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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " Prob us single men that you aren't looking for lol x | |||
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"Maybe they are afraid to approach, or think you are too far away or just want a nosey. Whatever the reason, don't worry about it." I’m not worried about, I just think it’s odd. | |||
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"Maybe they are afraid to approach, or think you are too far away or just want a nosey. Whatever the reason, don't worry about it. I’m not worried about, I just think it’s odd. " I wouldn't look at it as odd. It is natural to be attracted to things and look often | |||
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"Why not message them and find out? I’d be very curious if it was me. " I have & get nothing back. | |||
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"Why not message them and find out? I’d be very curious if it was me. I have & get nothing back. " Then I’d block. That’s just a bit stalkerish. | |||
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"You've got pics on display for all profiles to see, but maybe he reads that you won't reply to men so he just wants to perve? " I do something similar. If I see an aesthetically pleasing profile which I don't fit their needs, I will return to "appreciate the view", but not message. No point wasting their time. | |||
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"It's because your little arse hole looks so damn perfect I your pics. I bet you are saved as their default homepage in their web browser!! " Yeah probably lol. | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " I guess there are several reasons as others have said but I personally dislike it, if they fill my looked at me page I tend to block, it just feels creepy that they keep coming back silently | |||
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"Why not message them and find out? I’d be very curious if it was me. " I did this once and they read my message and ignored me . Still continually looked at my profile after that too. I blocked them eventually. | |||
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"Why not message them and find out? I’d be very curious if it was me. I did this once and they read my message and ignored me . Still continually looked at my profile after that too. I blocked them eventually. " We’ve done this too and been ignored They still fab all our pictures though. | |||
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"Maybe they are afraid to approach, or think you are too far away or just want a nosey. Whatever the reason, don't worry about it. I’m not worried about, I just think it’s odd. " I raised this a fee weeks back. I often get to same peoples looking at my profile but never making contact . Your right it's odd. | |||
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"I often return to profiles whose photos I enjoy……" Sp why not message and say that pr send a wink | |||
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"Sometimes, speaking as a man, you think they're out of your league " I definitely suffer from this; I look at some profiles a few times, I think about messaging them, then I convince myself they're well above my league and I bottle it, sadly | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " Filters, perhaps? | |||
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"Sometimes, speaking as a man, you think they're out of your league I definitely suffer from this; I look at some profiles a few times, I think about messaging them, then I convince myself they're well above my league and I bottle it, sadly " A short message of appreciation is generally taken well surely? At least it should be! Some Peoples inboxes seem to be sacrosanct! | |||
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"I often get pulled back to profiles of women that look incredible to only realise (again) that I dont meet their wants list.. " I've fallen into that trap a few times, to be fair. I've now considered blocking them so I don't keep making the same mistake, but it just feels wrong to do it sometimes | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " maybe they like your pics | |||
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"Sometimes, speaking as a man, you think they're out of your league I definitely suffer from this; I look at some profiles a few times, I think about messaging them, then I convince myself they're well above my league and I bottle it, sadly A short message of appreciation is generally taken well surely? At least it should be! Some Peoples inboxes seem to be sacrosanct! " I'd like to think so, but they probably get lots of messages and therefore I rarely get a reply, even if it's just to say thanks. The only time I know it's not appreciated is when they either delete the message or block me, unfortunately, but that's their choice. At least it ends any chance of me accidentally looking at their profile again and them thinking I'm odd or weird | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " Because it is the closest I'll get to ecer having sex with you | |||
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"Maybe they are afraid to approach, or think you are too far away or just want a nosey. Whatever the reason, don't worry about it." Yes the first one, I've visited yours plenty | |||
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"I often return to profiles whose photos I enjoy…… Sp why not message and say that pr send a wink " Well I normally would but being a male and of a certain age I find I’m “filtered out” more often than not….. | |||
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"We quite often get the same people coming back to look at our profile. I dont feel it's a problem if they like what they see" That's great, because I sure like what I see! | |||
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"Don’t give it a second thought, rarely even look at that section - I post pics regularly so I guess some people who like them look at them regularly - really doesn’t bother me x" . Yes exactly, you are on my hotlist, I find you very attractive and you post well thought out, striking photos, I enjoy looking at and fabbing. | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " Ask them | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " Yep, pretty much all of the above. There are some beautiful sexy people on here of all shapes sizes and interests who clearly won't be interested, or there profile makes it abundantly clear that I don't match the criteria.however they have great pics and vids and stories to tell. If anyone I regularly visited the profile of contacted me I'd 100% reply . Even if they were just telling to stop being weird | |||
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"For the single Ladies and Couples... If a guy likes what he sees but knows he's not what your looking for, or he's too far away, or whatever, but still wants to perve. Would you be ok with him messaging just to say Hello, sorry I'm stalking your profile, but your hot, just wanted to say hello so it's less weird, that I keep looking without talking. Or something like that ? I have messaged some people with similar messages, especially when I've liked 2-3 pics in close succession. I haven't had a bad reaction thus far, but just curious if such a message is worse than just lurking. " We've had a few men message to say they admire the profile, it's always nice to hear and I'll always reply however if they try and use that as a way in to chat and change our minds regarding meeting men I'll block. Many don't just accept the thank you I'm pleased you like the profile response and try push for more. Mrs | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " Curiosity made me see your profile looks amazing but im a man s-o no more than watching. | |||
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"Sometimes, speaking as a man, you think they're out of your league " Very true, I often feel that way | |||
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"We have people on our hotlist because they have sexy pics they not want the same thing as us so don't tend to message them but like to check new pics" We have a very similar approach - we just appreciate some profiles because they have great pics, or have put some effort in, just seem like really decent people or whatever… | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " To be fair, your ass is well worth a return visit to perv on | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " probably because you got some hot photos it will be the guys banging one out when the wife's in bed lol | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " Probably innocent, I will go back to look at profiles to see if they have posted an update that would suggest it's worth my time contacting them, I'm not messaging folks constantly playing pure numbers game. But is someone updated saying they want a guy for daytime meet and I was local I would message. | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " Maybe they have a bad memory | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " Im not a site supporter anymore so I have no idea who looks at my profile, unless they wink or message. It's actually nice not to know tbh | |||
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"Hey guys, thanks for the comments. I was definitely not complaining about frequent visitors to our profile. I just wondered why people didn’t try to message us if they keep looking. We was just curious. Reading the really nice comments is definitely a confidence builder so thank you very much Happy fabbing, spread the love. " We look at profiles that take our fancy, but if their profile states they aren't interested in couples then we don't wink or message. But like to go back and she if their preferences change xxx live in hope | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " In my case i am aware that there's some people that they have been stalking me for some time already in and out fabs and even they arranged meeting that i come now aware of | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " Maybe they look at your pics and profile then notice that you are out of their age range or not looking for single guys or whatever | |||
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"I wonder this too. Since supporting fab I've noticed people viewing my profile several times a day. Weird! " It isn't really weird in Fab world... People post photos of themselves nude, having sex, wearing sexy clothing, or lingerie...then thinks its weird that people look at them! That's weird | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " Fab is fab Just enjoy have fun | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " I know I do this and most of the time it’s accidental x if you change your profile pic regularly then it’s the pic people remember not the name x | |||
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"I have one who views me at least twice a day,never speaks. I figure something in my profile stops him maybe or he just likes a pic or 2 ,but doesn't want to chat. " People like that annoy me everyday lookers with no message.. i block them, especially if they have no photos themselves. | |||
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"I wonder this too. Since supporting fab I've noticed people viewing my profile several times a day. Weird! It isn't really weird in Fab world... People post photos of themselves nude, having sex, wearing sexy clothing, or lingerie...then thinks its weird that people look at them! That's weird " ^^^^^^ This | |||
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"We daily have about 500 views and less than 5 messages!!! Must scare people away!!! Jx" Tbf your pictures are hot! | |||
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"We daily have about 500 views and less than 5 messages!!! Must scare people away!!! Jx Tbf your pictures are hot! " | |||
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"Maybe they enjoy looking at your profile, could be as simple as that " | |||
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"I wonder this too. Since supporting fab I've noticed people viewing my profile several times a day. Weird! It isn't really weird in Fab world... People post photos of themselves nude, having sex, wearing sexy clothing, or lingerie...then thinks its weird that people look at them! That's weird " This is the strange world we live in... | |||
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"We quite often visit profiles multiple times while we look at them, sometimes at different times and then together, talk about it, come back to look at pics again, chat some more...it might be days before we send a wink or a message..." This Also wicked profile | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? I know I do this and most of the time it’s accidental x if you change your profile pic regularly then it’s the pic people remember not the name x " I tend to view profiles repeatedly from the forum to remind myself who is who here. Like you said alot change their profile pictures and their profile names plus I've got gold fish level memory at times. Others I pop into checking if they've changed/added pictures. I've been blocked on some accounts which is fair enough and a useful tool to control access to your material. | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " Possibly they think they won't get a positive response. Not personal to you though.i mean in general x | |||
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? " Probably wanking material | |||
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