .

Some people act very odd some times on here

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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago

wrexham


"it happens, ive had it too, opened a message and when ive gone to reply ive been bld, i think some take it as your not interested if you dont reply straight away "
same here - we never realised we were on a meter lol

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By *imal75Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I have had it too... then blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup me n all,if you don't reply straight away or with what they want to hear your gone lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like they got Cold feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...maybe worth considering having a face pic or two in your private/friends only gallery?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Ive got cold feet! its bbrrrrr out there

To the OP there are some very odd reactions from people on here,you would send yourself mad trying to work out why people do some of the things they do

Best to just shrug it off as one of those things and carry on with the fun stuff

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Ive got cold feet! its bbrrrrr out there

To the OP there are some very odd reactions from people on here,you would send yourself mad trying to work out why people do some of the things they do

Best to just shrug it off as one of those things and carry on with the fun stuff "

Yes we had that too! Didn't reply immediately & blocked, very strange way to behave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had that few times can you meet now?

No

Block its not strange really just rude.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

There are some people on here that don't seem to take real life into consideration, but I don't worry about it, they are the ones I worry about, there is more to life then swinging (fun though it may be)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this happen to me several times. Also had messages along the lines of "you are just the person I / we are looking for", sent from "user no longer on site" lol

Seems that as I took longer than 3 hours to reply, they committed Fab "Hari Kari" lol

Seriously, don't worry about it. It happens, and bear in mind that you probably saved yourself a lot of hassle. If they were that arsey over a "late" message, imagine what a meet with them would have been like!

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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago

wrexham


"Had this happen to me several times. Also had messages along the lines of "you are just the person I / we are looking for", sent from "user no longer on site" lol

Seems that as I took longer than 3 hours to reply, they committed Fab "Hari Kari" lol

Seriously, don't worry about it. It happens, and bear in mind that you probably saved yourself a lot of hassle. If they were that arsey over a "late" message, imagine what a meet with them would have been like! "

Our sentiments exactly

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

Had this too, sometimes one of us pops online to have,a,quick look, but dont have,time to reply to messages until later, when weve gone to it says were blocked, impatience isnt attractive anyway!!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Some don't appreciate that we have busy lives. Their loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a new couple contact me about possibly meeting after they winked me. I sent a fairly short reply saying ive had experience etc, and they added me as a friend. Now today they sent me a message asking me to send face pic, yet have blocked me so even if i wanted to send a pic i couldnt. Not sure if its because they sent the message 11 hours ago and ive only just read it as i got home from work. "

Careful, I posted a message almost exactly the same as yours and ended up spending 48 hours in the sin bin! Apparently I was airing my dirty washing in public.

But yes, there are some pig ignorant people on here, but I guess it goes with the territory on a free site where there's no vetting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just picked up on this; which is sadly a subject we read several times each week; so i thinks its just a case of grin and bare it ....happy fabbing fella

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