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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we only meet local people who live in our area why people want to meet who live who live hundreds of miles away is beyond us there must be people in there own area to meet or is it so many fake females and couples on here we have had many of them in our area

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"we only meet local people who live in our area why people want to meet who live who live hundreds of miles away is beyond us there must be people in there own area to meet or is it so many fake females and couples on here we have had many of them in our area

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I am the same as you. I state on my profile I want to keep it local, I won't meet anyone just passing through for work etc but I still get messages daily from over 100 miles away.

It makes no sense to me.

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

I’d settle for anyone in the south west but clearly distance can be an obstacle, that and the A30!

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Distance isn't a problem, if you click with someone enough to make a weekend of it, one of my best meets from here was a three hour drive, went on the Friday, came home on the Sunday. Great weekend of good company and great sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish women in my area would meet. The ones who want to meet me are mostly 2 hours away.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We always accommodate over night, as some people have traveled a distance and require food and watering.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

1 he drive is my Max

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London


"we only meet local people who live in our area why people want to meet who live who live hundreds of miles away is beyond us there must be people in there own area to meet or is it so many fake females and couples on here we have had many of them in our area

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I get so many messages from guys living not just hundreds but thousands of miles away who want to meet. It's just ridiculous!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we only meet local people who live in our area why people want to meet who live who live hundreds of miles away is beyond us there must be people in there own area to meet or is it so many fake females and couples on here we have had many of them in our area

I am the same as you. I state on my profile I want to keep it local, I won't meet anyone just passing through for work etc but I still get messages daily from over 100 miles away.

It makes no sense to me. "

Same problem here. Maybe they hope you’ll change your mind for them. I like regular meets so its easier to arrange if ppl are closer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same! I only meet as far as 30 miles ish. If someone messages me from London or south I just say no, even with hotel meets or meet in the middle I won't.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it's a sensible way to do it

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By *exy Pretty FeetCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

We don't meet anyone in Scotland because the Asian community is so small up here it would be hard to maintain anonymity. So we have always travelled a few hundred miles for meets or clubs and had a few who travelled up here too.

Without this dilemma it would make sense to keep it local.

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath


"we only meet local people who live in our area why people want to meet who live who live hundreds of miles away is beyond us there must be people in there own area to meet or is it so many fake females and couples on here we have had many of them in our area

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I’m 18 miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We generally don't meet people from our town, but as a rule we would travel around a 50 mile radius for the right type of guy. They are hard to find after all

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

It's human nature, the grass is greener on the other side! I've traveled up to 2 hours for a meet and have no issues doing so. People say they want a local meet but someone more distant is often more reliable at showing up as they've put effort into it.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We don't meet local, I'd rather travel meet too local.

Mrs

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Local would be great. It'd be wonderful to have loads of people we're attracted to right on our doorstep. Unfortunately that's not how the world is, so we're happy to travel to meet up with people that we're attracted to

LvM

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I prefer a bit of distance. Have to be careful with my job too.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'd rather have a bit of distance. At least half a hour.

For one, I don't want to be addicted to a cock.

And I like a bit of a space. Sometimes I think oh, it would be so handy if you were closer but I'd rather have that distance.

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By *xkritTV/TS
over a year ago

High Wycombe (ish)


"I'd rather have a bit of distance. At least half a hour.

For one, I don't want to be addicted to a cock.

And I like a bit of a space. Sometimes I think oh, it would be so handy if you were closer but I'd rather have that distance."

Agree with this ^^. Generally prefer not to be closer than about 20 mins (with some exceptions) and not too much more than an hour-or-so (with some exceptions!!). Have travelled 2.5 hours for meets, though... But you can get a good idea from chatting to them and their verifications

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I'd prefer something more regular over just a one-off (when I am looking to meet), therefore like to keep the distance to no more than 1h drive. Also, I am not a hotel or a restaurant, I don't accommodate overnight or provide food (apart from light snacks and drinks), particularly as I only meet as a single woman during the week. I have to be at work in the morning and like to sleep on my own (though lately accompanied by my CPAP machine ).

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I only meet socially first,if i agree to meet so local ish is better..

I wouldnt want anyone to travel too far for a drink and chat & would feel if someome travelled a fair way they'd expect more.

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