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By *edi123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

aberystwyth

What’s the furthest you would travel for a meet? We have gone up to 80 miles, mainly because of where we live and both the Chams, Xtasia and Townhouse are all 2 1/2 drive for us.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"What’s the furthest you would travel for a meet? We have gone up to 80 miles, mainly because of where we live and both the Chams, Xtasia and Townhouse are all 2 1/2 drive for us."
we travel to Madrid - love those latin lovers with hairy chests and very skilled hands/cocks x \Anne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’d happily travel anywhere in the UK for the right person/people. Seems a great excuse to get a hotel booked and have a dirty weekend away

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By *it4uMan
over a year ago

Brighton / Eastbourne / SW France

Happy to travel for the right genuine person, living in France at the moment so it’s only 1 hour flight to the uk, and the opposite way if anyone fancies a trip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once travelled to Guam for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 hours or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I appreciate that other people would be happy to travel the length of the country to meet me but somehow that makes me feel really odd.

I’ve never really been able to fully articulate why though. Almost like if someone had travelled far, I’d be uncomfortable then saying no if things didn’t click ( for clarity, I still would say no but I’d feel super uncomfortable doing it ).

Am I alone in this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would travel if it was a place we fancied a weekend stay in also, then if you don't hit it off we still enjoy a nice weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus when we do jump into this wouldn't feel comfortable meeting local people. Got to be a hour distance atleast

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Depends on who it is were meeting but up to 100 miles or time equalivant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone from here who did a 600 mile round trip including flights and very happily reciprocated

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By *edi123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

aberystwyth


"Plus when we do jump into this wouldn't feel comfortable meeting local people. Got to be a hour distance atleast "

A lot of people wouldn’t meet locals but to me (him) I can’t see the problem as we all have the same interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour, maybe an hour and a half at a push.

My play time is very limited and so I'd rather be spending it playing rather than travelling

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
over a year ago

Dudley

I travel over 50 miles on a regular basis to meet nice people I’d rather do that than meet someone 5miles away, people on here who live local are the types that are chancers that want “meet now” at a minutes notice .... I pick and choose who I meet and it’s not based on locality

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Depends how much I liked them id travel a good distance but would have to be for a wkend minimum

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Only few miles having made a journey only for a no show!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

In the past I've driven 3½ hours each way but the level of expectation that created was enough to drive me off the site.

I was told that as I'd done it once there was nothing to stop me doing it on a regular basis.

I refused, ensuing drama kicked off and I left.

These days I won't travel more than an hour. Any longer and I expect them to meet halfway.

If not, it's been nice chatting.

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

About an hour each way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm seeking connections that are generally less than a one off. So distance definitely has a bearing in how realistic that could be

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"I appreciate that other people would be happy to travel the length of the country to meet me but somehow that makes me feel really odd.

I’ve never really been able to fully articulate why though. Almost like if someone had travelled far, I’d be uncomfortable then saying no if things didn’t click ( for clarity, I still would say no but I’d feel super uncomfortable doing it ).

Am I alone in this? "

Nope I'm the same

I only meet socially first & its not realistic for anyone to travel too far to me just for a drink & chat.I'd always feel they'd expect more than that if they travelled a good way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been let down too many times to travel too far now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to Hull and back.

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've travelled 200 miles before but if I do that I get a lux hotel and don't assume anything. Had a nice chat drink and cuddle and gone no further before and thars all good at least its a nice break away.. can ever make assumptions. Online click does always work in person.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My front door.

I don't accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a 400 mile round trip.

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By *achel Fox200TV/TS
over a year ago

FARNBOROUGH

About 100 miles is my furthest.

Used to travel about half that to see a regular fwb

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I go about 60 min if it’s new person If I happen to be working or travelling to an area then it’s not an issue.

Mostly though an hour travel. Clubs I may venture further to try out though

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By *arried ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Newark

Maximum 50 minutes for a first meet...would prefer a club and less though, due to no shows. If we all got on well though we'd probably go a couple of hours or more for a day together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very far as we always insist on a short social first.

Expectations and no shows seem to increase with distance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 90 min drive, however ideally I’m looking for someone regular who can spend entire weekends away. Exploring eating together etc…

So if ai got that anywhere in the UK

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We travelled to Corfu

Had a great meeting with a lovely Greek guy and went back several times for more fun.

Also been to London but got let down with a no show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally anything more than half to three quarter of an hour is far enough.

Anything more I am not likely to even talk to that person.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

The earth has moved by millions of miles while I was en-route.

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

On another site I meet a couple up

north middles bought which was a three hour drive each way so worth every mile

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

45 mins travelling is far enough for me and I would expect them to travel as well. I tend to find the farther. you travel the more expectations from a meet even if it's been made clear it's just a social for a chat and a coffee.

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