FabSwingers.com forum: How Strange

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just been reading forums and just found something very strange.

The number of couples on here that are saying how difficult it is to meet and play with other couples, most look really nice profiles great but some state after Months no meets.

We go along with this we find it easy to meet with guys for 3somes ( no shock there) but many a time we have arranged meets only to be let down at last minute. yet others appear to meet at will, wish we had the magic answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have spoken to couples on here and other sites and it would appear that the couples with the greatest attention given are in their twenties and thirties .

Any one older than that should grateful for what they get it would seem .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many couples are very hard work on here, all forms of neuroses, issues and petty jealousies. We have all but given up meeting good ones unless we go to a club where you tend to find well sorted, proper swinging couples (and singles).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many couples are very hard work on here, all forms of neuroses, issues and petty jealousies. We have all but given up meeting good ones unless we go to a club where you tend to find well sorted, proper swinging couples (and singles)."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it neurosis and jealousy issues ?

Not sure really , but there an awful lot of wannabes who have been on the site for ages with no meets or verifications and it makes you wonder ?

Some say it's about finding the right couple etc.... Others are just clearly not genuine , but whatever it is , clubs are most definitely the way foward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a good point.

We have had contact with couples on here and sometimes it is like choosing the new Pope.

We have wearily gone through a laborious process only to fall at the final hurdle , usually because (it would appear) that the female half has finally had a look and said no.

It's a pity that you cannot see who is typing because he will be getting all wet about Mrs J and will be gushing enthusiasm ,we get caught up in it and book a club visit or hotel for a meet and then his other half asks what he is doing and that's that .

Spontaneity is the key here , we have gone off with couples in clubs that would probably fallen mid way on the swinging interrogation hurdles and have had a glorious fuck .

Makes us wonder why we are bothering with swinging sites at all!!.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We have found it very difficult to meet couples with no issues and a straightforward approach to this. We are lucky to have met and played with one likeminded pair and had a social meet with another so it is possible. I can't agree about clubs because they aren't for us personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we agree about the club thing....we've been swinging for a while now, we know what we like, what we're comfortable with, and due to some not great experiences, and perhaps maybe getting a bit cynical now, we prefer to meet at clubs now.

At least there you can chat, get a feel for the people, see if your comfortable with them, and if it doesnt work out, then everyone can go their separate ways and have there own fun.

Sometimes, it is such an effort to arrange things, and with limited play time its just easier to go to a club.

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