FabSwingers.com forum: Multiple people in profile pics.

By *orphia2003 OP Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

During my, admitted limited, time here on fab, I've come across more and more single profiles where the pics all seem to show multiple people of both genders. Often leaving me wondering who in the pics is the actual profile holder and whether all these other people actually consented to thier images being used.

Single male profile, every pic shows him hanging out of different women. I could probably identify them, they take up 90 of the image. There is the odd pic of cock, or a bollock

Single female profile. 2 women feature in every image. Various different guys.

For the most part, I find it really strange. Am I the only one?

Now of course you are all free to put whatever you want on your profile. This is just me asking a question.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not sure I must admit there's been a few profiles mainly couples to be fair where I've had zero idea who the actual couple are as it's all group pics.

But each to their own we all like certain pics.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"During my, admitted limited, time here on fab, I've come across more and more single profiles where the pics all seem to show multiple people of both genders. Often leaving me wondering who in the pics is the actual profile holder and whether all these other people actually consented to thier images being used.

Single male profile, every pic shows him hanging out of different women. I could probably identify them, they take up 90 of the image. There is the odd pic of cock, or a bollock

Single female profile. 2 women feature in every image. Various different guys.

For the most part, I find it really strange. Am I the only one?

Now of course you are all free to put whatever you want on your profile. This is just me asking a question.

I often think the same x My pet peeve is a vagina as a single male’s profile pic, or boobs, talk about false advertising lol

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Nope.

My profile clearly states about it too!

Nothing worse than a single guy profile with loads of bareback pics and their excuse to be “ it’s a long term ex” … great… does she know she’s paraded all over a single guys sex site?

Nope, straight delete for me! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use it as a filter to know who’s for you and who isn’t and block those who aren’t, easier searching next time you’re looking

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

One thing to remember is that it's not your profile.

If someone wished to show themselves and others having sex then let them.

You can ignore it, or enjoy it. The choice is yours.

The choice you do not have us control over what someone else does.

Take care

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

I’ve seen more and more of pics like that , with the other face scratched out , i dont trust those profiles at all , it screams out fake profiles , why not just take a pic of yourselves

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Unspoken rule of the internet: If a profile picture features multiple people, the profile belongs to the least attractive person in the image.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unspoken rule of the internet: If a profile picture features multiple people, the profile belongs to the least attractive person in the image. "

Pahahaha x the lurker in the background like gollem

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Usually men in a pub or standing next to their friends etc

ones like that baffle me,Why would you even think it's ok to upload.

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By *orphia2003 OP Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

"One thing to remember is that it's not your profile.

If someone wished to show themselves and others having sex then let them.

You can ignore it, or enjoy it. The choice is yours.

The choice you do not have us control over what someone else does.

Take care"

As I very clearly said, people are entitled to put whatever they want on thier profile. Not for a second saying that they can't, not am I trying to control it.

Was simply asking the question of whether I'm the only person finding it unusual when you can't identify the profile holder in the multitude.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"One thing to remember is that it's not your profile.

If someone wished to show themselves and others having sex then let them.

You can ignore it, or enjoy it. The choice is yours.

The choice you do not have us control over what someone else does.

Take care"

Normally I would agree with this but when a friend of a friend has a guy repeatedly using pics of her on his single profile and has created a couples profile also using her pics despite the fact they haven't met in years its not so easy to ignore.

He has been reported and the pics removed but a few months later he uploads them again.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think it's an ethically dicey area.

That being said, there are some pictures I'd like to take with friends that can only be done together. (I know everyone would be consenting, but obviously I can't prove that)

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

lol always laugh at those saying its men that do the wrong thing lol Seen so many of couples and single females that have questionable pics.

Personally most of my pics are of me and I explain myself pretty well in the profile. The other pics are always of my Ex who knows I have all our old pics and she also knows I post them. The men or anyone else shown in the pics have given us permission to use as long as we hide faces etc which I always do. So whether it offends others or not its my choice to put them on or not.

But also we need to understand the fundamental basis of putting a pic or pics on profiles. All do it with the hope they will get an interested person wanting to make friends. As we are all different in pretty much all ways you will get many different pics. Instead of worrying about it rather see if it gets your attention and go from there.

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By *orphia2003 OP Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Thanks for everyone's feedback. It's interesting to read people's perceptions on this.

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