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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Is it usual for people to talk about thier admiration for other fabbers or celebrities in the first few messages to you?

Personally I find it inappropriate and a turn off or is it just me?

Is this normal social etiquette on fab?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've never had anyone message us about their admiration for other fabbers or celebrities, it's probably most unusual.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Can’t see it as a chat up line.. so not etiquette in my humble opinion

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Personally it doesn’t phase me as conversation is conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it usual for people to talk about thier admiration for other fabbers or celebrities in the first few messages to you?

Personally I find it inappropriate and a turn off or is it just me?

Is this normal social etiquette on fab? "

I think it’s rude. I had a guy ask me to message a girl for him once because he was blocked!!!!

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

Certainly not fabbers. Maybe celebs, in a non sexual sense.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"Personally it doesn’t phase me as conversation is conversation "

Especially when someone strikes up the conversation in regards to that topic

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

Isnt that strange or bizzare.

Imagine, you are great and i fancy you however I am crushing on ( insert name).

Defo off putting

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'll happily talk about admiring members just based off their forum presence, some I like some I don't, I don't feel the need for full on conversation to gain judge of character.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it's a way of telling you that you're not the only person they find attractive. It's fairly immature in my opinion

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I think I've read this wrong

I would on forum posts, games etc...

Not via inbox to anyone else.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would find it strange, and would make me wonder why they did it.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

So I’m going to guess this thread was sparked by the OP asking me about my status update and me pointing her in the direction of how it came about. Didn’t think it warranted a thread but here we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Er No, and can't imagine why anybody would think that would be a good idea

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife


"So I’m going to guess this thread was sparked by the OP asking me about my status update and me pointing her in the direction of how it came about. Didn’t think it warranted a thread but here we are "

Oooo,i better get my popcorn now..

This just got interesting

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'd say it would depend how the subject was begun. Randomly jumping in with a first message of "see that *enter celebrity name here*, she/he/they would get it" would be weird. But if the subject came up organically it would be perfectly normal.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Must admit its never happened to us.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Very wide open question OP, and very interesting, so it depends on what's been said about the celebs or other fabbers. Would not be offended if I'm compared to a sexy celebrity in a message, more like surprised and think the message is not serious. Can you give an example of what you found offensive or rude? Would love to hear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it usual for people to talk about thier admiration for other fabbers or celebrities in the first few messages to you?

Personally I find it inappropriate and a turn off or is it just me?

Is this normal social etiquette on fab?

I think it’s rude. I had a guy ask me to message a girl for him once because he was blocked!!!!"

More neck than a giraffe

Context is key here. Depends on how it was said I suppose. If they were talking about someone on fab they know you get on with and they were aligning themselves to curry favour then that's understandable. Likewise if they said you looked like a hot as fuck celeb. Other stuff starts to get spectral

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville


"So I’m going to guess this thread was sparked by the OP asking me about my status update and me pointing her in the direction of how it came about. Didn’t think it warranted a thread but here we are "

hot clowns if asked I suppose its only fair you reply

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"So I’m going to guess this thread was sparked by the OP asking me about my status update and me pointing her in the direction of how it came about. Didn’t think it warranted a thread but here we are

hot clowns if asked I suppose its only fair you reply "

Hey don’t kink shame me

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

Don't think there is any real etiquette, the only real red line is profanities or abuse. Different things apeal to different people we are all different, what gets my attention is unlikely to be what does for someone else.

Certainly here if someone opens with obvious insincere and empty complements or the above, wouldn't get past first sentence. If someone picked up something which maybe came up in conversation in chat - Note: this is just an example and not an invitation

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Is it usual for people to talk about thier admiration for other fabbers or celebrities in the first few messages to you?

Personally I find it inappropriate and a turn off or is it just me?

Is this normal social etiquette on fab?

I think it’s rude. I had a guy ask me to message a girl for him once because he was blocked!!!!"

I've had someone contact my verifications asking for my details and for them to pass messages on to me because they were outside my age filters.

When they were told no, they started a thread about me in the hope I would respond.

They obviously had no idea how creepy and inappropriate it was.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Is it usual for people to talk about thier admiration for other fabbers or celebrities in the first few messages to you?

Personally I find it inappropriate and a turn off or is it just me?

Is this normal social etiquette on fab?

I think it’s rude. I had a guy ask me to message a girl for him once because he was blocked!!!!

I've had someone contact my verifications asking for my details and for them to pass messages on to me because they were outside my age filters.

When they were told no, they started a thread about me in the hope I would respond.

They obviously had no idea how creepy and inappropriate it was. "

I've also had women name-drop other fabbers to emphasise the circles they swing in (pun intended).

More often than not they were people I'd never heard of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’m going to guess this thread was sparked by the OP asking me about my status update and me pointing her in the direction of how it came about. Didn’t think it warranted a thread but here we are "

Oh aye!

How did it come about?

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"So I’m going to guess this thread was sparked by the OP asking me about my status update and me pointing her in the direction of how it came about. Didn’t think it warranted a thread but here we are

Oh aye!

How did it come about? "

Well it was a model on instagram, which I linked to the OP since she seemed sooooo interested

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