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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Try again…

So is there a percentage?

We sometimes get hundreds of views if we post a new video but very few messages.

Maybe we just come across as twats.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Same here, I don't think views equate to messages though, most ours are single males and we don't meet them so most wouldn't message.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 views matched by 0 messages (nicely balanced me thinks).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try again…

So is there a percentage?

We sometimes get hundreds of views if we post a new video but very few messages.

Maybe we just come across as twats. "

Views to messages tends to be around 10-15%

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

There could be any number of reasons for views being much higher than messages, such as geography, not specifically matching what they are looking to meet, etc. They may still find

your pics appealing.

I get repeat views from some people but unless they actually message me I assume that is as far as they want to go.

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Our views usually average between 150 - 200 ish a day, obviously more if a new pic goes up....but we very rarely get messages, sometimes none in a day, and messages of any real substance/interest are even rarer (sometimes weeks )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 views today and 1 message from someone I've spoken to before

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

We get between 15-20 views and maybe 1 message each day

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By *ikeMassagesMan
over a year ago

Hove, Brighton

Well I was one of those who viewed you, and I have to say that I thought and think that yiur profile is lovely, really attractive. I simply thought that you mind not be interested in me, and imagined that you must be bombarded by messages from horny males, and that therefore I would not add to the flooding if your inbox (so to speak).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somedays I can get a few hundred views and 5 messages other days near every view is a message, I don't think there is a formula to it

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I get between 15 and 20 messages a day and only the occasional message.

If I'm online late at night I often get random messages either wanting to meet in 30 minutes or just trying to wank chat ,

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I was one of those who viewed you, and I have to say that I thought and think that yiur profile is lovely, really attractive. I simply thought that you mind not be interested in me, and imagined that you must be bombarded by messages from horny males, and that therefore I would not add to the flooding if your inbox (so to speak). "

Aww. Thank you.

That’s a very kind thing to say.

Some peoples inboxes seem to be very sacred but ours is always open and no we’re not at all inundated.

All the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our views usually average between 150 - 200 ish a day, obviously more if a new pic goes up....but we very rarely get messages, sometimes none in a day, and messages of any real substance/interest are even rarer (sometimes weeks )"

Seems this is pretty common then.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Have a lot of males view my not meny messages

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Try again…

So is there a percentage?

We sometimes get hundreds of views if we post a new video but very few messages.

Maybe we just come across as twats. "

The majority of views (that I can see) are from single guys, and pretty much all my messages come from single guys to maybe 50% of the views?

There is the very occasional intro from a couple, and then the fabled, ultra-rare first message from a single woman which knocks you for six…..

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford

We view profiles regularly - on chat rooms, new pictures, via the forums - and if we see a profile

We like , we’ll hotlist it and take a peek when we see a status update, or they post new pictures or a meet.

But we don’t message straight away - because in our eyes it seems almost pointless to do so if we don’t have an opportunity to meet any time soon.

We find, and think it’s a fairly common theme, that even if the other part might be interested in us if we message, nobody wants to get in long winded and protracted conversation if there isn’t the possibility of a meet on the horizon, so wait until the opportunity to meet might be there before messaging.

If that makes any sense?

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"0 views matched by 0 messages (nicely balanced me thinks)."

It's the same with me and most single guys .

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Posted some photos today so over three hundred views. Even with a meet listed we have only garnered 5 messages of any real meaning.

I imagine it due to a combination of things but suspect if we were younger and slimmer our messages to view ratio would be a lit greater.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try again…

So is there a percentage?

We sometimes get hundreds of views if we post a new video but very few messages.

Maybe we just come across as twats. "

You've a lovely profile and set of photos but don't accept messages from non supporters. Definitely not twats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually reasonably impressed with most men on here honestly. I have about 470 views at the moment but I've only had like 10 messages today, I guess most people do actually read the profile after all

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford


"I imagine it due to a combination of things but suspect if we were younger and slimmer our messages to view ratio would be a lit greater."

Not at all - you’ve been on our hotlist for some time

Only distance has prevented us messaging anything more meaningful - and think that’s something else to take into account maybe?

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I average two to five views per day - which translates to absolutely zero contact at any point. Not an issue for me as I stopped messaging some time ago and I do great in clubs.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Sometimes I view a profile out of curiosity or find profile pic/name interesting & give them a fab .

I don’t always message due to similar reason already mentioned location, not meeting their/my preferences or sometimes I just fancy a perv & move on . Similar happens to me, sometimes I get few views & when a message comes along I celebrate like it’s Christmas haha

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I imagine it due to a combination of things but suspect if we were younger and slimmer our messages to view ratio would be a lit greater.

Not at all - you’ve been on our hotlist for some time

Only distance has prevented us messaging anything more meaningful - and think that’s something else to take into account maybe? "

There is that as well but having looked back at our view today we have had about 50 views from North East profiles which has resulted only 1 message which was the beautifully craft

"I would like to have a go her"

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford


"I imagine it due to a combination of things but suspect if we were younger and slimmer our messages to view ratio would be a lit greater.

Not at all - you’ve been on our hotlist for some time

Only distance has prevented us messaging anything more meaningful - and think that’s something else to take into account maybe?

There is that as well but having looked back at our view today we have had about 50 views from North East profiles which has resulted only 1 message which was the beautifully craft

"I would like to have a go her""

And you resisted such eloquence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most single men, 0 views and 0 messages.

I think it's almost expected to the point that any view is uplifting, even if nothing comes of it.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Like most single men, 0 views and 0 messages.

I think it's almost expected to the point that any view is uplifting, even if nothing comes of it."

Console yourself with the fact that all 6 of the single ladies of Fab will have checked you out, you just don’t know it because they hide behind the Ninja filter

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