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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it so hard to find genuine single males

We have posted various meets for a single male to come to ours while I’m at work to fuck N but struggle to find anyone

Single males say they aren’t given a chance by couples so why do we find it hard

All we ask if for face photos first to see if there an attraction for N

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By *ayzDreamingMan
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger


"Why is it so hard to find genuine single males

We have posted various meets for a single male to come to ours while I’m at work to fuck N but struggle to find anyone

Single males say they aren’t given a chance by couples so why do we find it hard

All we ask if for face photos first to see if there an attraction for N

"

We are out here, it does get disheartening when we send the a pic and don't get a reply.

From personal experience I always write a fresh and polite message to couples but it's extremely rare to even get a "no thanks" in return...again, just personal experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find genuine single males

We have posted various meets for a single male to come to ours while I’m at work to fuck N but struggle to find anyone

Single males say they aren’t given a chance by couples so why do we find it hard

All we ask if for face photos first to see if there an attraction for N

"

I would suggest Wakefield maybe busy with single chaps in the near future?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Maybe attraction,

type of guy your looking for then accessibility it can differ from each location where users are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are out there. You just have to be patient. We've met some lovely single guys who send a face pic, don't send dick pics and can actually write, spell and read a profile.

The other 99.9%.... You just have to wade through them to find the good ones.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Why is it so hard to find genuine single males

We have posted various meets for a single male to come to ours while I’m at work to fuck N but struggle to find anyone

Single males say they aren’t given a chance by couples so why do we find it hard

All we ask if for face photos first to see if there an attraction for N

"

When you are exacting in what you want, many people will recognise that they don't meet those requirements and won't message.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I'm single but you're in Wakefield.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Single men have as right as anyone not to send a face pic straight off if they don't want to. Just like you have every right to ask for one.

While yes there are lots of men on here and yes some do complain about lack of meets. It does not mean that they have to jump at every opportunity . There are plenty of decent men on here not all want to be at the beck and call of couples or women on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Single men have as right as anyone not to send a face pic straight off if they don't want to. Just like you have every right to ask for one.

While yes there are lots of men on here and yes some do complain about lack of meets. It does not mean that they have to jump at every opportunity . There are plenty of decent men on here not all want to be at the beck and call of couples or women on here. "

We only ask for a face photo cause there as to be an attraction for N to fuck them

We don’t see the point of endless chat if it comes to nothing when a photo does come through and N doesn’t fancy him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single men have as right as anyone not to send a face pic straight off if they don't want to. Just like you have every right to ask for one.

While yes there are lots of men on here and yes some do complain about lack of meets. It does not mean that they have to jump at every opportunity . There are plenty of decent men on here not all want to be at the beck and call of couples or women on here.

We only ask for a face photo cause there as to be an attraction for N to fuck them

We don’t see the point of endless chat if it comes to nothing when a photo does come through and N doesn’t fancy him "

I'd happily send over a face pic, tbh I'm seriously surprised you have made this post

I would of thought you'd have no problem finding a nice guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, don't waste time with people that won't send face pics. You could invest a lot of time only to say 'No thanks'

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By *te_correaMan
over a year ago

Great Harwood

We're here alright, I just imagine it's difficult to find us amongst the fantasists and photo collectors. Although it's more disheartening being a single man who sends genuine messages that get swallowed up amongst the hundreds of crude or monosyllabic ones! I'm not too far from Wakefield and always happy to travel that little bit further for a genuine meet if we strike up a connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply because there are way too many fantasyst on here making it harder for you to figure out who is genuine and who is likely to bottle it, last minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're here alright, I just imagine it's difficult to find us amongst the fantasists and photo collectors. Although it's more disheartening being a single man who sends genuine messages that get swallowed up amongst the hundreds of crude or monosyllabic ones! I'm not too far from Wakefield and always happy to travel that little bit further for a genuine meet if we strike up a connection."

I absolutely agree 100% mate, it's so difficult being a genuine single guy on here

To many idiots spoil it for the proper genuine guys

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By *oriarty99Man
over a year ago

London

Supply and demand. There’s 1000 men to every couple on here.

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By *te_correaMan
over a year ago

Great Harwood


" I absolutely agree 100% mate, it's so difficult being a genuine single guy on here

To many idiots spoil it for the proper genuine guys "

Hopefully they'll get bored of non-responses and look elsewhere. Then again probably not!

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


"Why is it so hard to find genuine single males

We have posted various meets for a single male to come to ours while I’m at work to fuck N but struggle to find anyone

Single males say they aren’t given a chance by couples so why do we find it hard

All we ask if for face photos first to see if there an attraction for N

"

I have no idea how do you approach men but it’s hard to believe you can’t find one. There are plenty of men with face pic already in profile so you definitely have a choice. Maybe read few threads about how man should approach a woman or a couple and repeat the steps with genuine account with face pics. I am sure you’ll get plenty

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

We stick to club meets - single guys invest in a visit and we have a firm track of record of play ... x Anne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I absolutely agree 100% mate, it's so difficult being a genuine single guy on here

To many idiots spoil it for the proper genuine guys

Hopefully they'll get bored of non-responses and look elsewhere. Then again probably not!"

Exactly!! They will probably give up and not even entertain any messages from single guys

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Tbh it’s couples often messing me around is what I find

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By *ayzDreamingMan
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I have the same issue as a single female. just all talk, no action from most of them

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Maybe because they are all at work too or have a life outside of fab or have no intention of going to some random couples home without so much as a social beforehand.

You know, like all the same reasons a single woman wouldn't respond either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the same issue as a single female. just all talk, no action from most of them "

Wow!! That's so hard to believe, I say it absolutely there loss

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Why is it so hard to find genuine single males

We have posted various meets for a single male to come to ours while I’m at work to fuck N but struggle to find anyone

Single males say they aren’t given a chance by couples so why do we find it hard

All we ask if for face photos first to see if there an attraction for N

I have no idea how do you approach men but it’s hard to believe you can’t find one. There are plenty of men with face pic already in profile so you definitely have a choice. Maybe read few threads about how man should approach a woman or a couple and repeat the steps with genuine account with face pics. I am sure you’ll get plenty "

Plenty of them offer face pic but actual real meets is another matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the same issue as a single female. just all talk, no action from most of them "
As a single man I find that very hard to believe that you're having a hard time getting dates

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I have the same issue as a single female. just all talk, no action from most of them

Wow!! That's so hard to believe, I say it absolutely there loss "

Why is it anyone's loss if someone isn't what the other person is looking?

Do you meet anyone who shows the slightest interest in you or do you actually have a preference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Blacks or Asians. Can someone else take one for the team?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they arent keen on having photos and videos taken. I guess your scenario isn't for everyone.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

its suppose to be hard in a way as your looking for someone to suit what your looking for so to find that sexually attractive man who then come agross well via message's is hard ..95 to 99% of men on here do nothing for me sexually so i have to look to find what i want rather than wait all the time for them to contact me ...if your sittinf back and hoping that the right one will message you then it will be a wait ..get active and seek rather than wait ..

as for pics ive a simple rule if you message me first then your first to show face pic if i message you then im first i dont expect it with the first message but if there not one swopped within 2 or 3 message's then ill stop no point in going any further as im only here to meet im not here to chin wag just for the sake of chin wagging..

make it clear on your profile about the pic but others are right too nobody has to do anything nobody owes you anything..

also op when looking for a guy for the wife is it the male thats doing the messaging ? alot of guys wont talk to a guy about meeting his other half better of mrs talking or even better let mrs have her own account so she can look by herself .. thats what we do hence this is my account i get 100s more messages via my single account than our couples account

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By *dinshairyarseMan
over a year ago

city

Come to Ireland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are couples and women so shocked when a guy isn't interested.

Works both ways you know.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire


"Why is it so hard to find genuine single males

We have posted various meets for a single male to come to ours while I’m at work to fuck N but struggle to find anyone

Single males say they aren’t given a chance by couples so why do we find it hard

All we ask if for face photos first to see if there an attraction for N

"

Sorry to read about your struggles.

I hope that changes.

Good luck

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


"Why are couples and women so shocked when a guy isn't interested.

Works both ways you know.

"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe because they are all at work too or have a life outside of fab or have no intention of going to some random couples home without so much as a social beforehand.

You know, like all the same reasons a single woman wouldn't respond either. "

Will you ever behave and stop ruining a good pity party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Come to Ireland "

Speak for yourself , we've enough entitled people here without encouraging more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in Wirral and open to meeting. Feel free with wink or message

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"Why are couples and women so shocked when a guy isn't interested.

Works both ways you know.

"

exactly ...not only that who whats to meet any one who has no preference ? the fuck anything do anything with anything .. people ? yuk

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

No married or attached males

No black or Asians ( sorry not our thing )

No Bi guys

Don’t meet smokers

Must be ok with doing photos and videos

This is pretty telling you have cut out the majority of people here

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Why are couples and women so shocked when a guy isn't interested.

Works both ways you know.

"

I think they're complaining about the single men who give them the assumption they wana meet then flake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I have an invite please

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By *ongshanks65Man
over a year ago

Weymouth

Need to moove to Wakefield... I'm a single man in Dorset and been trying for over a year to meet either a signal lady or a couple,

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"Why is it so hard to find genuine single males

We have posted various meets for a single male to come to ours while I’m at work to fuck N but struggle to find anyone

Single males say they aren’t given a chance by couples so why do we find it hard

All we ask if for face photos first to see if there an attraction for N

"

Genuine guys are out here but I think sadly like others on here there’s a few who just like to be on here and not genuine or into meeting when it comes to it. I’m sorry you’ve had negative experiences and also sorry your long way away it’s difficult finding genuine people on here male female or couples isn’t it and respectful to whom are honest about what they want and desire I hope you both find what you want as your profile is fab keep trying the right people are here just takes patience to find them but when you do it’s worth it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy the no Asians or black is really off putting. Also the ok with pics and vids. Some guys aren’t okay with that. Just my opinion

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Why is it so hard to find genuine single males

We have posted various meets for a single male to come to ours while I’m at work to fuck N but struggle to find anyone

Single males say they aren’t given a chance by couples so why do we find it hard

All we ask if for face photos first to see if there an attraction for N

"

Single men can be as choosy as women or couples.

If they're sensible they'll be as cautious as anyone when deciding on who to meet.

When we look for men we like to see an active profile, with good pictures and pleasant (non whiny) profile text, as well as a reasonable set of verifications to prove they do actually meet.

If we see one where the pics aren't inspiring, the text is quite negative, focussing on what they don't want rather than what they do, and there's no visible verifications and the summary shows next to no activity since joining the site.......we'll move on to a profile more likely to suit us.

When people find it hard to find company it's as often the fault of themselves as much as it is those they seek. People can do a lot to improve their chances if they try.

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By *amLaraCroftWoman
over a year ago

London


"its suppose to be hard in a way as your looking for someone to suit what your looking for so to find that sexually attractive man who then come agross well via message's is hard ..95 to 99% of men on here do nothing for me sexually so i have to look to find what i want rather than wait all the time for them to contact me ...if your sittinf back and hoping that the right one will message you then it will be a wait ..get active and seek rather than wait ..

as for pics ive a simple rule if you message me first then your first to show face pic if i message you then im first i dont expect it with the first message but if there not one swopped within 2 or 3 message's then ill stop no point in going any further as im only here to meet im not here to chin wag just for the sake of chin wagging..

make it clear on your profile about the pic but others are right too nobody has to do anything nobody owes you anything..

also op when looking for a guy for the wife is it the male thats doing the messaging ? alot of guys wont talk to a guy about meeting his other half better of mrs talking or even better let mrs have her own account so she can look by herself .. thats what we do hence this is my account i get 100s more messages via my single account than our couples account"

This ^^^^^

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By *ack Flash400Man
over a year ago

The Bat Cave

No face pics on profile but expect one to be sent.

As other have said, the criteria you have set.

Also, hate when people put 'attractive' on a profile - Who says so. Have you done a survey?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No face pics on profile but expect one to be sent.

As other have said, the criteria you have set.

Also, hate when people put 'attractive' on a profile - Who says so. Have you done a survey?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

"

Not everyone has face photos on their profiles due to discretion and work etc

We set out our criteria has you put it to stop people wasting their time and ours

We also hate when males put vwe or call N babe etc

Have they done a survey

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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago

watford

Wow, well I'm amazed. I've been on here over a year and never ever even got close to a meet

Sorry you've been let down by others

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Why is it so hard to find genuine single males

We have posted various meets for a single male to come to ours while I’m at work to fuck N but struggle to find anyone

Single males say they aren’t given a chance by couples so why do we find it hard

All we ask if for face photos first to see if there an attraction for N

"

Travelling to Cambridge any time soon?

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"Why is it so hard to find genuine single males

We have posted various meets for a single male to come to ours while I’m at work to fuck N but struggle to find anyone

Single males say they aren’t given a chance by couples so why do we find it hard

All we ask if for face photos first to see if there an attraction for N

"

I did exactly that this morning.

After lots of polite messages to many couples and very few replies.

Last week my polite approach hit the stop for one lovely lady and today was the meet after a social last week.

Great fun and hopefully many more meets.

Don’t give up or get impatient as it can take a while for all the stars to align.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are couples and women so shocked when a guy isn't interested.

Works both ways you know.

I think they're complaining about the single men who give them the assumption they wana meet then flake?"

Not sure they said that.

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