FabSwingers.com forum: Face Pics

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

O.K. so, the decision to post face pics on profiles remains the sole discretion of the profile owner.

When organising meetings, particularly if we want single guys, why do they NEVER send a face pic, of any kind, to your privet inbox?

We all have jobs, families etc., and yes, face pics on open profile could be disastrous for a lot of us.

However, we ALWAYS send a face pic to potential meets, as this is the only sure fire way to know if the people you are meeting, are who they say they are.

Don't want to agree to meet people, only to find there is no attraction there when all together.

Or are we just being pedantic here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some wont send face pics....forget em, move on, i would never reply asking for a face pic , cant be assed playing games and listening the excuses.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I feel obliged to send a face pic so that my hideous features lower the expectations created by my sparkling and witty personality.

Otherwise I would be impossible to reject.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I would'nt even begin to arrange to meet anyone without exchanging face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would'nt even begin to arrange to meet anyone without exchanging face pics"

I can understand some folk not wanting to exchange face pics but they should at least let themselves be seen on cam!!

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a couple without seeing face once. It was a spur of the moment meet and I thought 'what the hell' the rest of their pics looked rather hot and it worked out really well but it could've gone the other way as well! Wouldn't do it now though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ask for face pics as I do not send mine.

If on the other hand the other party send one of their own I will send one of me out of politeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

made the mistake early on not asking for face pics b4 a meet. OMG never again, the guy had been in an accident and had hit a horse in his car at 70mph and had half his head missing. Made an excuse for a quick exit lol. ALWAYS ask now before we agree to meet anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"made the mistake early on not asking for face pics b4 a meet. OMG never again, the guy had been in an accident and had hit a horse in his car at 70mph and had half his head missing. Made an excuse for a quick exit lol. ALWAYS ask now before we agree to meet anyone

you promised to never tell anyone about that!! I'm very sensitive about my looks haha :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pmsl ooooooooooooooops sorry we forgot can you forgive us xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah ok ill let you off, but only because your hot :p

So was this guy just hoping that when you all met up, no one would notice half his face missing!? heh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol fook knows, perhaps he was hoping it was a dark pub lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HAHA! Argh poor guy

I'd hate to half my face missing then I'd really look like the pix in my profile! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ffs no face pics in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol yeh coz my face is missing from my body! :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pmsl just as well the rest looks good then

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I think you're probably safe now - the odds on that happening again are huge

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

No face pic - no play is our rule. Not worried about people being Quasimodo's double, but if they won't send you a face pic what else have they got to hide, we always think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be a spark, so even though I don't put face pics on my profile I'll always PM them without fail... also finding that over time I'm trying to make even my public pics look a bit better... again the "spark" thing.

Gotta present yourself as well as possible, right?

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Would not dream of meeting anyone with a face pic being seen, how do you recognise them in the first place?

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By *eritageMan
over a year ago

weston super mare

only truble with face pics is not photo genic,look better in reality however wold not deam of not sending one only right

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I always when mailing someone ask them to look at my profile and see if the pics I have interest them then if so send a clear face pic. But tend to get more mail then send to new people, but always send an early face pic as we dont all rock everyones boats. I always cam ONCE I have seen their face pic and arranging a meet. I dont like people saying I dont have a face pic on here but can email or send one on msn!! I only swap msn when about to meet someone and get annoyed when suggested that I give my email addy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always when mailing someone ask them to look at my profile and see if the pics I have interest them then if so send a clear face pic. But tend to get more mail then send to new people, but always send an early face pic as we dont all rock everyones boats. I always cam ONCE I have seen their face pic and arranging a meet. I dont like people saying I dont have a face pic on here but can email or send one on msn!! I only swap msn when about to meet someone and get annoyed when suggested that I give my email addy."

That seems both polite and respectful, not to mention sensible!

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling

ok, im just jumpin in here not read the full forum....

and i do send face pic on request or attach to someone im sendin a message to.

but wot if u have a high profile job, you send a pic to the private inbox, all does not go well, the person is devious and has your pic!!!! say no more

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or shock horror what if you use an old pic, (been there, "it was taken by my wife who has since passed away".). Or someone elses pic, another one that has happened to us, unless you can lose some cock length n grow a foreskin back lol.

We no longer take any notice of pics prefer to meet for a chat n make decisions based upon what people actually look like in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only send face pics i think everyone as seen a cock or is it that most men are dick heads and thats there face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blah blah blah blah blah blah ..... blah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic - no play is our rule. Not worried about people being Quasimodo's double, but if they won't send you a face pic what else have they got to hide, we always think?"

Do you sometimes meet then burn them at the stake ?

I'm not joining club paranoia ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a classic a few months ago, a couple from the same town as us wanted to meet no probs with that, looked at their profile no pics, we sent a message asking for pics the reply we got was - We never send pic's everybody in the town knows us so we have no need, my reply was I have only lived here for 3 years and Nicky has lived here all her life and has a load of family we want to make sure that we are not too close to home and we don't really play with family members.

Their reply- well if you want to meet us you can but we are not sending pics as everybody knows us.

My reply- maybe another time then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had a classic a few months ago, a couple from the same town as us wanted to meet no probs with that, looked at their profile no pics, we sent a message asking for pics the reply we got was - We never send pic's everybody in the town knows us so we have no need, my reply was I have only lived here for 3 years and Nicky has lived here all her life and has a load of family we want to make sure that we are not too close to home and we don't really play with family members.

Their reply- well if you want to meet us you can but we are not sending pics as everybody knows us.

My reply- maybe another time then."

too right,we defo like to see pics before meet or even a quick preview on cam just to show.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"ok, im just jumpin in here not read the full forum....

and i do send face pic on request or attach to someone im sendin a message to.

but wot if u have a high profile job, you send a pic to the private inbox, all does not go well, the person is devious and has your pic!!!! say no more

xxx"

The answer to this is to have your face pic 'clean' - if it was sent to the press it would be like sending them a passport photo. Make all the rude pics headless and all should be ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rightly or wrongly, I prefer to show any potential playmates as many pics of myself, face as well as the very intimate ones, as possible before agreeing to a meet.

I would also try and see as many pics of him as possible first.

I would also try and find out his likes and dislikes in sex, and as much information about him as possible.

In short, I would vett him as much as I could before agreeing to a met to see if we tickle each other's fancy.

A lot of peeps do not get pass the initial vetting process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures only give you a rough idea as I've met men that looked plain in their pics one looked like Daniel Craig in the flesh shame he was boring! One didnt recognise him, profile said 5ft 9 which is shorter than I like but he was fun. Pic showed man with full head of hair and trim, the person who met me came up to my tits, had gained 5 stone and hair was grey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send a face pic to those who ask, though not that many ask lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had great satisfaction the other day with my face pic.

A few months back got PM'ing a female and she had asked for a face pic. She sent a reply saying sorry i wasn't her type so i just moved on and left it at that.

Last week said fem contacted me again. Whether she forgot about me or was chancing her luck we got PM'ing again but she said she couldn't remember contacting me before but i wasn't daft and could remember her so like before we swapped face pics. She replied saying yes i like what i see etc etc but i had great pleasure in saying sorry you are not my type

Childish i know

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