FabSwingers.com forum: Would your family be shocked?

By *enerifehotwifecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Would your family and friends be shocked about your swinging secret?

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"Would your family and friends be shocked about your swinging secret?"

Who said it was a secret?

Most of my real friends know (Vanilla friends s well as kink).

So does my closest family.

thats the way I roll

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

My family already know. I don't think any of them were shocked by the revelation but most prefer I don't share details.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes, some already know and we're quite shocked.

Mrs

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Slightly different scenarios for the singles on here. As a married secure couple though........ YES, everyone would be very shocked and probably very judgemental which is why we do keep it secret.

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By *heHotwifePairCouple
over a year ago

South

"Would your family and friends be shocked about your swinging secret?"

Most already know

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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Slightly different scenarios for the singles on here. As a married secure couple though........ YES, everyone would be very shocked and probably very judgemental which is why we do keep it secret."

Yes we’d have some issues!

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By *ackandJill1Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Shocked, definitely shocked. We love our filthy secret life,it being secret adds another layer of titillation for us

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By *icouple1990Couple
over a year ago

Beccles

C mum knows says its up to us k parents know nothing very prude close Friends know and othe people know as it was shared round are kids school not thay we care ironically the person that shared us comes on here with her bf everytime he's home we are who we are xx

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By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

We have told some of our close friends and most of them reacted in very positive way.

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By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Family is a different matter, as parents would definitely have an issue with understanding our lifestyle. But I don't see any reason for them to know.

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By *linky1Couple
over a year ago

Sittingbourne

"Shocked, definitely shocked. We love our filthy secret life,it being secret adds another layer of titillation for us

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Secrecy is all part of the fun. Our friends and family would be surprised at the least.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I don't have any secrets, so no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without a shadow of a doubt .

They would be very shocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes our friends and family would be shocked and not take to well if they new.

We are private people so like to keep it separate. It’s really nothing to do with anyone one else as long as we are both happpy with what we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sister knows ahd I have two friends that know.

I wouldn't tell anyone.

I don't think they would be shocked though if I'm honest

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By *ornyHunk80Man
over a year ago

Watford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just me so … no

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Probably, they can’t handle me turning up with ripped jeans on

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Probably yes

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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

My friends know and are cool with it.

My family would be mortified

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"Slightly different scenarios for the singles on here. As a married secure couple though........ YES, everyone would be very shocked and probably very judgemental which is why we do keep it secret."

Uptick. We feel exactly the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family wouldn’t be shocked. There’s only my dad left and he knows all about it

C’s family would be shocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah they are cool with it

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By *kinandbonesCouple
over a year ago

dublin

No they aren't shocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a secret and no shock ...

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

My friends know. I actually took my best mate to a club this weekend for the first time.

Family not. But some of them wouldn’t be surprised I don’t think.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"Probably, they can’t handle me turning up with ripped jeans on

Ooh, can I handle you turning up with ripped jeans on? Please?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Would your family and friends be shocked about your swinging secret?"

No they all know so no big secret

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

As for my family; I don't know what would shock them more, the swinging site or the crossdressing. Probably the crossdressing. One of my sisters knows about the single occasion I went dressed to a club, and she was very supportive, but she did think it was a one-off.

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By *he massage manMan
over a year ago

filey

I had to tell my family even my 80 year old Mum and my sons because my ex was threatening to tell them so I got in first. It went easier than I thought.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Definitely, my friends not so much but I'd still never tell them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A family members knows we swing and was shocked…..they said I don’t judge you for it but be careful who you tell because others will.

If I was asked I would be open but don’t see the need to broadcast it either

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

"Slightly different scenarios for the singles on here. As a married secure couple though........ YES, everyone would be very shocked and probably very judgemental which is why we do keep it secret."

This is also us

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Slightly different scenarios for the singles on here. As a married secure couple though........ YES, everyone would be very shocked and probably very judgemental which is why we do keep it secret.

This is also us

Us too

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By *andB130Couple
over a year ago

northampton

Agreed with other cpls that family would be shocked so try to be very discreet.

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By *oodymonsterMan
over a year ago

Near Shrewsbury

My mates and my sister know. That's ut as far as I am aware

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly we don't care who knows. We was outed at our local pub! Some single guy who didn't like the fact we said no showed everyone our profile.

We aren't doing anything wrong, so we don't care who knows. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mum and my in-laws most definitely would be. They'd never get their head around it, and don't even think they would even try to understand it.

They would be shocked beyond shocked and disgusted.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Nah they all know I'm a promiscuous slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

They would not expect it at all.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

No not at all

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Please don’t think it’s a different situation for single swingers. Most of us are facing a lot of societal pressure to be monogamous and it takes a lot of guts to go against that. I don’t think anyone has it easier.

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Think they would be mortified if they found out.

But its our choice to have fun and enjoy ourselves.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Absolutely they would have a massive heart attack

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By *empted23Couple
over a year ago

countryside

Nobody is ever shocked by anything when it comes to me

Not sure what E’s family would think

but most of our friends know , it turned out some of them were already on here

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
over a year ago

here and there

Not really ,most of them know anyway lol

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By *ilith200Woman
over a year ago

levenmouth

Absolutely it's the same for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question is, how to even approach this subject in the conversation with family and friends?

I would have no idea. Although, my very close friends suspect I might be a swinger knowing me and how sexual I'm

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

"Slightly different scenarios for the singles on here. As a married secure couple though........ YES, everyone would be very shocked and probably very judgemental which is why we do keep it secret."

Exactly this. I wouldn’t be fussed so much as a single but as a happily married and committed couple with work to think about too, we have to keep it a secret. Not that we mind, it’s all part of the excitement!

C x

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

I don't think my side of the family would be shocked at all.

They know exactly what I'm like.

Lucy's side of the family, most of them would be pretty shocked. Though ironically some of the older ones I suspect would be the most accepting. I half think that they probably got up to some shit when they were younger. It was the 60s after all haha

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Yes shocked I'd think.

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By *haz46Woman
over a year ago

Stockport

oh yes especially my hubby lol

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By *edonist79Man
over a year ago

Trowbridge

My parents. Possibly. Don't think my dad would care. My mum wouldn't understand.

My best friend knows. He's seen plenty of videos of my partner getting pounded by her black fwb.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Yes probably, they are quite prudish

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By *irty_little_blondeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

No one knows and I’d like to keep it that way. They would be shocked

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Yeah mum would be ashamed and then get on the phone to tell the town what a dirty stop out I am.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Absolutely as I'm the quite one in the family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m honestly not that sure if anything I did would shock them anymore. But at end of day it’s not anything they need to know about so I’m not going to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest, my family know and Penny's knows we go to naturist places. Friends wise they all know and are all very jealous and intrigued. Surprisingly a lot of our female friends are up for heading to clubs, it's the males that don't have the balls so to speak.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's not news and it's no deal

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By *ang Average guyMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

Massively shocked, especially the bi bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live with my daughter. She knows and is on the site.

She gets a lot more meets than I do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Family would be shocked, friends would not believe it, and for work it would probably cause difficulties.

It's my personal life and I would like to keep it personal.

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

Everyone knows who matters. Fellow hgv drivers at work know. They look at me and say, yeah right? Basically, deal with it.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"My parents. Possibly. Don't think my dad would care. My mum wouldn't understand.

My best friend knows. He's seen plenty of videos of my partner getting pounded by her black fwb. "

Why have you shown those to your friend?

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Some would some won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family and a few freinds would be shocked. I tend not to disclose anything too private with people and whenever they ask me what I've been up to I usually reply "nothing much, you?" So they mostly likely think I'm dull as dishwater.

A few of my closest freinds know though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re probably all the same. I already found my brother on here. Still looking for the rest lol

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"They’re probably all the same. I already found my brother on here. Still looking for the rest lol "

haha yeah yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would your family and friends be shocked about your swinging secret?"

Surprised not shocked. I come across as being very sweet and innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I live with my daughter. She knows and is on the site.

She gets a lot more meets than I do!"

That must have been an awkward discovery!

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By *ennylewis2016Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

They probably would be. We’re very different in normal life. Butter wouldn’t melt.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"I live with my daughter. She knows and is on the site.

She gets a lot more meets than I do!

That must have been an awkward discovery!"

Haha what you actually believe him

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

My mother-in-law knows we are a cuckold couple and a few of Dee’s closest friends do also.

What’s there to be shocked about ?

It’s our lifestyle choice and it works for us, they are generally very supportive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt they would be shocked and I wouldn’t be embarrassed

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

It would be the biggest surprise since that blokes tomb was found empty.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"They’re probably all the same. I already found my brother on here. Still looking for the rest lol "

This sort of stuff cracks me up

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

No, my ex sis in law is on. That killed the fun and my erection when we walked in to a club and she was the first person we saw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They all know we swingers/open relationship, only a few of the wife's Vanilla close friends know she is my Cuckoldress and I'm her Cuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, my ex sis in law is on. That killed the fun and my erection when we walked in to a club and she was the first person we saw

Wow.. that must have been so awkward. Hope you still ended up having a good night though

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Wow.. that must have been so awkward. Hope you still ended up having a good night though "

Nope, totally killed it! We had one drink and left, was a struggle putting up with her at family events let alone in a club!

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

Most of my friends know! It’s not a shock!

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By *ungfunfellaMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

My family would not be shocked maybe parents would but not my brothers as they are into it too…my older brother introduced me to fab!!

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Wouldn't be surprised at all haha

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Mine wouldn't. Jane thinks her boys would be but I don't think so.

Frank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would your family and friends be shocked about your swinging secret?"

Noooo. My mum actually told me about fab many years ago when she was active on here. My friends all know I'm a slut anyway. Have been even before I joined fab. Works out perfectly

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Would your family and friends be shocked about your swinging secret?

Noooo. My mum actually told me about fab many years ago when she was active on here. My friends all know I'm a slut anyway. Have been even before I joined fab. Works out perfectly

Gotta love that straight up no fucks given attitude !! Legend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha. Always. Life is too short. If they judge you then they aren't your people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would your family and friends be shocked about your swinging secret?

Noooo. My mum actually told me about fab many years ago when she was active on here. My friends all know I'm a slut anyway. Have been even before I joined fab. Works out perfectly

Gotta love that straight up no fucks given attitude !! Legend "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slut Wife....Happy Life

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Haha. Always. Life is too short. If they judge you then they aren't your people.

My kind of girl haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably and some would judge but the reason I don't discuss it with them is that I wouldn't share derail of my non swinging sex life with them either, it's just not my style

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By *oodford60Man
over a year ago

Woodford

Did not shock my sister in law -we now get it on at least once a week and partner is unware ??

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By *quirtandlick40Woman
over a year ago

east uk

My sister knows, she was not shocked. My parents are in their 70s but I'm sure they enjoyed the lifestyle

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

My friends know and think its great im enjoying myself and having fun.

My family don't, and I would be judged for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not really a secret for us. While we don't go about broadcasting it, we don't hide it either. And I doubt very much either of our families or friends who don't already know would be particularly bothered

Mrs

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By *eDirtyThirtysCouple
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Friends thought we were swinger years before we actually did anything an I’d rather not get on to the whole sex conversation with close family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope. Px

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Not like it's a secret life

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By *espectfulBusinessManMan
over a year ago

Essex and London

Couple friends know I’m on here

Mum knows about my experiences so probably not lol

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