FabSwingers.com forum: Blowjobs with condoms…

By *oiluvfun OP Man
over a year ago

Penrith

I read an interesting point on a thread about women only giving blowjobs with condoms on the cocks.

Now, I rarely cum from a bj as it is, and although wearing a condom for sex is fine for me, I did wonder whether a condom would make it harder to achieve orgasm for a bj, or even if it might ‘add’ something to the pleasure?

So……

Guys; do any of you actually prefer a bj while wearing a condom? Would you decline the condom-only option?

Ladies; is it purely the safe sex option for you, to use a condom for a bj, or possibly a kink?

Your thoughts please….

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Done it once, tasted minging wouldn't do it again.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like having a bath with your socks on

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I used to insist on condoms for oral when we first started out. It isn't pleasant.

I am horrified by the number of people who aren't aware that stis can be passed on via oral though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Good god, I’d rather go without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely without!

And definitely decline

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"I read an interesting point on a thread about women only giving blowjobs with condoms on the cocks.

Well I would rather not have a BJ then. But it begs the question whT as a guy do I get if I go down on a _oman? Clingfilm?

So……

Guys; do any of you actually prefer a bj while wearing a condom? Would you decline the condom-only option?

Ladies; is it purely the safe sex option for you, to use a condom for a bj, or possibly a kink?

Your thoughts please….

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By *ibennyMan
over a year ago

rutherglen

Definitely not

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By *oiluvfun OP Man
over a year ago

Penrith

So, a negative response so far...

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"So, a negative response so far..."

Spermicide doesn't taste good.

Mrs

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By *rosted_CupcakeCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

its like eating a lolly with the wrapper on, totally pointless - good oral hygiene generally helps with STIs and if your seriously that concerned, then swinging probably isnt for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever had a few guys ask for this but let's say it didn't stay on for the whole blowjob..

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

The taste of condoms isn’t very appealing

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

No chance. Would rather eat my own foot than give a big or get a bj with one on. .

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Bj even not big ffs

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Not for me thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather not.

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By *lippersXXXMan
over a year ago

North Central london

Bb or I'd rather wank myself off. Id not be expected to put a condom on when I eat pussy.

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By *ue and robCouple
over a year ago

ware

Yuk no thanks

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

I’d forego the oral..

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I've given a few with a condom on in the past. It honestly didn't bother me.

I suspect I'm in a massive minority here though.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"I’d forego the oral.."

Yeah I have walked away from play like that before or just gone straight for sex instead

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

If I had to wear one for a BJ id just skip it

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Doesn't do anything for me.

Sorry about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t give oral with a condom on.

But I wouldn’t give oral at all without confirmation of a recent clear sexual health check, knowledge of the person and enough trust to know they wouldn’t risk my sexual health for their pleasure.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Anyone that does it has my admiration. I nearly gag when I open the wrapper with my teeth.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Never tried giving or receiving with one on. Don't think I would like to try it though.

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By *oiluvfun OP Man
over a year ago

Penrith

A resounding ‘No’ then……?

Thanks for the input so far

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Personally totally prefer without and to be fair over the years never has oral been on the condition of wearing one. But I can totally understand if a _oman has this as a requirement and if so I don't see it as a barrier (rhetorically speaking).

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Honestly, if it's a thin, oral sex condom and you can keep your lips wet enough to avoid friction burns then it can work just fine. You do need to put in some exaggerated tongue action and a whole lot of spit to compensate for the loss of sensation. Not my first choice but I wouldn't turn it down

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By *oody BondMan
over a year ago

Sligo

I've sucked on a cock with a condom on and it didn't bother me at all. Granted, it's not the same thing but it didn't take him long to cum either. Sure you can still taste the condom afterwards but not the end of the world. If I had to do it again, i wouldn't say no.

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Sucking cock with a condom seems very pointless to me. When I’m giving head I want to taste the cock and all the delicious precum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't mind a blowjob with a condom, I was wearing a cock ring and a condom whilst getting a blowjob and it was really intense so yeah I don't mind with or without

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

The taste of rubber in the morning , omg not good lol , the thing with us worried about sti’s is understandable , but living the life we do , we actually check our selves more often than the norm , well ido lol

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By *rKingsmanMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Hell no!!

Imagine there was a condom for vaginas, I’m sure it wouldn’t feel the same licking a vagina with a condom over it

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By *he Gentleman CallerMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Didn't they used to make flavoured condoms for this?

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

Yes there were , didn’t last long tho lol

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

"Hell no!!

Imagine there was a condom for vaginas, I’m sure it wouldn’t feel the same licking a vagina with a condom over it

There is such a thing. Called a vaginal dam I think.

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By *rKingsmanMan
over a year ago

Sutton

"Hell no!!

Imagine there was a condom for vaginas, I’m sure it wouldn’t feel the same licking a vagina with a condom over it

There is such a thing. Called a vaginal dam I think. "

Never heard of that to be honest, but it definitely wouldn’t feel the same if you had a piece of rubber over it lol

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By *cottyl1983Man
over a year ago

Tyne and Wear

Totally pointless for both parties

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By *llo_alloMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"I used to insist on condoms for oral when we first started out. It isn't pleasant.

I am horrified by the number of people who aren't aware that stis can be passed on via oral though"

I got throat cancer via oral sex

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By *arry WindsorMan
over a year ago

Heaton Park Manchester

Femidom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer giving when the guy isn't wearing one, if they are some condoms are better (taste, thinner) than others for it. I also worry it comes off and gets stuck in my throat haha

I do worry about getting stis from giving bare oral tho

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By *eamed stocking fanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Has to be without for me. Much more of a turn on.

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

condom spoils it for me

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Flavoured condoms are a thing

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I would decline a BJ if they said to put a condom on for it.

Not fun for either of us.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I only five head with condoms in clubs.

Never, in 8 years, had anyone decline it or say they didn’t like it.

Might not be their preference but all absolutely okay with it.

(I also don’t expect oral back as I don’t like I so no double standards!) ha

Absolutely a sexual health thing for me

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By *riendly BiMan
over a year ago

What’s the point lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would I eat a lollipop without taking off the wrapper? No not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only five head with condoms in clubs.

Never, in 8 years, had anyone decline it or say they didn’t like it.

Might not be their preference but all absolutely okay with it.

(I also don’t expect oral back as I don’t like I so no double standards!) ha

Absolutely a sexual health thing for me "

Glad someone else worries about the risks of oral, was beginning to think it was just me! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After recently catching (just) gonorrhoea of the throat, I will no longer do unsafe oral.

Totally changed my outlook on oral sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After recently catching (just) gonorrhoea of the throat, I will no longer do unsafe oral.

Totally changed my outlook on oral sex

I had a similar scare, before that I did unsafe oral, now I don't think it's worth the risk either way (I don't like it much so would go without lol). Only now with my fb I trust and we both test regular xx

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By *oiluvfun OP Man
over a year ago

Penrith

"I only five head with condoms in clubs.

Never, in 8 years, had anyone decline it or say they didn’t like it.

Might not be their preference but all absolutely okay with it.

(I also don’t expect oral back as I don’t like I so no double standards!) ha

Absolutely a sexual health thing for me "

It was a comment you made which spurred me on to open this thread, so thank you for contributing here

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By *ollybirdWoman
over a year ago

east Cork

"Done it once, tasted minging wouldn't do it again.

Mrs "

This

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"I only five head with condoms in clubs.

Never, in 8 years, had anyone decline it or say they didn’t like it.

Might not be their preference but all absolutely okay with it.

(I also don’t expect oral back as I don’t like I so no double standards!) ha

Absolutely a sexual health thing for me

It was a comment you made which spurred me on to open this thread, so thank you for contributing here

Course

I think we all know what we prefer and what feels better!

But for me, random men on the clubs and swinging scene- no chance ha. Not worth the risk for me… no matter how hot they are or how often we all get tested haha

Each to their own of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it feels weird wearing them but it's not to be judged. It's not safe sex without. I will do it without but I test my throat regularly, I do not know anyone else who does that. If someone asked me to wear a femidom or a dam I would. If a guy wants to wear a condom for oral that's fine by me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only five head with condoms in clubs.

Never, in 8 years, had anyone decline it or say they didn’t like it.

Might not be their preference but all absolutely okay with it.

(I also don’t expect oral back as I don’t like I so no double standards!) ha

Absolutely a sexual health thing for me

It was a comment you made which spurred me on to open this thread, so thank you for contributing here

Course

I think we all know what we prefer and what feels better!

But for me, random men on the clubs and swinging scene- no chance ha. Not worth the risk for me… no matter how hot they are or how often we all get tested haha

Each to their own of course

hey love

yes and they say they get tested regularly but im yet to have a screenshot to prove it even though I send mine !

Good for you

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By *urhamdebbiecdTV/TS
over a year ago

bishop auckland

No way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You use what Is called a 'Dam'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck no! Choose wisely whom to suck off

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

The health issues aside, giving or receiving a bj with a condom is a no no.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Fuck no! Choose wisely whom to suck off"

How do you do so on here and in clubs?

How do you know for a fact that person is clean? Or hasn’t played with someone who is.

Test is only as good as 2 weeks or 12 weeks prior if not played since….

Impossible comment IMO even with the best intentions and highest standards. x

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I don’t like the taste of condoms so I choose to give head without, knowing the risks. I test regularly and make sure I test my throat.

A man’s negative tests results are largely irrelevant unless they’ve abstained before the test for 3 months and then not touched another living soul since, which no one active on the scene will have done.

So I take my chances, cross my fingers and hope for the best.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Haha can't remember last time I had a condom on for a blowjob

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By *bwstarzWoman
over a year ago

south cheshire

I don’t like taste of condoms so I give without but what gives me the ick is when guys haven’t so much as ran their cock under a tap or shower after playing - quick shower never hurts anyone when you’ve got spunky juices and god knows what else on your cock. Proper ruins the moment for me.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"I don’t like taste of condoms so I give without but what gives me the ick is when guys haven’t so much as ran their cock under a tap or shower after playing - quick shower never hurts anyone when you’ve got spunky juices and god knows what else on your cock. Proper ruins the moment for me. "

Eeeew. Yeah it’s a give away that they haven’t washed between partners if they still smell/taste like condom too.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

When I used to escourt it was pretty standard. Both when giving and recieving.

Got used to the taste, but never enjoyed it. Doesn't make much difference on ability to cum. In fact it's great if you don't like cum in your mouth!

Oral dams for women or rimming are amazing! Most say no sensation loss or actually an improvement

Yes the ignorance around oral STI's is astounding. Most can be transferred orally. And from the skin to skin, not just the Cum.

I've actually had people say, it's OK I won't cum.... like that offers some kind of magic protection!

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Try Skyn Elites virtual tasteless and so thin you hardly feel they're there!

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By *bwstarzWoman
over a year ago

south cheshire

Eeeew. Yeah it’s a give away that they haven’t washed between partners if they still smell/taste like condom too. "

Exactly, not my thing at all, go get a wash!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i REFUSE to give a blowjob to a dick that has a condom on it

i want to taste cock , not rubber.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"i REFUSE to give a blowjob to a dick that has a condom on it

i want to taste cock , not rubber."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant see how any one benefits. Surely one person wants the feeling of a warm sloppy mouth, and the other wants the feeling of a nice juicy cock ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cant see how any one benefits. Surely one person wants the feeling of a warm sloppy mouth, and the other wants the feeling of a nice juicy cock ? "

The benefit is not having to have a needle jabbed in your arse later on, because you've gone and caught the clap.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"Cant see how any one benefits. Surely one person wants the feeling of a warm sloppy mouth, and the other wants the feeling of a nice juicy cock ? "

Well you could say the same about wearing a condom for sex…

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

WOW LOL

I've honestly never heard of this happening but obviously very wrong. If anyone was to ask me to put a condom on for BJ I think I would laugh and then when realising they're serious would lose erection and have to leave.

I don't think there is anyone in this lifestyle who don't worry about STI's but honestly, if it worries you that much its time to give it all up.

Similarly if you dont get yourself tested regularly and get the necessary vaccines and depending on what else you do, take Prep then again you might consider not being in this lifestyle.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"WOW LOL

I don't think there is anyone in this lifestyle who don't worry about STI's but honestly, if it worries you that much its time to give it all up.

Similarly if you dont get yourself tested regularly and get the necessary vaccines and depending on what else you do, take Prep then again you might consider not being in this lifestyle."

I don’t think it’s reasonable to suggest that people who engage in protected oral should give up the swingers lifestyle. Surely a case of each to their own, no?

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By *oungturkishMan
over a year ago

Istanbul

Prefer safe sex but oral sex without condom is the best ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WOW LOL

I don't think there is anyone in this lifestyle who don't worry about STI's but honestly, if it worries you that much its time to give it all up.

Similarly if you dont get yourself tested regularly and get the necessary vaccines and depending on what else you do, take Prep then again you might consider not being in this lifestyle."

Think this is a bit harsh, each to their own but don't think you should judge someone for trying to minimise risks for themselves

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By *rosted_CupcakeCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Fuck no! Choose wisely whom to suck off

How do you do so on here and in clubs?

How do you know for a fact that person is clean? Or hasn’t played with someone who is.

Test is only as good as 2 weeks or 12 weeks prior if not played since….

Impossible comment IMO even with the best intentions and highest standards. x"

we are swingers, we take that risk every playdate, regardless of test results, or protection , you play with fire eventually you will get burnt. how many people pay and test for STDs like hep, hpv and herpes? cause they aint all included , but do you ask potential playmates before you kiss them if they have had cold sores, if so when was the last flare up, are they on antiviral shredding tabs etc? highly unlikely , some STIs can lie dormant for years , all testing does is put your mind at ease, it doesnt make your partner “clean” etc

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By *oiluvfun OP Man
over a year ago

Penrith

Eeeew. Yeah it’s a give away that they haven’t washed between partners if they still smell/taste like condom too. "

This works the same for a _oman too; when I lick pussy, I want to taste pussy, not prophylactic...

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Eeeew. Yeah it’s a give away that they haven’t washed between partners if they still smell/taste like condom too.

This works the same for a _oman too; when I lick pussy, I want to taste pussy, not prophylactic..."

Completely agree

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By *andd_bicoupleCouple
over a year ago

wilmslow

If they r favloured ones wud use

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By *lltheboostCouple
over a year ago

Shefford

Just polish the tools up well and there’s no need

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By *lutsadieTV/TS
over a year ago

Hinckley

I'm not bothered either way really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like licking a chupa chubs lolly with the wrapper still on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made a thread about this. A lot of people said that there’s no point doing it if you wear a condom.

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

"I read an interesting point on a thread about women only giving blowjobs with condoms on the cocks.

So……

Guys; do any of you actually prefer a bj while wearing a condom? Would you decline the condom-only option?

Ladies; is it purely the safe sex option for you, to use a condom for a bj, or possibly a kink?

Your thoughts please….

It's safer yes....

But I'd rather without a condom or not at all

The taste of condom makes me gag even the flavoured ones are horrible

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

No, that's all that needs to be said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant be receiving with a condom on….would feel good at all. Rather not have one if that was the case

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By *lutwife7784Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

No, no, no.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

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By *ightNWet69Woman
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

It's a no from me, I want to enjoy what I'm doing & taste the fella too

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

It's a no from us. Mr would rather just not bother, so desensitizing, I just don't see the point. I'll make a judgement if I'm happy to suck it bare and if not, we don't bother. Aware of risks but as some have mentioned, surprising the number of people that think you can't catch STI's from it.

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By *oiluvfun OP Man
over a year ago

Penrith

Well, it looks like the overall majority (ladies and gentlemen) prefer giving/receiving blowjobs without condoms.

Each to their own, whatever your flavour (pun intended)

Thank you to all who contributed to this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I wouldn't give a guy a BJ if be wanted to wear a condom...aside from the taste of the rubber being awful, the spermicide stuff would be a weird sensation in my mouth as well, I'd imagine...

Mrs

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

My ex used to do this until it came off and went into her throat and nearly killed her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never even knew this was a thing! Bet that feels awful in your mouth

Mrs

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

no condom on for me i want feel her soft warm lips round my cock..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll give you one without a condom

Mrs C

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"I'll give you one without a condom

Mrs C "
,,, thank you

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By *oiluvfun OP Man
over a year ago

Penrith

"I'll give you one without a condom

Mrs C "

I know there was no name directed with this, but this is the closest in 10 years of Fab I’ve been to receiving an offer of a bj from a _oman, so I’m claiming it!

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By *erts86Man
over a year ago

Welwyn Garden City

For a blowjob I wouldn't wear a condom.

I don't like wearing condoms in general as they completely ruin intimacy. I would definitely want it without.

So no for me.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Wouldn’t even bother having a bJ with a condom would do zero for me

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

Nah you wouldn't eat a Cucumber with the plastic still on would you

All we ask is just make sure it's clean for gold sake

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

"Sucking cock with a condom seems very pointless to me. When I’m giving head I want to taste the cock and all the delicious precum"

This … love the sweet taste mmmmm xx

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By *oiluvfun OP Man
over a year ago

Penrith

"Nah you wouldn't eat a Cucumber with the plastic still on would you

All we ask is just make sure it's clean for gold sake

My cock will always be sparkling clean for you Nikki

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By *omanWoman
over a year ago

BIRMINGHAM

It's horrifying the amount

of ignorant and irresponsible people on the scene, who's passing all the "good" stuff through the oral with random players

Each to their own of course. Wish you all a good luck.

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By *ecky124TV/TS
over a year ago

Middlewich

I only give bj with a condom but I do like the taste and the feel of the rubber in my mouth but I do have a latex fetish as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had BJ's with condoms on before, not ideal, but better than no BJ

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By *94meeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not ideal.

Definitely in danger of limp noodle if she insists on that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wank me off babe.

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By *ecky124TV/TS
over a year ago

Middlewich

"It's horrifying the amount

of ignorant and irresponsible people on the scene, who's passing all the "good" stuff through the oral with random players

Each to their own of course. Wish you all a good luck.

I have to agree with you on that

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not a fan of giving blowjobs with condoms but also not willing to not play safe. So it is what it is

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By *zBoy123Man
over a year ago

London.

"I used to insist on condoms for oral when we first started out. It isn't pleasant.

I am horrified by the number of people who aren't aware that stis can be passed on via oral though"

Agreed!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I just wouldn't bother.

The condom will ruin the blowjob for both giver and receiver.

I would rather do something else with my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wank me off babe."
yes that’s my preference, but I know the men in general would prefer a bj

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By *y naughty hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Maldon

Could always slip your tongue into a condom before licking haha ??

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By *ornyguy666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Think I seen fruit flavoured condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wank me off babe.yes that’s my preference, but I know the men in general would prefer a bj "

I'm not so sure. For most, a good handjob trumps a bad blowjob.

For me, I much prefer to give oral than receive - never been much of a fan of them. Handjob all the way.

You can still wear rubber gloves tho...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine my frustration when a professional I went to would only do it with

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By *ENT1972Man
over a year ago

LONDON

One takes a sensual oily hand job over this nonsense every time...

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By *adBod84Man
over a year ago

Lydney

There is a condom for vaginas - they are called dental dams if I recall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's really rank and sucks the fun out of it

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By *ibLeiMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *ibLeiMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"One takes a sensual oily hand job over this nonsense every time..."

This. A well-lubed, slow handjob (plus passionate kissing

) would *easily* beat a blowjob with condom.

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By *wannafreakyouMan
over a year ago

london

Blowjob with a dom on, there’s just no point really

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By *hadowtoothMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Blowjob with a condom is a better than wet dream or a hand job. A blowjob without a condom hmmm not to be taken for granted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So basically a posh bj. lol

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By *oiluvfun OP Man
over a year ago

Penrith

"No it's really rank and sucks the fun out of it

....no pun intended?

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By *oiluvfun OP Man
over a year ago

Penrith

"Imagine my frustration when a professional I went to would only do it with

How did it go? Genuinely interested

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By *oiluvfun OP Man
over a year ago

Penrith

"I've had BJ's with condoms on before, not ideal, but better than no BJ

I genuinely struggle to cum from a bj without a condom on, but if any _oman is so confident in her skills insisting I wear a condom for her to 'blow me away', then feel free to inbox me

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

I think it would probably be a deal-breaker for us.

All activities carry risk, including sex.

Bare sex is above our risk threshold, bare oral is not.

Covered sex is above our "it's still worth it" threshold. Covered oral is not.

Each individual has their own risk assessment, we'll respect anyone else's, but it has to be worth it.

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By *zBoy123Man
over a year ago

London.

Well, my query ("Safe Sex - Licking Out") regarding the reverse of this posting, has achieved the grand total of ONE comment! The seeming lack of precautions makes me more determined to Play Safe.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"No it's really rank and sucks the fun out of it

I think we have a winner here

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

"Done it once, tasted minging wouldn't do it again.

Mrs "

Seconded. I’m not even keen on the after taste.

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

last time I was in Amsterdam at Same Place all the oral going on was with condoms.

For me it is totally pointless, i'm interested in the end product, I'll leave blow jobs with condoms to the working girls and the scaredys

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By *ecky124TV/TS
over a year ago

Middlewich

"Think I seen fruit flavoured condoms"

Yea there is as long as it’s not banana as I hate them

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Just respect everyone's choice. If not for you be polite about it

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By *sxxxWoman
over a year ago

leeds

I made Bf wear a condom (non flavoured) for a Bj meet purely because he annoyed me he said it wasn't as good and took a bit longer to cum

Serves him right really

I don't mind giving them with flavoured condoms but always without with Bf

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Done it once, tasted minging wouldn't do it again.

Mrs "

Tastes awful, makes me gag.

Also how am I supposed to do the intricate 'tongue under the foreskin' thing I like doing?

And of course, no tasty treat at the end...

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By *e ja vue 2Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Have to ask this as we have been in the lifestyle many years

Seen people insist on safe sex but suck cock without a condom!

Always asked the guys and fems at parties would you suck a cock if the guy said he had a std before you went down on him ???

So if you insist on condoms for sex you should for BJ s

We as a cpl don’t and have to say 75% of cpls we have met over the years are fully BB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It tastes much nicer without a condom

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

It's a no from me. I wouldn't even entertain the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a no from me. I wouldn't even entertain the idea. "

Ditto… Saved me explaining further

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I would walk away from a BJ with condom.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Have to ask this as we have been in the lifestyle many years

Seen people insist on safe sex but suck cock without a condom!

Always asked the guys and fems at parties would you suck a cock if the guy said he had a std before you went down on him ???

So if you insist on condoms for sex you should for BJ s

We as a cpl don’t and have to say 75% of cpls we have met over the years are fully BB

But not all sexual activities carry the same risk of transmission of STIs. In fact the differences in likelihood of transmitting vary hugely. Not all STI's are the same of course but taking HIV the risk of transmission from receiving anal from somebody infected is maybe 1 in 100. From receiving vaginal it is more like 1 in 1000 so 10 times less likely. From oral sex the risk is much lower and almost negligible. Of course nothing is risk free but it is a calculation of probabilities and weighing up risk vs pleasure.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

As for a blowjob wearing a condom no no and extra no. It's like sucking an ice lolly with the wrapper still on I would imagine. This would be a deal breaker for me.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Blowjob with a condom is a better than wet dream or a hand job. A blowjob without a condom hmmm not to be taken for granted. "

Lol no way. I wouid rather just be given a handjob than a covered blowjob. Least it would feel more sensitive

Saying that I had a person once ask me to put a condom on in a club to wank me. I just shook my head laughed and walked off with some others

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

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By *ady IncognitoWoman
over a year ago

I'm rethinking the whole condoms for oral thing. I know no-one really likes them, but oral gonorrhea is on the rise, *and* there's a risk it's going to become antibiotic-resistant in the near-future.

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By *anniellaBiTSTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I only ever give bj with a condom for this reason.

I value my health over his pleasure

"I'm rethinking the whole condoms for oral thing. I know no-one really likes them, but oral gonorrhea is on the rise, *and* there's a risk it's going to become antibiotic-resistant in the near-future.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

In a club it’s probably going to be with a condom on, at home without.

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By *anniellaBiTSTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

"In a club it’s probably going to be with a condom on, at home without. "

Agreed. At home with a partner is very different

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

I use condoms for oral and I've never had a problem. Plus, it's much easier to go from oral to fucking me without the loss of the erection.

I've never had a problem with a guy for wanting to use a condom, and I don't mind using my mouth to put it on. I use thinner condoms though as the thicker ones don't feel as nice to suck with.

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By *anniellaBiTSTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I have never had a guy complaint either.
"I use condoms for oral and I've never had a problem. Plus, it's much easier to go from oral to fucking me without the loss of the erection.

I've never had a problem with a guy for wanting to use a condom, and I don't mind using my mouth to put it on. I use thinner condoms though as the thicker ones don't feel as nice to suck with."

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