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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you find when you respond to a post here some people see it as a loophole to engage with you?

I like to give advice but it’s sometimes results with a message in my DMs with a flirty response from the OP or those who respond to a thread

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

It does happen from time to time, the reply privately button is there and people use it, doesn't worry me at all to be honest, just part of fab life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens sometimes it's good other times it's a block

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

It happens, but very rarely for us so it’s not really a bother.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Yup it happens and not sure what the issue is with them doing so.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I dont mind if it's a general chat,but most i seem to get just want to turn the chat dirty & i just delete them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yup it happens and not sure what the issue is with them doing so. "

Sometimes it triggers abuse when I reply to keep it to the forum

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Yup it happens and not sure what the issue is with them doing so.

Sometimes it triggers abuse when I reply to keep it to the forum "

So why not just block?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, you’re not obligated to reply to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Sometimes it triggers abuse when I reply to keep it to the forum "

What saying keep it to the forums got to do with getting your clit licked or back blown out?

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Happens ABIT,but no issue.They're usually making sure I see their comment/what to chat about the comment I made. where the forum don't do notifications for forum replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite slide into dms recently was when I quoted someone's posts, I was taking the piss out of there blanten lie. They missed the sarcastic tone and tried to start a conversation up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens sometimes and I’m fine with it.

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By *wointo1Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester

Nothing wrong with a message. It's good to talk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess some people’s mail boxes are sacred places!

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

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Sometimes I mind, sometimes I don’t.

If their message is engaging and polite, I might respond. If the message is unnecessary or rude (or they’ve messaged before with no reply), I will block. I reckon there are repeat offenders who lurk in the forums and only respond in private.

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

Just because you can DM op's from thier forum post does not mean you should

Them & thier filters should be respected always

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Just because you can DM op's from thier forum post does not mean you should

Them & thier filters should be respected always"

Why shouldn’t they? It’s not against any rules.

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By *eFCUKaLotCouple
over a year ago

somewhere close

We do from time to time & people have done to us too. Just a bit of fun.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Just because you can DM op's from thier forum post does not mean you should

Them & thier filters should be respected always"

You can't reply to someone if you're blocked by their filters anyway.

The forums are generally a fun & chatty place and i've made lots of friend off the back of forum comments.

I see no harm in messaging privately, so long as it's not to give an insult you're too scared to make in public

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Just because you can DM op's from thier forum post does not mean you should

Them & thier filters should be respected always"

What's the reply privately button for then?

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By *aveyDipperMan
over a year ago

Teesside


"Do you find when you respond to a post here some people see it as a loophole to engage with you?

I like to give advice but it’s sometimes results with a message in my DMs with a flirty response from the OP or those who respond to a thread "

I’d rather someone takes it to a private chat where you can either delete/ ignore or block than have it as a public chat

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

I'll respect _dwalu2 & thier filters & not waest their time sending them a unsolicited message

I'm just that kind of respectful gentleman

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I often preblock OP for exact that reason if I do not wish to be contacted.

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

The form is especially nice when you can express your appreciation for awesome folks like ( KnkyCpl ) otherwise age filters would not allow you too

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm fine with it, it's nice to chat and engage with other forum folk.

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

Sorry to read about the abuse nobody deserves that

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

The so super sexy Dora and Diego explore so deserves everybody respect and I feel I'm showing them mine I'm not sending a DM because I'm way over their age filter but still think they're awesome anyway

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By *rtic explorerMan
over a year ago

ring road bristol


"It does happen from time to time, the reply privately button is there and people use it, doesn't worry me at all to be honest, just part of fab life."

I assumed it went on the thread, but was invisible to all other than the intended. Good to know that’s not the case, before using the button

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

The so special Samantha_Jade so deserves everybody's respect with kind upbeat friendly consideration always

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

Pillowcase888 so true if it's not fun for all involved is the ultimate waste of time

and time is the one thing we all seem not to have enough of

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It doesn't worry me. Some feel they need to educate me, some to tell me my opinion is wrong, some that they agree with me and other just want to be rude to me. I block, delete, reply or report as appropriate

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I accidentally replied to someone by dm recently, so that does happen.

I’m fine with folk doing it to me. Within reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation have had some nice conversations with people on the forums but have had quite a few lurkers too with the seen your comment on the forum nice tits and then block is used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind because I enjoy being social and having a chat

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).


"Depends on the situation have had some nice conversations with people on the forums but have had quite a few lurkers too with the seen your comment on the forum nice tits and then block is used "
. This. I’ve done this a few times and made some nice connections, but I’ve also posted things to forums where I’ve had bi and gay guys (I’m not) writing and asking follow up questions, so I see how annoying it can be and there is always the block

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Might Be Close


"Do you find when you respond to a post here some people see it as a loophole to engage with you?

I like to give advice but it’s sometimes results with a message in my DMs with a flirty response from the OP or those who respond to a thread "

Most of my messages I get on here are a replying to something that's been posted publically on here. There's a lot of lurkers who seem afraid to post publically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation have had some nice conversations with people on the forums but have had quite a few lurkers too with the seen your comment on the forum nice tits and then block is used . This. I’ve done this a few times and made some nice connections, but I’ve also posted things to forums where I’ve had bi and gay guys (I’m not) writing and asking follow up questions, so I see how annoying it can be and there is always the block"

It does come in handy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation have had some nice conversations with people on the forums but have had quite a few lurkers too with the seen your comment on the forum nice tits and then block is used "

We wouldn’t of spoken I didn’t slide in

^hot wife

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