FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting bisexual women

By *eLost and ReFound OP Couple
over a year ago

Yeovil

I'm the bisexual woman in a couple looking to meet women one on one but I'm having trouble getting messages or responses being part of a couple as I think they are assuming that it's a cover for a mff.

Are there any other sites/apps that would be targeted to this sort of meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably it’s against site rules though. There been a few women only socials through this site

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Why not just set up a single account here ?

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By *eLost and ReFound OP Couple
over a year ago

Yeovil

Doing that as we speak ...but having had a single profile before it was still a challenge, just trying to find out if all the bi women are hiding somewhere else lol...

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

Personally, I tend to meet couples as couples and single profiles as single profiles but if you're clear, it wouldn't be a major problem for me. I'd prefer to be messaged or message a single profile to meet as a single.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I find it challenging, as I'm never quite sure if the profile is that of a genuine woman.

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By *eLost and ReFound OP Couple
over a year ago

Yeovil

Thankyou for that ,I'm just putting a single profile together now and hopefully a few more women like yourself should make it more beneficial ...

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Thankyou for that ,I'm just putting a single profile together now and hopefully a few more women like yourself should make it more beneficial ... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you state on your single profile that you are a couple and give the couple profile name, that’s cool. Make it clear to the person you are chatting to if it’s you or your partner that they are talking to.

Recently I was about to meet a lady, but found out that her husband ( that I didn’t know about) was actually the person I had been talking to the entire time. He ran her account and organised her meets yet the entire time he pretended to be her. They thought it was sexy I just felt deceived and icky.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"If you state on your single profile that you are a couple and give the couple profile name, that’s cool. Make it clear to the person you are chatting to if it’s you or your partner that they are talking to.

That's just nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s put me off meeting women from here. They would have to be really honest about their set up for me to trust them again

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"I'm the bisexual woman in a couple looking to meet women one on one but I'm having trouble getting messages or responses being part of a couple as I think they are assuming that it's a cover for a mff.

Are there any other sites/apps that would be targeted to this sort of meet x"

Its bothersome when we reply to a single bi fem profile then we get 'oh btw my hubby will be playing also' BUT if you set up a single fem profile and use it as that its only what actual single bi fems do, just not via a couples

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

It would be great to have a bisexual/ lesbian ladies-only social

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By *eLost and ReFound OP Couple
over a year ago

Yeovil

I think it's those kind of experiences that put alot of bi women off, ive discussed with my partner and he is happy for me to control the single profile by myself until any meets occur then he just wants details for my safety

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"I think it's those kind of experiences that put alot of bi women off, ive discussed with my partner and he is happy for me to control the single profile by myself until any meets occur then he just wants details for my safety "

Totally reasonable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is FabGuys maybe there needs to be FabGals

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By *eLost and ReFound OP Couple
over a year ago

Yeovil

Exactly my point

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I never have my other half with me when I meet other fems or couples.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We only ever meet a couple as heard way to many horror stories for Mrs4 to meet up with supposed females playing alone !! and despite our experiences still have hopes/dellusions of even meeting a genuine Bi fem couple where the male is happy to just enjoy seeing the fems have fun and not turn into a steven spielburg !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say a single ladies profile is the way to go. As someone else said about stating intentions clearly. Its so annoying when presented with a one to one FF meet and then someones partner wants to come along to watch. I just want to relax and have a nice time, not perform or be anyones entertainment. I get that they're part of a couple first but its still off putting. Hope it works out for you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never have my other half with me when I meet other fems or couples.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Are there any other sites/apps that would be targeted to this sort of meet x

We had a ‘single’ woman we met turn out to have a partner, who they weren’t together with but were still living in the same house. We ended up going to a club with them and stayed over with them too as they were both lovely and we had a great time, but we only found out about the arrangement when we got there, and no play happened as a result.

Can’t say there was any intended subterfuge there, it was just how things turned out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The unseen lounge hold some amazing events, one being a womans only event its probably worth having a look at.

https://www.theunseenlounge.co.uk/events/unseen-rogue-cosmic-party-uv

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Bisexual women are awesome

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By *p for fun2019Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth j

Salls got her own profile Looking for ladies. She gets very few genuine msgs.

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By *urkishmanMan
over a year ago

KUSADASI.TURKEY AND DUBLIN

So so hot!! At the top of my list, mmf and ffm really mmm!

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Why on earth is there not a fabgirls??

Other than us guys being a far more profitable audience of course..

The lovely single ladies we know are inundated with those who don't read bio's and can understand why the female part of a couple would avoid a single profile!

Filters work well admittedly, however the validation process could be a lot better..

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Are there any other sites/apps that would be targeted to this sort of meet x

Can’t say there was any intended subterfuge there, it was just how things turned out."

You really should have been made aware prior in honesty!

So feel there was an intentional omission there..

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By *ickie88Woman
over a year ago

somewhere different

I know it’s not really a site for bisexual women only but can anyone recommend any groups etc where I might have more luck lol

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Oh I know this feeling so much.

Kink (f)

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By *ickie88Woman
over a year ago

somewhere different

It’s hard work right?!

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We are the same.

Wife is bi and looking for Girl Girl play.

Only getting offers from couples and not just bi ladies.

Couples want swapping , not what we are looking for.

Is there any bi ladies that want GG play?

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

I had a single profile just looking FF meets and had no interest at all so kinda gave up. I'm still looking to meet females but now people think it's my other half chatting not me

Scarlet x

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

Its been mentioned in this thread, ladies-only socials. If there isn't one local to you...maybe organise one?

Start a thread, gauge interest locally, and hopefully meet genuine ladies, make friends, network and have that FF fun you've been seeking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a single profile just looking FF meets and had no interest at all so kinda gave up. I'm still looking to meet females but now people think it's my other half chatting not me

Scarlet x"

Do you offer to call them or meet for a coffee to prove you are real?

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By *ickie88Woman
over a year ago

somewhere different

Always

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By *oyInTheSquareMileWoman
over a year ago

Central London

Hello Ladies

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By *ickie88Woman
over a year ago

somewhere different

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By *isfun2023Couple
over a year ago

wakefield

"Its been mentioned in this thread, ladies-only socials. If there isn't one local to you...maybe organise one?

Start a thread, gauge interest locally, and hopefully meet genuine ladies, make friends, network and have that FF fun you've been seeking.

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Good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do this please keep in informed as I would love this

Xx L xx

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Its been mentioned in this thread, ladies-only socials. If there isn't one local to you...maybe organise one?

Start a thread, gauge interest locally, and hopefully meet genuine ladies, make friends, network and have that FF fun you've been seeking.

This is a good shout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi lady here we are about

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By *hat.coupleCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

Are there any other sites/apps that would be targeted to this sort of meet x"

I'm having the same trouble, not sure what to do about it either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its been mentioned in this thread, ladies-only socials. If there isn't one local to you...maybe organise one?

Start a thread, gauge interest locally, and hopefully meet genuine ladies, make friends, network and have that FF fun you've been seeking.

People have tried several times to arrange these, but are usually unsuccessful

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By *p4fun60Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I was talking to yhe owner of our local club last week on this subject & how why they don't have a bi femm only night & she explained that she's tried in the past with very low attendance so really not worth trying again- personally I'm ultra bi, I can play straight but sometimes I'm lucky enough to find a couple where the other female is either bi or bi curious, & I've had several successful playdates where I've just had some girlie fun while the boys sit back & watch lol

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

"I had a single profile just looking FF meets and had no interest at all so kinda gave up. I'm still looking to meet females but now people think it's my other half chatting not me

Scarlet x

Do you offer to call them or meet for a coffee to prove you are real?"

Yeah I've offered to meet them for a social etc. Still no interest

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Are there any other sites/apps that would be targeted to this sort of meet x

Can’t say there was any intended subterfuge there, it was just how things turned out.

You really should have been made aware prior in honesty!

So feel there was an intentional omission there.."

Yes they should have let us know, but it was more like they had complications in their relationship that they hadn’t worked out. People can be like that sometimes, it doesn’t always mean they were intending to deceive.

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By *ickie88Woman
over a year ago

somewhere different

Maybe we could have a group chat ladies??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself a single fem profile, but make it clear you are only looking to play with fems.

We find it as bit predatory when we get chatting to a bi fem couple or single fem and it turns out the fem only wants to play alone with the fem.

It makes us a bit suspicious that it's either a male pretending to be a female, or if it is a fem it's totally disrespecting our own boundaries of only playing together. Either is a red flag.

The best way is to be honest. So if you're looking to play as a single then have a single profile, and if you're approaching couples and only want to play with the female then say so in your bio.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Did you finish the single profile you said you were creating back then OP? You should advertise it on your couple’s profile if you did.

Have you found anyone to meet yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manchester ladies only social.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/1503408

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Any ladies want to share a double dildo apply within

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always happy to share some ff time together. I often put meets up. Not had a response yet. I'm starting to get a complex

Mrs C

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

"Any ladies want to share a double dildo apply within

Lol"

Yes please.....my absolute favourite

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By *andd_bicoupleCouple
over a year ago

wilmslow

Bi woman here xx

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Still waiting to meet a genuine bi sexual lady for girl girl play.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

As others have said maybe give the singles profile a whirl.

As a single bisexual woman I’ve found it’s best meeting other women in a club setting x

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By *ickie88Woman
over a year ago

somewhere different

I’ve set another profile, thanks for the advice x

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

"As others have said maybe give the singles profile a whirl.

As a single bisexual woman I’ve found it’s best meeting other women in a club setting x"

Not single, but yes. Agree. Clubs are so much easier. We go as a cpl, always make this VERY clear. If we are meeting with the intention of girl only fun. It's purely a security blanket thing for me. There's to many pretenders around on any site to be fair..

Anyway. Have fun in whatever road you choose, always be safe. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always happy to share some ff time together. I often put meets up. Not had a response yet. I'm starting to get a complex

Mrs C "

Oh don’t! You look lovely - pity so far from me

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By *uby RougeWoman
over a year ago

East Midlands

Oof I feel this as a woman that leans strongly towards ladies. I don't bother with couple profiles now as it's mostly men that has the control.

I search for single ladies now.

There's an FFF meet at Flirts/Xtasia on 1st November. RainbowQueen03 is organising it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are the same.

Wife is bi and looking for Girl Girl play.

Only getting offers from couples and not just bi ladies.

Couples want swapping , not what we are looking for.

Is there any bi ladies that want GG play?

We do exist. In my experience, we are more rare that the unicorn couples seek.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"I'm always happy to share some ff time together. I often put meets up. Not had a response yet. I'm starting to get a complex

Mrs C "

You have on your profile in capitals that you only play together, so that would make me think that you wouldn't be happy to meet as FF only. That's just my opinion.

Ruby

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