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"Doubt it - I reckon there's just plenty of really sexy older women!" | |||
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"For some it is a fantasy they want to fulfil based on porn/ mate's hot mum/ teacher etc. Some get off on the thrill of fucking an older dude's missis. Others are genuinely attracted to older women for their confidence, experience, lack of inhibition, achievenents, not playing games etc. " Quite agree, one of my earliest, coming of age thoughts was that of a friend's parent. | |||
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"For some it is a fantasy they want to fulfil based on porn/ mate's hot mum/ teacher etc. Some get off on the thrill of fucking an older dude's missis. Others are genuinely attracted to older women for their confidence, experience, lack of inhibition, achievenents, not playing games etc. " Definitely agree with all the above…plus all men are different and have completely different fantasies…for every milf guy there’ll be a teen or feet guy and the fantasies have phases, you don’t just stick with one forever. | |||
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"One thing that has amazed us is how much younger men want to fuck milfs. Do you think there is a psychological reason behind this?" i would love to fuck an older woman. | |||
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"From a males perspective, when you’re younger you fantasise about older woman and when you’re older it’s younger women…….a case of wanting what you haven’t got. Why older/younger couple swaps work for the male…….not convinced it works that way for the women though " You need to pick the right guys. Yes - some on here are undoubtedly immature and don't know how to behave (but that is people in general - not the exclusive domain of younger guys). I have met some fantastic intelligent and fun younger guys with whom I have had some very memorable occasions in and out of the bedroom | |||
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"I dont get this thing where certain men dont attend meets when its arranged" Always baffles me as well, guess they get cold feet but don’t have the decency to inform the other person. | |||
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"From a males perspective, when you’re younger you fantasise about older woman and when you’re older it’s younger women…….a case of wanting what you haven’t got. Why older/younger couple swaps work for the male…….not convinced it works that way for the women though You need to pick the right guys. Yes - some on here are undoubtedly immature and don't know how to behave (but that is people in general - not the exclusive domain of younger guys). I have met some fantastic intelligent and fun younger guys with whom I have had some very memorable occasions in and out of the bedroom " I'd second this. Men in their fifties can be just as immature. | |||
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"I'm just glad they want to lol " Indeed we do | |||
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"One thing that has amazed us is how much younger men want to fuck milfs. Do you think there is a psychological reason behind this?" No not teally. Its because they can and older women make them feel more likely and more desired. Win win | |||
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"You should do what you’re comfortable with and I’m sure you do x" I do indeed, hence I'm still drinking tea in my dressing gown | |||
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"There's a lot of stereotyping around older women. That is partly what prevents me from meeting much younger men, that and the fact that now I'm too old to even qualify as an older woman . I feel they have an ide in their head of what I'll be like and it's unrealistic " That's why I don't meet the fantasists and ones who fetishise older women | |||
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"There's a lot of stereotyping around older women. That is partly what prevents me from meeting much younger men, that and the fact that now I'm too old to even qualify as an older woman . I feel they have an ide in their head of what I'll be like and it's unrealistic That's why I don't meet the fantasists and ones who fetishise older women" Where do you draw the line between genuine attention and a fetish? for me i don’t feel it’s a fetish. | |||
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"Pity it doesn't happen with young women and old men LOL" | |||
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"There's a lot of stereotyping around older women. That is partly what prevents me from meeting much younger men, that and the fact that now I'm too old to even qualify as an older woman . I feel they have an ide in their head of what I'll be like and it's unrealistic That's why I don't meet the fantasists and ones who fetishise older women Where do you draw the line between genuine attention and a fetish? for me i don’t feel it’s a fetish." I can usually tell from a message or 2 whether they are just looking to tick something off their bucket list | |||
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"You should do what you’re comfortable with and I’m sure you do x I do indeed, hence I'm still drinking tea in my dressing gown " Older women.. They know what they want and they know how to get it! Digestive biscuit? | |||
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"You should do what you’re comfortable with and I’m sure you do x I do indeed, hence I'm still drinking tea in my dressing gown Older women.. They know what they want and they know how to get it! Digestive biscuit? " Chocolate digestive straight from the fridge, ya whippersnapper | |||
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"You should do what you’re comfortable with and I’m sure you do x I do indeed, hence I'm still drinking tea in my dressing gown Older women.. They know what they want and they know how to get it! Digestive biscuit? Chocolate digestive straight from the fridge, ya whippersnapper " Biscuits in the fridge?! What fantasy... You know stuff to make the taste buds tingle. | |||
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"Thinking of the women I've met age makes little difference. Everyone is different, older, younger or similar age, some will throw you around the room, some will be a little shy, it doesn't really matter if they've been in longstanding relationships or not - I suppose it's like blokes, you either shag like a tin man or like you're hula-hooping at Mardi Gras." Once a year? | |||
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"You should do what you’re comfortable with and I’m sure you do x I do indeed, hence I'm still drinking tea in my dressing gown Older women.. They know what they want and they know how to get it! Digestive biscuit? Chocolate digestive straight from the fridge, ya whippersnapper Biscuits in the fridge?! What fantasy... You know stuff to make the taste buds tingle. " I do, it's because I'm 'experienced'. | |||
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"Thinking of the women I've met age makes little difference. Everyone is different, older, younger or similar age, some will throw you around the room, some will be a little shy, it doesn't really matter if they've been in longstanding relationships or not - I suppose it's like blokes, you either shag like a tin man or like you're hula-hooping at Mardi Gras. Once a year? " *Didn't mean to offend any Tin Towneans. | |||
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"Maybe, half the women I been with were older then me including a woman I had sex with yesterday " How old was she? | |||
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"One thing that has amazed us is how much younger men want to fuck milfs. Do you think there is a psychological reason behind this?" I am not young anymore but I prefer woman older than me when I was 23 my gf was 30 | |||
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"We think a lot like the thought of it, but then when the chance arises show their immaturity and start coming up with excuses. " Often our experience which is why we tend to just play at a club these days, if they bottle it we just move on… | |||
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"One thing that has amazed us is how much younger men want to fuck milfs. Do you think there is a psychological reason behind this?" I’ve always liked older women for as long as I can remember. I’m 54 now and I would still love to meet with an older woman if there are any local to Weymouth. | |||
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"Nothing like seeing a younger man with your wife " Agree with that! | |||
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"You should do what you’re comfortable with and I’m sure you do x I do indeed, hence I'm still drinking tea in my dressing gown Older women.. They know what they want and they know how to get it! Digestive biscuit? Chocolate digestive straight from the fridge, ya whippersnapper Biscuits in the fridge?! What fantasy... You know stuff to make the taste buds tingle. I do, it's because I'm 'experienced'. " | |||
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"There's a lot of stereotyping around older women. That is partly what prevents me from meeting much younger men, that and the fact that now I'm too old to even qualify as an older woman . I feel they have an ide in their head of what I'll be like and it's unrealistic That's why I don't meet the fantasists and ones who fetishise older women Where do you draw the line between genuine attention and a fetish? for me i don’t feel it’s a fetish. I can usually tell from a message or 2 whether they are just looking to tick something off their bucket list " And sometimes it's easy to tell from how younger men comment on a thread like this... | |||
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"One thing that has amazed us is how much younger men want to fuck milfs. Do you think there is a psychological reason behind this?" I simply find older women more attractive, noting more than a physical thing for me | |||
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"Hard to say really... I'm definitely not physically attracted to very young guys or ladies. " 45 is not old. 60 and above is. Bring on the GILF's. | |||
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"One thing that has amazed us is how much younger men want to fuck milfs. Do you think there is a psychological reason behind this?" You’d be surprised how many want to fuck a TILF too! | |||
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"Anne enjoys all but young makes a change " Anne is stunning | |||
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"I think some honestly see us as an easy lay. How many would happily be seen by their mates if they were out with a woman 20 or 30yrs their senior? " | |||
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"I think some honestly see us as an easy lay. How many would happily be seen by their mates if they were out with a woman 20 or 30yrs their senior? " This has nothing to do with age. How many swingers in general would you introduce to your friends, family or acknowledge out in public, none or very few. You don't introduce them as you're not dating and it avoids the awkward questions around shagging, how long, and where you met when for the most people want swinging to be kept private. | |||
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"I think some honestly see us as an easy lay. How many would happily be seen by their mates if they were out with a woman 20 or 30yrs their senior? This has nothing to do with age. How many swingers in general would you introduce to your friends, family or acknowledge out in public, none or very few. You don't introduce them as you're not dating and it avoids the awkward questions around shagging, how long, and where you met when for the most people want swinging to be kept private. " Indeed... Discretion | |||
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"One thing that has amazed us is how much younger men want to fuck milfs. Do you think there is a psychological reason behind this?" Think it’s because we’ve all watched America pie growing up and we all still have the thought of Stifler's Mom and we all wanna be that guy | |||
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"I think some honestly see us as an easy lay. How many would happily be seen by their mates if they were out with a woman 20 or 30yrs their senior? " Absolutely | |||
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"I think some honestly see us as an easy lay. How many would happily be seen by their mates if they were out with a woman 20 or 30yrs their senior? This has nothing to do with age. How many swingers in general would you introduce to your friends, family or acknowledge out in public, none or very few. You don't introduce them as you're not dating and it avoids the awkward questions around shagging, how long, and where you met when for the most people want swinging to be kept private. " It's got everything to do with age. The question posed specifically refers to age and age difference. | |||
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"I think some honestly see us as an easy lay. How many would happily be seen by their mates if they were out with a woman 20 or 30yrs their senior? This has nothing to do with age. How many swingers in general would you introduce to your friends, family or acknowledge out in public, none or very few. You don't introduce them as you're not dating and it avoids the awkward questions around shagging, how long, and where you met when for the most people want swinging to be kept private. Indeed... Discretion " You could bump into a friend at a coffee shop or a bar and fob them off with an excuse about your fab female friend being a date without raising too much suspicion. If she's a good 20yrs older that's going to be a less plausible explanation. | |||
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"Simple for me, they knew what they wanted and was no BS leading up to it. Much more confidence and that is so much hotter than any 18 year old playing dumb games. Plus I got all my best lessons in my younger days that seem to have helped as I got older. " Exactly this , I love an older women | |||
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"I dont get this thing where certain men dont attend meets when its arranged" Yeah, me too. Seems like a common issue on here though, if you’re not in the mood don’t arrange a meet. | |||
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"I think some honestly see us as an easy lay. How many would happily be seen by their mates if they were out with a woman 20 or 30yrs their senior? This has nothing to do with age. How many swingers in general would you introduce to your friends, family or acknowledge out in public, none or very few. You don't introduce them as you're not dating and it avoids the awkward questions around shagging, how long, and where you met when for the most people want swinging to be kept private. It's got everything to do with age. The question posed specifically refers to age and age difference. " You gave the idea that older equals an easy lay though and that you wouldn't introduce them to friends. It depends how you use the site but it's either an easy lay, a selection process or a good circle of friends. None mean you're getting an introduction to close friends though. Plausibility in a coffee shop would be seen through by anybody that knows someone well enough as they'd likely know your social group/type (old, young or with a couple) and how uncomfortable you were if asked anything as you barely know each other. | |||
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"I think some honestly see us as an easy lay. How many would happily be seen by their mates if they were out with a woman 20 or 30yrs their senior? This has nothing to do with age. How many swingers in general would you introduce to your friends, family or acknowledge out in public, none or very few. You don't introduce them as you're not dating and it avoids the awkward questions around shagging, how long, and where you met when for the most people want swinging to be kept private. It's got everything to do with age. The question posed specifically refers to age and age difference. You gave the idea that older equals an easy lay though and that you wouldn't introduce them to friends. It depends how you use the site but it's either an easy lay, a selection process or a good circle of friends. None mean you're getting an introduction to close friends though. Plausibility in a coffee shop would be seen through by anybody that knows someone well enough as they'd likely know your social group/type (old, young or with a couple) and how uncomfortable you were if asked anything as you barely know each other. " I'm also basing my opinion on my interactions on here as an older woman. I'd the say the number of younger men on who have genuinely been attracted to me are in the minority. | |||
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"One thing that has amazed us is how much younger men want to fuck milfs. Do you think there is a psychological reason behind this?" Well your wife is a good advert to the reason why lol | |||
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"Older women know what they want and they know how to get it. They seem to enjoy the sex more as well" ... we do x Anne | |||
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"One thing that has amazed us is how much younger men want to fuck milfs. Do you think there is a psychological reason behind this?" I think older women are so more sexier and a turn on. | |||
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