FabSwingers.com forum: What type of massage do men prefer?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m considering training and need to choose between Swedish, aromatherapy/relaxation, Thai, deep tissue. There’s also options in Indian head and foot/reflexology.

One reason I want to learn is to share pleasure with any future men in my life as well as friends and family. Which got me thinking- what kind of massage do you fellows prefer please?

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By *mpeyeMan
over a year ago

Worthing

To be honest, any massage is fine by me!!

Its been such a long time since anybody gave me one.

Im usually the masseur!

Deep tissue is always good but you dont want to run the risk of the recipient being so relaxed that they fall asleep...

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

If you're offering an oily rub to a naked man, I'm not sure he'll be that fussed about a specific massage technique

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I’d expect most guys on fab would opt for whichever had a happy ending

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By *ickingdelightMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

I have lots of knots from exercise/working at desk etc and hate the soft ‘relaxing’ massage.

I have regular massages and a favourite is Thai, where they go to town on my knots. I enjoy where I’m naked/in pants and effectively man-handled into weird positions and the cracks are 10x better than a happy ending.

Otherwise a light massage is a tease for me where they get close to a click and then move away. That makes me at the end more tense/stressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m considering training and need to choose between Swedish, aromatherapy/relaxation, Thai, deep tissue. There’s also options in Indian head and foot/reflexology.

One reason I want to learn is to share pleasure with any future men in my life as well as friends and family. Which got me thinking- what kind of massage do you fellows prefer please? "

Loads of oil and body to body

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

Prostate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have lots of knots from exercise/working at desk etc and hate the soft ‘relaxing’ massage.

Otherwise a light massage is a tease for me where they get close to a click and then move away. That makes me at the end more tense/stressed

Thanks. I feel the same way. Thai massage is great. I also think it’s a way to use my body weight in a positive way!

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

Most of the blokes we’ve met prefer the happy ending we tend to give. Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m considering training and need to choose between Swedish, aromatherapy/relaxation, Thai, deep tissue. There’s also options in Indian head and foot/reflexology.

One reason I want to learn is to share pleasure with any future men in my life as well as friends and family. Which got me thinking- what kind of massage do you fellows prefer please? "

Swedish relaxing with happy ending

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Which family members are you planning to give massages to? I’d feel a bit weird and uncomfortable if I was receiving or giving any of my relatives a massage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer Swedish, something a bit more relaxing and sensual rather than a hard muscle unknotting session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever had one massage, I don't think it had a name

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Only ever had one massage, I don't think it had a name

Well unless you know the name and technique involved for every type of massage how do you know that it didn’t have a name? It could have been a Swedish massage but as it’s the only massage you’ve ever had you wouldn’t know that it was a Swedish massage.

You should describe it to us and OP will probably be able to tell you what the name of it is.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’d love a relaxing massage. Never really had one before

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I’d love a relaxing massage. Never really had one before

How do you know that you’d love it if you’ve never had one before? You might hate it, you won’t know until you’ve had one.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I haven’t had a massage in years, last time I did I fell asleep - seems like a waste of money!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they care as long as they get a happy ending lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ever had one massage, I don't think it had a name

You should describe it to us and OP will probably be able to tell you what the name of it is. "

Turns out it was a 'deep tissue' massage. No country or other name.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Only ever had one massage, I don't think it had a name

You should describe it to us and OP will probably be able to tell you what the name of it is.

Turns out it was a 'deep tissue' massage. No country or other name. "

Glad you were able to find out the name of it so quickly and clear that mystery up for us.

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By *aldyballsMan
over a year ago

South Cheshire

Lingam massage for me every time

Although a Thai massage always loosens the knots.

Any local offers gratefully accepted

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By *ensman100Man
over a year ago

Hounslow

Depends.. I love a good sports massage to get rid of the knots in my shoulders.. but a nice sensual massage always helps me relax

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By *ensman100Man
over a year ago

Hounslow

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Only one that hits the spot is a deep tissue massage. Only one I prefer and have

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I can't stand a massage. I just find them painful and uncomfortable. But if you tickle my back I'm putty in your hands

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By *eckingHornedMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

None. They are just not for me.

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By *icker2010Man
over a year ago

cambs/london/Norfolk

Well as others have said given the option of an oily naked massage by a woman most guys will run for it. Moving on from the obvious though I am a sucker for a deep tissue massage especially after a stressful day. A happy ending is brilliant but just a relaxing long all over oily rub is great too

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By *icker2010Man
over a year ago

cambs/london/Norfolk

I also meant to mention Nuru as my ultimate massage if we're talking kinky....

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

A mix of firm and sensual but has to have happy ending or just leaves me hard and frustrated

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By *neforutoMan
over a year ago

Fantasy land in the SW

I love deep tissue massage together with work on my hands and fingers. When looking for a local masseuse Im not intrested in a happy ending and being a bloke looking for reccomendations I either get ignored as a dirty old man or the 'extras' are over emphasised and the massage is poor.

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

Once a month, deep tissue full body massage and an indian head massage.

Also a full wet shave at the barbers.

Well worth the cost xx

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Become a tantric massage therapist.

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

Swedish... Thai is horrible and does nothing for me at all.. had one once and I was clock watching until it was over

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By *asseur_9Man
over a year ago

Ballymoney

Aromatherapy covers most aspects of massage but since this is a sex site. Lingam massage most welcome

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Deep tissue for me. And if possible added a nice finish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally deep tissue for me and Indian head now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sports for me.

So many knots in my back and shoulders.

MR.

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

Sports massage

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

A shared one

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By *r_BlueEyesMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm greedy. I like to have a deep tissue followed by a relaxing one

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By *heoneandonlyEJCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

"I’m considering training and need to choose between Swedish, aromatherapy/relaxation, Thai, deep tissue. There’s also options in Indian head and foot/reflexology.

One reason I want to learn is to share pleasure with any future men in my life as well as friends and family. Which got me thinking- what kind of massage do you fellows prefer please? "

I would recommend doing the Swedish first, the anatomy and physiology is quite in depth, it will give you a good basis for any other training you do. I did the reflexology first which I realise now was the wrong way round. E

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By *ocktoplaywithMan
over a year ago

Derby

Had quite a few massages years ago, but only one in past 5 years, all had happy endings. Never had a really oily one and like to experience that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We been trying to find female to massage ideally both of us for ages but not around. Plenty of willing males to massage female lol both love Swedish massage or deep tissue

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Amazing response everyone thank you so much! Looks like deep tissue or sports are highest ranking, followed by Swedish.

It also seems like general help to relax and unwind is welcomed too. Thanks so much!

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By *owdenguyMan
over a year ago

howden

"I’m considering training and need to choose between Swedish, aromatherapy/relaxation, Thai, deep tissue. There’s also options in Indian head and foot/reflexology.

One reason I want to learn is to share pleasure with any future men in my life as well as friends and family. Which got me thinking- what kind of massage do you fellows prefer please? "

Non whatsoever as I’m ticklish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One with a happy ending, no doubt!

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By *hippy57Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

A naturist sensual tantric massage,Zuru nice to finish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always prefer a firm deep tissue one usually because my muscles are full of knots from workouts and sitting at a desk.

Would definitely appreciate one and great skill to learn x

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By *ive-it-a-goMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Any massage for me I don't mind, who's offering?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swedish here

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Really enjoy a relaxing massage however do get a deep tissue massage often x

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea

Always a happy ending massage down the local thai parlour

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"Which family members are you planning to give massages to? I’d feel a bit weird and uncomfortable if I was receiving or giving any of my relatives a massage "

I get what you mean, but a seated head and shoulder massage feels fine with friends and family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swedish full Jody and reflexology will do fine thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body even

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I like it hard, but not Thai. Also like the head massage, and pressure points on the hands and feet that clear headaches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m considering training and need to choose between Swedish, aromatherapy/relaxation, Thai, deep tissue. There’s also options in Indian head and foot/reflexology.

One reason I want to learn is to share pleasure with any future men in my life as well as friends and family. Which got me thinking- what kind of massage do you fellows prefer please? "

Deep tissue

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Ive studied many different kinds of massage. You could study Tantra massage, but its a long training. Id highly recommend Lomi Lomi massage. Its a Hawaiain style, the receiver is naked, and you use lots of coconut oil. It doesnt take too long to learn , and its unashamedly sensuous. It can be very erotic, if you both set that intention. The reason I love to both give and receive it, is that its not that strenuous to give, and its deliciously oily, warm, and sensual to receive. For a man, or woman, its a glorious 90 minutes of foreplay,.. Happy ending or not.

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By *rchitectMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I do love a oiled one with a happy ending.If anybody in Dorchester can oblige that would be great.

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By *edonist79Man
over a year ago

Trowbridge

I like any deep tissue type massage. Anything that loosens my muscles. I like it just on the cusp of painful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nuru massage looks amazing...

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By *andybigboiMan
over a year ago

Mount Pleasant

Deep tissue all body. Head massage and facial

Is right up for me when I go for spa days

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

Swedish Massage is probably the best.

Using pretty much the same techniques you can adapt it into a more deep tissue massage when needed.

Anyone who thinks they need a sports massage is usually very much mistaken unless they are very serious or accomplished sports people really.

If you've got an injury then a good physio makes far more sense than a forts massage.

And yes, I'm trained in that.

I choose not to go it really.

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By *igger9969Man
over a year ago

Aberdare

Sish or Nuru massage.

Body to body

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Had a wonderful thai massage at the weekend. Lots of stretching of muscles and being bent into odd positions

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

Anything that cracks my joints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Four hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prostate and lingam please. Any aficionados drop me a message!

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By *igger9969Man
over a year ago

Aberdare

"Four hands

Love a four hand xx. Hand had both two females and a man a woman do a 4 hand

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I have a regular deep tissue type massage which is anything but pleasurable but it's good for me.

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By *uzySuzyCouple
over a year ago

Lytham St Annes

Love all types of sensual massage usually from attententive gents not yet had one with an attractive bi lady ..hopefully it will happen soon

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

I’ll take what I can get! Nice if it’s highly unprofessional though, especially if the masseuse is naked!

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

Thai or deep tissue are my favourites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nuru

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep tissue or Indian Head massage for me

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