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"Who else reckons that almost all of the 'straight' guys on here are actually bi curious? I've chatted to loads of 'straight' guys who are interested but don't want to appear gay! " Almost all? Nope. How many of the tens of thousands have messaged you? | |||
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"There're plenty of genuine straight guys on here that will not do sexy stuff with other men. There're plenty of "straight" guys on here that are actually bi-curious or fully bisexual but say they're straight. This could be because they're afraid to admit it to themselves or post it publicly on a site. It could be because they're afraid of putting off women and couples that don't like bi men. It could be because they're curios, but not so curious as to warrant changing themselves from straight to curious. All I know is that if I receive messages from straight guys asking to fuck, I dismiss them much faster than the ones who are openly bi." This ![]() | |||
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"Who else reckons that almost all of the 'straight' guys on here are actually bi curious? I've chatted to loads of 'straight' guys who are interested but don't want to appear gay! " This straight guy is certainly not bi curious. Sorry to ruin your stats sir. S | |||
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"Who else reckons that almost all of the 'straight' guys on here are actually bi curious? I've chatted to loads of 'straight' guys who are interested but don't want to appear gay! " is that just wishful thinking ? | |||
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"I love sex with women, I also enjoy sex with men, but actual attraction for me always lies with ladies, I don't find myself looking at guys in the street, whereas I'm always drawn to gorgeous ladies. It's strange how the mind works I guess....." This is me! | |||
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"Who else reckons that almost all of the 'straight' guys on here are actually bi curious? I've chatted to loads of 'straight' guys who are interested but don't want to appear gay! is that just wishful thinking ?" I don't think it is actually. Right now as I type I have 3 apparently straight men messaging me asking for a massage and what might happen after that massage if they get turned on and horny. Honestly, that messaging thing happens most days. | |||
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"Who else reckons that almost all of the 'straight' guys on here are actually bi curious? I've chatted to loads of 'straight' guys who are interested but don't want to appear gay! " i would guess that at least 60% of straight guys on here are bi in some form if bi and cross dressers were allowed to name straight guys who ask for meets most would have a list of a few maybe 40-60 local guys,,, ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Who else reckons that almost all of the 'straight' guys on here are actually bi curious? I've chatted to loads of 'straight' guys who are interested but don't want to appear gay! " No, I don’t think so. Especially in “almost all” definition. I recon 10-15% max. Even on bi nights at clubs 50% of guys are straight. It’s probably your wishful thinking, OP ![]() | |||
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"I love sex with women, I also enjoy sex with men, but actual attraction for me always lies with ladies, I don't find myself looking at guys in the street, whereas I'm always drawn to gorgeous ladies. It's strange how the mind works I guess....." This is how I feel too | |||
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"I love sex with women, I also enjoy sex with men, but actual attraction for me always lies with ladies, I don't find myself looking at guys in the street, whereas I'm always drawn to gorgeous ladies. It's strange how the mind works I guess..... This is me!" Same here. | |||
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"Every couple I have met where it says the guy is straight on their profile, I have ended up being sucked by the hubby " Lucky you | |||
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"I met a couple last week where the M said he was straight. About 10 mins into the play, he had his mouth on my cock and shared it with the wife! Carried on that way throughout the meet, then afterwards claimed that he was definitely straight lol" We’ve had that before when it was a single guy. Assured before meeting it was just playing with me as much husband is straight. Started off great then he tried to touch him. Ended there and then ![]() | |||
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"If some one is comfortable describing themselves as straight but is also comfortable with also liking other things, as long as they treat everyone with the same level of respect live and let live, people should be able to experience what they want to experience. There are a lot of ‘Straight ' guys who are mixed up though and i cant support people when it comes out as internalized homophobia. just this week i have had a guy approach me and made a huge deal of the fact that because he’s straight I would have to be as feminine as possible , went as far as to ask if I would consider wearing fake lashes and paint my nails - as if I would be missing out by not meeting him if I wasn’t willing to go to those lengths to meet him, only for me to find him on fabguys under another name verified by 10+ 60 year old BLOKES. Another guy messaged me about meeting then said he would be up for me sucking his cock if he could wear a condom… only for me to spot him on fabguys asking for raw loads That shit is just weird " lol some of these chaps are just old old boy nob jockeys for sure ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Haha I have no problem with anyone being a nob jockey or a closet nob jockey, What I have a problem with it them actually having a problem with it, and thinking they can pass their confusion on to people Instead of just sitting with it and working it out, and getting over it, whether they choose to remain closeted or not, is them messaging people who have been on their journey, are cool with who they are, can do what they want and have no shame- Play with other confused people. ![]() We like you and your honesty about this. You’re funny bit absolutely correct. Xx | |||
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"Some of these guys talk a pretty good game too considering they can only chat when wifey has her back turned emptying the dishwasher " Lol. This xx | |||
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"Some of these guys talk a pretty good game too considering they can only chat when wifey has her back turned emptying the dishwasher " ![]() | |||
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"I met a couple last week where the M said he was straight. About 10 mins into the play, he had his mouth on my cock and shared it with the wife! Carried on that way throughout the meet, then afterwards claimed that he was definitely straight lol" These are the men who believe people like me exist and are on here with the sole intention of ruining strangers lives for no reason, and have the time energy resources and just feel like doing so | |||
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"We are are unfortunately some of the few that have put in our profile sorry no bisexual/curious men. For the only reason as when we first started couldn’t care if they were or not. But it’s happened a few times where boundaries were discussed and assured only playing would be done with me from my husband and the man in question. Unfortunately all that all went out the window when we got into it. So now we just like to meet single men. But I do agree with what someone said earlier alot of the men we are talking to will be saying they are straight when they are really bi/curious It’s a hard one on here to get right. " I’m a bi guy in an open bi married relationship. I always ask about boundaries . I’ve never overstepped any of them. It’s a shame that the few mess with the majority. X | |||
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"We are are unfortunately some of the few that have put in our profile sorry no bisexual/curious men. For the only reason as when we first started couldn’t care if they were or not. But it’s happened a few times where boundaries were discussed and assured only playing would be done with me from my husband and the man in question. Unfortunately all that all went out the window when we got into it. So now we just like to meet single men. But I do agree with what someone said earlier alot of the men we are talking to will be saying they are straight when they are really bi/curious It’s a hard one on here to get right. I’m a bi guy in an open bi married relationship. I always ask about boundaries . I’ve never overstepped any of them. It’s a shame that the few mess with the majority. X" Pity they don’t take your lead and be like you guys ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Freeeeeedommmm. " Absolutely | |||
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"Sexuality is a spectrum and is fluid, some for more people than others. While you have people who are 100% gay or 100% straight, most of us fall outside of those binaries. It can also fluctuate throughout your life. Interesting point, also worth remembering that the so called advanced races such as the ancient Greeks and Romans had a very fluid attitude towards sex and your sexual orientation. Mx The trouble is that while society is more accepting of sexuality these days, there is still a very long way to go before the stigma is eradicated. While that exists it will keep many people in the closet. I dream of a day when labels don't matter and it's just accepted that we're all sexual beings and nothing that happens between consenting adults is taboo." | |||
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"Honestly a label we personally find a little confusing.. As we understand the definition of bisexual is a person who is attracted to both genders. I (Mrs) am definitely so. However D is not attracted to men, but occasionally acknowledges another guy is good looking. However he does very much enjoy our anal play/strap on and it's a regular part of our sex life. So you can guess the interest of how a real cock would feel and the act being mentally as hot as hell for both of us.. So is he bi curious or just a filthy sod open to 'experiences.. ![]() I don't think you need to label it. It's whatever he's happy saying he is. | |||
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"We are are unfortunately some of the few that have put in our profile sorry no bisexual/curious men. For the only reason as when we first started couldn’t care if they were or not. But it’s happened a few times where boundaries were discussed and assured only playing would be done with me from my husband and the man in question. Unfortunately all that all went out the window when we got into it. So now we just like to meet single men. But I do agree with what someone said earlier alot of the men we are talking to will be saying they are straight when they are really bi/curious It’s a hard one on here to get right. I’m a bi guy in an open bi married relationship. I always ask about boundaries . I’ve never overstepped any of them. It’s a shame that the few mess with the majority. X Pity they don’t take your lead and be like you guys ![]() ![]() Consent is key. It's the same in Spa's and clubs and should be no different behind closed doors. | |||
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"Sexuality is a spectrum and is fluid, some for more people than others. While you have people who are 100% gay or 100% straight, most of us fall outside of those binaries. It can also fluctuate throughout your life. The trouble is that while society is more accepting of sexuality these days, there is still a very long way to go before the stigma is eradicated. While that exists it will keep many people in the closet. I dream of a day when labels don't matter and it's just accepted that we're all sexual beings and nothing that happens between consenting adults is taboo." I think labels are important because believe it or not there are genuinely straight men out there like myself who want nothing sexually to do with other men. T | |||
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"Sexuality is a spectrum and is fluid, some for more people than others. While you have people who are 100% gay or 100% straight, most of us fall outside of those binaries. It can also fluctuate throughout your life. The trouble is that while society is more accepting of sexuality these days, there is still a very long way to go before the stigma is eradicated. While that exists it will keep many people in the closet. I dream of a day when labels don't matter and it's just accepted that we're all sexual beings and nothing that happens between consenting adults is taboo. I think labels are important because believe it or not there are genuinely straight men out there like myself who want nothing sexually to do with other men. T" agree ![]() | |||
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"If two guys are straight and they are enjoying rubbing their dicks together whilst in a DP in a woman, if their cocks are being rubbed together by a woman in a double barrelled blowjob, if one of the guys is Fucklicking a pussy whilst the other guy fucking has his balls banging him under the chin… Hit by friendly fire… None of this interaction is Bi-sexual or even bi-curious, it’s two men who are completely comfortable being in intimate contact with each other. The men who possess the ability to collaboratively pleasure one woman with no hang-ups are demonstrably leading edge. They aren't ’real men’ just because they can fuck pussy together, but rather in doing so is not being a threat to their masculinity. Unfortunately Fabswingers doesn’t have a selection for masculine, dominant, confident men who like sharing a pussy whilst working together in sexual harmony to make her cum. So I selected Bi-Curious…" Crossing swords has nothing to do with being bisexual. Confident men have nothing to prove. Idiots are the ones with the problem. | |||
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"I love sex with women, I also enjoy sex with men, but actual attraction for me always lies with ladies, I don't find myself looking at guys in the street, whereas I'm always drawn to gorgeous ladies. It's strange how the mind works I guess..... This is me!" Totally relate to this | |||
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"Sexuality is a spectrum and is fluid, some for more people than others. While you have people who are 100% gay or 100% straight, most of us fall outside of those binaries. It can also fluctuate throughout your life. The trouble is that while society is more accepting of sexuality these days, there is still a very long way to go before the stigma is eradicated. While that exists it will keep many people in the closet. I dream of a day when labels don't matter and it's just accepted that we're all sexual beings and nothing that happens between consenting adults is taboo." Totally agree with this, as long as you know the boundaries it is about enjoying yourselves within them. | |||
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"95% of my messages from "straight"guys. Not complaining " Same here, and until they change that to something else they get nothing from me. | |||
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"I just love a guy and his wife/ partner both on their knees sucking my cock. And then me swapping with him and returning the favour. Only ever done this with a couple, not sure if I would meet a guy on his own." This is one of my favourite activities that I have done with a husband and wife/male and female couple Personally am sure that I would never meet a guy on his own for this, it just wouldn't be the same for me without real female involvement ![]() | |||
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"I just love a guy and his wife/ partner both on their knees sucking my cock. And then me swapping with him and returning the favour. Only ever done this with a couple, not sure if I would meet a guy on his own.This is one of my favourite activities that I have done with a husband and wife/male and female couple Personally am sure that I would never meet a guy on his own for this, it just wouldn't be the same for me without real female involvement ![]() I agree, also I love pussy too much and want both at the same time! | |||
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"Bi couples is best of both X" Hands down!!! | |||
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"I just love a guy and his wife/ partner both on their knees sucking my cock. And then me swapping with him and returning the favour. Only ever done this with a couple, not sure if I would meet a guy on his own.This is one of my favourite activities that I have done with a husband and wife/male and female couple Personally am sure that I would never meet a guy on his own for this, it just wouldn't be the same for me without real female involvement ![]() we can all dream eh, ![]() | |||
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"Our profile asks bi guys not to message if their profile says straight. Why can’t people own their sexuality? Many say they’re bi to get to the Mrs too. ![]() I bet that's annoying. Single guys have such a bad reputation on here! | |||
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"Sexuality is a spectrum and is fluid, some for more people than others. While you have people who are 100% gay or 100% straight, most of us fall outside of those binaries. It can also fluctuate throughout your life. The trouble is that while society is more accepting of sexuality these days, there is still a very long way to go before the stigma is eradicated. While that exists it will keep many people in the closet. I dream of a day when labels don't matter and it's just accepted that we're all sexual beings and nothing that happens between consenting adults is taboo." ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Sod labels just enjoy" I don’t like labels either, they’re only helpful if people use them truthfully. It’s a pain sifting through them that’s all Xx | |||
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"Our profile asks bi guys not to message if their profile says straight. Why can’t people own their sexuality? Many say they’re bi to get to the Mrs too. ![]() Mad how straight guys are willing to suck cock or be sucked off by a guy just to get some pussy | |||
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"We must be in majority of real life straight then ![]() Or,he may be going to a GH somewhere that you've no idea... | |||
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"I love sex with women, I also enjoy sex with men, but actual attraction for me always lies with ladies, I don't find myself looking at guys in the street, whereas I'm always drawn to gorgeous ladies. It's strange how the mind works I guess....." Same here ![]() | |||
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"What I find most amusing is the profiles of couples who say that they will Not meet with bi men or those that meet them. Then you look at their verifications and you've either met or at least chatted with a few of the 'straight' men that they've already met or meet regularly. Makes me chortle." Similar chortles when you get a pic from a guy who says he is "bi curious".... of him impaled on a 10" suction cup dildo. That's not "curious" m8 ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What I find most amusing is the profiles of couples who say that they will Not meet with bi men or those that meet them. Then you look at their verifications and you've either met or at least chatted with a few of the 'straight' men that they've already met or meet regularly. Makes me chortle. Similar chortles when you get a pic from a guy who says he is "bi curious".... of him impaled on a 10" suction cup dildo. That's not "curious" m8 ![]() ![]() Why would someone playing with a dildo make them more than curious ? | |||
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"What I find most amusing is the profiles of couples who say that they will Not meet with bi men or those that meet them. Then you look at their verifications and you've either met or at least chatted with a few of the 'straight' men that they've already met or meet regularly. Makes me chortle. Similar chortles when you get a pic from a guy who says he is "bi curious".... of him impaled on a 10" suction cup dildo. That's not "curious" m8 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Who else reckons that almost all of the 'straight' guys on here are actually bi curious? I've chatted to loads of 'straight' guys who are interested but don't want to appear gay! " No I don’t agree with you. Of course there are plenty of genuinely straight guys on fab who wouldn’t play with another bloke under any circumstances. There are also many bi guys claiming to be straight. Some because they are in the closet. Some to avoid putting off women and couples who aren’t interested in bi guys. Another thing is that it’s a widespread fantasy amongst the gay and bi community to have fun with “straight” men. So many bi guys will play at being straight in response to this fantasy. However just because the label is so widely twisted and subverted on fab don’t delude yourself on the fact that the majority of guys are perfectly comfortable being straight. | |||
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"I love sex with women, I also enjoy sex with men, but actual attraction for me always lies with ladies, I don't find myself looking at guys in the street, whereas I'm always drawn to gorgeous ladies. It's strange how the mind works I guess....." | |||
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"I did fuck an attractive guy who had an attractive partner just to show who's the bull that evening, but my preferences are for women." Well that's shown him that you're the straight 'bull' then hasn't it? | |||
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"I did fuck an attractive guy who had an attractive partner just to show who's the bull that evening, but my preferences are for women. Well that's shown him that you're the straight 'bull' then hasn't it? " They were both happy and I didn't think of it afterwards. It just seemed like a logical sequence of events at the time. | |||
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"Who else reckons that almost all of the 'straight' guys on here are actually bi curious? I've chatted to loads of 'straight' guys who are interested but don't want to appear gay! " Agreed! | |||
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"Who else reckons that almost all of the 'straight' guys on here are actually bi curious? I've chatted to loads of 'straight' guys who are interested but don't want to appear gay! " I agree unfortunately due to petty reasons mine is down as straight due to knowing people on here etc . | |||
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