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Anyone still waiting to take the plunge into reality?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you like myself and Mrs who wants to take this to the next step into reality but not quite built the courage yet ? We are eager . What's advice if when you got the courage for the First time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would firstly set up a couples profile, browse online together, talk it through thoroughly, then try a social event where there is no play so you can mingle and talk to other people in the scene, then go from there.

Or you could go to a club and socialise, watch others playing and see how you both feel.

The mlat important thing is to talk to each other and be totally honest about absolutely everything.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"I would firstly set up a couples profile, browse online together, talk it through thoroughly, then try a social event where there is no play so you can mingle and talk to other people in the scene, then go from there.

Or you could go to a club and socialise, watch others playing and see how you both feel.

The mlat important thing is to talk to each other and be totally honest about absolutely everything.

"

Best advice you're going to get. Good luck OP, relax and enjoy.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not sure what you mean by reality.

But agree with the above if your looking to join as a couple.

Good luck

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You've been considering this for a very long time now and asked many questions. What is it that's holding you back?

I would say that if you're still unsure (you've done an awful lot of research) it's never going to happen and you'll both probably be happiest leaving it as fantasy

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'd prefer if people didn't plunge into me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've been considering this for a very long time now and asked many questions. What is it that's holding you back?

I would say that if you're still unsure (you've done an awful lot of research) it's never going to happen and you'll both probably be happiest leaving it as fantasy "

Easier said than done when you got a 8 year old and 11 year old. What's the rush ?

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley


"Are you like myself and Mrs who wants to take this to the next step into reality but not quite built the courage yet ? We are eager . What's advice if when you got the courage for the First time?"

Are you not in the real world then?

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Erm no.. Joined Fab, First social after 3 week's, first club after 2 months..

Never looked back and drop in and out as and when we get the 'itch'.

You'll never know if you don't try. Regardless of what your first step is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Erm no.. Joined Fab, First social after 3 week's, first club after 2 months..

Never looked back and drop in and out as and when we get the 'itch'.

You'll never know if you don't try. Regardless of what your first step is."

Sounds good

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"You've been considering this for a very long time now and asked many questions. What is it that's holding you back?

I would say that if you're still unsure (you've done an awful lot of research) it's never going to happen and you'll both probably be happiest leaving it as fantasy

Easier said than done when you got a 8 year old and 11 year old. What's the rush ? "

There's no rush or any need to roll your eyes at me if you're not keen on my observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've been considering this for a very long time now and asked many questions. What is it that's holding you back?

I would say that if you're still unsure (you've done an awful lot of research) it's never going to happen and you'll both probably be happiest leaving it as fantasy "

I'd be inclined to agree. Of course there's no rush, but as long as you're here with your single male profile (and it has been quite a while) you'll never get a feel of what it's like to swing as a couple or to experience Fab as a couple, and you'll be seen as just another fantasist whose wife has actually no idea that you're on here or has ever expressed interest in swinging.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

No…if you want to do it, you will.

If you haven’t done it by now…you won’t.

Most have families and small children, you just have to work around things if you really want to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No…if you want to do it, you will.

If you haven’t done it by now…you won’t.

Most have families and small children, you just have to work around things if you really want to."

I've been on here for a year give me a break lol. I'm 34 plenty of time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No…if you want to do it, you will.

If you haven’t done it by now…you won’t.

Most have families and small children, you just have to work around things if you really want to."

Exactly my point trying to make it work hence why I'm asking here.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

A club could be your best action.

Plenty of socialising in the bar and no pressure at all.

See how you both feel then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A club could be your best action.

Plenty of socialising in the bar and no pressure at all.

See how you both feel then."

Definitely agree

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"You've been considering this for a very long time now and asked many questions. What is it that's holding you back?

I would say that if you're still unsure (you've done an awful lot of research) it's never going to happen and you'll both probably be happiest leaving it as fantasy

Easier said than done when you got a 8 year old and 11 year old. What's the rush ? "

We have a 4 yo and a 16 month old I'm not sure it makes a difference and eye rolling someone trying to offer advice is a little rude.

If there's no rush just wait until your ready.

Mrs

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"I would firstly set up a couples profile, browse online together, talk it through thoroughly, then try a social event where there is no play so you can mingle and talk to other people in the scene, then go from there.

Or you could go to a club and socialise, watch others playing and see how you both feel.

The mlat important thing is to talk to each other and be totally honest about absolutely everything.

"

Best advice. I could never have written it better.

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