FabSwingers.com forum: bareback sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

how many people would meet a couple who wanted the female to take it bareback?

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By *rish coupleCouple
over a year ago

waterford

explain more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever ever ever for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have meet them socially but they hadnt told us up front thats what they wanted.... however when we did find out we said no thank you , never ever and left !!!!!

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By *exymixedcouple7Couple
over a year ago

london

Nope not for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not for us!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Quite a few will have bareback sex a lot of people do it despite saying they don't, we never would though. If the female is having unprotected sex them so is the guy though surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw someone in the chatroom on cam offering there pregnant girlfriend, with a clear bump, to other men for bareback sex.

They also did not know or care who the biological father was. All we know is that she got pregnant from one of her meets and he was a black man.

Great moral standards for that child when they grow up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we were asked once by a cpl on here would we do bare back because they like the thrill of her possibly getting pregnant........ oh yes we ran a mile !!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We've met with quite a few men who state very clearly on their profile "safe sex only" yet showed no sign of getting a condom out and seemed quite surprised when we did and some who ask outright or bareback. Anyone who wants bareback will have no trouble finding it.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Strange enough you find some profiles here where the lady said she is only looking for bareback and she has plenty of verifications. That is playing russian roulette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The BB issue is one of personal choice one side and blatant ignorance on the other; its finding the balance that troubles some people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

worrying.thnks for the messages

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By *eglieanCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

it is very worrying when play starts and would you belive ,, ooppps,, forgot the condoms, and they get humpy when told to go. Even if they go get one ,, borrow one etc,, it aint gonna happen. They obviously dont use them when they can get away without. Also you see safe sex on profile and the pics dont stand up to it.

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By *rish coupleCouple
over a year ago

waterford

condoms ya can reduce your risk of contacting an STD providing you.

Don't have oral sex,

wear gloves or wash hands after touching their bits, and even don't kiss

ya kind of takes the good out of it!!

STD's can be transmitted by oral sex alone!! so wearing your condom and giving oral sex you could have just picked up an STD.

condoms are the best against getting pregnant simple as that. yes we do bare back with a select few we trust, as do a load of others and some ya we get them to wear condoms

thats our input into this topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"condoms ya can reduce your risk of contacting an STD providing you.

Don't have oral sex,

wear gloves or wash hands after touching their bits, and even don't kiss

ya kind of takes the good out of it!!

STD's can be transmitted by oral sex alone!! so wearing your condom and giving oral sex you could have just picked up an STD.

condoms are the best against getting pregnant simple as that. yes we do bare back with a select few we trust, as do a load of others and some ya we get them to wear condoms

thats our input into this topic"

Did you just say 'condoms don't reduce your risk of contracting an STD'? No, can't be, I must have misread your post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a meet with a couple and the fem actually took the condom off of my partner part way through the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a meet with a couple and the fem actually took the condom off of my partner part way through the process.

I'd have kicked them out at that point!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who BB seem to have some strange excuses for it. One guy said on a thread that do u get into a taxi and check its tires and steering etc.. No so ur taking a risk by doing so. How can u even compare a taxi.. Atleast a taxi is lisenced and has to be mot'ed.. The chances of them not being either has got to be a million times less risk than BB so how can u even use that as an anology

Also the oral sex excuse of it being risky.. Oral is again a massively huge reduced risk of catching anything without a condom, especially the major std's like HIV.. Again hardly comparable.

BB'ers also claim to get checks very frequently which surprises me as they seem so ill informed and when I go to the GUM clinic I am always given hard facts on the risks of no protection..

One doctor told me that people who have HIV or Hep will not mention protection if the other person doesn't as they seem to assume that the other person must be infected too if they are happy to go unprotected.. Scary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saw someone in the chatroom on cam offering there pregnant girlfriend, with a clear bump, to other men for bareback sex.

They also did not know or care who the biological father was. All we know is that she got pregnant from one of her meets and he was a black man.

Great moral standards for that child when they grow up

Just wondered why the fact that he was a 'black man' is relevant?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

safe sex all the time for us. but will do oral with out a condom. we also get checked every month to. best to be safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saw someone in the chatroom on cam offering there pregnant girlfriend, with a clear bump, to other men for bareback sex.

They also did not know or care who the biological father was. All we know is that she got pregnant from one of her meets and he was a black man.

Great moral standards for that child when they grow up

Disgusting way to carry on if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just woouldnt. I've seen people come through A and E when the GUM clinic was shut with some terrible symptoms of STD's.

Seeing a nice syphilitic chancre is enough to stop me ever wanting my naked genitalia against that of another without full body armour, especially when I dunno where they've been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO glove NO love

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"condoms ya can reduce your risk of contacting an STD providing you.

Don't have oral sex,

wear gloves or wash hands after touching their bits, and even don't kiss

ya kind of takes the good out of it!!

STD's can be transmitted by oral sex alone!! so wearing your condom and giving oral sex you could have just picked up an STD.

condoms are the best against getting pregnant simple as that. yes we do bare back with a select few we trust, as do a load of others and some ya we get them to wear condoms

thats our input into this topic

Did you just say 'condoms don't reduce your risk of contracting an STD'? No, can't be, I must have misread your post.

They're made to protect against unwanted pregnancies first and foremost which is why they're coated in a spermicide and not a biocide for STDs. It is a side effect of the prophylactic that they are suitable way of reducing susceptibility to contracting STDs but this is only by a degree, and is by no means absolute.

If you're under any illusions whatsoever that the genital to mouth to genital route exempts you from std's then there is something to be learnt.

Using one is still better than nothing at all, but it does not preclude anything; their safeguarding performance being at the mercy of the method of utilisation.

Again just like with pregnancy, you should never on just one means of protection, or think that the condom is an infallible thing.

Wolf

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By *otwife CoolhubCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

"Saw someone in the chatroom on cam offering there pregnant girlfriend, with a clear bump, to other men for bareback sex.

They also did not know or care who the biological father was. All we know is that she got pregnant from one of her meets and he was a black man.

Great moral standards for that child when they grow up

Just wondered why the fact that he was a 'black man' is relevant?!

Because the baby would be mixed race presumably?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone wants to and you don't want to go bare, then you say no thank you.

Simple really. For me honestly sex with a condom is like being driven without being able to drive. You still get to the same point but it's dull and boring. So I chose to not use them on occasion

However I more often choose to just not have full sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saw someone in the chatroom on cam offering there pregnant girlfriend, with a clear bump, to other men for bareback sex.

They also did not know or care who the biological father was. All we know is that she got pregnant from one of her meets and he was a black man.

Great moral standards for that child when they grow up

Just wondered why the fact that he was a 'black man' is relevant?!

Because the baby would be mixed race presumably?"

No issue with him being black its just they were a white couple and inevitably having a mixed race child would raise questions from other people and the child when a bit older.

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By *hérieWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

Not for me, never ever.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"condoms ya can reduce your risk of contacting an STD providing you.

Don't have oral sex,

wear gloves or wash hands after touching their bits, and even don't kiss

ya kind of takes the good out of it!!

STD's can be transmitted by oral sex alone!! so wearing your condom and giving oral sex you could have just picked up an STD.

condoms are the best against getting pregnant simple as that. yes we do bare back with a select few we trust, as do a load of others and some ya we get them to wear condoms

thats our input into this topic

Did you just say 'condoms don't reduce your risk of contracting an STD'? No, can't be, I must have misread your post.

Yup, you mis-read it.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

And, just for the record, safe sex always, every time, and if we even thought playmates were regular bare-backers then it would be a "nope" from us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"condoms ya can reduce your risk of contacting an STD providing you.

Don't have oral sex,

wear gloves or wash hands after touching their bits, and even don't kiss

ya kind of takes the good out of it!!

STD's can be transmitted by oral sex alone!! so wearing your condom and giving oral sex you could have just picked up an STD.

condoms are the best against getting pregnant simple as that. yes we do bare back with a select few we trust, as do a load of others and some ya we get them to wear condoms

thats our input into this topic

Did you just say 'condoms don't reduce your risk of contracting an STD'? No, can't be, I must have misread your post.

If you're under any illusions whatsoever that the genital to mouth to genital route exempts you from std's then there is something to be learnt.

Using one is still better than nothing at all, but it does not preclude anything; their safeguarding performance being at the mercy of the method of utilisation.

Again just like with pregnancy, you should never on just one means of protection, or think that the condom is an infallible thing.

Wolf

Well from the doctor at my gum clinic unprotected oral sex has risks, but no where near as risky as unprotected penetrative sex - the biggest risk of unprotected oral is hep b which is why they innoculated me against that.

The mouth doesn't carry as many germs I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saw someone in the chatroom on cam offering there pregnant girlfriend, with a clear bump, to other men for bareback sex.

They also did not know or care who the biological father was. All we know is that she got pregnant from one of her meets and he was a black man.

Great moral standards for that child when they grow up

Just wondered why the fact that he was a 'black man' is relevant?!

Cos it makes it obvious that the baby doesn't belong to the white husband??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me would be safe sex or no sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me would be safe sex or no sex."

never understood why people are so keen on bareback...does wearing a rubber really make that much difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had the snip so not worried about pregnancy but i would never do bareback,,,,if you get an std check there are hundreds of people there at the clinic every day,,,,so multiply the ones that do not know they have something !!! just not worth it !!

and i hate condoms !!!!

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By *madeusMan
over a year ago

london

"how many people would meet a couple who wanted the female to take it bareback?"

Never. Safe sex always. Life is too short to add the worry of catching something.

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By *rish coupleCouple
over a year ago

waterford

the only safe sex is NO SEX at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no no no no no no no and no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me would be safe sex or no sex.

never understood why people are so keen on bareback...does wearing a rubber really make that much difference?"

Yes, I hate them, but will use them with everyone apart from my fiancé x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took a woman into a bank vault for sex she said why here I said thought you wanted safe sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the only safe sex is NO SEX at all"

What a heap, the only guaranteed way to not catch an STI is to not exchange any fluids or contact. However safe sex means having sex safely which means using a condom or dental dam as that is the best protection you can have whilst engaging in sexual contact.

A recent review of 14 studies involving discordant couples concluded that consistent use of condoms led to an 80% reduction in HIV incidence.

Most people in this post like to engage in protected sex with playmates, you clearly are not so fussed whether its protected or unprotected but please don't discourage people from keeping up protected sexual practices as this is the best thing for the whole country never mind the swinging community

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me would be safe sex or no sex.

never understood why people are so keen on bareback...does wearing a rubber really make that much difference?"

Actually yes ... its totally different feeling... there is of course the fact that sex is never actually completed.. your left half finished..( well for me)

Now I know that they are needed... I can't very well go having even a 10th of the guys I play with bare.. without putting myself and others at risk... but it does to me make full sex a act... because with a condom on there is little feel, and worst of all.... you don't get that amazing feeling as the guy unloads into you...

And all the feelings after that...

However, I still am very pro safe sex.. My kids think I am the most pushy parent when they are going out... as I always give them loads of condoms..

However, because of what I said above.. there are times that I just need to be filled.. and sometimes common sense goes out the window.

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By *eal_Dick_TurpinMan
over a year ago

Exeter

People do what they want to do, that's fine.

What isn't fine is talking down to other people because their choices are different to yours.

What REALLY isn't fine is when the reasons people cite to validate talking down to other people are total bullshit.

For example oral sex poses a REAL risk (it may be LESS than other forms of sex, but it is still REAL risk) of transmission of;

Chlamydia

Gonorrhea

Syphilis

Hepatitis B

Herpes

HPV

HIV

Pubic lice

Intestinal parasites

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But it gets worse, Gonorrhea of the throat is much much harder to treat than a genital or rectal infection.

Herpes and HIV are both presently incurable

Hepatitis has been linked as a trigger to liver cancer, HPV has been linked as a trigger to throat, cervical and anal cancer.

If the REAL risks of transmission of all of the above via oral sex is what passes for "safe sex"... I'd really hate to be neat anyone having "unsafe" sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me the risks are to great.

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

I think people who are offering bareback to total stranger obviously got something they so desperately want to pass around. HIV for example.

Check your condoms properly on every meet and never let your brain control your knob when jumping that bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned down the chance to meet a couple, the women was very sexy and I would have loved to had fun with her. But for some reason she insisted on bareback. I found this odd and decided I was'nt willing to meet.

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By *weet and TenderWoman
over a year ago

lytham st annes

Here here

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

"The BB issue is one of personal choice one side and blatant ignorance on the other; its finding the balance that troubles some people

Please expatiate on your comment. I could see some knowledge coming out here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me would be safe sex or no sex.

never understood why people are so keen on bareback...does wearing a rubber really make that much difference?

Actually yes ... its totally different feeling... there is of course the fact that sex is never actually completed.. your left half finished..( well for me)

And all the feelings after that...

However, I still am very pro safe sex.. My kids think I am the most pushy parent when they are going out... as I always give them loads of condoms..

However, because of what I said above.. there are times that I just need to be filled.. and sometimes common sense goes out the window. "

Spot on

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By *ussy-StretcherMan
over a year ago

And its laughable to see ladies who swallow cums through giving blowjobs and ended up using condoms with penetrative sex.

This is one-way transmission in my opinion and people need to change their attitude.

As a single bloke, i prefer to meet couples been that i let the hubby do the oral bit and i do the penetrative bit, so no sort of transmission of any kind may occurr. And it works most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not Evan my with my f##k buddies that I've know for years. You've always gotta be safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saw someone in the chatroom on cam offering there pregnant girlfriend, with a clear bump, to other men for bareback sex.

They also did not know or care who the biological father was. All we know is that she got pregnant from one of her meets and he was a black man.

Great moral standards for that child when they grow up

Just wondered why the fact that he was a 'black man' is relevant?!

Cos it makes it obvious that the baby doesn't belong to the white husband??"

We did reply to this further up the page you must have missed it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people who are offering bareback to total stranger obviously got something they so desperately want to pass around. HIV for example.

Check your condoms properly on every meet and never let your brain control your knob when jumping that bum

Sorry but maybe like me they just find condom sex not worth doing. I am sure most of the anti bareback brigade have had sex with someone bare they didn't have tested first. Be it a partner or someone they met on a night out.

Yes there are i am sure the odd sick person that would go bare for nasty reasons but for most its for the enjoyment of sex as it's meant to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know someone who caught chlamydia from oral sex only, they thought they were safe because penetrative sex was always protected, also all parties involved had sti checks regularly so this person was gobsmacked to find out they had an sti, no symptoms at all, when they eventually traced it back they worked out it was from 2 months ago when one partner reviled that a previous meet had not used condoms with a partner the month before. So the history went back a few months. Moral of the story is, be as safe as you can and use condoms every time or risk catching and passing on an sti.

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