FabSwingers.com forum: Disapointment....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever looked forward to a meet....and be so disappointed when it happens

. All talk no action. So depressing and a waste of time

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

"Have you ever looked forward to a meet....and be so disappointed when it happens

. All talk no action. So depressing and a waste of time

I don’t think you’ll be living with the disappointment for long looking at your pic! Enjoy….

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Well I hope the person in question isn't reading this.

Bad form dissing someone publicly sometimes nerves get the better of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you told them before announcing it in the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, happened to me once and it was what made me require cam verification before meeting someone as his pics were clearly very old.

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

A time or two yes. But then we've had some great meets to make up for it. It all evens out in the end

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it my fault then????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever looked forward to a meet....and be so disappointed when it happens

. All talk no action. So depressing and a waste of time

Yes I know what you mean by that x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You sound like you've experienced this then????...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had that problem yet, but it sucks if someone has talked the talk but doesn't walk the walk.

And no, not your fault, you didn't name anyone so there's nothing wrong with saying how you feel!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks... not being a dick but when someone over promises.....and then you realise that you've been hoodwinked....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you...just... I don't meet regularly and I try to make sure I'm meeting someone who sounds genuine... Just feel sad that's all. It's not just about their 'sexual experience'.....

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

OP, Fab is just like real life! Only with more dick pics. Nice pic btw.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I did.... thanks.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Maybe you need to adjust your own expectations

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bad form??? For asking a genuine question? Bad form for being so hateful and judgemental...

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Maybe they thought the same about you. Maybe when ye met up there just wasn't any chemistry between you. It happens sometimes.

It's also another reason not to engage with sex talk before you meet it leads to expectations that quite often don't pan out. It also stops those who are looking just wank material as well though.

Meets sometimes don't go the way you want them to,I personally always do a social first as I find it's easier to walk away if one of you is not feeling it.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Bad form??? For asking a genuine question? Bad form for being so hateful and judgemental... "

If you hit reply & quote people can see who your replying to.

Why wasn't the meet any good? Sometimes people meet and realise they don't quite click this is why we do socials 1st.

Mrs

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By *att and lucyCouple
over a year ago

blackburn

Everyone talks a good shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the spark just isn't there so just move on and try again

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Have you ever looked forward to a meet....and be so disappointed when it happens

. All talk no action. So depressing and a waste of time

Hey shit happens then we post about it on the forums...That's fab life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they thought the same about you. Maybe when ye met up there just wasn't any chemistry between you. It happens sometimes.

It's also another reason not to engage with sex talk before you meet it leads to expectations that quite often don't pan out. It also stops those who are looking just wank material as well though.

Meets sometimes don't go the way you want them to,I personally always do a social first as I find it's easier to walk away if one of you is not feeling it."

This 100%.

When I first started fab at about 26 I made mistakes and some meets were very lack lustre. I always do the above now and I'm not disappointed because nothing is built up to much and there is no pressure on anyone, just a drink or coffee to makesure that spark is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad form??? For asking a genuine question? Bad form for being so hateful and judgemental... "

Where is the hate and judgement?

If you've met the person on Fab, what's to say they won't read the forums and see this. Did you both agree that you wouldn't see each other again?

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Lol The last 4 meets I've had have all been canceled at the last minute.

The latest was a social meet on the way there I had a message canceling and blocked.My expectations are 0 now.

I don't think people on here appreciate how hard a guy has to work on here to actually get a meet only to cancel. They really need to have a word with themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes we did actually....

I take it someone's been disappointed by you before that's why you're so salty

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It's okay though...we both can come to our own conclusions xxxx Good luck.

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By *arried BifemWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

"Have you ever looked forward to a meet....and be so disappointed when it happens

. All talk no action. So depressing and a waste of time

Yep, I’ve stopped meets before as the meet vibe wasn’t the same as pre meet vibes.

Don’t care if they are shy, nervous etc… I’m not here to hold peoples hands

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Our worst experience was a meet with a lady,we turned up at a hotel/bar,she turned up totally sozzled, we booked her a taxi sent her home within 10 mins.....

Saying that weve had really naughty meets,but we never put our meets on here,they know exactly who they areXxxxxxxH&HMXxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry is a two way thing.

If it isn't there then I wouldn't blame the other person, it's just not there.

I don't tend to get overly invested in the sex talk prior though, as long as you both like the same things then it's all good. I wouldn't promise guys anything and I wouldn't want them promising me anything, the best things happen naturally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we did actually....

I take it someone's been disappointed by you before that's why you're so salty

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It's okay though...we both can come to our own conclusions xxxx Good luck."

If you pick click+reply we know who you replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of the reasons we try not to “plan” what we want to happen on any meets. If we all click then we arrange a meet and just see how we get on in person. If the chemistry isn’t there then it’s nobody’s fault, it’s just not there.

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By *annylickerMan
over a year ago

Chester-le-Street

Yes, twice.

One of my first meets, travelled to theirs and she just got d*unk on vodka that they asked me to buy. Plus had kid in next room asleep.

Second one, absolutely amazing couple that came to mine. She was stunning and i cum quickly, so massive disappointed on both parts

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

I think we all need to be a bit more tolerant! It doesn’t matter whether you disagree with the post or someone’s crap between the sheets (we all have off days). Everyone’s a person with feelings.

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