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By *appyface OP   Man
over a year ago

East Devon

I would love genuine feedback regarding my profile.

Basically what is wrong with it.

I am a very genuine guy, great creative imagination, body certainly not the best but its what I have.

Where am I going wrong?

There seems to be no one interested.

Thanks.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm weird. So my feedback is probably irrelevant. But hey.

Anyone who has to tell me they're nice or genuine or decent does so because they haven't shown it. Which to me means that they probably aren't.

The word female puts me right off in general.

It reads more like a fantasy you can slot any willing female into, rather than an indication of who you are or what kind of person you're looking for.

Only one public pic and it's a dick pic is also a no for me.

But, I'm not your target demographic.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Your only pic is almost 6 years old op,maybe take some recent ones.

Also what you're describing in yout bio Won't be what everyone is into op.

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By *appyface OP   Man
over a year ago

East Devon


"I'm weird. So my feedback is probably irrelevant. But hey.

Anyone who has to tell me they're nice or genuine or decent does so because they haven't shown it. Which to me means that they probably aren't.

The word female puts me right off in general.

It reads more like a fantasy you can slot any willing female into, rather than an indication of who you are or what kind of person you're looking for.

Only one public pic and it's a dick pic is also a no for me.

But, I'm not your target demographic."

I put genuine /decent as I really am a caring and considerate guy, who respects ladies and I have no ego.

It appears there are so many guys on here are self obsessed and are just here to get as many notches on bed posts as possible.

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By *appyface OP   Man
over a year ago

East Devon


"Your only pic is almost 6 years old op,maybe take some recent ones.

Also what you're describing in yout bio Won't be what everyone is into op."

Excellent point, thank you.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"I put genuine /decent as I really am a caring and considerate guy, who respects ladies and I have no ego.

It appears there are so many guys on here are self obsessed and are just here to get as many notches on bed posts as possible. "

Like I said, not your target demographic and probably just a weirdo. But I find that people who have to make the statement that they are genuine and decent are usually the furthest from it in their choices and actions. So the words put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put genuine /decent as I really am a caring and considerate guy, who respects ladies and I have no ego.

It appears there are so many guys on here are self obsessed and are just here to get as many notches on bed posts as possible.

Like I said, not your target demographic and probably just a weirdo. But I find that people who have to make the statement that they are genuine and decent are usually the furthest from it in their choices and actions. So the words put me off."
you aren't a weirdo . .. it puts me off too..for the same reasons

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm weird. So my feedback is probably irrelevant. But hey.

Anyone who has to tell me they're nice or genuine or decent does so because they haven't shown it. Which to me means that they probably aren't.

The word female puts me right off in general.

It reads more like a fantasy you can slot any willing female into, rather than an indication of who you are or what kind of person you're looking for.

Only one public pic and it's a dick pic is also a no for me.

But, I'm not your target demographic."

I agree with this.

Anyone can say they're nice, genuine, etc, even awful people.

Show you are, don't tell.

And yes, this reads like a fantasy that you're after.

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By *appyface OP   Man
over a year ago

East Devon

Updated a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm weird. So my feedback is probably irrelevant. But hey.

Anyone who has to tell me they're nice or genuine or decent does so because they haven't shown it. Which to me means that they probably aren't.

The word female puts me right off in general.

It reads more like a fantasy you can slot any willing female into, rather than an indication of who you are or what kind of person you're looking for.

Only one public pic and it's a dick pic is also a no for me.

But, I'm not your target demographic.

I agree with this.

Anyone can say they're nice, genuine, etc, even awful people.

Show you are, don't tell.

And yes, this reads like a fantasy that you're after."

Agreed with all the same point above, especially the genuine thing, words tend to be empty in 2023, actions speak a lot louder and are actually backed up

Also the female thing is guaranteed to make me dryer than the Sahara

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

As a couple that only meets guys here's my 2p. (Forget you're outside our age preferences)

One photo, cock centred doesn't inspire much interest.

The text is largely linked to women doing things with other people, not you. A lot of talk about you facilitating things for them and them doing things without you present, which makes you pretty much redundant to their needs and gives no reason to engage with you. Most women are perfectly capable of managing their own swinging lives.

Too much emphasis on being nice (as others have said). Nobody will ever put that they're a cunt in their text or that people generally don't like them, so being nice, pleasant and friendly is taken as a given. Talk about it too much or use the dreaded 'genuine' word and people will wonder why you feel the need to mention it.

In short the profile doesn't sell you. It's bland and comes across as you trying to come across as non-pushy by distancing yourself from what may happen with any women interested in meeting with you. They want to meet you. Not others.

A

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"As a couple that only meets guys here's my 2p. (Forget you're outside our age preferences)

One photo, cock centred doesn't inspire much interest.

The text is largely linked to women doing things with other people, not you. A lot of talk about you facilitating things for them and them doing things without you present, which makes you pretty much redundant to their needs and gives no reason to engage with you. Most women are perfectly capable of managing their own swinging lives.

Too much emphasis on being nice (as others have said). Nobody will ever put that they're a cunt in their text or that people generally don't like them, so being nice, pleasant and friendly is taken as a given. Talk about it too much or use the dreaded 'genuine' word and people will wonder why you feel the need to mention it.

In short the profile doesn't sell you. It's bland and comes across as you trying to come across as non-pushy by distancing yourself from what may happen with any women interested in meeting with you. They want to meet you. Not others.

A"

I think it's... Both bland and specific. Which is a feat

I say this trying to be constructive

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Stopped after the first line, you claim to be creative and imagenative yet simply loves oral, that doesn't imply creative.

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By *appyface OP   Man
over a year ago

East Devon

Well, looks like the profile is not overly loved then !

Thanks for your help.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

A few changes maybe, at least it states what you are looking for, maybe look for cuckold couples, we’re you can join the cuck and share the duties.

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

First of all I would condense your bio.

Another observation of mine is that there are inconsistencies.

Your name is, "Happy face" but we can't see a happy face!

Also, there are no indications of creativity in your photos.

Why not check out my pics for a bit of inspiration?

I've a home made cross for starters!

When you're in your 50's, you have to try and stand out from the crowd.

All the best.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I'm weird. So my feedback is probably irrelevant. But hey.

Anyone who has to tell me they're nice or genuine or decent does so because they haven't shown it. Which to me means that they probably aren't.

The word female puts me right off in general.

It reads more like a fantasy you can slot any willing female into, rather than an indication of who you are or what kind of person you're looking for.

Only one public pic and it's a dick pic is also a no for me.

But, I'm not your target demographic.

I put genuine /decent as I really am a caring and considerate guy, who respects ladies and I have no ego.

It appears there are so many guys on here are self obsessed and are just here to get as many notches on bed posts as possible. "

It goes both ways pal in the swinging lifestyle that's why many attend clubs but nothing to do with notches if you had many verifications where would that place you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you feel it describes you and what you're after? If so don't change it because how else are you going to meet the people you want to meet?

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