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By *itheniceguy OP   Man
over a year ago

BICESTER

I,like many single men, have despaired with Fab over the years due to a lack of results, for want of a better word. However things have changed as a result of finding myself a sex mad FWB who is also open to swinging. This has opened up a world I never thought I'd get to enjoy and confirms my belief that swinging success is very much for couples. I'd like to take this opportunity to thank swinging woman everywhere for their existence. They are truly a special breed. They are wired differently to 99% of woman. They think like men sexually. More power to them.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

You shouldn't be displaying her face on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they think like men sexually."

"99 percent".

Tell me your clueless. Without telling me your clueless.

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Heathrow

It’s a bit early for popcorn but I’ll pull up a chair and watch this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to have my face on his profile thanks. His face is on mine too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""they think like men sexually."

"99 percent".

Tell me your clueless. Without telling me your clueless. "

He is right. I know I do.

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By *itheniceguy OP   Man
over a year ago

BICESTER

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By *itheniceguy OP   Man
over a year ago

BICESTER

Already some unpleasant replies. Such a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I,like many single men, have despaired with Fab over the years due to a lack of results, for want of a better word. However things have changed as a result of finding myself a sex mad FWB who is also open to swinging. This has opened up a world I never thought I'd get to enjoy and confirms my belief that swinging success is very much for couples. I'd like to take this opportunity to thank swinging woman everywhere for their existence. They are truly a special breed. They are wired differently to 99% of woman. They think like men sexually. More power to them. "

I think it’s just the way you have worded you’re post it comes across as quite derogatory to women.

Making out that all women on here think like men and are different to nearly all women outside fab. And the special breed part didn’t help.

I personally don’t think like a man sexually.. I think like a individual person and have my own sexual thoughts and desires as does everyone else.

I think you were trying to pay a compliment but it came across as the opposite.

But glad you I’ve found someone on here and both having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm happy to have my face on his profile thanks. His face is on mine too. "

It's against site rules!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *itheniceguy OP   Man
over a year ago

BICESTER


"I,like many single men, have despaired with Fab over the years due to a lack of results, for want of a better word. However things have changed as a result of finding myself a sex mad FWB who is also open to swinging. This has opened up a world I never thought I'd get to enjoy and confirms my belief that swinging success is very much for couples. I'd like to take this opportunity to thank swinging woman everywhere for their existence. They are truly a special breed. They are wired differently to 99% of woman. They think like men sexually. More power to them.

I think it’s just the way you have worded you’re post it comes across as quite derogatory to women.

Making out that all women on here think like men and are different to nearly all women outside fab. And the special breed part didn’t help.

I personally don’t think like a man sexually.. I think like a individual person and have my own sexual thoughts and desires as does everyone else.

I think you were trying to pay a compliment but it came across as the opposite.

But glad you I’ve found someone on here and both having fun "

There are so many people just waiting to be offended these days. I'm pleased you are glad for me though.

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By *itheniceguy OP   Man
over a year ago

BICESTER


"I'm happy to have my face on his profile thanks. His face is on mine too.

It's against site rules! "

The site approves all photos. Not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I,like many single men, have despaired with Fab over the years due to a lack of results, for want of a better word. However things have changed as a result of finding myself a sex mad FWB who is also open to swinging. This has opened up a world I never thought I'd get to enjoy and confirms my belief that swinging success is very much for couples. I'd like to take this opportunity to thank swinging woman everywhere for their existence. They are truly a special breed. They are wired differently to 99% of woman. They think like men sexually. More power to them.

I think it’s just the way you have worded you’re post it comes across as quite derogatory to women.

Making out that all women on here think like men and are different to nearly all women outside fab. And the special breed part didn’t help.

I personally don’t think like a man sexually.. I think like a individual person and have my own sexual thoughts and desires as does everyone else.

I think you were trying to pay a compliment but it came across as the opposite.

But glad you I’ve found someone on here and both having fun

There are so many people just waiting to be offended these days. I'm pleased you are glad for me though. "

I am not offended by you as I don’t know to let you do that.

I was merely giving you my opinion on your post comment and why some people don’t agree with it.

There is a big difference from offending someone personally to not agreeing with that said person.

Surely the whole reasons people write In forums to get others opinions?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm happy to have my face on his profile thanks. His face is on mine too.

It's against site rules!

The site approves all photos. Not me. "

Sometimes a photo will be approved in error. The rules clearly state that you must be in the photo and other faces must be completely obscured.

https://www.fabswingers.com/articles/photo-rules

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I,like many single men, have despaired with Fab over the years due to a lack of results, for want of a better word. However things have changed as a result of finding myself a sex mad FWB who is also open to swinging. This has opened up a world I never thought I'd get to enjoy and confirms my belief that swinging success is very much for couples. I'd like to take this opportunity to thank swinging woman everywhere for their existence. They are truly a special breed. They are wired differently to 99% of woman. They think like men sexually. More power to them.

I think it’s just the way you have worded you’re post it comes across as quite derogatory to women.

Making out that all women on here think like men and are different to nearly all women outside fab. And the special breed part didn’t help.

I personally don’t think like a man sexually.. I think like a individual person and have my own sexual thoughts and desires as does everyone else.

I think you were trying to pay a compliment but it came across as the opposite.

But glad you I’ve found someone on here and both having fun

There are so many people just waiting to be offended these days. I'm pleased you are glad for me though. "

I don't see anyone being offended

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

No, we think like women who enjoy sex.

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By *itheniceguy OP   Man
over a year ago

BICESTER


""they think like men sexually."

"99 percent".

Tell me your clueless. Without telling me your clueless. "

You said I was clueless. A bit of a harsh reaction.

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By *itheniceguy OP   Man
over a year ago

BICESTER


"No, we think like women who enjoy sex. "

Well all I'll say is that in my experience the vast majority of woman out there find the swinging lifestyle difficult to get their heads around. They find promiscuous casual sex quite repulsive So I'll stick with my view that swinging woman are wired differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, we think like women who enjoy sex.

Well all I'll say is that in my experience the vast majority of woman out there find the swinging lifestyle difficult to get their heads around. They find promiscuous casual sex quite repulsive So I'll stick with my view that swinging woman are wired differently. "

Wow just wow

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"I,like many single men, have despaired with Fab over the years due to a lack of results, for want of a better word. However things have changed as a result of finding myself a sex mad FWB who is also open to swinging. This has opened up a world I never thought I'd get to enjoy and confirms my belief that swinging success is very much for couples. I'd like to take this opportunity to thank swinging woman everywhere for their existence. They are truly a special breed. They are wired differently to 99% of woman. They think like men sexually. More power to them. "

while I am glad you have found your happy place here with this liberated forward thinking lady,

to say she thinks like a man seems a bit odd if you ask me? Maybe I'm missing the point with all this woke-ism being rife but not sure I understand where you are coming from with that particular comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, we think like women who enjoy sex.

Well all I'll say is that in my experience the vast majority of woman out there find the swinging lifestyle difficult to get their heads around. They find promiscuous casual sex quite repulsive So I'll stick with my view that swinging woman are wired differently. "

I'd guess a lot of men would have the same difficulty. I'm curious as to what you base your knowledge on, you being here over a year unverified. I wonder if you're simply on a high at having met someone and this is leading you to making sweeping statements. Enjoy your new partnership

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

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The way you have written your post has come across insulting , Different Breed , REALLY !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eeek eeek eeek this is poorly written! Women here are liberated and confident. Very much lead real lives and enjoy quality connections. It reads “wow women on here well done for loving sex as much as us horny men and I’ve found one, yay!”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eeek eeek eeek this is poorly written! Women here are liberated and confident. Very much lead real lives and enjoy quality connections. It reads “wow women on here well done for loving sex as much as us horny men and I’ve found one, yay!” "

Woman on here are definitely liberated and confident, unlike most woman when it comes to promiscuous casual sex.

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By *itheniceguy OP   Man
over a year ago

BICESTER


"No, we think like women who enjoy sex.

Well all I'll say is that in my experience the vast majority of woman out there find the swinging lifestyle difficult to get their heads around. They find promiscuous casual sex quite repulsive So I'll stick with my view that swinging woman are wired differently.

I'd guess a lot of men would have the same difficulty. I'm curious as to what you base your knowledge on, you being here over a year unverified. I wonder if you're simply on a high at having met someone and this is leading you to making sweeping statements. Enjoy your new partnership "

Me being unverified for over a year is simply an example of how difficult it is for single guys in the swinging world. Now I'm paired up with a like-minded woman things will hopefully change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eeek eeek eeek this is poorly written! Women here are liberated and confident. Very much lead real lives and enjoy quality connections. It reads “wow women on here well done for loving sex as much as us horny men and I’ve found one, yay!”

Woman on here are definitely liberated and confident, unlike most woman when it comes to promiscuous casual sex. "

Again I find myself wondering what you base your 'most women' comment on. Is this simply your opinion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, we think like women who enjoy sex.

Well all I'll say is that in my experience the vast majority of woman out there find the swinging lifestyle difficult to get their heads around. They find promiscuous casual sex quite repulsive So I'll stick with my view that swinging woman are wired differently.

I'd guess a lot of men would have the same difficulty. I'm curious as to what you base your knowledge on, you being here over a year unverified. I wonder if you're simply on a high at having met someone and this is leading you to making sweeping statements. Enjoy your new partnership

Me being unverified for over a year is simply an example of how difficult it is for single guys in the swinging world. Now I'm paired up with a like-minded woman things will hopefully change. "

That's grand but theres no need for the sweeping and frankly, derogatory statements. All the best

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By *itheniceguy OP   Man
over a year ago

BICESTER


"I,like many single men, have despaired with Fab over the years due to a lack of results, for want of a better word. However things have changed as a result of finding myself a sex mad FWB who is also open to swinging. This has opened up a world I never thought I'd get to enjoy and confirms my belief that swinging success is very much for couples. I'd like to take this opportunity to thank swinging woman everywhere for their existence. They are truly a special breed. They are wired differently to 99% of woman. They think like men sexually. More power to them.

while I am glad you have found your happy place here with this liberated forward thinking lady,

to say she thinks like a man seems a bit odd if you ask me? Maybe I'm missing the point with all this woke-ism being rife but not sure I understand where you are coming from with that particular comment?

"

The point I was trying to make is that in my experience the vast majority of woman out there find promiscuous casual sex difficult to get their heads around and casual promiscuous sex quite repulsive. Its usually men that have no problem with this lifestyle out in the real world, and therefore swinging woman definitely appear to think more like men sexually.

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By *itheniceguy OP   Man
over a year ago

BICESTER


"No, we think like women who enjoy sex.

Well all I'll say is that in my experience the vast majority of woman out there find the swinging lifestyle difficult to get their heads around. They find promiscuous casual sex quite repulsive So I'll stick with my view that swinging woman are wired differently.

I'd guess a lot of men would have the same difficulty. I'm curious as to what you base your knowledge on, you being here over a year unverified. I wonder if you're simply on a high at having met someone and this is leading you to making sweeping statements. Enjoy your new partnership

Me being unverified for over a year is simply an example of how difficult it is for single guys in the swinging world. Now I'm paired up with a like-minded woman things will hopefully change.

That's grand but theres no need for the sweeping and frankly, derogatory statements. All the best "

I said nothing derogatory. I was complimentary. I wish all woman were like swinging woman.

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By *itheniceguy OP   Man
over a year ago

BICESTER

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eeek eeek eeek this is poorly written! Women here are liberated and confident. Very much lead real lives and enjoy quality connections. It reads “wow women on here well done for loving sex as much as us horny men and I’ve found one, yay!”

Woman on here are definitely liberated and confident, unlike most woman when it comes to promiscuous casual sex.

Again I find myself wondering what you base your 'most women' comment on. Is this simply your opinion?"

It's in my experience. None of my friends are like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eeek eeek eeek this is poorly written! Women here are liberated and confident. Very much lead real lives and enjoy quality connections. It reads “wow women on here well done for loving sex as much as us horny men and I’ve found one, yay!”

Woman on here are definitely liberated and confident, unlike most woman when it comes to promiscuous casual sex.

Again I find myself wondering what you base your 'most women' comment on. Is this simply your opinion?

It's in my experience. "

I wasnt asking you but ok. Maybe use 'in my experience' (which in fairness could be limited) rather than 'most women's. Just my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, we think like women who enjoy sex.

Well all I'll say is that in my experience the vast majority of woman out there find the swinging lifestyle difficult to get their heads around. They find promiscuous casual sex quite repulsive So I'll stick with my view that swinging woman are wired differently.

I'd guess a lot of men would have the same difficulty. I'm curious as to what you base your knowledge on, you being here over a year unverified. I wonder if you're simply on a high at having met someone and this is leading you to making sweeping statements. Enjoy your new partnership

Me being unverified for over a year is simply an example of how difficult it is for single guys in the swinging world. Now I'm paired up with a like-minded woman things will hopefully change. "

It's great you've met someone, and you're both on the same page. Sadly I've spoken to a fair few men who think like you (note I didn't say most). They seem to view meeting as a couple to be the key to unlock the 'swinging scene'... Which in their case they might have a point, but I can do quite nicely on my own

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford


"I,like many single men, have despaired with Fab over the years due to a lack of results, for want of a better word. However things have changed as a result of finding myself a sex mad FWB who is also open to swinging. This has opened up a world I never thought I'd get to enjoy and confirms my belief that swinging success is very much for couples. I'd like to take this opportunity to thank swinging woman everywhere for their existence. They are truly a special breed. They are wired differently to 99% of woman. They think like men sexually. More power to them. "

Couldn’t disagree more - met and had sex with plenty of women who enjoy casual sex, but would be horrified by the idea of “swinging”

Conversely I’ve met and known plenty of men that couldn’t and wouldn’t get their head around casual sex and swinging.

I kind of get what you’re trying to say, but your wording isn’t great.

Trying to box, label and compare people will never go well to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and therefore swinging woman definitely appear to think more like men sexually. "

No we don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd also suggest that the grass isn't necessarily greener for couples. I've had a cpls account in the past, and the dynamics of finding other cpls where everyone is mutually interested is actually pretty hard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd also suggest that the grass isn't necessarily greener for couples. I've had a cpls account in the past, and the dynamics of finding other cpls where everyone is mutually interested is actually pretty hard! "

Agreed. Two people liking the other is hard work, four, a minefield

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

London


"No, we think like women who enjoy sex.

Well all I'll say is that in my experience the vast majority of woman out there find the swinging lifestyle difficult to get their heads around. They find promiscuous casual sex quite repulsive So I'll stick with my view that swinging woman are wired differently.

I'd guess a lot of men would have the same difficulty. I'm curious as to what you base your knowledge on, you being here over a year unverified. I wonder if you're simply on a high at having met someone and this is leading you to making sweeping statements. Enjoy your new partnership "

I was thinking exactly the same. This post is weird for many different reasons but screams post coital endorphins brain fog in a first place.

Glad OP and his new found passion thrives though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, we think like women who enjoy sex.

Well all I'll say is that in my experience the vast majority of woman out there find the swinging lifestyle difficult to get their heads around. They find promiscuous casual sex quite repulsive So I'll stick with my view that swinging woman are wired differently.

I'd guess a lot of men would have the same difficulty. I'm curious as to what you base your knowledge on, you being here over a year unverified. I wonder if you're simply on a high at having met someone and this is leading you to making sweeping statements. Enjoy your new partnership

Me being unverified for over a year is simply an example of how difficult it is for single guys in the swinging world. Now I'm paired up with a like-minded woman things will hopefully change.

That's grand but theres no need for the sweeping and frankly, derogatory statements. All the best

I said nothing derogatory. I was complimentary. I wish all woman were like swinging woman. "

Why?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Using the Dewey Decimal system does this come before or after apologising on behalf of all men?

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Heathrow

OP has gone quiet! We’re almost out of popcorn!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Am I the only one who doesn't see anything wrong with this post?

Pleased you've found your woman op.

Your views and opinions are yours people will always disagree/agree no one's opinion is more valid than anyone else's.

Mrs

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