FabSwingers.com forum: Reluctant to reveal

By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Why some guys on here ask to meet me but very reluctant to show their face and body? .... I don't do blind meets.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Dont worry cherry.

Stick to your guns never lower them standards x

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

That is one of the many mysteries of Fab. Get so many messages asking if I want to "meet now", and I've no idea what they look like.

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By *rb1Man
over a year ago

swansea

Either they are married or think you won’t meet once you see a photo of them and then end the conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time say yes and witness their disbelief it finally worked. Guarantee they won’t show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why some guys on here ask to meet me but very reluctant to show their face and body? .... I don't do blind meets.

I was chatting about this earlier, proper red flags and I will never understand what inspires people to behave like that

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Oh that's weird.. I can understand why not publicly but to a specific person on the basis planning to meet to not sending, thats just weird

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Why some guys on here ask to meet me but very reluctant to show their face and body? .... I don't do blind meets.

And why should you!? Although honestly guy's we've met have been upfront with pictures, we've found couples and ladies to be harder work..

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Too many fakes

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

I genuinely post one every so often on my profile.

Still get random people inboxing asking for one (usually with no pics on their profile,or just x-rated shots) when I request their pic usual response is I/we don`t send face pics because of work etc

Then they describe themselves,then ask for pics again.

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By *orthridingMan
over a year ago

Knutsford

I think a combination of fakes married and worried once a few messages have been exchanged; you will not find them attractive to you or your cup of tea.....

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By *elboy1957Man
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

"Why some guys on here ask to meet me but very reluctant to show their face and body? .... I don't do blind meets.

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Because your only talking to guys that don't understand the real world

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Because they think that they might get lucky?

There's nowt as strange as folk, OP. Ours is not to reason why.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

i have a simple system that i stick to you message me first you send clear face pic first and if i message you first then ill send mine ...

no face pic = no meet

but as someone else have said there are alot of couples a women on here who never give face pics out ..relying on the fact they are sought after by men

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By *oosier_lookingat76Man
over a year ago

Durham

Personally im always happy to send a face pic when messaging someone. I mean you don’t introduce yourself in public hiding your face do you?

If they are reluctant to reveal then that would be a red flag to me so exercise a bit of caution….or ignore.

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

"Why some guys on here ask to meet me but very reluctant to show their face and body? .... I don't do blind meets.

Too many fakes. I get people I’m enjoying chatting to to send me a pic showing at specific body part relating to another, finger touching an elbow for example. Something hard to find quickly on the internet. Amazing how fast they ghost you then! To my mind blokes masquerading as couples or women are pretty low! Don’t lower your standards….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get so many dick pics through in a first message asking if we want to meet. That is never going to happen.

I wonder if it has ever worked for anyone or it is just a cheap thrill for them?

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I have a face pic on my profile …. so it is only fair for someone to reciprocate. I appreciate some will want to hide their face maybe to the wider audience in here, but it isn’t too much to expect once you start chatting.

I do find it odd when a profile says ‘must have a face pic’ as a requirement…. but then hide their own!

I would never meet anyone I hasn’t seen!

R xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat it as a filter.

Their loss.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Not sure why it's aimed at guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re always happy to share face and body pics, especially if we’re getting along well with someone. Definitely comes across as dodgy when they refuse to show who they are

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Not sure why it's aimed at guys "

Because I have no experience on female fabbers so no point assuming they also do the same?

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By *ack 500Man
over a year ago

stafford

It’s got to be a very sexy body to continue talking

Without seeing a face

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I think if someone is keen to meet you gotta see there face at least, and maybe body too, I be very surprised if anyone meets anyone without any knowledge of what someone looks like. But I've seen threads where they do stranger meets blindfold sex and not a scooby doo what they look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why some guys on here ask to meet me but very reluctant to show their face and body? .... I don't do blind meets.

They probably have something to hide etc.

I know we all here for the same reason and we all want discretion, but some people are more careful than others…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw your profile status is shouting for cock pics,

Just saying…

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Not sure why it's aimed at guys

Because I have no experience on female fabbers so no point assuming they also do the same?"

They do yeah

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I always send a face pic when massaging

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By *omfoolerykentMan
over a year ago

dartford

Not shy

What do you want to see?

Who don't like showing off

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By *uietguy689Man
over a year ago

Abingdon

As others have said, just use as a filter. Whilst I don't have a public face pic, I wouldn't hesitate to send one if I were to message someone.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Btw your profile status is shouting for cock pics,

Just saying…"

And what's the problem with that? Why so shy not to show it? It's fab most profiles show it. Just dubious when men don't want to show anything and expect to meet.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Not shy

What do you want to see?

Who don't like showing off

Apparently quite afew people lol

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I think if someone is keen to meet you gotta see there face at least, and maybe body too, I be very surprised if anyone meets anyone without any knowledge of what someone looks like. But I've seen threads where they do stranger meets blindfold sex and not a scooby doo what they look like."

I understand there's glory holes in clubs but that's club environment. But as for blind meets or being blind folded, aren't you asking for trouble?

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"It’s got to be a very sexy body to continue talking

Without seeing a face "

I'm talking about people reluctant to reveal either

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I show a face pic then get blocked didn’t think I was that bad

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

OP - it goes both ways.

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By *mpeyeMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Always happy to show my face.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I don’t meet anyone without having a video chat first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem seeing any part of me or a chat on phone etc

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I understand there's glory holes in clubs but that's club environment. But as for blind meets or being blind folded, aren't you asking for trouble?"
I would never ever do a blind meet I'm basically same as everyone you gotta see face pic and maybe body can be clothed but you gotta see who your meeting right? Lol.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"OP - it goes both ways."

Oh course, goes without saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have an issue sending what's required

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By *allsendmaleMan
over a year ago

Visiting Morecambe / Hest Bank

I’d always share a face pic before meeting for security reasons and would expect the same in return, however I tend to be a bit cautious about sharing mine too early.

A supposedly “verified” female I talked to a few years ago turned out to be a male who threatened to share my pictures online and send them to my family and friends after I politely turned him down and told him I am straight.

After that experience I have been very careful with who I share my real identity with and would suggest others also do some research on who they are speaking to before they share anything too intimate.

I had to report the individual to the police to stop them from trying it with anyone else. They have since been removed from the site, but I am sure other people with similar intentions are lurking.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I’d always share a face pic before meeting for security reasons and would expect the same in return, however I tend to be a bit cautious about sharing mine too early.

I had to report the individual to the police to stop them from trying it with anyone else. They have since been removed from the site, but I am sure other people with similar intentions are lurking."

Dam that's a scary story

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

God bless you cherry x

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Cherry,

those not sharing their face privately to you are probably real men (most) but likely not singles free to meet, so not intending to act on their fantasy. You are a gorgeous lady who writes super erotic stories, so for them it is an ego boost think that they managed to chat you up to the point that they feel you would be willing to meet them. It is as simple as that.

We only play with couples, but for us it is a similar story. That is why we ask early for faces and clothes-on full body pics. If the alleged couple does not share or we feel no attraction, then we say so and no time wasted on either side, then we move on.

Lars & Lena xx

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"Why some guys on here ask to meet me but very reluctant to show their face and body? .... I don't do blind meets.

Because they’re mingers, knew they were punching above when they contacted you, dreamers and don’t stand a chance…

Any guy worth your time will be open, share pictures, will actually talk on the phone, meet for a no commitment social first..

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By *rStroker69Man
over a year ago

wells

On a similar note I find it hilarious when people insist on seeing a face pic when they have no pics at all on their profile or one pic from 10 years ago.....I’m looking at you females and couples

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"I’d always share a face pic before meeting for security reasons and would expect the same in return, however I tend to be a bit cautious about sharing mine too early.

I had to report the individual to the police to stop them from trying it with anyone else. They have since been removed from the site, but I am sure other people with similar intentions are lurking."

Damn. Luckily these days your family relationships and career will withstand an outing - not saying it won’t be tough but this kind of ‘outing’ bl*ckm*il isn’t the threat it used to be.

Lesson is do not chat or exchange pictures with anyone who hasn’t paid up, picture verified and has recent veris of actual meeting people. It’s not a 100% safety net but it’s better than being catfished and abused / outed

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