FabSwingers.com forum: Hotlist winks

By *edplusone OP Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Decided to be brave and finally wink some of those on our hotlist

Are we the only ones who do this? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cannot beat a good winking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m never brave enough. I just admire from afar

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

"I’m never brave enough. I just admire from afar

This

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I fab if i like the picture - application

and wink if I'm more interested in the profile too.

Not being lazy and if people wink back, I'll message

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By *94meeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm forever winking.

Or is that wanking.

I don't know anymore I'm confused...

Probably both tbh.

Wink wink everyone xxx

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By *ayzDreamingMan
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

I'm hoping to get a wink at some point from someone

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

Let's do ghisb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink them sometimes

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Hotlists are there for winking - how else do you turn them into friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I'm rubbish at checking winks, I'd just message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m never brave enough. I just admire from afar

Same

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge (West-Mids)

We're in

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By *inkyguymkMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Gotta love a good wink, I manage about 3 on a good day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink if I’m on it

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Oh I'm rubbish at checking winks, I'd just message them. "

I like when people take their brave pills and do that. So far it’s always been a *good* surprise. Never a bad one.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I'm a big fan of the wink function.

I've had some fantastic meets that started with a wink being returned.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Oh I’m not that brave

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

We fab a good photo and wink a good profile. If they wink back, we send a message to get chatting.

C x

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By *rStroker69Man
over a year ago

wells

Love a good wink and wink back

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

We are not brave enough... we fear the rejection

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By *rStroker69Man
over a year ago

wells

"We are not brave enough... we fear the rejection

Who the hell would reject you??

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Love a good wink

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

"We are not brave enough... we fear the rejection

We would love to wink you we are told old

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

"We are not brave enough... we fear the rejection

Who the hell would reject you??"

We have sent a few winks and messages in the past, normally to time wasters. So now we don't bother. Sad times

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By *otBrunetteHimCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

We use our hotlist as a would like to meet list. Then when we’re looking we wink/message people on our list saves trying to remember when we saw someone we liked

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Never bother with winks, certainly don’t send them - experience form those we receive tells us they never lead anywhere, so find them meaningless.

We watch the updates on our hotlist and if they post meets when we’re looking for meets we’ll drop a message and hope it leads somewhere.

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

To much winking causes eye strain

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I hotlist profiles I like to look at . Would never wink as there's a fair chance of getting blocked if I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Decided to be brave and finally wink some of those on our hotlist

Are we the only ones who do this? xxx"

No one has ever responded to a wink from me. I just message people I’m interested in now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question. I do like Winks as an initial expression of interest, and I find it exciting to receive one. However, I agree sending a short message seems to generally be more effective and more likely to get a response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getcha wink on

Getcha getcha getcha

Getcha wink on

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By *interflingMan
over a year ago

london

Winking away with this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few to begin with when I first came back. Now I rarely get one

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"No one has ever responded to a wink from me. I just message people I’m interested in now"

One of the most amazing and satisfying relationships I’ve found through Fab started with a wink from an anonymous profile.

Whatever ‘rules’ we make for ourselves about these things, sometimes there’s an exception that blows you away. It’s worth keeping an open mind.

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By *olvespairCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We use a wink for interest, but generally will send a short message. Love to get a wink too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t beat a good winking session

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

We do that...if they look but no reaction, then we take that as no interest and remove them from the hotlist.

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Few we’ve winked here and got nothing back sadly

Although we understand and accept that everyone ha there preferences etc

But we do love a good wink

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We like to send a wee wink to show were interested for sure

It's nice to perv but it's nicer to strike up a convo

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been winked at nor sent any, I get the impression that people think it's lazy but feel free to wink at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good wink.

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath

I like a wink, show interest without being intrusive xxx

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I occasionally am brave and wink people on my Hotlist...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to wink. It shows interest without having to send a message and people feeling like they owe you a response etc.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Winking definitely breaks the ice.

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By *ocketrocket80Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"Winking definitely breaks the ice. "

Definitely agree - normally sent a message but occassionally wink and happy to receive as an icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a fan of winking

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By *ubynaughtyCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

We love a good wink, shows you're interested before messaging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink is OK, prefer it when someone sends initial message even if it's just a 'hi'

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I like a little wink, great way to break the ice, we've had some great meets that started as a wink.

Mrs

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By *aui.Man
over a year ago

around here

There are people who have been on mine for so long but I never say anything. Everytime I see their profile though I'm just like wow, wow, wow.

But yeah I'm in on this, drop me a wink or not. I promise I'll check my winks for once

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By *aps1Man
over a year ago

North Wales / Chester

I’ll wink if I like the look of someone or want to catch there eye

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By *un_ajMan
over a year ago

York

Wink away and if you like what you see, send those messages

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By *oots11Couple
over a year ago

wirral

Would love to know if we are on anyones ..

Angel xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do now and again but it's better to just message. Lots of people don't even check them so it never goes anywhere.

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By *aps1Man
over a year ago

North Wales / Chester

Well your certainly on my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do now and again but it's better to just message. Lots of people don't even check them so it never goes anywhere. "

This

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By *bsolute101Couple
over a year ago

oxford

I sent a few winks. See if we get any back.

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By *inknipzloverMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"I do now and again but it's better to just message. Lots of people don't even check them so it never goes anywhere. "

I’d love to wink n tell you your nipples are mmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winking to my hotties

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Love a good wink, good way of seeing if someone is interested and breaks the ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Decided to be brave and finally wink some of those on our hotlist

Are we the only ones who do this? xxx"

Definitely not! I like sending a wink, even if they don't always get read. I find they're less annoying than a shitty opening message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winked a few....

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Have winked the ones that I would like to meet or think I'm the type they are looking for. It can be a subtle way of testing the water.

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By *portbilly1976Man
over a year ago

manchester

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