FabSwingers.com forum: 5 Things. What do you enjoy, hate and want more off.

By *eldomVanilla OP Man
over a year ago

London

Reflecting on what I enjoy ;what I don't and what I want to try. Here are 5 things of each. What are yours?

Five things I enjoy

1) Edging - This is my favourite type of play giving and reciving. The denial; the tease; the build up. To be kept there for so long then that release when you melt.

2) Pegging - I can get such an intense orgasam!

3) Missionary - So I'm shouting out to this hated posistion. You can kiss passionately. You can spank. You can slip a finger in his arse. He can control your orgasam. And his. Done right it's actually a good posistion.

4) Giving oral - I'm sure most guys do love this! No explanation needed.

5) Nipple play - Yeah I'm a sucker for nipples quite literally.

5 things I don't enjoy

1) 69 - seriously ... trying to concentrate on giving pleasure and reciving. This is not a relaxing experiance for both.

2) Blowjobs - I actually prefer someone who is good with their hands. Or I've just had shit blow jobs.

3) Making decisions - So I like someone to lead and I can top from the bottom up. I'm useless trying to lead by myself. Just say what the fuck you enjoy.

4) Fully shaved - so when your kissing and building up there's a nice feeling of pubic hair and running your fingers through. And nothing is worse than stubble.

5) Giving Anal sex - Damn I'm so ambivalent to this. Its too hyped up by popular porn. Muscles are not as strong there; its not as good. That's my opinion.

5 things I want to do more off

1) Bondage - I have so got into cock and ball bondage and it's unbelievable. I so want to learn more in terms of tying knots and I am really getting into the visual pleasure of good wrope work and that satisfaction of achieving it.

2) Pussy Pumps - Never played with someone with one and oh my god I want to! I enjoy my penis pump and want to replicate that pleasure on someone.

3) Fisting - No not me! It would never fit in me but I'm intrigued by giving. Just intrigued by what the fuck it feels like.

4) Tantric Sex - Limited experiance but just that thing about being close together with someone for a prolonged period. No rush to reach an end goal but enjoying a moment.

5) Wax play - I so need more experiance of this. Something intriguing about it.

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Hmm.

My favourite things, in the order they occur to me at this point in time rather than in order of general preference:

1) Throat fucking, cock worship, deepthroating until the survival instinct forces me to pause long enough to draw breath and going right back to it. That tears streaming, nose running, fighting the gag reflex experience because I fucking adore the way my partners react to it.

2) Flogging, spanking, sometimes even caning. Generally getting that little masochism fix and the aftermath of bruises and welts to remind me of an amazing time for days after.

3) Playing with the edge. I only ever edge alone, and save orgasms for when I'm with one of my partners. So when I'm told not to cum or they stop right at that edge so I don't even get to hold it back myself, it's intense. I love it.

4) Anal. Things in my butt. Tongues, toys, dicks. I just fucken adore anal.

5) Proper connection. I'm easily stimulated, I can have an orgasm with even the most mediocre offerings. But the difference it makes when you're in tune with the person? Astounding.

Um, things I don't like is probably harder. I don't think I even have 5.

1) 69s. Either I'm unable to give my best because I'm mid orgasm, or I'm giving my best and getting the short end of the stick. Let's just deal with one person at a time instead of multiple people getting mediocrity.

2) People who aren't in a dynamic with me trying to force a dynamic. No, I won't do what I'm told just because you said so. No, I'm not going to demand you follow instructions either.

3) Unexpected or unnegotiated forays into areas which should be discussed first. Am I a masochist? Sure. Can someone random nobody hurt me without actually talking to me about it first? Fuck no.

I think that's probably it.

In terms of things I want to do more, more of the things I put as favourites